
Remodeled Love
Remodeled Love is a podcast whose mission is to help expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships, polyamory, parenthood, and love. It is produced and hosted by polyamorous mama, Jessica Daylover, and most often co-hosted with her husband and babydaddy, Joseph Daylover (and beginning in 2024, her whole polycule!)
You can find Remodeled Love on all major social media platforms, @RemodeledLove, and online at www.remodeledlove.com.
Latest episodes

Jan 11, 2021 • 1h 11min
Episode 4: Polyamory Q + A
In this episode, featuring guest host JD Montelongo, and alternatively titled "Pregnancy WAP" (or "Echo Chamber Ego Boost"), the trio answers several listener emails asking: How do you tell your partner you're interested in exploring polyamory? What would you do if they weren't interested? Does your partner's bond with someone else ever make you feel disconnected? The crew also discusses ideas around "compatibility", and address some fuckery found inside a few emails. Most enjoyably, Jes and JD tease Joe about being high as fuck on NRE, and Joe gives us an update on his recent journey of being more proactive in opening up to new loves.
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You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing remodeledlove@gmail.com, or submit the anonymous form at www.remodeledlove.com.
>> Intro music by @Rachbot6000 (cover of Hozier's "Someone New")
>> www.remodeledlove.com
>> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove
>> www.instagram.com/remodeledlove
🎙If you love our content and want to support us:
Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at www.remodeledlove.com and in print/Kindle on Amazon!
Venmo: Jessica-levity
CASHAPP: $jessicalevity
PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com
Patreon: Patreon.com/remodeledlove
…➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level.
Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through www.remodeledlove.com
***EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS:
Homeslice Productionsm
Aimee Stashak-Moore

Jan 4, 2021 • 46min
Episode 3: Polyamory & Parenthood (Defying Gravity)
In this raw, vulnerable, and passionate episode, Jes and Joe answer one listener’s email with several questions around Polyamory and Parenting. They dive into the philosophy of semiology, and how your personal semiotics affects how you see the world, and how you understand what’s possible. Not only do they invite you into an expansion of your personal semiology, but they challenge you to examine which cultural narratives you may have bought into without even realizing it. Additionally, Jes, while honestly navigating the unconscious hypocrisy she finds inside these common questions, also calls herself out on her own fuckery -- reminding listeners (multiple times) that they are not responsible for the triggers that come up for her when reading their emails.
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You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing remodeledlove@gmail.com, or submit the anonymous form at www.remodeledlove.com.
>> Intro music by @Rachbot6000 (cover of Hozier's "Someone New")
>> www.remodeledlove.com
>> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove
>> www.instagram.com/remodeledlove
🎙If you love our content and want to support us:
Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at www.remodeledlove.com and in print/Kindle on Amazon!
Venmo: Jessica-levity
CASHAPP: $jessicalevity
PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com
Patreon: Patreon.com/remodeledlove
…➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level.
Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through www.remodeledlove.com
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EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS:
Homeslice Productions
Aimee Stashak-Moore

5 snips
Dec 28, 2020 • 48min
Episode 2: Our Polyamory Story, Part 2 (The Cliffhanger)
In this episode, the hosts discuss creating rules and boundaries in polyamory, the difference between open relationships and polyamory, and the evolution of their own rules. They also talk about the importance of immersing oneself in polyam culture and give advice on overcoming jealousy. Other topics include meeting partners in polyamory, the growth of boundaries in relationships, the concept of sacredness in polyamorous relationships, open communication and support, and the impact of love on personal growth. Plus, they announce an upcoming 'ask us anything' episode for listener questions.

Dec 20, 2020 • 53min
Episode 1: Our Polyamory Story
In this episode, Jessica and Joe (The Daylovers) leave no stone left unturned in this honest and raw re-telling of the question they are most often asked: "How did ya'll 'get into' polyamory?" With literally no role models to look up to, they had to navigate the world of polyamory on their own. Now, 7 years later, they share their story as a beacon of light for others, as well as to alter the cultural narrative of what's possible. You may find their journey triggering, painful, surreal, and confusing...but if you stay with them (like they did with each other) you will find hope -- especially for all you frightened polyam newbies out there. It is possible to #RedefineLove.
>> Featuring Guest Host Jo Daniel Montelongo of Ur Fave Bad Movie
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You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing remodeledlove@gmail.com, or submit the anonymous form at www.remodeledlove.com.
>> Intro music by @Rachbot6000 (cover of Hozier's "Someone New")
>> www.remodeledlove.com
>> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove
>> www.instagram.com/remodeledlove
🎙If you love our content and want to support us:
Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at www.remodeledlove.com and in print/Kindle on Amazon!
Venmo: Jessica-levity
CASHAPP: $jessicalevity
PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com
Patreon: Patreon.com/remodeledlove
…➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level.
Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through www.remodeledlove.com