The Mary Marantz Show

Mary Marantz
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Oct 7, 2025 • 1h 11min

Ditching Perfectionism for A Beautiful Both/And Life with Jillian Benfield

Do you find yourself in the midst of a never-ending overwhelming season? Have you bought into the lie that all the conditions to begin (not to mention yourself!) must be PERFECT before you can even start? In this episode, Mary sits down with fellow author and good friend Jillian Benfield to talk disappointment, resilience, living in awe, the BOTH/AND life we need to embrace if we are ever going to stop waiting on perfect.… and her brand new book Overwhelmed and Grateful: The Key to Finding God's Goodness in All Life's Ups and Downs.  In this episode, you’ll discover: Why one of Fear’s favorite whispers is “until life is perfect, you can’t even begin” Why we are WIRED to focus on the negative and how “noticing” is a radical act of rebellion The difference between the BOTH/AND life and toxic positivity The SCIENCE behind why gratitude might save your life The biblical rhythms of order, disorder, and re-order we can EXPECT to see in our lives and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new appreciation for the hard AND the holy, the joy AND the grief, the messy AND the miraculous… and a fire in your belly to start NOTICING this perfectly imperfect life all around you! Remember: We never asked you to be perfect… we just asked you to SHOW UP! Follow Jillian here: https://www.instagram.com/jillianbenfieldblog Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4mPsR7y
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Sep 23, 2025 • 1h

How Our Deepest Wounds Give Rise to Our Greatest Gifts with Tony Miltenberger

Do you ever find yourself lashing out at even the smallest slight, and you’re not even sure why it had you so upset? Do you ever feel like you’re walking around in the world like one raw, exposed nerve-ending… one minute you’re fine and the next you’re spiraling out? In this episode, Mary sits down with pastor, podcaster and leadership coach Tony Miltenberger (who is focused on creating leaders worth following!) to discuss how some of our deepest wounds in fact give rise to our greatest gifts… and his brand new book Wisdom in the Wound: How God Uses Your Past to Shape Who You’re Becoming In this episode, you’ll discover: The difference between Big-T and little-t trauma Why the “wounds” Tony is talking about rarely come with a villain The 5 most common wounds we are all walking around with What the emotional intensity scale can tell us about our triggers The Paradox of how our wounds can give rise to our gifts and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new appreciation of how the hard things you’ve walked through have prepared you for such a time as this… and a fire in your belly to finally STOP playing small on your gifts so you can become a leader worth following! Follow Tony here: https://www.instagram.com/twmilt Get his new book here: https://amzn.to/4gGnJRZ
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Sep 9, 2025 • 57min

How to Stop Shrinking Yourself Just to Belong with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith

Do you find yourself constantly shrinking back just to make others comfortable? Do you refuse to raise your hand because it means you might have to give up the “safety” of your hidden corners? In this episode, Mary sits down with POWERHOUSE author Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith to discuss all the ways we twist ourselves up in knots just to have a seat at the table, as explored in her new book Being Fully Known: The Joyful Satisfaction of Beholding, Becoming, and Belonging In this episode, you’ll discover: How to to stop holding back and instead reveal who you really are—known, talented, and NEEDED The difference between Being vs. Doing and why we need BOTH Why STRIVING is such soul-sickening territory How our authenticity can IRRITATE the masks other people wear Why we can only rest at the level of our trust in God and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new sense of what it means to be FULLY known… and a fire in you to finally STOP holding back and shrinking yourself once and for all! Follow Dr. Saundra here: https://www.instagram.com/drdaltonsmith Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4pfVDk7  
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Sep 2, 2025 • 1h 4min

The Courage to Get Your Hopes Up Again with Mattie Jackson

I wrote recently that one of the most brutal things about being a grown up is that we develop this muscle memory for disappointment… we’ve been here before, we tried that before, we got our hopes up and it didn’t work out. And that instant sting of “let down” and can turn into a chronic case of “give up” if we’re not careful. This week I sat down with one of my DEAREST friends— author and host of the In Joy Life Podcast, Mattie Jackson— to dig into grief, disappointment, and the radical act of courage it takes to get our HOPES up again after heartbreak, as explored in Mattie’s new book Through the Valley of Grief: A 365 Day Devotional of Spiritual Practices for Hope in Suffering In this episode, you’ll discover: The 4 Essential Practices Mattie outlines for navigating grief Why Wail > Denial, Connect > Isolation, Worship > Bitterness & Doubt, and Hope > Despair The spiritual practice of LAMENT and why “Everything happens for a reason” is not always the best advice. How to WORSHIP even in the midst of your greatest heartbreaks Why suffering takes us places that comfort never will Why Hope feels like such a DANGEROUS thing …and SO much more!   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new outlook on the hardest seasons you’ve walked through (maybe you’re walking through them right now)…and a renewed courage to get your HOPES up again, once you know where your true hope comes from! Follow Mattie here: https://www.instagram.com/mattiejackson/?hl=en Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/45KfWib
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Aug 26, 2025 • 60min

On Setbacks, Starting Over, and Finding True Success with Hayley Paige

Are you in a place where you feel like you are STARTING OVER and you aren’t sure you have the strength to begin again? In this episode, Mary sits down with entrepreneurial unicorn and legendary dress designer, Miss Hayley Paige to dig in to how we face down the disappointment of losing everything we’ve built so far… only to build back better. After a very public legal battle to win back her name (quite literally!) Hayley knows a thing or two about picking herself up and showing the world why it would be wise to NEVER underestimate her! In this episode, you’ll discover: What it looks like to find your own “sui generis” voice as a creative… a voice that is like no other Why “what if this is all a waste of time” is one of Fear’s most effective lies… and starting over is blistering to slow growth. Why “It’s all been done” can actually be the lie that pushes you to find the gaps in your market and innovate like never before How to become a person who doesn’t have to always follow the “safe, set, supposed to” life Using your setbacks to BECOME the guide who fights for others so they don’t make the same mistakes you did   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new determination to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and once again begin the long slow climb. As Hayley says, “Let your protagonist be tested.” It’s time to channel all our main character energy and face starting over HEAD ON! Follow Hayley here: https://www.instagram.com/misshayleypaige/?hl=en Check out her BRAND NEW “Twice Upon a Time” Collection here: https://hayleypaige.com/
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Aug 18, 2025 • 57min

How to Stop Feeling Overbooked and Overwhelmed with Tara Sun

Feeling Overbooked and Overwhelmed? In this episode, Mary sits down with author and host of the Truth Talks with Tara podcast, Tara Sun to dig in to how we became this busy, bustling, burned out generation, as explored in Tara’s new book Overbooked and Overwhelmed: How to Keep Up with God When You’re Just Trying to Keep Up with Life In this episode, you’ll discover: What it looks like to begin to unpack (and delegate!) the mental load Why we have swapped the abundant life for the overcommitted life, and the two definitions of “full” you NEED to know What we REALLY fear about not being busy All the ways distractions bring us a level of comfort (that is actually stealing our purpose) What we’re really CRAVING when we pack our calendars full   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new determination to make your days and your calendar reflect what really matters most… and to finally make NO a complete sentence! Follow Tara here: https://www.instagram.com/misstarasun Get her new book HERE   Also be sure to get your copy of Underestimated: The Surprisingly Simple Shift to Quit Playing Small, Name the Fear, and Move Forward Anyway for this Underestimated season of the podcast!
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Aug 12, 2025 • 51min

Why Joy is NOT a Joke with Rachel Awtrey

What if JOY is actually not a joke and loving your life (even when you don’t like it) an act of resistance? In this episode, Mary sits down with author and host of the Real Talk podcast, Rachel Awtrey to unpack the myths and truths around the messy, mundane, and magnificent parts of a BOTH/AND life, as explored in Rachel’s new book Love Your Life (Even When You Don’t Like It All the Time). In this episode, you’ll discover: What to do with the shame around not liking what seems to be a very “likable” life to the rest of the world What it looks like to “overwater” our own lives, and why abundance sometimes means LESS The tension between radical acceptance of what IS and not letting that turn into APATHY toward what could be How being uncomfortable reminds us of our need for a COMFORTER… but also not believing that you have to forever stay in struggle in order to be close to God. Letting go of the belief that just because it’s HARD it must also mean you aren’t meant to do it.   After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new perspective on holding both grief and joy in the same hand, naming what’s hard in order to change it, and celebrating the life you have (not the one you WISH you had). Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/rachel.awtrey/?hl=en Get Rachel's new book  Love Your Life (Even When You Don't Like it All The Time): A Realistic Guide to Unlocking Joy in Life's Messy, Mundane, and Magnificent Moments
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May 6, 2025 • 55min

Why Procrastination Isn’t Laziness: How to Tame Your Inner Critic and Channel Your Best Work with Britt Frank

What if your procrastination and inner critic were actually trying to help you, not sabotage you? In this episode, Mary sits down with psychotherapist and author Britt Frank to unpack the myths and truths behind fear, procrastination, and the complex cast of “parts” within our minds, as explored in Britt’s new book, Align Your Mind.  In this episode, you’ll discover: Why procrastination isn’t a moral failing, but a physiological fear response—and how to respond without shame The difference between “brake pedal” and “gas pedal” procrastination, and quick, science-backed ways to break free from each How parts work helps you make peace with your inner critic and shadow sides, turning them into powerful allies The surprising truth about “golden shadows” and how owning your hidden strengths can propel you further Practical, offbeat tools like biting into a lemon or jumping in place to reset your brain and overcome being stuck After listening, you’ll walk away with a whole new perspective on your struggles, feeling empowered to work with every part of yourself (even the ones you usually try to silence), and equipped with practical tools to move forward with greater self-compassion and clarity. Follow Britt here: https://www.instagram.com/brittfrank/?hl=en Get her new book here: https://woobox.com/qjnkrk  
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Apr 29, 2025 • 1h 9min

It’s Underestimated Launch Day! How to Quit Playing Small, Name the Fear… and Move Forward ANYWAY with special guest host Elizabeth Evans

What if the thing holding you back the most isn’t the fear of failure, but the fear of actually being seen and succeeding? In this special launch day episode, Mary Marantz is the guest on her own show as she is interviewed by her producer, Elizabeth Evans, on the release of her third book, "Underestimated."  The duo explore how embracing your pivots, facing your fears, and redefining your identity can propel you past self-sabotage and closer to your biggest dreams. Tune in to be inspired to move forward from the current season you’re in, owning your story, and stepping into your calling with newfound urgency and integrity. The pair chat about: The secret costs of delaying your dreams and how to keep your promises to yourself Embracing vulnerability, reparenting your inner child, and the freedom of showing up authentically The paradox of feeling both inadequate and called to greatness (and why this is common in many successful people) Real talk on procrastination, urgency, and why your best work may happen under pressure Navigating career pivots and rewriting your identity, even when others don’t see your vision If you’re ready to break through self-doubt and claim the bigger life you’ve always sensed was waiting for you, this episode will be the catalyst to help you take that next bold step. Purchase Mary’s book here + snag your free AUDIO version of the book! https://marymarantz.com/underestimated Follow Mary here: https://www.instagram.com/marymarantz/ Follow Elizabeth here: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethevans.co/  
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Apr 22, 2025 • 60min

You’re Not Too Late: Trusting God’s Timing When You Feel like You Missed Your Window with Rebecca George

What if the most persistent lie fear tells you—the "you're already too late" lie —is actually the dullest, most common trick holding you back from your calling?  In this episode, Mary welcomes author and podcaster, Rebecca George, to dive deep into the themes of waiting, longing, and naming your fears, all inspired by Rebecca’s new book, "You’re Not Too Late," and Mary’s own journey explored in "Underestimated."  After tuning in, you’ll feel empowered to rethink seasons of waiting, find purpose in your longings, and trade self-doubt for proactive hope, learning to see setbacks and delays as essential steps in your growth and spiritual journey. Get ready to recognize your own underdog story and step forward in faith, knowing you’re right on time for the life you’re meant to live. In this episode, the duo is chatting: Why the fear of "being too late" is a boring liar and how to name the scripts keeping you stuck The role of waiting and longing in shaping who you become—including the “ugly” side of not waiting well How faith, neuroscience, and intentional prayer can rewire disappointment and defeat Balancing hustle and prayer without falling for prosperity gospel clichés Tools for celebrating others’ wins while navigating your own seasons of delay and discouragement Let this conversation ignite new hope in you that your dreams are still within reach and your story is far from over. Follow Rebecca Here: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccageorgeauthor Grab her book, You’re Not Too Late, here: https://www.radicalradiance.live/books  

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