Do you feel like quitting something? Are you trying to discern if a season is ending? Is there a way to transition out of places well? Sometimes leaving is better than staying, whether it's in a church, job or relationship, but it's not always easy to go. In this podcast, I talk about: > Knowing when it's time to quit > The importance of self-awareness > Discerning your season and life transitions > Leaving situations and relationships with excellence Quitting is something no one likes to do, especially when it feels like you may have failed in some way. (I hate quitting, really, I even wrote a book called Grit, Don't Quit!) But sometimes, knowing when to leave something can create space for the new thing that God wants to do in your life. In this episode, I delve into one of the topics in my book and reflect on my own experiences of life transitions.  As you listen, there may be some tough questions that you have to ask yourself but sometimes you need to take a step of faith and trust God's timing! Remember that while leaving can be hard, there are still new people to meet, new places to explore and new experiences to have.  The best is yet to come, friend! Don't forget to tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS LAST CHANCE TO Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page.  ··········· WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ··········· Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ··········· Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ··········· Want to stay connected, join the community today. ··········· Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is there a past trauma affecting your life? Are you unsure how to respond to triggers that catch you off guard? You don’t have to go through this alone. Healing, redemption, and restoration are possible and Kobe Campbell will walk us through: - How to deal with uncomfortable emotions - Learning to identify the need behind our feelings - Developing an accurate view of who we are called to be Kobe teaches us to care about our mental and emotional health before we are in a crisis. When you are experiencing an emotion, it is indicating a need. Feelings are the check engine light of the soul. Pay attention to your feelings, they’re trying to tell you something. Healing from trauma is a process and we can lean on God and on professionals to help us through it.  Friend, you have the capacity to heal. Hold on to the good moments because healing can happen to you too! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @KobeCampbell_ and share with us how you are experiencing transformation! Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page.  ··········· GUEST Kobe Campbell Book: Why Am I Like This: How To Break Cycles, Heal From Trauma, And Restore Your Faith The Healing Circle Podcast Kobe’s Quotes Emotions are like the check engine light of the soul. We live in the stories we tell ourselves. You have to care about your mental and emotional health before you are in crisis. There's a difference between feeling a strong emotion that is uncomfortable and being triggered. Anger is an emotion that tells us that something sacred has been violated and that something needs to be protected.  An overlooked means of wounding someone is with words.  The words that people speak over us create the perception that we have of ourselves, and we live out of that perception. ··········· Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ··········· Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ··········· Want to stay connected, join the community today. ··········· WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ··········· Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have something special to offer the world? Are you wondering how you can live a life of impact? Is self-discipline something you wrestle with? Greatness isn't made overnight, it's built over time, and Rory Vaden has some useful principles that can help you get there. In this conversation, we talk about: Our God given individuality The power of self-discipline The importance of gaining clarity and having vision for your life Making the right choices daily and the long-term impact Rory is an author, speaker and visionary who helps people create strong personal brands. He talks about the power of finding our uniqueness and embracing how God made you. Rory reminds us of the importance of self-discipline and how it is a tool that can help us create the life we want to live. Throughout this podcast, we talk about having vision and goals for your life, and how it can bring clarity in our pursuit of success. As you listen, I hope you're taking notes and getting ready to apply this incredible advice from Rory, because it really can help you become a greater version of yourself. You're wonderfully and fearfully made, never forget that! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @roryvaden, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page.  ··········· Guest  Rory Vaden Rory's Books Rory on The Jasmine Star Show: How to Discover Your Uniqueness and Gain the Recognition You Deserve with Rory Vaden   Learn more about Rory Vaden at: freebrandcall.com/biancaolthoff How To Multiply Your Time | Rory Vaden TedTalk Quotables Easy short-term choices lead to difficult long-term consequences. Difficult short-term choices lead to easy long-term consequences. Procrastination and indulgence are really nothing more than creditors that charge us interest. The shortest most guaranteed path to greatness is to do the things you know you should be doing even when you don't feel like doing them. The amount of our endurance is directly proportionate to the clarity of our vision. Discipline goes dormant in the absence of a dream. Success is never owned, it's rented, and the rent is due every day. ··········· Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ··········· WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ··········· Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ··········· Want to stay connected, join the community today. ··········· Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you overwhelmed by your day-to-day schedule? Do you want to live a life with more compassion? Have you wondered if there's a way to manage all of your commitments? Life can be busy, but you can handle it, and Alli Worthington has some great advice! In this conversation, we talk about: • Modern motherhood • Putting yourself first and checking your emotional health • Practical ways to take care of yourself • The importance of friendship Alli is a wife, mom and entrepreneur, she's also been a great friend to me. Alli talks about the reality of being a modern woman and why it's important to address our mindset. She explains the power of shifting our perspective and how it can help with our wellbeing. We also talk about the ways our emotional health can impact all of our relationships and how to love and lead from a place of overflow. As you listen, I hope you remember that it's okay to put yourself first, you can't pour from an empty cup, so make sure you're full and whole. And even when it feels difficult, remember that you can replace the broken soundtracks, because God is working things out for you! You are brilliant and capable friend, never forget that! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @alliworthington, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page.  ··········· Alli Worthington’s website Alli’s Book: Remaining You While Raising Them   Alli’s Quotes: We are going to get burned out if we are not taking care of ourselves.  Self care has been hijacked by pedicures and bubble baths, but real self-care is conversations with friends, going for walks, and taking care of the little things that you need everyday.  God is always working things out for me. Joyce Meyer quote: The greatest gift that you can give your loved ones is the healthiest version of you.  ··········· Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ··········· Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ··········· Want to stay connected, join the community today. ··········· WGT email: ⁠⁠podcast@inthenameoflove.org⁠ ··········· Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if I told you that though life might feel like a dumpster bin fire right now, you can choose to remain and not quit. If you know me, I don't want to see anyone give up. In this season of We’re Going There, we will be exploring the theme of Resilience and how to develop the grit to press on. I want us to share practical tools and handles for you as we unpack together: What it means to be resilient What it means to be gritty What it looks like to persevere How you can care for yourself Life can get hard and I know that many of you out there are dealing with a lot of hurt and pain. I want you to remember that you are called to great things and you are stronger than you think. Choose to remain. Choose to love. Choose to have joy. Push off the feeling of quitting - GRIT DON’T QUIT! I’m excited for this new season, friends! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let me know how strong and gritty you really are! Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page. ••••• WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org••••• Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”••••• Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google••••• Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.••••• Want to stay connected, join the community today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you walking through a difficult season of life? Do you ever feel like people are focused on what's wrong, instead of what's right? Have you been asking God to bless you with something? We see all of this in Jabez's story, and I'll be diving deep into scripture for today's podcast. In this episode, I talk about:  My birthday and reflecting on this last year Jabez's story and the lessons we can learn from him  God answering prayers in the midst of our pain  Preparing for God's blessings  Nestled into two verses of scripture, in 1 Chronicles 4:9-10, we meet a man by the name of Jabez. He was a man named after pain, but he wasn't defined by it. In this podcast, I want to tell you more about the prayer that Jabez prayed and what we can learn from it. The people around Jabez discounted him but God never did, in fact, we see that Jabez was a man of honor who prepared for what he prayed for. As you listen, I hope you remember that God is for you and wants to see you win! When we pray, God hears us and goes before us. God is with you in the good and the bad. Jabez had a God-done-did-it testimony and I'm praying the same for you and for me in this next season. In the meantime, you can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn about what God has done, is doing and will do for you! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, “I gave birth to him in pain.” Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request. 