The Inward Nine with Chandler Withington

What do you think of when you hear the word forgiveness? Do you find it hard to forgive others when you have been wronged? Has it been hard for you to accept forgiveness from others when they extend it to you? Or, do you find it hard to even just forgive yourself? Have you done something in your life that you feel is so unforgivable that you can’t escape the guilt and shame you are feeling?   On this episode, Chandler shares his perspective on two powerful and life changing words, grace and forgiveness. Chandler shares what they mean, how he has experienced them in his life and how you can begin to both accept and extend them in your own life if this is something you have struggled with.   If we are to become the best versions of ourselves, we cannot be holding on to bitterness or anger in not forgiving others, nor can we move forward until we accept someone else has forgiven us and finally we cannot thrive until we learn to give ourselves some grace and forgiveness for when we fall short, which we all inevitably will.    To connect further:    With Restoration Club, email Jeff Marsh: jeff@restorationclub.co With Chandler, email: podcast@archive22.com   Music Credits:   Opening: 'The Unforgiven' by Metallica Interlude: 'Good, Good Father' (Instrumental) by Chris Tomlin Closing: 'Amazing Grace' by Chris Tomlin

How do you define the word success?  What is it in your own life you are chasing after?  Have you stopped to consider how it will make you feel once you achieve it? Have you ever achieved the thing you set out to achieve and then felt unfulfilled? We are talking about these questions and much more on this episode.  On this episode: I will share my own perspective on the question of – what is success and share how I answer the question for myself. We will hear from a few other top athletes who have struggled with the same questions Scottie is asking. We will talk about what it means to be on the ‘second mountain’ of life. We will talk about what is the difference between joy and happiness. We will talk about the importance of creating a personal mission statement. To connect with Chandler: Send him a direct email, podcast@archive22.com,  Send a DM on LinkedIn or Instagram @chandlerwithington Music Credits: Opening: 'Peace' by Ben Rector Closing: 'Almost Home' by Ben Rector  

Have you ever found yourself trying to be someone that you aren't? Have you ever wanted to be more comfortable just being...you?  Today we get to spend time with someone who is very comfortable in his own shoes and will help you understand how to feel the same way. He is Jason Ballard, the Director of Golf at Oak Hill Country Club in Rochester, New York.  In our time with Jason we will discuss: How a random act of kindness ignited his passion for golf and led him towards a career in the game.  How an early mentor challenged Jason with all the reasons he should NOT want to be a golf professional and why Jason decided to continue on.  What Oak Hill University is and how you can begin a similar educational program within your own team.  How to properly prepare for a dream job interview.  How the book 'Die With Zero' impacted Jason.  How to negotiate for the things most important to you when you receive your first big job offer.  Jason's advice for the next generation of golf professionals.  To connect with Chandler:  Send a direct email to podcast@archive22.com Send a direct message to Chandler on LinkedIn or Instagram @chandlerwithington Music Credits:  Opening: 'Take on Me' by Ah-Ha Closing: 'Something Beautiful' by Needtobreathe

Have you ever heard someone use the phrase, "I just felt so connected with that person"?  Have you ever felt connected or disconnected with someone? Have you ever felt there was more you could be doing to be building stronger connections with the people around you?  Today we jump into talking about the science of connecting with others and why connection is so important to our success both in our careers and our lives.  In our time together we will discuss:  The science behind building a connection Why building connections is so important What the best communicators do to build strong connections What you can do to start building better connections In this episode, Chandler shares and teaches principles on connection from John Maxwell's book, 'Everyone Communicates, Few Connect'.  To connect further with Chandler:  Send him a DM on Instagram @chandlerwithington or on his LinkedIn page Send him a direct email, podcast@archive22.com Music Credits:  Opening: 'Head Over Heels' (Instrumental) by Tears For Fears Closing: 'Almost Home' by Ben Rector 

Mark Batterson, a New York Times Best Selling Author and Lead Pastor, inspires listeners to confront fears and chase their dreams. He shares strategies on 'kissing the wave' to let go of the past and rewrite negative self-narratives. Mark reveals his personal definition of success, which prioritizes family over societal accolades, and highlights the role of gratitude in daily life. He encourages embracing authenticity and self-discovery, reminding everyone that failures can lead to significant personal growth. Get ready to unlock your potential!

Have you ever let your identity or self worth get tied up in your golf score? Have you ever listened to too many voices directing you on what to do next?  Today we get to spend time with Joanna Coe, a Teaching Professional at Merion Golf Club. In our time together, we will dicuss: Joanna's transition from playing professional to teaching professional The struggle in not letting your golf score define who you are How to build a bubble to not let too many voices direct your future How parents can best support their junior golfers If you would like to connect with Chandler, you can: Send a direct email: podcast@archive22.com Visit his Instagram: @chandlerwithington or LinkedIn Shop his hand drawn artwrok at www.archive22.com Music Credits: Opening and Transitions: 'Favorite Song' by Ben Rector Closing: 'Almost Home' by Ben Rector  

In this episode, Chandler shares the inspiration behind why he named this podcast 'The Inward Nine'.  No notes or clues - you will have to listen to find out!  To connect more with Chandler: You can visit his Instagram (@chandlerwithington) or Linked In Send him an email: podcast@archive22.com Shop his hand drawn artwork at the Archive 22 website - www.archive22.com Music Credits: Opening: 'What Makes a Man' by Ben Rector and Thomas Rhett 'Linger' (Instrumental) by The Cranberries 'Have You Ever Been in Love?' (Instrumental) by Celene Dion Closing: "Praying for Me' by Ben Rector

If you are over the age of 40, do you remember where you were on June 17, 1994? On course golf commentator and analyst Mark Rolfing joins The Inward Nine to relive the events of one of the most chaotic days in all of sports through his perspective. On this day, Mark was at Oakmont Country Club covering the 2nd round of the 94th U.S. Open. Elsewhere across the country: The New York Rangers were preparing to parade down Broadway in New York City after ending their 54 year championship drought.  The first game of the World Cup of Soccer was set to be played in Chicago at 3 PM eastern time. This was the first ever World Cup being played in the United States.  In Kansas City, Ken Griffey Jr. hit his 30th home run of the season, to become the fastest player to 30 home runs since Babe Ruth.  Back in New York City, the New York Knicks were set to host the Houston Rockets in Game 5 of the NBA Finals. The Knicks had not won a championship since 1972.  Each of these stories would soon take a backseat to the news coming out of Los Angeles where the Los Angeles Police Department had issued a warrant for the arrest of O.J. Simpson in connection with the murders of Nicole Brown Simpson and Ronald Goldman. When Simpson failed to turn himself in and his whereabouts became unknown, it set of a chain of events which are unforgettable to this day.  As for Rolfing, his day at Oakmont would culminate with one of the most memorable interviews in golf, as the 2nd round at Oakmont was the final round in a U.S. Open for golfing legend Arnold Palmer.  Join Mark and myself for this walk down memory lane during one of the most remarkable days in sports.     

Have you ever wondered how some of the most successful people in the golf industry got to where they are today?  How exactly did a young man who grew up in central Maine and didn't begin playing golf until the age of 13 end up replacing one of the most recognizable club pro's at Oakmont Country Club?  Today we get to learn about the journey of Oakmont's Head Professional, Devin Gee.  In our time together, we will learn: How Oakmont prepared and supported Devin to take over for Bob Ford in 2017 How Devin proactively manages his time About the book Devin read that has allowed him to discover greater focus and to eliminate distractions How Devin has managed the expectations of the Oakmont members around numerous projects throughout the Club leading up to the U.S. Open Devin's advice to the next generation of golf professionals If you would like to connect further with Chandler, you can: Message him on either his LinkedIn or Instagram page Send him a direct email, podcast@archive22.com Visit his website, www.archive22.com Music Credits:  Opening: 'Old Friends' - Ben Rector Closing: 'Almost Home' - Ben Rector  

On this episode, we begin our ascent towards the 125th United States Open at Oakmont Country Club by spending time with the golf professional who was its guardian for 37 years from 1979 to 2016, Bob Ford.  The list of accolades Bob has accomplished over his illustrious career could fill a book. Simply put, he is known as one of the best to ever hold the position of head golf professional.  In this episode we will:  Learn the unconventional path Bob took to becoming the head professional at Oakmont at the age of 25.  Discover why Oakmont decided to remove a majority of their trees, starting in the late 90's.  Understand how Bob was able to not only host the 1983 U.S. Open, but also compete in it as a player.  Learn about Bob's approach as an award winning teacher.  Comprehend the importance of engaging those around you.  Hear Bob's advice for the next generation.  If you would like to connect further with Chandler: You can visit his Instagram or LinkedIn files.  Send him a direct email at: podcast@archive22.com Visit the Archive 22 website.  Music Credits:  Opening: 'Old Friends' Instrumental by Ben Rector Closing: 'Almost Home' by Ben Rector