Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Karen McMahon

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Oct 4, 2025 • 44min

Abuse Recovery: Why Narcissistic Trauma Takes Longer to Heal with Justine Weber. Psy.D & Coach

Healing from narcissistic abuse during divorce is one of the hardest emotional battles you’ll ever face. The confusion, self-doubt, and emotional traps can feel endless—but recovery is possible, and faster than you think. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast, Karen McMahon speaks with Dr. Justine Weber, licensed psychologist and narcissistic abuse recovery coach, about breaking free from the cycle of toxic, manipulative relationships. Together they explore why healing from narcissistic abuse is so difficult, the hidden damage it causes, and the proven strategies that move survivors from pain to empowerment. Dr. Weber shares practical steps you can take right now, from building a support system to reclaiming emotional balance, along with her Healing Wheel—a powerful tool for guiding recovery. If you’re navigating a high-conflict divorce or co-parenting with a narcissist, this conversation is your roadmap to clarity, freedom, and lasting healing. Connect with Dr. Weber: Free Healing Bingo: https://justineshealingbingo.tiiny.site/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjustineweber TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drjustineweber Website: https://drjustineweber.com/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod
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Sep 29, 2025 • 39min

Healing Betrayal at the Cellular Level: Somatic Freedom After Infidelity with Guest, Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt, Betrayal Recovery Coach, Attorney, and TEDx Speaker

Betrayal doesn’t just happen in your mind—it lives in your body. The racing heart, the tight chest, the endless mental loops that keep you awake at night… they’re not just “in your head.” They’re your body holding on to trauma. And while journaling, therapy, and mindset work can bring clarity, they don’t always free you from the pain that’s lodged deep within. That’s why this conversation with betrayal recovery coach, TEDx speaker, and author Lora Cheadle is so powerful. Lora knows firsthand the devastation of infidelity, and she shares how somatic healing, hypnosis, and even burlesque-inspired movement can unlock joy, sensuality, and a true sense of safety after betrayal. Together, we explore how trauma gets stored on a cellular level and the surprising ways to release it, how hypnosis helps quiet the obsessive loops about the affair or the other woman, and why reconnecting with your sensual body is not just important—it’s essential. Lora even introduces the playful, empowering practice of burlesque-inspired movement and Yogalesque® as a way to reclaim pleasure, confidence, and personal power. If you’ve been stuck reliving the same painful stories, this episode is an invitation to step out of your head and back into your body. Because real healing—and the freedom to fully live again—begins when your body feels safe enough to let go. Lora Cheadle brings not only her professional expertise but her lived experience of betrayal. After discovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned heartbreak into a path of healing and joy, and now guides women through the emotional, energetic, and even ancestral layers of betrayal recovery. She’s the author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal, and the host of the FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal podcast. This episode is a compassionate reminder that your healing isn’t just about making sense of the past—it’s about reclaiming your body, your joy, and your life. Connect with Lora: Listen to the Flaunt! Podcast: https://loracheadle.com/flaunt-podcast/ Follow Lora on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loracheadle Watch Lora on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LoraCheadleLifeChoreographer/videos Download Your Free Gift - Betrayal Recovery Guide: www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg
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Sep 24, 2025 • 1h

The Unspoken Grief of Divorced Men and How to Rise From It with Founder of Men’s Therapy Online, Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CPG, ACS

In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Marc Azoulay, psychotherapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online, for a raw and powerful conversation about the struggles men face during and after divorce. Too often, men are left to navigate their grief alone—raised to be stoic, self-sufficient, and emotionally guarded. But when divorce shatters their world, the quiet reckoning sets in. Identity collapses. Numbness and rage surface. Disbelief lingers. Many men find themselves staring at the wreckage of what used to be, barely recognizing who they are anymore. Marc and I explore what it really takes for men to move through this kind of pain and begin rebuilding their lives. We talk about the collapse of identity after divorce, the hidden cost of traditional masculinity, and why community, mentorship, and ritual are essential for healing. Marc offers practical guidance for finding structure and meaning again, navigating co-parenting while hurting, and stepping back into dating without the masks that keep men disconnected from their truth. He also shares the deeper practices that help men reclaim themselves and rise stronger—on their terms. Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CGP, ACS, is the founder of Men’s Therapy Online, a groundbreaking healing community that combines psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhism. His work—whether through group counseling, individual therapy, or wilderness retreats—creates safe spaces where men can confront their grief, break down unconscious barriers, and discover the man they were always meant to be. If you are a man navigating the grief of divorce and searching for clarity, brotherhood, and strength, this episode will offer both insight and a path forward. Connect with Marc: Free Gift: https://menstherapy.online/pathway/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@menstherapyonline Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/menstherapyonline LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcmazoulay/ MTO LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/menstherapyonline Twitter: https://twitter.com/marcmazoulay Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mens.therapy.online/  Website: https://menstherapy.online Blog mentioned in podcast: https://menstherapy.online/blog/rebuilding-after-divorce-guide/ Men's Therapy Podcast: https://menstherapy.online/mens-therapy-podcast/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up
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Sep 18, 2025 • 56min

Dating After Divorce: Expert Tips on Confidence, Curiosity & Connection with Legendary Matchmaker & Dating Coach, Julie Ferman

Stepping back into the dating world after a long marriage and painful divorce can feel overwhelming. The landscape has changed, your confidence may feel shaky, and it’s easy to carry old fears and insecurities with you. But what if dating after divorce wasn’t about pressure or “finding the one”? What if it was an invitation to rediscover yourself? In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I’m joined by the incredible Julie Ferman, a professional matchmaker and dating coach with over 30 years of experience, who has helped create more than 1,400 success story couples. Together, we explore how to uncover your blind spots—the hidden beliefs and patterns that quietly hold you back—and how to approach dating with curiosity, confidence, and intention. Julie shares practical insights like the three-date rule, the importance of authentic communication, and how to enjoy the process rather than fear it. What makes Julie’s approach so powerful is that it’s not just about meeting someone new—it’s about transforming how you see yourself in relationships and in life. This is your opportunity to grow, heal, and reconnect with your own desires while opening the door to meaningful connections. If you’re ready to approach dating after divorce with a fresh perspective, this episode will give you the clarity, tools, and encouragement to begin. Remember, this next chapter isn’t only about finding love with someone else—it’s about falling back in love with yourself. Connect with Julie: Links: https://linktr.ee/JulieFerman Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cupids-coach-with-julie-ferman/id1451684205 Register to get your FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://julieferman.com/join/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up
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Sep 15, 2025 • 47min

Essential Steps for Business Owners Facing Divorce with Gabriella Martinelli, CDFA®

In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Gabriella Martinelli, a seasoned Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and founder of Ever After Wealth®, to explore the critical steps business owners must take to value and protect their businesses before a divorce. With over two decades of experience helping entrepreneurs navigate the complexities of divorce, Gabriella brings deep expertise in avoiding financial pitfalls, cleaning up financial records, and ensuring accurate business valuations. If you are divorcing with a business on the line, the stakes are incredibly high, and one misstep can cost you far more than money. We discuss how businesses are appraised during divorce, the emotional and financial challenges that arise during asset division, and the importance of clarifying valuation long before lawyers and courts are involved. Gabriella also explains why separating personal and business finances and maintaining accurate documentation is essential for protecting both your enterprise and your personal net worth. Together, we highlight the key tax and ownership considerations that can arise when selling, splitting, or retaining a business and share practical strategies to help you safeguard what you’ve built. Whether you are just beginning to consider divorce or are already mid-process, this conversation will provide clarity, direction, and the financial wisdom you need to protect your future. Connect with Gabriella: Website: www.everafterwealth.com Social Media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabriellamartinelli-divorcefinancialclarity/ Book a Free Call: https://calendly.com/everafterwealth/connectionmeeting Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up  
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Sep 10, 2025 • 49min

When the Abuse Has No Bruises: How to Spot, Speak About, and Heal from Emotional Harm with Annette Oltmans, Founder and CEO of The M3ND Project

Abuse doesn’t always leave physical scars, but it always leaves an impact. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Annette Oltmans — survivor, author, and founder of The M3ND Project — to shine a light on the realities of emotional and covert abuse, and the all-too-common retraumatization that happens when victims seek help but are met with disbelief or dismissal. Annette’s groundbreaking work on Double Abuse® gives language to what so many survivors have experienced but struggled to name. Together, we explore what emotional and covert abuse really look like, the risks of misusing terms like “gaslighting” or “narcissism” in legal contexts, and how to safeguard your credibility when telling your story in court or to professionals. We talk about why so many therapists, clergy, and attorneys still miss the signs of abuse and how you can begin finding the ones who truly understand. Most importantly, we discuss how to take those first healing steps with support that validates your experience and helps you move forward. We also highlight valuable resources from The M3ND Project, including free guides, training, and tools designed to help both survivors and professionals respond with clarity and compassion. If you’ve been struggling to put words to your experience or to find the right help, you are not alone. This conversation will give you insight, hope, and practical direction as you take steps to heal and rebuild your life. Connect with Annette: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themendproject/ Free Monthly Workshop: https://themendproject.com/free-workshops/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up Selfless Article: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/blog/the-first-step-to-finding-true-love Self Loving Article: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/blog/step-two-first-love-thyself Selfish Article: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/blog/third-step-to-love-making-yourself-a-priority  
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Aug 31, 2025 • 51min

Rewire Your Beliefs: Shift Painful Emotions Instantly with ThetaHealing with Sanaiyah Gurnamal

Letting go of a long-term relationship can feel like losing a lifetime investment, leaving you with grief, resentment, and confusion about how to move forward. Divorce often stirs old wounds and unconscious beliefs formed in childhood, patterns that resurface in marriage and make the ending feel even more painful. Many people believe it will take years of hard work to heal, but what if there was a way to shift your emotional state and release that pain far more quickly? In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Sanaiyah Gurnamal, a Master ThetaHealer and founder of House of Healing in Dubai. Sanaiyah shares how ThetaHealing works at the subconscious level to dissolve limiting beliefs, heal attachment wounds, and release grief stored in both the body and mind. Together, we explore why cognitive understanding alone isn’t enough, how energetic transformation can unlock freedom, and why letting go of the “investment mindset” is essential to moving beyond the past. I also share my personal experience with ThetaHealing and the profound shifts I experienced in a single session. This conversation is both practical and deeply hopeful, offering insight into how you can begin letting go of resentment, shame, and guilt—even if forgiveness feels out of reach. Whether you’re in the midst of divorce or still holding on to the pain of a past relationship, this episode will help you see what’s possible when you release old stories and open the door to clarity, confidence, and peace. Connect with Sanaiyah: Website: www.sanaiyahgurnamal.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sanaiyahgurnamal/ Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/projectlovingmyselfpodcast/ Free Quiz: https://www.sanaiyahgurnamal.com/love-blocks-quiz-is-your-love-life-on-track/ Free Clarity Call: https://thirdeyeonline.as.me/schedule/b86e6c09/?appointmentTypeIds[]=14411536 Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/e-book-sign-up    
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Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 10min

Parallel Parenting: Boundaries, Structure & Legal Clarity with Randi L. Karmel, PLLC

When co-parenting feels impossible because of constant conflict, there is another way. It’s called parallel parenting—a structure designed for high-conflict divorce that reduces interaction, sets clear boundaries, and allows both parents to focus on their children’s wellbeing. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I’m joined by Randi Karmel, PLLC, a family law attorney, mediator, and parent coordinator with decades of experience helping families navigate custody disputes, substance abuse cases, and complex parenting dynamics. Randi and I explore how to create a parallel parenting plan that actually works. We talk about what must be included in your legal agreement, the pitfalls to avoid, and how to handle the inevitable gray areas that come with real life. You’ll also hear why having a parent coordinator can be a game-changer in easing ongoing conflict. If you’re facing high-conflict divorce or struggling with parenting arrangements, this episode will give you practical tools to reduce stress, minimize court battles, and prioritize your child’s emotional safety. Connect with Randi: Website: https://randikarmel.com/ Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg
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Aug 13, 2025 • 51min

Faith in the Fire: Why a Spiritual Foundation Matters in Life’s Hardest Moments with Pastor Ray Longwood

In this heartfelt discussion, Ray Longwood, Lead Pastor at Experience Vineyard Church, shares his ministry insights on faith and healing during challenging times. He and Karen McMahon delve into the importance of a spiritual foundation amid crises like divorce. They discuss transitioning from rigid religion to a personal relationship with God, the value of authenticity in faith communities, and the power of communal support. Their moving conversation offers listeners hope, wisdom, and encouragement to navigate life's darkest moments through grace and faith.
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Aug 3, 2025 • 40min

When Money Turns Malicious: High-Conflict Divorce in Wealthy Families with New York Attorney, Joshua L. Rieger

In high-net-worth divorces, money isn’t just a shared asset—it often becomes the sharpest weapon in the conflict. From hidden accounts to excessive legal spending, financial manipulation can turn an already painful process into a drawn-out war. In this powerful episode, high-conflict divorce coach Karen McMahon explores the darker side of wealth and separation with Joshua L. Rieger, partner at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein. A seasoned litigator and mediator, Josh brings firsthand insight from years in the courtroom, where he’s seen how money is used to control, punish, and destabilize. Together, they unpack what financial abuse looks like in practice, how courts respond to weaponized wealth, and the strategies both moneyed and non-moneyed spouses can use to protect themselves. Josh also shares what every high-net-worth individual needs to understand about power imbalances, legal safeguards, and maintaining dignity through even the most contentious divorces. Whether you're protecting a legacy or fighting for a fair share, this episode offers a critical roadmap for navigating divorce when money is at the center of the storm. Connect with Joshua: Phone: 212-466-6015 Email: jrieger@berkbot.com Website: https://www.berkbot.com/ Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg

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