1 Chronicles 4:9-10 NIV WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you listen to the dating bootcamp? Have you taken on the 30-day challenge? Are you online dating as a Christian? Dating can be hard work, but I've put together a helpful series to make it easier. After taking on the We're Going There dating challenge, Meagan is back with updates! In this podcast, we talk about:  Preparing to date well as a Christian  Looking for a relationship in the digital age  Lessons learned in the dating process  The dos and don'ts of dating apps Meagan took my advice, did the homework and went on multiple dates! In this episode, we unpack Meagan's dating adventures and what she's learned. We talk about her new experiences and the confidence Meagan gained from dating online. I also share my perspective on how to sparkle as a single person and how to interact on dating apps.  As you listen, I hope this encourages you to see singleness and Christianity in a new way. (It's only weird if you're weird!) If you're single, take notes and remember that while dating isn't always easy, it is possible to have a great experience. And if you're taken, listen in and see what you can learn, it could help you to support your friends in their singleness. I love LOVE and want Christians to date well.  Sparkle for Jesus, believe in your God-given confidence and show the world what you've got to offer! Have you taken on the 30-day dating challenge yet? You can tag @biancaolthoff and @meaganherself we’d love to learn more about your experience. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Follow Meagan @meaganherself or Season of You Podcast  Dating Bootcamp Day 1 Dating Bootcamp Day 2 Dating Bootcamp Day 3 WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What are you facing in life that is currently holding you back from hoping and dreaming? Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed and you are not able to face reality? What is it going to take for you to realize that something good is possible for you? I get it! Sometimes life can get overwhelming, and you might find yourself wondering why there are so many things against you. Life can get tough, but guess what, YOU are tough! Something that I’ve learned over the years is that everything that happens, good or bad, is all part of God’s purpose in forming your dreams. The things that you go through are all part of your purpose. God is able to align all of your victories and failures to His dream for you. Allow God to use His unlimited resources and power to get you through every season of life. Start hoping again now! Is it your time to have a praise party? Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let’s party together, friends! Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21 NIV WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Has disappointment ever set in because of something you had to lay down? Are you hesitant to dream big again? Are you finding it difficult to have hope for the future? If you have ever felt lost and wondered how to move forward in your journey after facing the loss of a dream, you’re not alone. If you are overwhelmed or afraid to hear the voice of God, this podcast is for you. Havilah Cunnington is a podcaster, creative, teaching pastor, wife, mom, and my Bible twin. Today she shares practical handles to help others learn how to hear from God and do big things. At the tender age of 17 she realized she could hear the voice of God. Even though this was a new and scary experience, she decided to develop her ability to help others. We will also talk more about: Dreaming about big things again Attributes to a God dream Markers that point us directly to the purpose of God Reframing and redefining our pain  Havilah has learned to use her pain to help others on their journey. Take some time to allow yourself to dream again. Your pain is not wasted, give it a purpose. Start your roadmap to an exciting new adventure and DREAM BIG again!  Did you find out what your marker for hearing from God is - Hearer, Seer, Knower or Feeler? Tag @HavilahCunnington and @BiancaOlthoff and let us know what it is.  Love you,  B  RESOURCES/LINKS  Havilah Cunnington: Website Books WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever doubted your gifts and abilities because you are a woman? Has it ever been difficult to rise to a leadership position in your career, as an entrepreneur or as a woman in ministry? Makayla and Valerie are young women with careers and businesses who also volunteer in ministry positions at The Father’s House OC. In this episode we touch on: Struggles using your gifts  Navigating overwhelm when serving  Rising up to your potential calling  I thought that being sensitive was a weakness that I had to repress. That, my friend, is a lie from the pit of hell. I want to encourage women to continue to use their gifts wherever God has placed them for their good and the benefit of the Kingdom of God. I will continue to share my story to help women go places that I never could. Don’t be ashamed of how God fashioned you. Maybe you are not in a leadership role, but whatever you are doing, do it with excellence. Embrace your God given femininity and step into whatever season you are in with strength and confidence. Let us know how you are owning your femininity by tagging @BiancaOlthoff @Makayylay and @Valortega Until next time, friends! Love, BRESOURCES/LINKS The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life Girl, Listen Podcast with Mak & ValWGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices