We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Are you going through a personal crisis that has been made public? Have you faced scrutiny because of it? Going through challenges and painful experiences is difficult. But know this, friend: YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Brandi Wilson is an author, coach, speaker, and my friend. We will listen to her personal journey of going through divorce and starting over. She discusses the challenges she faced as a pastor's wife and the public fallout of her marriage ending. For someone going through a divorce, maintaining a sense of self and direction amidst the turmoil of the process can be shattering. That’s why it’s important to take time for healing and to prioritize personal growth after a divorce. Finding hope and sense of restoration after the end of a significant relationship is possible. Healing will come and restoration is found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @lovebrandiwilson to share your experience.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSBrandi Wilson  https://lovebrandiwilson.com/ Books - Better Than Ok: Finding Hope and Healing After Your Marriage EndsQuoteA role in a title can be taken away, but no one can take God's call on your life but Him.Takeaways Divorce can be a challenging and painful experience, but it also offers an opportunity for personal growth and starting over. Supporting friends going through divorce requires empathy, patience, and allowing them to grieve and heal at their own pace. It is important to avoid speaking negatively about the ex-spouse in front of children and to create a safe and honest environment for them. Before starting to date again after divorce, it is crucial to take time to heal, seek therapy if needed, and focus on personal growth. God is with you in the midst of divorce and can bring healing, restoration, and a new beginning. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Listen & subscribe to The Best of You - https://tinyurl.com/TheBestOfYouPodcast⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know that food has the ability to elevate moods and foster connections? Are you ready to find healing and restoration in the kitchen?My friend and renowned chef, Aarti Sequeira, shares how she found her passion for cooking and how it can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Find out how: Food can lift spirits and bring people together Cooking as a reflection of life Finding peace in the kitchen You know that it’s always a party when Aarti is around! She shares a recipe for Persian Spinach and Eggs and encourages listeners to cook and share your creations with us by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @aartipaartipicsXOBRESOURCES/LINKSGuestAarti Sequeira BooksUnwind: A Devotional Cookbook for the Harried & HungryMy Family Recipe JournalAn American Kitchen with an Indian SoulEp 42: Soul Food for Your Ears with Aarti Sequeira Persian Spinach and Eggs Recipe VideoPersian Spinach and Eggs (Nargesi)Ingredients: 1 red onion, finely chopped 1 pound of baby spinach (or regular spinach), washed and drained 1/2 teaspoon turmeric Salt and pepper, to taste 1 to 2 large eggs per person Instructions: Heat olive oil in a large pan over medium heat. Sauté the chopped onion until it turns light and translucent. Add the spinach to the pan and cook until wilted (about 10 minutes). You might need to add the spinach in two batches. Cook until excess water evaporates. Season with turmeric, salt, and pepper. Create small wells in the spinach using a spoon and crack the eggs into these wells. Cover the pan and cook for a few minutes until the eggs reach your desired doneness. Serve the Persian Spinach and Eggs on its own or with some bread (such as lavash, barbari, Turkish pide, or pita bread). QuoteI'm constantly amazed, flabbergasted, humbled by the fact that, you know, the first thing that Jesus did for his disciples after he resurrected was to cook for them.Takeaways New beginnings can lead to unexpected and fulfilling paths. Mistakes in cooking can often lead to delicious surprises. Cooking can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Food has the power to lift spirits and bring people together. The transformative way that cooking brings joy to our lives.  ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert.This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have a calling as a woman in ministry or in leadership and are facing opposition and resistance? If God called you, He will make a way!I’m always in awe at the stories that I hear from other women in ministry. Some knew their calling from early on. Others, like me, found themselves “unintentionally” entering into ministry and how my ambitions and desires changed over time because of God’s call in my life. No one said this would be easy. That’s why I share my stories in order to encourage you. I remember how I: Faced rejection from seminary   Was asked to step down from leadership roles  Encountered opposition and resistance along the way Understood my calling and committed to personal growth Despite the challenges, I want you to know that if God calls you, He will make a way. My commitment is to God and to sharing His word. Don’t let difficulties discourage you from pursuing your calling. Stay away from comparison and surround yourself with truth-tellers that will help you persevere and not give up. Friend, it all starts with you. Remember: Be what you want to see! Share your story of perseverance by tagging me @biancaolthoff.XOBRESOURCES/LINKSBianca Juarez Olthoff - Women in MinistryQuoteDon't compare your calling to someone else's. Do what the Lord has called you to do and let Him do the rest. Takeaways God's calling often unfolds gradually and unexpectedly, and it may require us to step out of our comfort zones. Rejection and opposition can be discouraging, but they should not deter us from pursuing our calling. Women in ministry often face unique challenges and may encounter resistance from both men and women. If God calls you, He will make a way for you to fulfill your purpose. Preaching the word of God should be the focus, regardless of gender or societal expectations. Representation and inclusion are crucial in leadership spaces, and efforts should be made to invite and welcome diverse voices. Men should take responsibility for creating an inclusive and respectful environment for women in leadership. Women in leadership face unique challenges, including the pressure to navigate communication and appearance expectations. Leadership is not easy, but it requires perseverance and a commitment to personal growth. Women should find their voice and be patient, understanding that their calling may take time to fully develop. Surrounding oneself with truth-tellers and receiving constructive criticism is essential for personal and leadership growth. Individuals should strive to be the change they want to see in the world, creating a more inclusive and equitable environment. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by AquaTru. Get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com and use promo code WGTThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GOINGTHERE and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today to get 10% off your first month.⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Best-selling author and coach Mike Foster discusses unlocking emotional superpowers by understanding primal questions and needs. Discover how to shift behavior, build healthier relationships, and pursue personal growth. Uncover hidden programming, embrace primal power, and live authentically. Explore the importance of recognizing emotional triggers, overcoming challenges, and embracing abundance through faith.

How can faith help you heal from trauma and rebuild your life? What are some of the benefits of grieving and reframing pain after a collapse?My guest today is my friend Mike Noriega who shares his experience of starting over after facing trauma. Mike shares his story of the collapse of a building in Surfside, Florida, which resulted in the loss of his grandmother. He discusses the concept of: What is an uncollapsible soul Finding healing through grieving Finding comfort and strength in faith during this difficult time  Mike opens up about the collapse of his marriage and the healing process he went through. He emphasizes the importance of grief, community, and reframing pain in the journey of rebuilding after a collapse.Let Mike and I know how you are navigating difficult times by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @themikenoriega Love,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestMike NoriegaBook: Uncollapsable Soul: How Do You Endure a Broken Heart Without Crushing Your Spirit?” Website: uncollapsablesoul.com QuoteWhen you can go through things that will break your heart, but not allow them to break your spirit, when you don't allow something to go from being a life season to a life sentence, that's how you make your soul uncollapsible.Takeaways Facing trauma and starting over requires strength and faith. An uncollapsible soul is one that can endure pain and loss without losing hope or purpose. Grief and healing are essential steps in the process of rebuilding after a collapse. Community and connection play a crucial role in finding support and healing. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GOINGTHERE and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today to get 10% off your first month.This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you drawn to underdog stories like I am? Have you ever witnessed ordinary people who find themselves in extraordinary circumstances and rise to the occasion? You don’t want to miss out on this episode where I talk to Andy Erwin, producer of the film Ordinary Angels, about the uplifting and emotional film based on this true story. This is a story of a hairdresser who becomes a hero and a friend to a widowed father and his two daughters.Andrew and I discuss: The shift in faith-based films The impact of telling authentic stories The criticism and challenges faced by Christian films  Friends, we get the scoop on the story behind the film Ordinary Angels and how it came to be. Andrew tells us about the involvement of Dave Matthews and John Berg in championing the project. He also touches on the message of the film, which focuses on finding purpose and the church as a place of hope. I love to see excellence portrayed in faith-based films. That’s why I loved watching Ordinary Angels in theaters, and I hope you go watch it too! If you've seen the film, head on over to Instagram and let’s show Andrew some love. You can use #OrdinaryAngelsMovie and tag me @biancaolthoff and @KingdomStoryCompanyLove,BRESOURCES/LINKSOrdinary Angels will be available in theaters nationwide on February 23, 2024OrdinaryAngels.movieOfficial TrailerStarring: Hilary Swank, Alan Ritchson, Nancy Travis, Tamala Jones, Drew Powell, Amy Acker, Skywalker Hughes, Emily Mitchell Directed by: Jon GunnQuoteAll of us are messy. All of us are desperately in need of redemption and hope. Takeaways Faith-based films are experiencing a shift towards more authentic storytelling. The film 'Ordinary Angels' was inspired by a true story and championed by Dave Matthews and John Berg. The film explores the themes of purpose and the church as a place of hope. Christian films should strive for authenticity and not shy away from portraying real-life struggles. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHEREThis episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: R.A.D. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are there things in your life today that don’t align with your vision of tomorrow? What do you need to leave behind as you move forward into the future that God has for you? It’s hard to let go of things. Trust me, I know. It is important to realize that in order for us to experience personal growth and find spiritual success, we need to have necessary endings in our lives. Boundaries are necessary, and so are endings. That’s why today we will explore: The need to manage expectations and investments in our relationships The concept of pruning and setting boundaries The emotional epidemic of entitlement The dangers of enabling others If there is a relationship or a situation that is holding you back from reaching your best self, it’s time to let it go. Trust God and His plan for your life.If this series has made an impact in your life, share it with me by tagging me @biancaolthoff I Love you, friend,BRESOURCES/LINKSNecessary Endings // When to Say Good Bye // Boundary Lines // Bianca OlthoffQuoteIf somebody says that they love you, but they reject your boundaries, they're not for you.Takeaways Endings are hard, but they are necessary for growth and spiritual success. Setting boundaries is an act of love and self-care. Evaluate your expectations and investments in relationships. Letting go of relationships and situations that no longer fit your future is essential for personal growth and fulfilling God's plan for your life. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join the conversation on sexual boundaries from a Biblical perspective, exploring God's design, freedom from shame, and practical tips for singles and married couples. Discover the importance of respect, communication, and non-sexual intimacy in relationships. Embrace forgiveness and find healing through a personal relationship with Jesus. Let's redefine the narrative around sex and reclaim its sacredness.

Have you turned your boundary line into a boundary wall? If you find yourself lonely because of unrealistic boundaries, today you can take a sledge hammer and Bring.The.Wall.Down. I want us to have a real talk and address the issues of isolation and loneliness that many people experience. I want to emphasize: The importance of community and relationships The need for boundaries in friendships  The challenges that come with maintaining healthy relationships The different levels of friendships Friendship is not codependency In some cases we can find ourselves looking at our friends and thinking; “what the heck?” That’s because we don’t have a clear definition of what “friend" means and we’ve given access to the wrong people into our friendship circles. I want you to walk away knowing what friendship IS and IS NOT. Remember that true friendship and fulfillment can be found in Jesus.Tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know what healthy lines you’ve drawn in your life.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSFriends With Benefits // Relationship Boundaries // Bianca OlthoffTFHOC Miseducation of Love Series QuotePeople should be loved biblically, valued equally, but treated differently.TakeawaysThe benefits of community and relationships help against loneliness and isolationDifferent levels of friendship: casual, close & coreThe importance of investing in healthy friendships⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know how to establish healthy boundaries in your life? Are your boundaries clear to you and to others? Today we start a new series on just that!This week, I’ll be discussing the importance of drawing clear boundaries and how they can elevate your life. There have been instances where I have allowed my boundaries to be crossed - like a tiny incident I had at an airport. That and other experiences have taught me to be very aware of when my boundaries are being crossed. In this episode, you will walk away knowing: The need for clear boundaries Finding healing through grieving How God created boundaries to bring order out of chaos Consequences for broken boundaries We will also explore the different types of boundaries, including physical: sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial boundaries. Establishing healthy boundaries can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self.I encourage you to evaluate your own boundaries and seek God's guidance in establishing healthy boundaries in your life. Let me know what are some of the healthy boundaries you have established by tagging me @biancaolthoffLove,BRESOURCES/LINKSLove Lines // Personal Boundaries // Bianca Olthoff Takeaways Boundaries are not meant to limit us, but to elevate us. Boundaries define who we are and what we are willing to accept. Different types of boundaries include physical, sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial boundaries. Setting and maintaining boundaries requires self-awareness, communication, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Establishing healthy boundaries can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by AquaTru. Get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com and use promo code WGTThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GOINGTHERE and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today to get 10% off your first month.⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotifyGoogle⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices