The Retirement Wisdom Podcast

Top financial advisor Scott Hanson from Allworth Financial discusses the Four Pillars of Successful Retirement, focusing on health, finance, relationships, and purpose. He shares insights on financial trends, foster youth support, intentional retirement planning, and navigating financial challenges.

What are you retiring to? Don’t drift into it. Design it. Join us in the next Design Your New Life in Retirement group program starting April 26th. __________________________ I’ve just completed my second year as a grandfather. Like anyone finishing their sophomore year, I know twice as much as I did a year ago, but still have a lot to learn. In my quest to learn more, I came across this article in the New York Times – How to be a Better Grandfather – and discovered Ted Page. When he became a grandfather at 55, he looked online for guidance and discovered – well, not much. So he created the website and blog Good Grandpa. Ted’s writing a book that’s coming out next year sharing stories and wisdom from grandfathers on the #1 thing they’ve learned that will help nurture the next generation. Ted Page joins us from Massachusettts. ________________________ Bio Ted Page is the creator and editor of Good Grandpa. Ted Page is a storyteller, performer and marketing executive. His non-fiction stories have appeared in Boston Magazine and the Boston Sunday Globe Magazine, and his book of true family stories, The Willoughby Chronicles, was published by 3 Swallys Press in 2017. Ted is a Co-Founder of Captains of Industry, a leading boutique marketing consultancy based in Boston. Ted won a Telly award for The Institute for Back-up Trauma, starring John Cleese—who looks stunning in a red dress. Ted and his colleagues at Captains of Industry created The Climate Declaration for CERES, which was signed by over 1,700 corporations globally including Apple, Nike, Starbucks, GM and Levis. Ted lives outside Boston with his wife, Nancy, who continues to put up with him after 35 years. They have two children and four grandchildren. _________________________ For More on Ted Page GoodGrandpa.com What’s the #1 thing you’ve learned that can  help the next generation? Contact Ted Page: ted@goodgrandpa.com _________________________ Mentioned in This Episode The Parrot Sketch ________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like The Long Distance Grandparent – Kerry Byrne PhD The Mindful Grandparent – Dr. Shirley Showalter _________________________ Wise Quotes On the Next Generation “The mission of the blog is to nurture the next great generation. So I’m a Boomer, sort of at the tail end of the Baby Boomers, born in 1959. And for us, we always just kind of looked up to our parents as what Tom Brokaw had dubbed the Greatest Generation. He wrote this terrific book, The Greatest Generation, and that’s very understandable. They won World War II, they survived The Great Depression. They were great. They were fantastic. And I revered my father and mother. I revered the one grandfather that I knew. But when I saw these little kids starting to appear on the scene, our grandkids, I thought: What if they’re going to be the greatest generation of all time? And what can we do to help them become the greatest generation, not just here in the United States, but around the world. We have tools that our parents didn’t have.” On Continuous Learning “But then of course, I said, Well, John, let me tell you what I’m up to. I’m writing a book and I’m gathering wisdom from elders and asking everyone what the number 1 piece of wisdom is – and he just jumped in and he said, ‘Well, that’s easy. I’ll tell you.’ And I’m like: Great! Mr. John Cleese, one of the greats, is going to share his number one thing. And he said: ‘It’s more important to find the truth that it is to know the truth.’ And when I asked him to unpack that a little bit, he said, well, Newtonian mathematics and physics was accepted without question for hundreds of years. And that along comes Einstein, and it’s all upended. And then just within Einstein’s life, there’s quantum physics. It’s the constant learning that matters. It’s the seeking the truth. And sometimes when you believe something’s the truth, it blocks you off from continuous learning and exploration. So that conversation with John was kind of back to back with interview with Tom Brokaw at the early stages of writing this book, which is not coming out until a little bit later in 2025. But my process changed for writing the book because it’s about seeking. It’s about the learning versus me saying, look, here’s the truth, because we can all find our own truth in this, the one that matters most to us.”   On Wisdom “And we were down in the water by the beach, and I had just found out I was going to be a grandfather. So just in passing, talking to Aunt Lois who’s wearing these big pink sort of Jackie Onassis sunglasses, I said, Lois, how can I be a better grandfather? And she didn’t skip a beat. She just said: ‘Be there for them.’ And it’s interesting you used the word distilled wisdom earlier, because I was thinking, that’s just the first part of what she’s going to tell me, right? There’s going to be this whole speech after this. And I kept waiting and she said: ‘No, just be there.’ A lot of times the people who have the best wisdom say it in fewer words….I owe a gratitude to Aunt Lois, and to all the grandmothers out there, because it is one thing to hear something. It’s another thing to actually listen. And I hope that everyone has a chance to listen to Aunt Lois.” ____________________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1.2 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.    

Today’s Building Block: Wellness What will your life in retirement really be like? Will you flourish or languish? Our guest today is Corey Keyes, a renowned expert and author of the groundbreaking book Languishing: How to Feel Alive Again in a World That Wears Us Down. Corey explains what languishing is and the five essential “vitamins” for flourishing, derived from extensive research, offering practical strategies to improve well-being. Corey Keyes joins us from North Carolina. _________________________ Bio Corey Keyes is professor emeritus of Sociology at Emory University in Atlanta, GA where he held the Winship Distinguished Research Professorship. He was a member of the prestigious MacArthur Foundation Research Network on Successful Aging. He has been called on to participate in several U.S. National Academies of Science initiatives – “The Future of Human Healthspan” and improving national statistics to measure recovery from mental illness. His research introduced the concepts of social well-being, flourishing, languishing, the two continua model of mental health and illness, and his work is being used to prevent mental illness via the promotion of positive (flourishing) mental health. He has been selected to give several honorary lectureships, including the Dorosin Memorial Lecture for the National College Health Association, The Chesley Lecture on Aging at Minnesota State University, and the Anita Spenser Lectureship in Clinical Behavioral Sciences at McMaster University. _________________________ For More on Corey Keyes Languishing: How to Feel Alive Again in a World That Wears Us Down _________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like The Mindful Body – Ellen Langer The Self-Healing Mind – Gregory Scott Brown, M.D. Chatter & Your Inner Voice – Ethan Kross The Power of Fun – Catherine Price ______________________ Wise Quotes On Flourishing and Languishing “….the good news is that flourishing is at its peak during what most of us would consider the first decade of retirement. So roughly between 60 to 74, it is at its peak and before you retire and throughout your adult working phase, it starts out pretty low in early to late twenties, but it’s steadily increases and increases so that as you get settled into your career and become senior and established, you tend to on average leave your career on a high note. You’re flourishing, but it gets better. And that’s the point I want to make, that it’s the first decade at least of retirement. People are doing really well on average. It’s the problems that come with if we live long enough. And by that I mean roughly past the age of 75 plus and more and more of us are. We see a downturn in flourishing and an increase in languishing towards the end of life.” On Activities That Promote Flourishing “… five of the activities stood out among people who were flourishing, who they did more of the following. They engaged in more forms of helping behavior. It might be volunteering, helping people, or even living your purpose. Go out there and help someone or help something in the world and make it better. The second vitamin, that flourishers did more of was that they connected, prioritizing warm, trusting relationships. Relationships where they had a sense of belonging, where they were part of a community and relationships where they mattered. And by that I meant they were needed. And in my measurement of flourishing, the sense of contributing worth and value to the world is baked into flourishing. So the second thing they did more of was connect around warmth, trust, belonging, and mattering. The third was they were very active in learning something new and prioritizing personal growth. And I tend to think of this passion for learning. And again, this was not something you learned because you had to or it was work related. It could be work related of course. But when people have to learn and do it, much like many of my former college students, you would think college students are the happiest. They’re always learning something new, but they have to, so they don’t get the joy out of that learning and growth. That’s sort of like our version of photosynthesis. What plants do with the sun, human beings come alive when they’re engaged in some form of learning and growth. So that was the third category. The fourth was what I call transcending. And by that I mean spirituality and religion. People were engaged. Now again, you don’t have to be religious or even spiritual to benefit from this lesson, but what people were doing was engaging in some form of ritual or practice on a regular basis that had what we would consider a spiritual component. And for me, that’s always been yoga. Now again, you can do yoga and just do the poses and not get involved in all the spirituality, but I’m here to tell you that research shows you’ll get a lot more bang for your buck if you don’t just go and do the poses.” On Purpose “The reason I talked a lot about purpose in that chapter on helping is because that is the nature of a purpose. I have two very simple questions. I ask my readers, do you want to help someone or something and focus and make the world a better place through your activity? Yes or no? And if you say no to that, you don’t have the time or interest, don’t sweat this notion. Don’t even bother with the purpose. The purpose is built on trying to help someone or something in the world and improve it or leave it in better shape than what you found it. And then it’s not enough just to say, yes, I want to do that, but do you have the resources, the talent, the skill, the time, and can you get to the place where you need to do your purpose? Is transportation for instance, readily available? Can you drive or can you hitch a ride? There’s all kinds of practical things that you’ll need to think about, and that’s why I also recommend that when you think about helping, volunteering or living your purpose, think small. Small is big. And by that, I think we sometimes see so many of the tragic things on the news and we want to get right in there and solve the problem in the Middle East or refugees or there’s nothing wrong with that, but my chances are your purpose doesn’t have to be that enormous. It could be picking something very local and in your community so that you can actually do more of what and actually do some face-to-face work. And you said consistency earlier. It’s true. The research shows very clearly keeping up the habit of helping and then living your purpose is very important. And that’s why I say small is big, because if you keep local and focus on something that’s nearby something or someone that needs help, you’re much more likely to do it more consistently.” ______________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1.2 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy. _______________________ The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Retirement Wisdom Podcast are solely those of the guests and do not reflect the opinion of the host or Retirement Wisdom, LLC. The Retirement Wisdom Podcast primarily covers the non-financial aspects of retirement. From time to time we may invite guests who discuss other aspects of retirement planning, solely for educational purposes. Listeners are advised to consult qualified financial and/or medical professionals on those matters.  

Don’t drift into your retirement. Design it. Join us in the next Design Your New Life in Retirement group program starting April 26. _____________________ Who knows more about whether or not you’re ready to retire? Your financial advisor – or you? While you’re diligently planning for your retirement and dreaming to retire happy, the retirement landscape keeps evolving around you. Let’s take a look at what’s happening in the world of retirement with Nate Miles of Allspring Global Investments. He joins us to the discuss key trends highlighted in their latest study on retirement, including happiness in retirement, retirement readiness, what retirees regret – and more. Nate Miles joins us from North Carolina. ___________________ Bio Nathaniel (Nate) Miles is head of Global Client Strategy at Allspring Global Investments. As the leader of this business, Nate leads a team of investment specialists centered on client-type expertise, which enables Allspring to be more relevant and impactful with clients. Client-type areas of expertise include Defined Contribution, Pension/LDI, Insurance, Liquidity, Foundations and Endowments, and Wealth. Nate joined Allspring from its predecessor firm, Wells Fargo Asset Management (WFAM). He joined WFAM from WisdomTree Asset Management, where he served as U.S. head of retirement solutions. In this capacity, he oversaw the creation and execution of marketing strategies and distribution for retirement business across all platforms. Prior to this, Nate worked as a managing director at State Street Global Advisors and as head of U.S. investment strategy with its defined contribution team, where he began his investment industry career in 2005. Nate earned a bachelor’s degree in economics and financial management with honors from Wilfrid Laurier University. He has earned the right to use the Chartered Financial Analyst® (CFA®) designation and is a member of CFA Society Boston. _________________________ For More on Nate Miles  The 21st annual Allspring Global Investments Retirement Survey: A Clear Vision of Retirement Allspring Global Investments _________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like Life in Retirement: Expectations & Realities – Catherine Collinson Retire Happy – Dr. Catherine Sanderson _________________________ Wise Quotes  On Happiness in Retirement “The one thing that we found out every year is our study says and relates how happy retirees are. So that wasn’t new, but we are trying to get to the why. And one of the things we found this year for the first time was that on average retirees could have their spending decline by 25% before it significantly impacted their happiness. So that was a bigger number than I expected, but was corroborated by the fact that when we asked them about their spending on things like their needs, wants and wishes, that only tallied up about 64% of total income. So those numbers actually jive together and I think are a nice story and a nice finding from this study.” On Retirement Readiness “Advisors ranked their clients as 40% of them being generally ready for retirement. Near retirees were down below 40%. So there was actually a positive spread. I would say advisors believed them to be a little more prepared, but retirees were up around 77%, so clearly much happier. So overall we had advisors at about 50% of their client base being ready for retirement versus a total population of 64%. But that’s really broken down between those two groups where the retirees were much more confident than near retirees.” On Regrets “It was a little bit harder to find regrets because our retirees tend to be generally pretty happy. They don’t tend to have much complaint about retirement. It is generally better than they expected.  One was the too early crowd. We saw some that retired before age 50, 38% suggested that it was too early. They wished they would’ve hung on and worked a little bit longer. So yes, they were able to retire, but I think they thought there’s probably more that they could have done in the workforce and it had that social component to it and could’ve stayed a little bit longer.” So that was one in terms of retiring too early and when they did state they retired too early, it was five years too early.” ___________________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host  Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1.2 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy. _______________________ The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Retirement Wisdom Podcast are solely those of the guests and do not reflect the opinion of the host or Retirement Wisdom, LLC. The Retirement Wisdom Podcast primarily covers the non-financial aspects of retirement. From time to time we may invite guests who discuss other aspects of retirement planning, solely for educational purposes. Listeners are advised to consult qualified financial and/or medical professionals on those matters.  

Looking for an active retirement? Design it with others. Join us in the next Design Your New Life in Retirement group program starting April 26. Today’s Building Blocks: Fun and Wellness Spring is right around the corner and it’s a great time to explore new outdoor activities and re-energize your routines by trying something new. Caroline Paul’s newest book, Tough Broad: From Boogie Boarding to Wing Walking — How Outdoor Adventure Improves Our Lives As We Age, delves into the science and psychology of the outdoors – and our place in it as we age with real-life stories of women living it today. Caroline Paul joins us from San Francisco. ________________________ Bio Caroline Paul has always filled her life with adventure. Now 60, she expects this new stage of life to be every bit as invigorating and full of high adrenalin escapades as the last. But as she skateboards, paddles a SUP, or surfs in cold winter swell alongside many men her age, she sees fewer and fewer older women. Isn’t the outdoors a vital elixir? Shouldn’t adventure be something we pursue as we age? Caroline grew up in Connecticut, graduated from Stanford University and originally planned to be a documentary filmmaker. In her adult life, Caroline has been an extremely active athlete: she’s not only been a white-water raft guide and a private pilot, but also has competed in the U.S. Nationals for the sport of Luge, mountain-biked in such places as China and Vietnam, flown her para-glider in Brazil, sea-kayaked in Alaska, and skied the back country of Denali and the Sierras. One of the first women to join the San Francisco Fire Department, Caroline wrote the book, “Fighting Fire“, about her experiences as a firefighter; this book was published, to great acclaim, in 1998. Caroline is also the author of the New York Times bestseller “The Gutsy Girl: Escapades for Your Life of Epic Adventure” and “Lost Cat: A True Story of Love, Desperation, and GPS Technology“, which has been translated into fifteen languages, the middle-grade book “You Are Mighty: A Guide to Changing the World“, and the novel “East Wind, Rain”. Her TED Talk, “To Raise Brave Girls, Encourage Adventure,” has been viewed over 2 million times. A longtime member of the Writers Grotto, she lives in San Francisco. ________________________ For More on Caroline Paul  Tough Broad: From Boogie Boarding to Wing Walking — How Outdoor Adventure Improves Our Lives As We Age carolinepaul.com ________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like The Joy of Movement – Kelly McGonigal The Mindful Body – Ellen Langer Growing Old, Staying Rad – Steven Kotler The Power of Fun – Catherine Price ________________________ Mentioned in This Episode https://www.retirementwisdom.com/podcasts/breaking-the-age-code-dr-becca-levy/ Caroline Paul on The Tim Ferris Show (2016) ________________________ Wise Quotes On Outdoor Adventure “Everything about outdoor adventure hits all the pillars that we need for fulfilling aging and – all in one fell swoop. So I realized during the research of this book that we need to have community as we age. We need to have purpose as we age. We need to have novelty. And of course there’s health. And then the final one, which is lesser known, is the positive mindset about our own aging. And if you go outside you actually in one fell swoop hit all of those.” On Awe “There was adrenaline, but that wasn’t the actual experience. And what I found was that what I was experiencing was awe. And by the time I handed in my book in there had been other books about it, but I did not know much about it at all when I was writing it. And I realized that awe is what you experience in the face of something bigger than you. And it’s mostly considered a religious word most of the time, but we’re bringing it more into our vocabulary. But all is something obviously that the outdoors often inspires and turns out it’s really good for you. They’ve shown that. They did a study in San Francisco where they asked people, older people 60 to 80 to take walks. But during those walks to look at everything with what they called childlike wonder. They call those awe walks. And then they sent out another control group. Those people just walk like we normally walk, which is thinking about our to-do lists and worrying about things and looking at our phone. And they found that the people who were on the awe walks looking around them with childlike wonder just changed markedly physiologically. Their immune systems were bolstered, their anxiety went down, they did tests to show they felt more compassion. They felt physically better. And there were all these metrics that people you can look into that are astonishing. And so it turns out that awe is really good for us and we should be seeking it more. And so of course, you don’t have to wing walk. Walking makes awe easier. It just happens. It blows your brain, but you can go outside and just practice awe by looking at things with that deep attention and wonderment.” On Novelty “I wanted to look into people learning something new at a later age. As we get to a certain age, we stop trying new things, partly because we know what we like, and there’s good in that. But in fact, novelty is really important for our brain as we age to stave off all the cognitive decline that we’re so worried about as well as for our emotional well-being, of course, and giving our lives purpose and spark. And so I thought, well, I think I’m going to go learn to fly a gyrocopter.” ________________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host  Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1.2 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy. _______________________ The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Retirement Wisdom Podcast are solely those of the guests and do not reflect the opinion of the host or Retirement Wisdom, LLC. The Retirement Wisdom Podcast primarily covers the non-financial aspects of retirement. From time to time we may invite guests who discuss other aspects of retirement planning, solely for educational purposes. Listeners are advised to consult qualified financial and/or medical professionals on those matters.

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Let’s delve into one of your most important and longest running relationships – your relationship with food. Like all relationships, it’s emotional. Dr. Jud Brewer joins us to discuss his new book The Hunger Habit:Why We Eat When We’re Not Hungry and How to Stop. He shares how to practice mindfulness, replace judgment with curiosity, change your habits and cultivate a healthier relationship with food. Dr. Jud Brewer joins us from Rhode Island. _________________________ Bio Jud Brewer, MD, Ph.D. (“Dr. Jud”) is a New York Times best-selling author and thought leader in the field of habit change and the “science of self-mastery,” who blends over 20 years of experience with mindfulness training and a career in scientific research. He is passionate about understanding how our brains work, and how to use that knowledge to help people make deep, permanent change in their lives — with the goal of reducing suffering in the world at large. Dr. Jud is the director of research and innovation at Brown University’s Mindfulness Center, where he also serves as an associate professor in Behavioral and Social Sciences at the School of Public Health and Psychiatry at the School of Medicine at Brown University. Additionally, he is the executive medical director of behavioral health at Sharecare, the digital health company helping people manage all their health in one place, and a research affiliate at Massachusetts Institute of Technology. Previously, Dr. Jud held research and teaching positions at Yale University and the University of Massachusetts’ Center for Mindfulness. Read more about his research. As a psychiatrist and internationally known expert in mindfulness training for treating addictions, Dr. Jud has developed and tested novel mindfulness programs for habit change, including both in-person and app-based treatments for anxiety, emotional eating, and smoking (Unwinding Anxiety, Eat Right Now and Craving to Quit). Based on the success of these programs in the lab, he co-founded MindSciences, Inc. to create app-based digital therapeutic versions of these programs for a wider audience, working with individuals, corporations, and health systems to put effective, evidence-based behavior change guidance in the hands of people struggling with unwanted behaviors and “everyday addictions.” Sharecare, Inc. acquired MindSciences in 2020. Dr. Jud has also studied the underlying neural mechanisms of mindfulness using standard and real-time fMRI and EEG neurofeedback, adding to the understanding of the brain’s “Default Mode Network” and the role of the posterior cingulate cortex (PCC) in self-referential thinking.  He regularly gives talks on the intersection of modern science and ancient meditative practices, helping to expose a modern audience to specific techniques and insights first discovered 2,500 years ago. He has published numerous peer-reviewed articles and book chapters, trained US Olympic athletes and coaches, foreign government ministers and corporate leaders. His work has been featured on 60 Minutes, TED, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Today Show, TIME, The Washington Post, Forbes, CNN, BBC, NPR, and more. His work has been funded by the National Institutes of Health and American Heart Association, among others. In addition to The Hunger Habit: Why We Eat When We’re Not Hungry and How to Stop, he is the author of The Craving Mind: From Cigarettes to Smartphones to Love, Why We Get Hooked and How We Can Break Bad Habits (New Haven: Yale University Press, 2017) and the New York Times best-seller, Unwinding Anxiety: New Science Shows How to Break the Cycles of Worry and Fear to Heal Your Mind (Avery/Penguin Random House, 2021). Dr. Jud and his wife Mahri live in Massachusetts where they enjoy biking, hiking, and meditating with their cats, Samson, Ananda and Julian of Norwich. ______________________ For More on Dr. Jud Brewer The Hunger Habit:Why We Eat When We’re Not Hungry and How to Stop Dr. Jud.com ______________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like The Mindful Body – Ellen Langer Self-Compassion – Dr. Kristin Neff Tiny Habits Can Lead to Big Changes – BJ Fogg _______________________ Our second Design Your New Life in Retirement program of 2024 starts on April 26th – Learn more and join us _______________________ See our recommended Best Books for retirement here _______________________ Wise Quotes On Habit Loops “And the way it works is we get people to map out these habit loops. What type of food am I reaching for because I’m hungry or because I’m bored, sad, angry, tired, lonely? And just to put these into categories, the hunger out of true physiologic need is called homeostatic hunger. We’re out of homeostasis, out of balance. And that which is coming out of emotion. It’s a misnomer. I love the term because it’s a misnomer. It’s called hedonic hunger. We’re not hungry, but we’re eating because of an emotion. So when it comes to the latter, well, when it comes to either, we can start paying attention. And so we can just ask the question, why am I eating? Am I hungry or is it something else?” On Mindfulness “Here is how we break bad habits. And how this works is one simple ingredient which is paying attention. We have to pay attention to see that it’s really good or it’s really not so good. And in fact, my lab did a study so we could actually have people pay attention as they overeat. Are you ready for this? It only takes 10 to 15 times of somebody overeating for that reward value to drop below zero, and they start to shift that behavior. Notice how he didn’t mention the word willpower at all. This is about awareness and it doesn’t take that long, which is really good news.So mindfulness is a concept, and it can mean many things to many people…So here, mindfulness is like salt. It’s made up of different elements. The element of awareness is one, and the element of curiosity is another. So maybe salt’s a good analogy here. So you’ve got to be aware, but you also have to bring this attitude of curiosity for it to equal the compound of mindfulness. And so really it’s about this curious awareness…  So it’s really about paying attention.” On Growth Mindset “So often we get in the habit of beating ourselves up and judging ourselves, thinking that that’s going to propel us into behavior change. Well, in fact, what it does is it locks us into not being in a place where we can grow. It puts us into a fixed mindset instead of our growth mindset. So bringing kindness to every moment and every step of the journey is really important…I see people struggle with this all the time, change is scary because our brains don’t like change. And so just knowing that our brains going to resist because our brain is set up to say, Oh, this is different. Is it dangerous? And so looking around reminding ourselves, Yeah, this seems scary, but that’s just my survival brain saying, Hey, are you sure you want to do this? And then we can look around and reassure our brains, this isn’t dangerous. It might actually be anti-dangerous, it might be helpful and healthy. That can help us lean in. And the curiosity can go a long way for that as well. So we move into our growth zone instead of getting stuck in our panic zone.” ______________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host  Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.    

You’ll need more than a vision for a great retirement. Early Registration for our 2nd Design Your New Life in Retirement small group program of 2024 is now open. Starts on April 26th. Join us  _________________________ Today Building Blocks: Wellness and Work Is there something you love to do that could help others?  Harry King, 81, found a way to return to work part-time doing something he loves – helping others get fit. ________________________ Retiring? See our Best Books on Retirement here _________________________ For More on Harry King This 81-year-old fitness trainer rejoined the workforce after retirement: ‘We can do more than most people think we can do’ See Harry King & Team in Action on Good Morning America _________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like The Joy of Movement – Kelly McGonigal How to Get Stronger After 50 – Dave Durell The Unretirement Life – Richard Eisenberg ___________________________ Wise Quotes On Purpose “You’ve got to have a sense of purpose to get up every day. That’s important. If you can’t define that, you’re going to waste some valuable years. Our later years we can do so much and achieve so much and enjoy life so much. Look for things that you enjoy doing. Look for the things that affect you emotionally and define that purpose. Look for it and find it. What do you want to achieve?  What can you do to make the world a better place? And do it. If you can get paid for it, that’s great. If you do it as a volunteer, that’s great too.” On Challenge “We need to challenge ourselves on a regular basis. Let’s not be complacent with our lives. There’s so much out there, so much a life we have to live. And the more we challenge ourselves, those mountains we climb, not Everest, but the other mountains we have in front of us that we can climb, that make us stronger. Tthat makes us enjoy the victories and helps us enjoy the victories. We’ve got to pursue those things. That’s my philosophy.” On Working in Later Life “Just because we’re aging doesn’t mean we can’t do different jobs. Today, we age a whole lot stronger. I started to say slower, but our mental capacity is stronger. I think for the most part, we’re smarter. I think we’re stronger physically, or we can be, and we should be. We’re living longer, obviously, so let’s give us a chance to be productive as we age. Help that employer…be willing to take a chance on that older guy.” ____________________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host  Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

You’ll need more than a vision for a great retirement. Early Registration for our 2nd Design Your New Life in Retirement small group program of 2024 is now open. Starts on April 26th. Join us  ______________________ Who can benefit from your life story? What do you want your children and grandchildren to remember about you? The concept of legacy is being redefined and goes beyond financial assets to value hard earned life lessons and wisdom. Dr. Jandi Kelly, of A Talk to Remember, shares her insights on life purpose and ways to share your life story and wisdom across generations. Dr. Jandi Kelly joins us from Bend, Oregon. ________________________ Bio Dr. Jandi Kelly is the founder of A Talk to Remember, a boutique production company that helps families and organizations capture their legacies in documentary films and oral history projects. For the past fifteen years, Jandi has worked as a university researcher, instructor, and administrator at the University of Chicago, Northwestern University, and the University of Michigan. She received her Ph.D. in higher education from the University of Michigan and her academic scholarship focuses on the topics of teaching and learning, life purpose, and identity development. Her research has been featured in The Journal of Higher Education and other publications. Jandi and her family live in Bend, Oregon, where she serves on the board of trustees for an independent K-12 experiential learning school. ________________________ For More on Dr. Jandi Kelly A Talk to Remember  ________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like A Round of Golf with My Father – William Damon The Vintage Years – Dr. Francine Toder The New Age of Aging – Maddy Dychtwald Inward Traveler – Francine Toder PhD _________________________ Wise Quotes On Life Purpose “…it’s helpful to actually define what we mean by life purpose…One of the definitions that I really appreciate is how our talents that we enjoy using intersect with the need in the world or our community that we find to be personally meaningful. And what I really like about that definition is that unlike some specific personal goals that we may have, it extends beyond aims of personal meaning to a desire that we want to make a difference in the world. And so therefore, it’s self transcendent in nature. What the research demonstrates is that having a sense of purpose is associated with a host of benefits across the lifespan as well as later in life. When we think about how life purpose can be beneficial throughout our lives, one of the most overarching benefits is that it really helps us live with greater intentionality in how we spend our days and to remain true to ourselves while benefiting the greater good. And so, in a way, we can think about purpose as a guide that takes us in the right direction. And I know that you had one of your earlier conversations was with Bill Damon out of Stanford, the renowned developmental psychologist, and he likens purpose to an ultimate concern or a final answer to the question of why. So why am I doing this? Why am I striving to accomplish this end? And in that way, purpose is the reason behind our immediate goals, and it’s a motive that drives most of our daily behaviors.” On Storytelling  “…when we think about the contributions that we want to make through our stories, we not only have an ability to really impact youth when it comes to the wisdom that we’re passing on, but we also see as we tell our stories that our lives have purpose….And with that, when we think about the stories that we have and when we are afforded time, especially later in life, to really do an inventory of our life, we have an ability to carry our life lessons and experiences with us. And not only do we bring them with us, but they provide a rich opportunity for learning about how we might want to build a rewarding future and repeat some of the things that worked well in the past and maybe take a different path than where we may have misstepped in the past…75% of retirees across the US, as well as 83% of adult children have indicated that their memories, values and life lessons are the most important elements of their legacies that they want to pass on to loved ones. And it makes sense because in the long run, we can’t keep the money with us. It comes and it goes, and at the end of the day, it isn’t our house, it isn’t our property that is going to matter the most to us it’s our relationships and our values are what are really at the core of what matters.” On Celebrating Life Together “The Wall Street Journal recently published an article that one of adult children’s greatest regrets is that only one in three adults know the stories behind their parents’ accomplishments. And it’s something that I’m sure we’ve all heard, and when I talk to folks about what I do, I can’t tell you how many times I hear, I wish I just had five more minutes with my Mom, or I wish I would’ve asked Dad that question. And so I think that seeing that just sense of peace and relief that my parents’ story was down was definitely one of the greatest outcomes. And then also another thing that’s documented again and again in the literature is just the benefits of sharing our personal stories to strengthening our interpersonal relationships. So it’s not only a benefit for when we’re gone, but while we’re still here and how we can celebrate our lives together.” _________________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host  Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

Early Registration for our 2nd Design Your New Life in Retirement small group program of 2024 is now open ________________________ Aging in place? Downsizing? Decluttering? Moving? These topics can give pause to those of us of a certain age. Syndicated columnist and author Marni Jameson reframes those terms with an alternative choice: rightsizing. So forget downsizing. Instead focus on what is the right size home for your lifestyle going forward. And Marni Jameson expands the menu of options to include upsizing, same-sizing and bright-sizing as you consider where to live next. Marni Jameson joins us from Florida. _________________________ Bio Marni Jameson is the author of Rightsize Today to Create Your Best Life Tomorrow: A Motivational Guide for Those Seeking Their Ideal Home Later in Life. Marni is a nationally syndicated home-design columnist, award-winning journalist, speaker, and frequent TV guest. Her humorous and helpful column, “At Home with Marni Jameson,” appears weekly in two dozen papers nationwide, reaching several million readers and more through social media and her blog. Her fans include readers who have been following the author’s home adventures for two decades. She has been featured on such primetime shows as NBC Nightly News and Martha Stewart Living. As one reviewer wrote, “Think Erma Bombeck meets Rachael Ray in one humble yet helpful package.” She is the author of seven books, including Downsizing the Family Home: What to Save, What to Let Go, a #1 Amazon bestseller that won numerous awards. _________________________ For More on Marni Jameson Rightsize Today to Create Your Best Life Tomorrow: A Motivational Guide for Those Seeking Their Ideal Home Later in Life by Marni Jameson At Home with Marni Jameson _________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like Keep the Memories, Lose the Stuff – Matt Paxton Where to Retire – Silvia Ascarelli Where Will You Live Next? – Ryan Frederick Thriving in Place – Lisa Cini _________________________ Retiring soon? Visit our recommended Best Books on Retirement ____________________ Wise Quotes On Rightsizing “It’s really about what do you need in your life going forward. I like to define right-sizing as moving to or creating a home that is the perfect physical, emotional, social and financial fit. So I think about four puzzle pieces, the physical…the emotional… the social and  it’s got to be financially comfortable for you, obviously, or that’s not going to work. So all that has to click. What happens is that people get to the sort of freedom threshold, their late fifties, early sixties where they are no longer commuting to a job. They may have bought the house they live in because it was near their work or near their kids’ schools or the schools they wanted their kids to attend. And fast forward 20, 30 years we’re about where you are and the kids are out of the house. The schools don’t really matter to you anymore or at all, and you are working remotely or you’re retired or you’re planning to retire or you can work from anywhere. And so why are you living in this house that has five bedrooms and you still have your kids’ Cub Scout uniforms in the attic? I mean, this is nuts. So really start envisioning what would you do. What would it look like? What would your house be like? Do you want more bedrooms so you can have the grandkids stay with you? Do you want fewer because nobody’s coming anymore? You want to lock and go travel?” On Challenges in Rightsizing “The biggest obstacles I hear people have are it’s just too much trouble. I have too much furniture, or there are too many memories here. And this sort of complacency kicks in this inertia and people get weighed down by stuff. It makes me sad that their stuff would be preventing them from living their best life in the best place for them. But you look to a point, you need to learn how to let go and just keep evolving and stop living in the past and live for now and the future because darling, that’s all we’ve got.” On Upsizing & Same Sizing “The variety of ways to right size include is not limited to smaller, I had a couple…that had a beautiful house on the lake where they raised their kids and they had a lot of parties, but it was too big. After the kids left, they sold that house and bought two, they bought a small lock-up and go house in Florida where they’re from, and they bought another small house in Wisconsin where their first grandbaby was going to be born. So they now have two houses for the price of one. It’s worked beautifully for them. Others have upsized. They just really wanted that bigger house. They always lived a little too tight. The grandkids are coming. It’s actually a third of people who buy a house after age 55 upsize. Half, either same size or upsize. So that’s why it’s rightsizing. It’s not about downsizing, it’s really, really about what you need, what you can afford, and what’s a good fit.” ___________________________ About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one – on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host  Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1 million downloads. Business Insider has recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.