We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Have you ever wondered what it's like to co-lead with family? Are you navigating a new partnership of some kind? Leadership is having influence over something, whether it's personal or professional. Matt Olthoff, a.k.a. my husband, and I co-lead The Father's House OC together. We are sharing our experiences and the lessons learned on: • Planting a church • Working together in partnership • What our leadership looks like • Defining individual responsibility Matt's heart for people makes him a great leader. His leadership has impacted me, in marriage and in building a church. We define what leadership is and how we're working together to redefine co-leadership in ministry as a couple. Creating equal opportunity for men and women in ministry is something we care about deeply. Matt empowers me to be a better leader and I am grateful for the journey we've been on. One thing we know for sure is that we are better together. My hope is that as you listen, you'll be able to hear a different perspective on co-leadership. Whether you're learning how to navigate working with people at your job or looking for ways to communicate better in your relationships, there's something for everyone in this podcast. God made us individually and with purpose and we all bring something different to the table. When we collaborate with others in the community, I believe that we can work at our best. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @MattOlthoff, we'd love to know how this episode spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever been hurt by someone gossiping about you? Are you guilty of talking about someone behind their back? Gossip is running rampant in today's world, both online and in person and we're going to tackle it in this episode. In this episode, I will:  Define gossip and different types of gossipers  Explain why we shouldn't gossip, from a biblical perspective  Why people may feel the need to gossip  How we can actively fight against gossip culture Gossip has become a part of everyday life, whether defined as a water cooler moment with colleagues in the office or chatting about someone else's business with friends. It can also be found online when scrolling through tabloids and social media. While it might seem innocent, it can be hurtful, lead to wild assumptions and cause division in relationships. I'll explain what gossip is and the damage it can cause. I’ll also cover what the Bible says about gossip as well as how gossip is showing up in the [capital C] Church. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll reflect on this topic and have the courage to call out gossip when you see it in real time. Let's instead be generous with encouragement, it goes much further and will have a positive impact on someone's life. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to know how this episode spoke to you! Love you, BRESOURCES/LINKSKeeping It G // Gossip + Guile // Issues We Don’t Talk About // Bianca OlthoffThis podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here.WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.orgMusic by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know God's true nature? Ever wondered how God sees you? Is there a God calling on your life? Lisa Bevere is joining me on the podcast to unpack all these topics. We dive deep into: • God's true nature • The power of your YES to God • Why it's important to speak the truth in love • Being anointed by God and working in partnership with Him Lisa is an author, a speaker, and a leader who has spent decades encouraging and empowering people to walk in their purpose. During our conversation, Lisa shares her thoughts on modern Christianity and the importance of knowing the Word of God. She speaks candidly about being anointed by God and working with Him on purpose and for His purpose. Lisa has her ear to the ground and isn't afraid to give us a reality check. Something I love about Lisa's writing and perspective is that it always speaks to God's true nature. It's the reminder that God made each of us uniquely and cultivated a specific purpose for each of our lives. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that you are a child of God and that you are significant. There’s an assignment on this earth that only you can fulfil. Tag us @biancaolthoff and @LisaBevere, we’d love to see what you're called to and what embracing God's plan looks like for you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS Lisa Bevere’s Devotional - Fiercely Loved: God's Wild Thoughts about You  Lisa Bevere’s Books WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a self-professed control freak? Does the thought of letting someone else take the lead stresses you out? Is there a strong inner critic that you constantly battle with? Sharon Hodde Miller is an author and a co-pastor alongside her husband. She has wrestled with control in the past and will share with us ways we can tackle our own need for control in an upfront but loving way. In this conversation, we talk about: • Defining control and our desire to be in control • Letting go of the need to control everything • The struggle of the inner critic • The power of our God-given agency Sharon shares her experiences in hopes of helping others navigate their relationship with control. She explains that there is power in letting go of control and learning to not be attached to outcomes. We also discuss establishing boundaries and embracing our God-given agency. As you listen, I hope you'll meet yourself with kindness and take a look at your relationship with control. While we can't control everything - we can be certain of one thing... God is perfect and makes no mistakes. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @sharonhmiller, we'd love to hear how this podcast spoke to you! Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS Sharon Hodde Miller’s Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises  WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel stuck through obligation and not obedience? Are you looking for ways to be more creative? Does it sometimes feel like no one understands your perspective? DOE is a singer-songwriter with a pastor's heart and her unique voice is what makes her unforgettable. In this conversation, we talk about: • Growing up in ministry and pursuing God's calling • Obligation vs obedience • Trusting God's character and the desires He placed in your heart • Creativity in all its forms • Making the most of your time while being single DOE is known for her unique voice and beautiful melodies, but she's also accomplished outside of her career in music. She's got three degrees, worked as a youth pastor and even has an Uber license! DOE speaks about a season of transition and stepping out as a solo artist. After spending much of her life in ministry with her family, she wanted to explore new things. What I love about DOE's story is that she embraced her individuality and knew that her differences were the very things God could use for His glory. I hope that as you listen, you'll reflect on the things you really want to do and then have the courage to boldly pursue them. Because where God guides, He provides! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @doejonesmusic, we'd love to learn about your God dream and the things that make you... YOU! Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Doe Jones Music Podcast music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered if there’s a correct way to pray? Do you sometimes wish there was a cheat sheet for prayer? Are you waiting for God to answer a specific prayer? Chad Veach is the faith-filled, fun-loving pastor of ZOE Church LA who can speak to all thing’s prayer. In this conversation, we talk about: • Understanding what prayer is and why we should pray • The ways God answers prayer • How prayer changes us individually • Embracing the blessings in our lives Chad is a church leader, author and friend who has a refreshing perspective on prayer that’s been cultivated through personal experience. During this episode, Chad lays out the formula for how to pray and reminds us why we should. He also speaks about the ways in which God responds to our prayers. Something I loved about this conversation was how practical it was - Chad shares ways in which we can be intentional with prayer in our daily lives. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that prayer is simply communication with God. Whether it’s through talking, journaling or walking, prayer changes us and makes us better. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @chadveach, we'd love to see what prayer looks like in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Chad Veach Book - Worried about Everything Because I Pray about Nothing: How to Live with Peace and Purpose Instead of Stress and Burnout Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why don't we talk about alcoholism in the church? Is there a way to overcome the shame we feel from addiction? Is there really a chance for wholeness and recovery? Irene Rollins is a pastor-turned-author who is shedding light on these topics and breaking the stigma around the church and its relationship with addiction issues. In this episode, I'm chatting with Irene about:  • Dealing with alcoholism in the church  • Identifying addiction issues and active recovery  • Having a safe community to heal with  • Supporting people impacted by addiction  Irene is in recovery from an alcohol addiction and has been sober for a number of years. She talks openly about how unresolved trauma, insecurity and a hard season of life led to a dependence on alcohol. During our conversation, Irene shares her story and how her issues with alcohol impacted her personal and professional life.  This conversation is shared with the intention of creating a dialogue around how the church deals with addiction issues. As you listen, I hope you'll see that help is available to those who need it and that recovery is possible with the right resources and support. So, whether you're looking for healing or trying to better understand how you can support someone through addiction, this episode is for you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @irenerollins, we'd love to find out how this podcast spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS Irene Rollins Book - Reframe Your Shame: Experience Freedom from What Holds You Back Treatment / Therapy Programs:  The Meadows Texas Celebrate Recovery Alcoholics Anonymous Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does the American Dream look like? How does a family build a legacy? Is there a way to fulfill the desires God put in your heart? Bricia Lopez can speak to all of this as a chef, author and entrepreneur who is bringing a taste of Mexico to mainstream food culture. In this episode, I'm chatting with Bricia about: · Her family and their American Dream · Growing up in Mexico and immigrating to the U.S. · Helping to establish a family business and building a legacy · Bringing Mexican culture into the U.S. and attaining mainstream accolade As we celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month on the podcast, I'm exploring the concept and realities of the American Dream with Bricia. During our conversation, Bricia shares the story of her family and how they established a successful Oaxacan restaurant in Los Angeles. She speaks openly about the challenges they faced along the way as well as the huge success they've attained for their authenticity. Something that's special about Bricia's perspective is that she continues to build her family's legacy alongside her siblings. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll learn about a new culture and that you'd give yourself permission to dream. Ideating is a free gift given to us and if God's put a desire in your heart, chances are you're the person to see it through to completion. Below you'll find one of Bricia's favorite recipes, so I'd love for you to recreate it and discover a tasty new Mexican dish. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @bricialopez, we'd love to see what food and dreams you cook up after this episode. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Oaxaca: Home Cooking from the Heart of Mexico  Salsa Borracha Recipe Ingredients · 1 pound tomatillos, husked and rinsed · 6 morita chiles (you may substitute with ¼ ounce chipotle chiles), destemmed · 2 cloves garlic, peeled · 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar · 2 tablespoons mezcal · 2 bay leaves · Sea salt Instructions · Preheat your oven’s broiler to its highest setting · Place the tomatillos on a baking sheet with a rim, on your broiler’s highest rack, and broil for 20 minutes, mixing them around at the 10-minute mark to make sure all of the tomatillos are cooking evenly. The tomatillos should be lightly charred and change color to a light yellow. Set aside. · Meanwhile, in a comal or cast-iron skillet over medium heat, toast the dried chiles and garlic until slightly charred and fragrant. This should take about 30 seconds for the chiles and about 5 minutes for the garlic. · Bring about a cup of water to a boil. Pour the boiling water into a bowl, add the toasted chiles, let them sit for about 20 minutes or until they are soft and tender. Drain and set aside. · In a blender, combine the reserved tomatillos, chiles, and garlic with the apple cider vinegar, mezcal, 2 tablespoons of water, and the bay leaves. Blend until smooth. Taste for salt and serve. · This salsa will stay fresh in the refrigerator for a week. Pollo Enchipotlado or Chicken in a Creamy Chipotle Sauce Recipe Ingredients · 1 (2 pound) whole chicken, butchered into 8 pieces · Sea salt · Black peppercorns, freshly ground · 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard · 5 ¼ cups chopped tomatoes · ½ small white onion, chopped · 4 cloves garlic, peeled · 1 tablespoon olive oil · 1 tablespoon butter · 3 whole chipotles in adobo, plus 2 tablespoons... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you in a season of discovering God’s plan for your life? Have you heard the term ‘living by my truth’ in mainstream media or on social media? Is the church struggling to clearly define God’s will? Jada Edwards is a straight-shooting, truth-telling, speaker, Bible teacher and author. She can speak to defining truth from a personal and biblical standpoint. In this conversation, we talk about: Defining truth in culture and on social media The danger of using the phrase ‘living my truth’ How to define truth as a Christian and understanding God’s will The importance of being led by the Holy Spirit Jada’s leadership and ministry have been a blessing to me and The Father’s House OC. She has her ear to the ground and communicates in an honest, direct and loving manner. Jada shares her thoughts on truth in culture and in the church. Throughout this podcast, Jada provides context and shares personal experiences in defining truth.As you listen, I hope you’ll begin to see what God’s truth is for your life. Jada is a friend and I trust that her thought leadership will encourage you to lean into what God wants for you. While it might not always be easy, there is peace and joy in fulfilling the call on your life friend! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @jada_edwards on social media. We’d love to know how this conversation has impacted you.Love you, BRESOURCES/LINKS Books by Jada Edwards The Jada Edwards PodcastMusic by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever grappled with lustful thoughts or actions? Do you struggle with intimacy and romantic connections? Are you wondering if there is redemption for you? Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett have both walked through these exact things. While their experiences are different, they both found wholeness through faith (and therapy). In this conversation, we talk about: • Male and female perspectives of struggling with lust and porn • The impact lust has on romantic relationships and expectations • Healing found through honest conversations and asking for help • Struggles and reality of being a Christian in today’s world Manda walked through a season of seeking external validation which led to infidelity in her marriage. She talks openly about the web of guilt and shame that kept her entangled. Manda shares how one honest conversation, led to healing and restoration in her marriage. Matt spent a number of years silently struggling with a desire to look at explicit content. After breaking the cycle, he began to live in wholeness and now helps others do the same. This conversation and space were created to shed light on a topic that so many struggle with. As you listen, I hope you’ll feel less alone or better equipped to help someone you know who is going through this. Remember that there’s freedom and grace found in the name of Jesus. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @mandacarpenter and @mattdroguett on social media. We’d love to hear how this episode spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Manda Carpenter’s book: Soul Care to Save Your Life Matt Droguett’s course: Ditch Porn and Reclaim Your Life & Use Code: TFHOC Women’s Conference at TFHOC – Breathe Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices