Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Karen McMahon

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Oct 30, 2025 • 57min

Breaking Energetic Ties After Divorce: Healing, Letting Go & Reopening to Love with Joanna Shakti, The Soul Love Mentor and Founder of Ecstatic Intimacy

Have you ever wondered why, even after divorce, your ex still feels energetically present in your life? Divorce isn't just the end of a relationship... it's a profound emotional, energetic, and spiritual transition. Long after the legal papers are signed and the physical separation is complete, many people remain unconsciously bonded to their former spouse, feeling stuck in emotional patterns, attachment, or resentment that blocks healing, peace, and future love. In this powerful episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Joanna Shakti, the Soul Love™ Mentor and founder of Ecstatic Intimacy™, to explore how to release energetic ties after divorce, reopen your heart, and rebuild your capacity for healthy, authentic connection. Joanna brings decades of expertise in masculine-feminine dynamics, conscious separation, emotional healing, and spiritual intimacy, offering compassionate guidance and practical tools for breaking free from lingering bonds and stepping into a life rooted in self-love, clarity, and empowered choice. If you're ready to reclaim your emotional autonomy, release the lingering energy of your past relationship, and open your heart to possibility — this conversation will support you every step of the way. Connect with Joanna: Free Gift: Ecstatic Intimacy Jumpstart Kit With your 4-part Ecstatic Intimacy Jumpstart kit you'll ignite confidence, connection and chemistry on the path of Soul Love. Your kit includes the "Soul Love Roadmap", Conscious Masculine and Feminine Assessments, tips for the bedroom and much more!: https://ecstaticintimacy.com/intimacy-jumpstart/ Facebook: facebook.com/EcstaticIntimacy Instagram: instagram.com/joanna.shakti YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DateCamp Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/joannashakti X: https://x.com/JoannaShakti Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/joannashakti/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod
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Oct 22, 2025 • 55min

When Your Wife Wants a Divorce... And You Didn't See It Coming with Relationship and Personal‐Growth Coach, Tim Wade

When your wife says she wants a divorce... and you never saw it coming... it can feel like your world is collapsing. Most men panic in that moment. They chase, plead, argue, or withdraw… all the things that feel natural, but only push her further away. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with transformational men's coach Tim Wade, who brings over 25 years of experience helping men rebuild their marriages, their confidence, and their lives. Tim shares his own story of reconciliation after eight years of separation and the powerful lessons he's learned guiding thousands of men through crisis and change. We explore: ✅ Why trying to "fix" her never works—and what actually does ✅ How to shift from fear and desperation to calm, grounded confidence ✅ The simple relationship skills your dad never taught you (but your wife wishes you had) ✅ What to do when saving the marriage isn't possible—and how to still come out stronger Tim reminds us that true transformation begins within. Whether you're trying to save your marriage or find peace on the other side of divorce, this conversation offers hope, clarity, and a path forward. 🎧 Listen now to discover why your best chance to change your relationship starts with you. Connect with Tim: Website: https://timwadecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/timwadecoaching/ Talk to Tim: https://timwadecoaching.com/lets-talk/ Online Course: https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod The Mask Your Live In: https://themaskyoulivein.vhx.tv/checkout/the-mask-you-live-in-feature-film/purchase?referrer=http%3A%2F%2Ftherepproject.org%2F The Untethered Soul: https://www.amazon.com/Untethered-Soul-Journey-Beyond-Yourself/dp/1572245379  
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Oct 16, 2025 • 41min

Navigating Narcissistic Co-Parenting with Clarity and Strength with Dr. David Hawkins, Founder and Director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute

Co-parenting is never easy—but when your ex displays narcissistic or emotionally abusive behaviors, it can feel impossible. You're not just managing logistics—you're protecting your peace, supporting your children, and trying not to lose yourself in the chaos. In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. David Hawkins, founder of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute. With over four decades of experience and more than 40 books to his name, Dr. Hawkins brings deep insight into what it takes to stay grounded and emotionally safe while co-parenting with a narcissist. We explore how to shift from feeling powerless to powerful—not by changing the other parent, but by transforming how you show up. Dr. Hawkins and I talk about boundaries, emotional regulation, and how to support your children without getting pulled into manipulation or conflict. This conversation is about empowerment, not blame. If you've been walking on eggshells, exhausted by drama, and worried about your kids' well-being, this episode will bring clarity, courage, and practical tools to help you anchor yourself and protect what matters most. Connect with Dr. Hawkins: Free Resource: Free Ebook - Getting To the Core: https://marriagerecoverycenter.com/media/Getting-to-the-Core.pdf Website: www.marriagerecoverycenter.com Email: info@marriagerecoverycenter.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagerecoverycenter/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drdavidbhawkins/videos Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-rehab-exposing-narcissistic-emotional-abuse/id1618828831   Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod
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Oct 4, 2025 • 44min

Abuse Recovery: Why Narcissistic Trauma Takes Longer to Heal with Justine Weber. Psy.D & Coach

Healing from narcissistic abuse during divorce is one of the hardest emotional battles you'll ever face. The confusion, self-doubt, and emotional traps can feel endless—but recovery is possible, and faster than you think. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast, Karen McMahon speaks with Dr. Justine Weber, licensed psychologist and narcissistic abuse recovery coach, about breaking free from the cycle of toxic, manipulative relationships. Together they explore why healing from narcissistic abuse is so difficult, the hidden damage it causes, and the proven strategies that move survivors from pain to empowerment. Dr. Weber shares practical steps you can take right now, from building a support system to reclaiming emotional balance, along with her Healing Wheel—a powerful tool for guiding recovery. If you're navigating a high-conflict divorce or co-parenting with a narcissist, this conversation is your roadmap to clarity, freedom, and lasting healing. Connect with Dr. Weber: Free Healing Bingo: https://justineshealingbingo.tiiny.site/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjustineweber TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drjustineweber Website: https://drjustineweber.com/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod
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Sep 29, 2025 • 39min

Healing Betrayal at the Cellular Level: Somatic Freedom After Infidelity with Guest, Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt, Betrayal Recovery Coach, Attorney, and TEDx Speaker

Betrayal doesn't just happen in your mind—it lives in your body. The racing heart, the tight chest, the endless mental loops that keep you awake at night… they're not just "in your head." They're your body holding on to trauma. And while journaling, therapy, and mindset work can bring clarity, they don't always free you from the pain that's lodged deep within. That's why this conversation with betrayal recovery coach, TEDx speaker, and author Lora Cheadle is so powerful. Lora knows firsthand the devastation of infidelity, and she shares how somatic healing, hypnosis, and even burlesque-inspired movement can unlock joy, sensuality, and a true sense of safety after betrayal. Together, we explore how trauma gets stored on a cellular level and the surprising ways to release it, how hypnosis helps quiet the obsessive loops about the affair or the other woman, and why reconnecting with your sensual body is not just important—it's essential. Lora even introduces the playful, empowering practice of burlesque-inspired movement and Yogalesque® as a way to reclaim pleasure, confidence, and personal power. If you've been stuck reliving the same painful stories, this episode is an invitation to step out of your head and back into your body. Because real healing—and the freedom to fully live again—begins when your body feels safe enough to let go. Lora Cheadle brings not only her professional expertise but her lived experience of betrayal. After discovering her husband's 15-year affair, she turned heartbreak into a path of healing and joy, and now guides women through the emotional, energetic, and even ancestral layers of betrayal recovery. She's the author of FLAUNT! and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal, and the host of the FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal podcast. This episode is a compassionate reminder that your healing isn't just about making sense of the past—it's about reclaiming your body, your joy, and your life. Connect with Lora: Listen to the Flaunt! Podcast: https://loracheadle.com/flaunt-podcast/ Follow Lora on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loracheadle Watch Lora on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LoraCheadleLifeChoreographer/videos Download Your Free Gift - Betrayal Recovery Guide: www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg
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Sep 24, 2025 • 1h

The Unspoken Grief of Divorced Men and How to Rise From It with Founder of Men's Therapy Online, Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CPG, ACS

In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Marc Azoulay, psychotherapist and founder of Men's Therapy Online, for a raw and powerful conversation about the struggles men face during and after divorce. Too often, men are left to navigate their grief alone—raised to be stoic, self-sufficient, and emotionally guarded. But when divorce shatters their world, the quiet reckoning sets in. Identity collapses. Numbness and rage surface. Disbelief lingers. Many men find themselves staring at the wreckage of what used to be, barely recognizing who they are anymore. Marc and I explore what it really takes for men to move through this kind of pain and begin rebuilding their lives. We talk about the collapse of identity after divorce, the hidden cost of traditional masculinity, and why community, mentorship, and ritual are essential for healing. Marc offers practical guidance for finding structure and meaning again, navigating co-parenting while hurting, and stepping back into dating without the masks that keep men disconnected from their truth. He also shares the deeper practices that help men reclaim themselves and rise stronger—on their terms. Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CGP, ACS, is the founder of Men's Therapy Online, a groundbreaking healing community that combines psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhism. His work—whether through group counseling, individual therapy, or wilderness retreats—creates safe spaces where men can confront their grief, break down unconscious barriers, and discover the man they were always meant to be. If you are a man navigating the grief of divorce and searching for clarity, brotherhood, and strength, this episode will offer both insight and a path forward. Connect with Marc: Free Gift: https://menstherapy.online/pathway/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@menstherapyonline Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/menstherapyonline LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcmazoulay/ MTO LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/menstherapyonline Twitter: https://twitter.com/marcmazoulay Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mens.therapy.online/  Website: https://menstherapy.online Blog mentioned in podcast: https://menstherapy.online/blog/rebuilding-after-divorce-guide/ Men's Therapy Podcast: https://menstherapy.online/mens-therapy-podcast/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up
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Sep 18, 2025 • 56min

Dating After Divorce: Expert Tips on Confidence, Curiosity & Connection with Legendary Matchmaker & Dating Coach, Julie Ferman

Stepping back into the dating world after a long marriage and painful divorce can feel overwhelming. The landscape has changed, your confidence may feel shaky, and it's easy to carry old fears and insecurities with you. But what if dating after divorce wasn't about pressure or "finding the one"? What if it was an invitation to rediscover yourself? In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I'm joined by the incredible Julie Ferman, a professional matchmaker and dating coach with over 30 years of experience, who has helped create more than 1,400 success story couples. Together, we explore how to uncover your blind spots—the hidden beliefs and patterns that quietly hold you back—and how to approach dating with curiosity, confidence, and intention. Julie shares practical insights like the three-date rule, the importance of authentic communication, and how to enjoy the process rather than fear it. What makes Julie's approach so powerful is that it's not just about meeting someone new—it's about transforming how you see yourself in relationships and in life. This is your opportunity to grow, heal, and reconnect with your own desires while opening the door to meaningful connections. If you're ready to approach dating after divorce with a fresh perspective, this episode will give you the clarity, tools, and encouragement to begin. Remember, this next chapter isn't only about finding love with someone else—it's about falling back in love with yourself. Connect with Julie: Links: https://linktr.ee/JulieFerman Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cupids-coach-with-julie-ferman/id1451684205 Register to get your FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://julieferman.com/join/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up
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Sep 15, 2025 • 47min

Essential Steps for Business Owners Facing Divorce with Gabriella Martinelli, CDFA®

In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Gabriella Martinelli, a seasoned Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and founder of Ever After Wealth®, to explore the critical steps business owners must take to value and protect their businesses before a divorce. With over two decades of experience helping entrepreneurs navigate the complexities of divorce, Gabriella brings deep expertise in avoiding financial pitfalls, cleaning up financial records, and ensuring accurate business valuations. If you are divorcing with a business on the line, the stakes are incredibly high, and one misstep can cost you far more than money. We discuss how businesses are appraised during divorce, the emotional and financial challenges that arise during asset division, and the importance of clarifying valuation long before lawyers and courts are involved. Gabriella also explains why separating personal and business finances and maintaining accurate documentation is essential for protecting both your enterprise and your personal net worth. Together, we highlight the key tax and ownership considerations that can arise when selling, splitting, or retaining a business and share practical strategies to help you safeguard what you've built. Whether you are just beginning to consider divorce or are already mid-process, this conversation will provide clarity, direction, and the financial wisdom you need to protect your future. Connect with Gabriella: Website: www.everafterwealth.com Social Media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabriellamartinelli-divorcefinancialclarity/ Book a Free Call: https://calendly.com/everafterwealth/connectionmeeting Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up  
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Sep 10, 2025 • 49min

When the Abuse Has No Bruises: How to Spot, Speak About, and Heal from Emotional Harm with Annette Oltmans, Founder and CEO of The M3ND Project

Abuse doesn't always leave physical scars, but it always leaves an impact. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Annette Oltmans — survivor, author, and founder of The M3ND Project — to shine a light on the realities of emotional and covert abuse, and the all-too-common retraumatization that happens when victims seek help but are met with disbelief or dismissal. Annette's groundbreaking work on Double Abuse® gives language to what so many survivors have experienced but struggled to name. Together, we explore what emotional and covert abuse really look like, the risks of misusing terms like "gaslighting" or "narcissism" in legal contexts, and how to safeguard your credibility when telling your story in court or to professionals. We talk about why so many therapists, clergy, and attorneys still miss the signs of abuse and how you can begin finding the ones who truly understand. Most importantly, we discuss how to take those first healing steps with support that validates your experience and helps you move forward. We also highlight valuable resources from The M3ND Project, including free guides, training, and tools designed to help both survivors and professionals respond with clarity and compassion. If you've been struggling to put words to your experience or to find the right help, you are not alone. This conversation will give you insight, hope, and practical direction as you take steps to heal and rebuild your life. Connect with Annette: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themendproject/ Free Monthly Workshop: https://themendproject.com/free-workshops/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up Selfless Article: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/blog/the-first-step-to-finding-true-love Self Loving Article: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/blog/step-two-first-love-thyself Selfish Article: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/blog/third-step-to-love-making-yourself-a-priority  
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Aug 31, 2025 • 51min

Rewire Your Beliefs: Shift Painful Emotions Instantly with ThetaHealing with Sanaiyah Gurnamal

Letting go of a long-term relationship can feel like losing a lifetime investment, leaving you with grief, resentment, and confusion about how to move forward. Divorce often stirs old wounds and unconscious beliefs formed in childhood, patterns that resurface in marriage and make the ending feel even more painful. Many people believe it will take years of hard work to heal, but what if there was a way to shift your emotional state and release that pain far more quickly? In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Sanaiyah Gurnamal, a Master ThetaHealer and founder of House of Healing in Dubai. Sanaiyah shares how ThetaHealing works at the subconscious level to dissolve limiting beliefs, heal attachment wounds, and release grief stored in both the body and mind. Together, we explore why cognitive understanding alone isn't enough, how energetic transformation can unlock freedom, and why letting go of the "investment mindset" is essential to moving beyond the past. I also share my personal experience with ThetaHealing and the profound shifts I experienced in a single session. This conversation is both practical and deeply hopeful, offering insight into how you can begin letting go of resentment, shame, and guilt—even if forgiveness feels out of reach. Whether you're in the midst of divorce or still holding on to the pain of a past relationship, this episode will help you see what's possible when you release old stories and open the door to clarity, confidence, and peace. Connect with Sanaiyah: Website: www.sanaiyahgurnamal.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sanaiyahgurnamal/ Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/projectlovingmyselfpodcast/ Free Quiz: https://www.sanaiyahgurnamal.com/love-blocks-quiz-is-your-love-life-on-track/ Free Clarity Call: https://thirdeyeonline.as.me/schedule/b86e6c09/?appointmentTypeIds[]=14411536 Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up    

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