The Living Waters Podcast

"Judge not, lest you be judged" is often misunderstood. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about the criteria Jesus provided for judging by emphasizing the concept of being "measured." In ancient times, people used scales to measure grain, but tax collectors and Romans often tampered with these scales, leading to unjust measurements. Jesus warned against using unbalanced scales to judge others, implying we must hold ourselves to the same standard. It is impossible to make judgments without evaluating actions.When the guys talk about judging, they mean assessing someone's actions, not their motives. While it's essential to make judgment calls, Christians should be righteous and grounded in God's word. It's wrong to assume we know someone's internal motives, but believers can lovingly point out clear sins. Twisting scripture to avoid accountability is misguided. Chrisitains understand their own shortcomings and invite others to receive grace, rather than condemning them.Jesus clarified, rather than abolished, the law. God knows our hearts completely, and both believers and unbelievers must judge themselves before they stand in front of God. The Bible encourages us to discern good fruit from bad. Judging isn't about deciding someone’s eternal fate but evaluating their actions. This helps individuals recognize and correct their sins, fostering spiritual growth. Believers benefit from mutual accountability, as it helps produce good fruit. Spiritual stagnation often results from a lack of honest feedback. It's crucial to welcome constructive criticism and avoid hypocrisy, which requires an outside perspective to identify.Romans 10 illustrates improper judgment, advising against a judgmental spirit. Everyone's sanctification journey is unique, and non-sinful personal choices should be respected. Instead of criticizing, the guys encourage believers to ask questions and seek understanding. Judgmental attitudes are ugly and unproductive; we lack full knowledge and should mind our own business. There's only one true judge, and expecting others to conform to our standards is hypocritical.To close, the guys talk about some practical ways to avoid a judgeful spirit. Community provides counsel and support. Share opinions with humility and graciousness when asked, but avoid interfering in non-sin issues. Respect areas of liberty unless they lead to sin or stunt growth. Focus on your own sanctification and celebrate others’ strengths. Addressing personal shortcomings can keep us from meddling in others’ lives.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

This engaging discussion highlights the importance of cultivating a teachable heart. The hosts share insights on learning from everyone around us, emphasizing that pride often hinders our growth. Personal experiences illustrate the journey from overconfidence to humility. They stress the value of mentorship, genuine connections, and being open to feedback. The conversation also dives into the significance of prayer and scripture in gaining wisdom, urging listeners to actively seek opportunities for learning and embrace the lessons life offers.

Ray shares his insights on the joy of parenting, while E.Z. discusses effective guidance for children. Mark emphasizes preparing kids for adulthood with a strong spiritual foundation. Oscar lightly challenges contemporary parenting styles, advocating for open discussions about worldly lies. The group stresses the importance of engaging children in faith practices and teaching critical thinking. They unpack the significance of instilling work ethics and financial literacy, along with meaningful conversations about responsibilities, all rooted in biblical principles.

The podcast explores the impact of dreams in biblical times, how they can be influenced by cultural and personal factors, and the dangers of relying solely on dreams for guidance. It discusses the importance of keeping dreams in context and not giving them undue authority. Positive effects of dreams are highlighted, along with tips for dealing with impure dreams. The chapter descriptions include humorous anecdotes, discussions on magnets, book recommendations, and exploring dreams through a biblical lens.

The biggest problem in America isn't that people are overly healthy. The guys talk about how only a small percentage of Americans meet ideal standards for a healthy lifestyle. Most Americans live sedentary lives, but God designed us to be active. Historically, humans walked everywhere and engaged in physical labor, but modern conveniences mean we can meet our needs without leaving our homes, resulting in neglect of physical health.Health isn't just about weight, it's about the well-being of the body. Sometimes, society swings too far, suggesting that weight doesn't matter at all. Many theologians emphasize being embodied—caring for the body, mind, and soul to the glory of God. This holistic approach is part of our walk with the Lord. Our motives for physical activity also matter. We should aim to be our healthiest selves to bring glory to God. Our mental and physical well-being are interconnected; often, those struggling with mental illness are advised to get outside and exercise.E.Z. shares his personal experience of maintaining fitness into grandparenthood, highlighting the numerous benefits of exercise. Gluttony, which is a forgotten sin, is one that contributes to many health problems in America. If you know you need to improve your habits, start small. A morning walk, perhaps inviting your spouse to join, can significantly impact your health. Exercise helps prevent many medical conditions and offers stress relief. Oscar shares that he uses working out as a form of spiritual and mental therapy, focusing on the Lord during his sessions. Engaging in regular physical activity isn't just about personal gain; it enables us to fulfill our roles more effectively and live out our faith more fully. The connection between body, mind, and spirit underscores the importance of a holistic approach to health. Physical fitness enhances our ability to serve others and glorify God in all aspects of our lives. In conclusion, the pursuit of physical health is deeply intertwined with spiritual well-being. By recognizing our bodies as temples and taking steps to care for them, we honor the Creator and improve our quality of life. Simple changes, like choosing to be more active daily, can lead to significant improvements in health and well-being. Let's embrace a balanced approach to health, recognizing the profound connection between our physical and spiritual lives.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

In today’s ever-turbulent political climate, the intersection of faith and politics has become a topic of intense debate. Today’s conversation delves deep into this complex interplay, combining humor and heartfelt reflections to offer listeners a comprehensive exploration of how spirituality can thrive even in the most chaotic times.  Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar address political violence in light of the recent attempted assassination of Donald Trump. The hosts share personal anecdotes and scriptural references to emphasize the importance of maintaining a biblical worldview and trusting in God’s sovereignty during such tumultuous events. This discussion is not only timely but also crucial for understanding how Christians can navigate political chaos without losing their spiritual grounding.  The role of Christians in politics is another key topic explored. Drawing on historical and biblical examples like Daniel in Babylon and Joseph in Egypt, the guys argue that believers have a responsibility to promote righteousness and justice in the political sphere. However, they also caution against placing ultimate hope in political systems, urging listeners to keep their faith firmly rooted in God.  One of the most compelling parts of the episode is the discussion on the emotional allure of political fervor and its dangerous intertwining with faith and power. Reflecting on early Christian history, the hosts note how the church’s initial growth through hospitality and generosity eventually gave way to aggression and control. This serves as a cautionary tale, reminding Christians to balance their political engagement with a steadfast trust in God’s sovereignty. Finally, the discussion concludes with a powerful call to action, urging Christians to seek the welfare of their cities as encouraged by Jeremiah 29:7. While trusting in God’s sovereignty is essential, it is equally important to take action and influence policies in alignment with Christian values. This balanced approach serves as a guide for listeners seeking to navigate the complex relationship between faith and politics in a way that honors God and promotes justice.  Whether you’re grappling with how to respond to political violence, considering the role of Christians in politics, or seeking to balance your spiritual and political lives, this episode offers valuable insights and practical guidance. Don’t miss this enriching conversation that blends humor, sincerity, and deep reflection.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Explore the importance of being spiritually effective neighbors by engaging with our community through acts of kindness and hospitality. Learn how sharing homemade brownies or organizing block parties can lead to impactful discussions about faith. Emulate the early church's approach and bring the gospel message to our local neighborhoods, making a difference one simple gesture at a time.

It's tiring to constantly get worked up about other people's lives, trying to control their actions and beliefs. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar encourage believers to become disciplined in knowing when to keep quiet. The concept of leading a quiet life, minding our own business, and working with our hands serves as a witness to the gospel. Increasing knowledge can lead to sorrow, as Solomon experienced, surrounded by less wise people. When our children don't heed our advice, they often learn through hardships rather than through guidance. It's crucial to lay a foundation of what God calls us to be stewards of. A quiet life focuses on family, church, and neighbors, avoiding unnecessary anxiety. God didn't create us to be all-knowing, as our phones make us.E.Z. mentions Ray as an example of not meddling in people’s business. When E.Z. married Ray's daughter, Ray understood that they were their own family unit and refrained from interfering. A common issue for married couples involves handling holidays. Mark addresses this by giving his kids and their families the freedom to make their own choices without pressure, fostering closeness. Crowding someone only pushes them away.When we see people in our circle going through difficulties, do we wait for them to come to us? This depends on our hearts. A genuine desire to mind our own business naturally shows through. Being discerning is essential, but checking up on one another is good. It’s how we approach the person that matters. 1 Peter 4:15 highlights the seriousness of being a busybody, as it can destroy a family. The sin that causes us to meddle is often comparison, leading to legalism, pride, and hatred, making us feel more righteous than others.Ultimately, meddling violates love. Have we prayed for the person before talking about them? Have we earnestly prayed for their well-being? Convictions can be a challenging area. Some believers may struggle with listening to secular music but need to let others have their own experiences. However, if someone listens to vulgar music, it might be worth discussing. Our experiences differ, so we should give ourselves to prayer and encouragement. When approaching others, do so with a humble, gentle spirit, being a breath of fresh air to them.In summary, a quiet life that focuses on family, church, and neighbors helps us avoid unnecessary anxiety and meddling in others' affairs. By praying for others and approaching them with humility and gentleness, we can foster stronger relationships and live in a way that honors God.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar jump into the nuances of perfectionism and negligence. Perfectionism can be a challenging hurdle to overcome. Conversely, negligence can be equally harmful. There's a false doctrine of sinless perfectionism where a person craves holiness, beats themselves up over sin, and misinterprets scriptures, missing the full picture of what sin truly is. Sinless perfectionism suggests that one is no longer in need of God's grace, but striving for excellence is essential. Ray shares that many successes come amidst failures, illustrating the power of not being afraid to fail. Perfectionism can be inherently selfish, demanding unrealistic standards from others. This is particularly damaging to children, creating an environment where nothing feels good enough. E.Z. shares his personal experience of handling perfectionism with his children by focusing on rewarding their efforts instead of outcomes. The demand for perfection places pressure on young people, leading to widespread anxiety. Young women, in particular, compare themselves to a false perception of perfection, questioning God's creation in the process.Both perfectionism and negligence are dangerous. God calls us to be more like Him, but we need His grace to meet His perfect standards. While pursuing excellence, stumbling is part of the journey. Christians should strive for excellence, moving forward even after failures. Let your light shine before men, as it is a testimony to God’s work in you.Accepting our human frailty shifts our reliance from ourselves to God. Oscar shares his journey of trusting God while writing a book, emphasizing that God uses flawed individuals to accomplish His purposes. 2 Corinthians 5:10 encourages diligence against negligence, reminding us that we will give an account to God. It’s vital to examine our souls intensely to ensure that Christ is central in our lives. Being connected to God’s church is crucial. Loving God’s people requires being with them and engaging in the community. We often fail in our duty to study God’s word because it requires effort. If you believe that the Bible is the living word of God, you should be deeply engaged with it. In summary, both perfectionism and negligence are pitfalls to avoid. Embrace excellence with the understanding that grace covers our imperfections. Work hard, strive for the best, and allow room for God’s grace to shine through your efforts. This balance will enable you to live a life that honors God, encourages those around you, and fulfills your divine purpose.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Today Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar tackle the topic of feminism. It began as a movement for gender equality, initially seeking equal rights for women, such as voting, owning property, and having bank accounts. The second wave included the normalization of men participating in domestic tasks and introduced the sexual revolution. Third-wave feminism emphasized sexual empowerment, viewing sexuality as a tool for achieving personal goals. Currently, in the fourth wave, there is a push for women to dominate men, celebrate abortions, and seek greater freedom.At the core of feminism is the debate over gender roles. From a biblical perspective, there is no conflict; men and women are different by design. True liberation for women comes from freedom from sin. Christianity, especially in its early context, elevated women in a male-dominated Roman culture, offering a counter-cultural view that valued women highly. The biblical view is the safest and most dignifying for women, contrasting sharply with the sexual revolution, which the guys point out empowers abusive men rather than women.God’s design for gender roles assigns men as providers and women as nurturers. Feminism fosters a harsh spirit in women, deviating from their nurturing nature, which is seen as demonic. The family structure designed by God is portrayed as beautiful, and addressing this often meets resistance. The role of women as primary caregivers is emphasized, with concerns about the mental health impact when women are primary breadwinners. Ultimately, the discussion returns to God’s authority. Fourth-wave feminism is critiqued for suggesting that women's lack of success is due to men's behavior, prompting women to emulate those behaviors. This raises questions about the nature of freedom, which is defined not as doing whatever one wants but fulfilling one's intended purpose. True freedom is seen as doing what one is meant to do, which is loving God. The proliferation of gender identities is viewed as a symptom of a society that has removed God from the equation.The real agenda of feminism is to deny God, with radical feminists targeting the Church. Fifth-wave feminism encourages women to avoid marriage and motherhood. Christians are called to preach boldly, emulating the growth of the early Church in a non-Christian Rome. Believers are encouraged to study the Bible and learn the truth, standing against the modern feminist movement, which has drifted into insanity. In contrast, Christ is seen as elevating women, with true beauty found in fulfilling God's design for His glory.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro