

Under the Influence with Jo Piazza
Jo Piazza
Under the Influence is a deep dive into social media, a place haunted by aspirational marketing where it feels like every other person is a social media influencer trying to sell you something, all while posed in perfect houses that never seem to get messy. And behind this airbrushed perfection is money, so much money. Billions and billions of dollars. Journalist and mom Jo Piazza looks at how we got here, what it all means and how the commodification of every single aspect of our lives is driving everyone (but mostly women and mothers) a little insane.
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Jan 23, 2025 • 45min
The Myth of the Good Mother
Join Nancy Reddy, author of "The Good Mother Myth", as she shatters the unrealistic expectations surrounding motherhood. She candidly discusses how the 'good mother' myth leads to guilt and shame for many women. Tune in for insights on the impact of social media on motherhood, the importance of community support, and redefined parenting roles. Reddy advocates for shared responsibilities and authentic connections over superficial ideals, emphasizing that a more communal approach can transform the parenting experience.

Jan 21, 2025 • 45min
Surviving Shame
Everyone feels shame, but it also feels like a misogynistic construct that is more often placed on women.Nearly a decade ago, Melissa Petro was working as a public school teacher when the NY Post outed her as a former stripper and call girl. The media went wild and she was publicly humiliated and forced to resign from a career she loved. From then on, Melissa has dedicated her life to growing awareness of how sexist shame is weaponized against women to keep us from achieving our goals and knowing our worth. Today we're diving into:
Shame as a particularly gendered experience
How women face impossible societal standards
Parallels between shame in sex work and motherhood
The impact of social media on public shaming
Get Melissa's book Shame on You: How to be a Woman in the Age of Mortification here.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 16, 2025 • 56min
Protecting Kids and Teens on Social Media, A Talk With Nicole Lopez of Meta
Protecting kids and teens on social media is one of the things I think about all of the time. What are the platforms doing to support parents and is it enough? How can the government do more and what do parents need to know about all of it. Today we're having a candid conversation with Nicole Lopez, Meta’s Global Director of Youth Safety. Nicole shares insights on how Meta is tackling online bullying, sextortion, and the challenges of age verification.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 14, 2025 • 45min
A Revolution for Women's Work and Ambition with Neha Ruch
This episode will motivate you in all kinds of new ways. Amidst all of the chaos in our country right now we actually have an opportunity to completely blow up the way we view motherhood, caregiving, women’s labor and ambition. Neha Ruch is leading this revolution. The author of the new bestseller 'The Power Pause,' joins me to explore the outdated stereotypes of stay-at-home motherhood and proposes a new narrative that values career pauses. The discussion highlights the importance of redefining ambition and professional identity and challenging traditional workplace norms that have been shaped predominantly by men. It emphasizes the need for unity among women, advocating for a paradigm shift where career breaks for caregiving are seen as valuable and growth-oriented. We can change the damn world. Here's one place to start.Learn more about Neha and Mother Untitled here.Order The Power Pause here.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 9, 2025 • 45min
Shari Franke Tells All
In this engaging discussion, journalist Fortesa Latifi shares insights from her interview with Shari Franke, the eldest daughter of a notorious former YouTuber. Shari opens up about her new memoir, highlighting her staunch belief that family video influencing should be outlawed. They dive into the dark side of family vlogging, touching on themes of familial abuse and personal freedom. The conversation also explores the ethical implications of sharing children's lives online and the cultural reflections that arise from these controversial narratives.

Jan 7, 2025 • 48min
Is This Normal? A Truly Excellent Chat with an Influencer OB-GYN
The number one question Dr. Jennifer Lincoln gets asked as an OB-GYN who gives fact-based information on Instagram is "IS THIS NORMAL?" Because these days it is truly hard to figure out what is. Instagram and TikTok influencers are putting out more misinformation than ever about women's bodies. Dr. Lincoln joins us to dispel myths, provide fact-based advice, and talk about her journey to using Instagram to educate. We're getting into the challenges of finding reliable information, the dangers of social media "experts", and practical tips for making informed decisions about birth plans and reproductive health.Learn all about Dr. Jennifer Lincoln and follow her here.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 2, 2025 • 34min
How Will I Die? (And How Will I Age?) with Deb Whitman
As she approached her fiftieth birthday, Debra Whitman, a globally recognized expert on aging, wanted to delve deeper into why so many Americans struggled to live well as they aged. And she began to wonder what was in store for her own second fifty. Suddenly, the questions she’d been studying for years became personal: How long will I live? Will I be healthy? Will I lose my memory? How long will I work? Will I have enough money? Where will I live? How will I die? Whether you are approaching fifty, into your later years, or caring for someone who is, you’ll find a wealth of wisdom in this episode.Buy The Second Fifty here.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 31, 2024 • 30min
New Years Resolutions That Aren't Dumb
What do you want more of in 2025? I want more travel, more friend stuff, more adventure. We're digging into all of it with Glynnis on today's episode. I also want money and security and I think it is OK to say those things out loud. We also have special guest Ophira Edut of the Astrotwins, my favorite astrologist, to tell us what the stars have in store for us in the next year. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 26, 2024 • 40min
Who is Sick of Being a People Pleaser?
What if all of the women in the world just decided to stop helping tomorrow? The world would shut the hell down, is what would happen.One of the things that I've realized about myself is that I am an intensely over committed, pathetic people pleaser. I am always offering to help way more than anyone ever expects. My guest today, Amy Wilson wants us to recognize this about ourselves. She isn't here to help us fix it, but just to see it. Amy has always been the ultimate helper. She describes herself as a big sister, a girl scout, a faithful reader of teen magazines, a personal assistant and a mom of three. And she's always kind of thought that it was her destiny to be a people pleaser, to put other people first. Until it all got to be too much.You can order Amy's book HAPPY TO HELP here.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 24, 2024 • 48min
How to Pivot in 2025
The new year isn't just about resolutions – it's about revolution. Your professional and personal revolution. It's about reclaiming the lead role in your life's story. Today, we're chatting with my very best friend Jackie Cascarano about how she went from lawyer, to working in academia to coaching women through career and life transitions with her business Juno Women's Collective.🚀 Listen in as we explore the journey of reinvention and finding your true purpose. We talk about succeeding and failing and the ambition trap that far too many women fall into before they even realize what it is they want out of life.Learn more about Juno here.Follow Jackie here.Join our newsletter community here.Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here.Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices