

Relationship Truth: Unfiltered
Leslie Vernick
Relationship Truth: Unfiltered is a place for people of faith to find real answers when it comes to destructive relationships.
Leslie Vernick is the author of seven books, including the best-selling, ”The Emotionally Destructive Marriage.” She has dedicated her life to cutting through the religious confusion and teaching women to grow in their relationships: with God, with themselves, and with others.
Leslie Vernick is the author of seven books, including the best-selling, ”The Emotionally Destructive Marriage.” She has dedicated her life to cutting through the religious confusion and teaching women to grow in their relationships: with God, with themselves, and with others.
Episodes
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Oct 10, 2022 • 29min
”What Can I Do?” One Woman’s Story of Staying Well
Tami has been married for 32 years and has seven kids. Her relationship disappointing from the beginning but it eventually turned destructive. Tami's church was anything but helpful, leaving her feeling confused and alone.
In this episode Tami shares how she began to wake up to the abuse she was experiencing, her own destructive patterns, and how she is staying in her marriage and staying well.

Oct 3, 2022 • 60min
How Do I Know If This Relationship Is Dead?
This is a special audio version of a workshop Leslie conducted where she answers the questions, "How Long Do I Keep Trying?" and "How Do I Know if This Relationship is Dead?"
CLICK HERE for a free handout to take notes as you listen: leslievernick.com/webinarhandout
You'll also get a roadmap to rebuilding broken safety and trust.
Conquer doors are open for new members...but just for a short time. If you'd like to join Conquer, go to www.leslievernick.com/jointoday.

Sep 26, 2022 • 30min
A Story of Faith, Loss, and Learning
In this episode Leslie introduces you to a powerful member of her coaching team. Elise Berryhill shares, vulnerably, about her experience with grief and dealing with a family member entrenched in addiction.

Sep 19, 2022 • 46min
Healing From Emotional Abuse
In this episode Leslie shares stories you haven’t heard before about her personal experience with emotional abuse and the impact it had on her, even into adulthood.
Hear how Leslie dealt with her destructive mother, even into adulthood. And, learn how she found healing and the real, practical steps you can implement in your own healing journey.
Healing from Emotional Abuse: Three Practical Steps
“I’m lost. Where am I?” Re-educate yourself on what is healthy. Learn to identify your emotions so you can address them.
“What is my problem with their problem?” Identify and take responsibility for your problem, not your abuser’s problem. This will show you the work you need to do.
Recognize your limiting beliefs
“You can’t go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are and change the ending.” - C.S. Lewis
Join us for a free, private webinar on September 29th. Register at www.leslievernick.com/webinar
Leslie’s website: www.leslievernick.com
Leslie’s Blog: https://leslievernick.com/blog

Sep 12, 2022 • 34min
How I Accelerated My Healing From a Destructive Marriage
In this episode you'll meet Suzanne, a woman who didn't even recognize many of her habits as being the result of her destructive marriage. The product of an abusive home, she found it easy to believe her husband's behavior was her fault.
Four children and several decades later an event happened that opened Suzanne's eyes and set her on a course of real healing. You'll hear specific things she did and tips she has for you in finding healing from a destructive relationship.

Sep 6, 2022 • 46min
Advocating for Abuse Victims
Today’s guest is Joy Forrest, founder and Executive Director of Called to Peace Ministries and author of, “Called to Peace: A Survivor's Guide to Finding Peace and Healing After Domestic Abuse.”
To become an advocate, request a church partnership liaison or find personal support, go to www.calledtopeace.org

Aug 29, 2022 • 45min
Ready to Take a Chance Again?
How do you know when you're ready to date again?

Aug 22, 2022 • 27min
What My Mom’s Destructive Marriage Did to Me
Hannah is the daughter of Maureen from Episode 3, "Free After 41 Years." Hear Hannah describe what life was like growing up with her destructive father and how it impacted her as an adult.

Aug 15, 2022 • 53min
Dealing with Sexual Betrayal
Have you been impacted by sexual betrayal? Take the FREE QUIZ HERE: www.braveone.com/freequiz
Dr. Sherri Keffer knows - personally - the devastation of sexual betrayal.
In this episode Sherri tells her story and shares how denial and depression kept her from dealing with the truth of what was happening in her marriage.
Learn the TWO PILLARS every sexually betrayed partner needs.
Hear what you should do - and what you shouldn't do - when dealing with the sin of sexual betrayal.
Find out what you CAN DO - even when you don't know whether sexual betrayal has happened.
And, answer the questions, once and for all ... is it YOUR fault this happened? Is there anything you could have done to have prevented it?
Leslie and Sherri will also talk about how to talk to the kids when there's been sexual betrayal in the marriage.

Aug 8, 2022 • 31min
Three More Lies Christian Women Believe
In this episode we discover three more lies that Christian women often believe...lies that keep them stuck, afraid, and silent.
1. It's your fault your husband acts the way he does.
2. God hates all divorce.
3. If I try harder, he'll change.
To register for Leslie's live, free webinar, go to www.leslievernick.com/joinwebinar