The Pleasure Positive Podcast

Matriarchy does not mean a world where women rule over men. What we noticed in our research on matriarchal societies around the world—from the Bribri communities in Costa Rica to the Akan of Ghana—is that often men lead in important areas like politics or spirituality, and women are the central property owners. It’s a balance of power, rather than one gender dominating the other. Actually, it sounds a lot like—dun dun dun, dun dun dunnnnn...EQUALITY! Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As many of us have witnessed, social media can lead to family fights, problems with the boss, taxing our adrenal glands, and even a 50% rise of suicide rates amongst young women since social media became prevalent. BUT social media can also lead to reuniting long lost relatives, amazing nights out with friends, and even finding true love. So is it good or evil?  Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Life partner, main squeeze, friends with bennies, or one time hook-up—what dating app should you choose to meet your best match? Match? Or Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Field, The League, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish, Coffee, Bagels, OMG! So many! And once you’re there, how on Earth do you land your prey? Er, we mean uh, meet the person of your dreams. With Lindsey fresh out of a breakup with her long term live-in man, we decided we needed experts to craft the most informative episode on dating possible. So we brought in our resident app connoisseur Tamiko and one of our favorite men in the world “Jeremy” to share their tried and true methodologies to internet mating. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today we continue our Season 3 series inspired by the NY times bestselling book Sex At Dawn with a fascinating discussion on Indigenous sexual practices. But how different could they really be from Western mating rituals? As it turns out, very. From the ritualistic rape of men to teenage love huts to armpit sweat-soaked apple eating—we examine how modern-day tribal cultures get it on. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you one of those people pining away to unplug from your 24/7-desperate-every-man-for-themselves-survival-game? Ever fantasize about defecting to a permaculture ecovillage loaded with likeminded friends in a warm climate with a clean water source? Or are you one of those people who think, “Fack no, I’m not sharing my vegetable garden with a bunch of facking hippies!” (Insert spitting noise here.) Either way, you’re gonna love this episode of Clit Talk where we discuss boundaries, privacy, sharing resources, team breastfeeding, and the whole kit and caboodle of community living…or not. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You know how it goes. You’re so in love and so turned on by this person that you dive into a deep, bonded, steamy relationship full of giggles and snuggles and hot hot HOT SEX. And then...over time…you’re. just. not. that. interested. They lick your neck and you think “Ew, that’s wet.” Well, today our Pussy Posse takes an honest look at whether chemistry is something you can get back…or is it gone forever? Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Evolutionary psychologists break down a man’s sexual methodology as thus: men offer goods and services (food, shelter, protection, status, etc.) in exchange for exclusive, relatively consistent sexual access. Instead of bat around whether this theory is true or false amongst a bunch of babes, we decided to bring in some of our favorite men to break down why they really have sex…lust, legacy or love. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today we’re going to be discussing the historical attack on the female libido. According to the New York Times bestseller  Sex At Dawn, the perspective of evolutionary psychologists is that—for women—sex is all about security, not physical pleasure. And men spend their energy impressing women with fame, status, and power to convince coy females to part with their closely guarded sexual favors. Are these evolutionary psychologists dead right, or are they just stuck in antiquated ideas? Why do women fuck, really? Let’s discuss! Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the second episode of our series on the New York Times best seller Sex At Dawn, we ask some of our favorite men (gay, straight and in between) a big question—is lifelong traditional monogamy a powerful choice based in love or just some outdated societal programming? As the author points out in his book, one of the first things to go when Agriculturalism emerged was having sex with multiple partners as an accepted practice of many tribal societies. These communities were labeled by Christian Imperialists as sinful and barbaric, and an ownership model was implemented where men would marry women and essentially own them as chattel. This religion-enforced monogamy has led to rampant infidelity, sky high divorce rates, and a society ashamed to be honest about wanting anything outside of traditional monogamous relationships. So what’s the fix? Poly for All-y? Or figuring out how to stay put in one relationship FOREVERRRRRRRRRR? Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Welcome to Season 3 of Clit Talk where we return to our roots as a book club, featuring Christopher Ryan’s New York Times bestselling book Sex At Dawn.  In today’s episode, we begin with bonobos and the birth of Agriculturalism. That’s right, apes People. It turns out that human DNA differs from that of bonobos by only 1.6%. Sex At Dawn lays out the theory that before Agriculturalism, human tribes behaved just like our close cousins—living in interwoven communities and sharing everything from food to land to sexual partners. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices