The Mary Marantz Show

When you think of life balance - what images come to mind? Juggling all the metaphoric balls? Walking a tightrope and praying you don’t misstep? The mile long to-do list always seems to be looming over heads - so we work on overdrive to accomplish it ALL.  If you’re tired of feeling like there is just not enough TIME in the day and you’re ready to take back control of your schedule - this episode with Christy Wright is for YOU. In her new book, Take Back Your Time: The Guilt-Free Guide to Life Balance, Christy reveals the main reasons why we feel out of balance and how to combat those. She also lays out the path to balance that anyone can walk in order to ditch the distractions in life and focus on what really matters. In this honest and transparent conversation, Mary and Christy talk about the inner reasons behind our tendencies to overwork - and Christy’s 3 step process to create your ideal, life schedule without the guilt. In this conversation, Mary and Christy also cover: The deeper heart wounds that drive us to perform  What we learn in childhood that needs to be unlearned as an adult about love How to find peace in an unbalanced world The actual question we should be asking when trying to find balance How to achieve a meaningful life on your own terms   If you’re ready to swap the exhausting pressure for balanced peace, you’re going to love this episode!  Snag Christy’s book here! https://www.ramseysolutions.com/store/books/take-back-your-time-by-christy-wright

Do you find it difficult to make life-giving friendships as an adult? One where there is no competition, gossip, or pressure to fit-in? If you can relate, then today’s episode is for you! Today, Mary is joined by her incredible friend, host of the “Let’s Get Coffee” podcast, author, and speaker - Jeanette Tapley - as the two talk about the challenging idea of making friends as an adult. Known for having a heart that beats for people, Jeanette lives by the mantra that everyone should be heard, valued, and never alone no matter what stage of life they find themselves in. On today’s episode, Mary and Jeanette talk about the ever present struggle of making true friendships as adults. They explore the idea of what it means to have a true place of belonging with people who know you and are for; what it looks like to walk through life showing up as the friend that you need; and the challenging concept of a “friendship breakup.” After listening, you will be equipped to flip the script on the idea that friendships are hard; learn how to be an intentional friend to others while finding, making, and keeping friends over the long haul as an adult; walk away with tangible tips for how to be intentional with scheduling, checking-in, and calendars; and, understand how to balance friendship break-ups with our calling to love others. If you are ready to drop the walls, flip the script, and begin developing life-giving, true friendships - then make sure to tune into today’s empowering episode. Follow Jeannette here! https://www.instagram.com/jeanettetapley/

Are you the quiet one in the room for fear of speaking up and saying the wrong thing? Maybe you cancel plans at the last minute as you feel your social anxiety kick in! If you can relate, then today’s episode is for you! Today, Mary is joined by seasoned lawyer turned author, speaker, and relationship expert for shows like Lifetime’s “Married at First Sight” and TLCs “Dave + Kate” - Rachel DeAlto! In her brand new book, “Relatable: How To Connect With Anyone Anywhere (even if it scares you),” Rachel helps you go from socially awkward to effortlessly relatable. On today’s episode, Mary and Rachel dive into how “Relatable” is more than just a book- it is a go-to guide for connecting to yourself, other people, and an incredible life. The duo talk about external forces and triggers of social anxiety; the grounding that happens when we connect in-person versus online; the crisis we are facing as a society of not knowing how to talk to each other; and the ever present social comparison theory. After listening, you will be able to pursue adaptability no matter where you are with authenticity; understand the art of reading the room; be equipped to become aspirational and inspirational while still being relatable; and, learn Rachel’s 5x5 method for resetting your nervous system when it needs it the most. If you are ready for a guide that will take you from socially awkward to awesome, while feeling more comfortable in social settings so that your true self can shine through, you will not want to miss today’s fresh, humorous, and powerful episode! Snag Rachel's book here! https://www.racheldealto.com/book

If we’re being honest with ourselves - the last couple of years have probably gone anything except according to plan. If you have felt that life recently seems like one big exercise of surrender - surrendering of plans, control, work, school - just what life is ‘supposed’ to look like, and your dreams are feeling a little lost in the shuffle - then you’re in the right place today.  Today Mary is joined for a second time by her friend, bestselling author, podcast host and national speaker, Rebekah Lyons. In her new devotional, A Surrendered Yes: 52 Devotions to Let Go and Live Free, Rebekah offers readers 52 reflections that will move them from striving and fear into freedom, joy and rest. On today’s episode, Mary and Rebekah head right to the heart of what a surrendered yes actually is, what it looks like, what it feels like, and what is keeping us from it. You know that big, scary dream that you've been feeling like God has been asking you to take a big leap? Mary and Rebekah cover exactly how to stop putting off that decision because they are tackling what is keeping you from making it. The two discuss: How fear of failure shows up in our lives What is means to surrender not only control, but the struggle as well Why you are NOT disqualified; even when that’s all you feel How to say yes even when it means to lay down heartbreaking things   After listening you will be equipped to: Challenge your mindset when you place yourself on the sidelines before you start Act out your surrendered yes even before you feel like doing so Live life with ease and peace rather than grabbing for control   If you’re ready to take action on that idea that you can't go a day without thinking about, the one God just keeps giving you those nudges on, then don’t miss today’s episode! Grab a copy of Rebekah's book here! https://rebekahlyons.com/

Are you in need of healing from a father-wound that you have been carrying around for years? Perhaps you are a parent now yourself and want to break unhealthy cycles you’ve seen passed down for generations. If you long for healing or redemption for you or your family, then this episode is for you! Today, Mary is joined by actor, director, and filmmaker of movies like “Overcomer,” “War Room,” “Courageous,” “Fireproof,” “Facing the Giants,” and his latest, “Show Me the Father” - Alex Kendrick of the Kendrick Brothers! Known for his life dedication to following Jesus and serving in church ministry for 20 years, Alex now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films. On today’s episode, Mary and Alex dig deep into “Show Me the Father,” the first, full documentary produced by the Kendrick Brothers, which features a variety of amazing true stories that takes audiences of all ages on an inspiring and emotional cinematic journey. The two discuss how everyone has a unique father story that deeply affects our identity; the influence fathers have in shaping the direction of their children’s lives; and the impact of breaking unhealthy generational cycles for generations to come. After listening, you will be motivated to think differently about how you view your earthly father; reevaluate and rediscover how you personally relate to God the Father; and find healing from your personal father wounds, by being invited to seek redemption from our Ultimate Father. Everyone has a father story, and it’s still being written. If you are ready to address old wounds, discover healing, and be inspired to change the lives of others, you will not want to miss today’s powerful episode! Check out the movie here! https://www.showmethefathermovie.com/ Note from the filmmakers! The movie COURAGEOUS LEGACY (referenced at the end of the episode) will now be releasing on September 24, 2021.

Are you someone who tends to put too much worth into your achievements? Perhaps this leaves you struggling to find the margin to spend quiet time with God. If you feel that your faith has become safe and ordinary, then this episode is for you! Today, Mary is joined by special guest, her very own Pastor and new author of “Bury Your Ordinary: Practical Habits of a Heart Fully Alive” - Justin Kendrick of Vox Church. Known for his heart of discipleship, “Bury Your Ordinary” is centered around seven spiritual habits for intentional, exponential spiritual growth. On today’s episode, Mary and Justin dive deep into “Bury Your Ordinary” and discuss the idea of trusting more instead of trying more; the “secret” of Christianity and becoming who you already are (not who you will someday be); and, why the opposite of ordinary is obedience. After listening, you will be equipped to develop the seven habits that lead to explosive spiritual growth; learn to follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit; live out the truth that God is deeply satisfied with who you are; and, re-energize your relationship with the Lord. If you are ready to stop settling for an everyday faith, and start building an extraordinary relationship with God, then you will not want to miss today’s transformational episode! Snag the book here! https://www.amazon.com/Bury-Your-Ordinary-Practical-Habits/dp/0830781188

Do you long for community, authentic friendships, and cheerleaders to do life with? Perhaps you feel that finding true community in a fiercely competitive world seems like an impossible task. If you can relate, then this is the episode for you! Today, Mary is joined for a second time by entrepreneur, author, and dear friend, Natalie Franke, as the two dive into Natalie’s new book, “Built to Belong: Discovering The Power of Community Over Competition”. “Built to Belong” is a bold reminder that we can succeed while cheering for the success of others too, and that there is room for all of us to make our mark and thrive together. Natalie believes that we all have the opportunity to step outside of the box and become exactly who we are called to be. And, on today’s episode, Mary and Natalie don’t hold back as they discuss the dichotomy between how we can be built to belong but also created to compete; the role that social media plays in competition vs. community; and, the wide-spread epidemic of loneliness that is fiercely contagious. After listening, you will be able to recognize when competition becomes unhealthy and how to strike that much needed balance between community and competition; be equipped to start building your personal network starting with just one person; and be ready to drop the consumption of social media in order to embrace the connection aspects of it. If you are ready to join hands in charting a new course forward and take part in a rallying cry to transform lives - all while cultivating deeply rooted relationships that raise the tide for all - then today’s episode is not to be missed! Snag Natalie's book here! https://nataliefranke.com/book

Have you ever felt inadequate, overwhelmed, or guilty in trying to balance it all? Perhaps you’ve let these negative feelings unconsciously define you. If you can relate, then you are going to love today’s episode! Today, Mary is joined by popular podcast host of “Surviving Sarah,” writer, and cheerleader for moms everywhere - Sarah Bragg- as the two dig deep into Sarah’s new book “A Mother’s Guide to Raising Herself: What Parenting Taught Me About Life, Faith, and Myself.” Through vulnerable and relatable stories, Sarah shares her realization that the things she wanted for her daughters, (like self-worth, body positivity, tenacity) she did not yet possess herself. This realization led her on a humbling yet beautiful journey to raising herself alongside raising her girls. On today’s episode Mary and Sarah dive into what it means to be a recovering perfectionist as it relates to motherhood; discuss the concept of fitting in versus actually belonging; and the importance of ‘presence’ in the lives of those around you. After listening, you will be challenged to give yourself permission to find the courage to show up as yourself; be equipped to wrestle with how purpose, work, and calling all fit together; and be ready to replace ‘mom culture thinking’ with a “sometimes 3rd place is enough” mentality. If you are ready to find your sense of worth and stop attaching happiness to the extraordinary, then you will not want to miss today’s powerful and insightful episode! Snag Sarah's book here! https://www.zondervan.com/p/a-mothers-guide-to-raising-herself/

Are you looking at the pieces of your life and losing hope that they can be put back together again? Perhaps your heart has been broken, your dream has been put on hold, or your character is being put under pressure. If you can relate, then you are guaranteed to feel seen and understood after listening to today’s episode! Today, Mary is joined by former Bachelorette reality star, podcast host, designer, and author of the brand new book, “The Road to Roses: Heartbreak, Hope, and Finding Strength When Life Doesn't Go as Planned” - Desiree Siegfried! When Desiree was offered the opportunity to star on The Bachelorette, she thought she was finally getting the life she always longed for. Yet her reality TV dreams gave way to rough roads of unexpected twists, public scrutiny, and rejection. Now Desiree reveals in her rivetingly honest book how she found her resilience and love after all--and how you can, too. On today’s episode, Mary and Desiree dive into Desiree’s story before life as a reality star; discuss their similar upbringings and how old wounds from childhood left unaddressed can affect our decision-making as adults; and talk about what it truly looks like to put your identity in Christ while letting go of limiting beliefs and comfortable (yet, unhealthy) decision-making. After listening, you will be equipped with an authentic guide for finding your grit and courage to keep going no matter what you are facing; feel empowered to stay true to yourself despite external pressures and old wounds; and most importantly, find hope in the identity of Christ trusting that God loves you just as you are. If you are ready to pick up the pieces of your life, jumpstart your dreams, or begin living true to yourself, you will not want to miss today’s empowering episode! Follow Desiree here! https://www.instagram.com/desireesiegfried/

Are you trying to navigate singleness in this crazy dating world of modern times? Are you finding your experiences to be frustrating, infuriating, or about as clear as mud? If you can relate, then you are going to absolutely love today’s episode. Today, Mary is joined by blogger, turned New York Times Bestselling author, and creator of the single woman social media movement, Mandy Hale! Known for her ability to cut to the heart of single life with straight talking, witty, and inspirational takes on life and love, Mandy’s newest book “Don’t Believe the Swipe: Finding Love without Losing Yourself,” is not your mother’s dating guide. On today’s episode, Mary and Mandy talk all about how to find love without losing yourself; about learning to date without surrendering your power; about choosing yourself, regardless of whether someone swipes right or swipes left; and, of course about the crazy caricatures of your stereotypical dates gone wrong. After listening, you will be equipped to trust the path, process, and uniqueness of your personal journey; feel empowered to use this waiting time in your life (no matter what you are waiting for) to build a relationship with God versus just seeing what's not there yet; and, learn the mindset and tactics you need to approach dating and love without losing yourself. If you are ready to approach dating with dignity, refuse to let ‘the swipe’ rule your life, and stand confidently in your worth while not settling for less than you deserve, you will not want to miss today’s hilariously honest episode! Follow Mandy here! https://www.instagram.com/thesinglewoman/