We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship?Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages. We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us. Some key takeaways are: Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive. Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections. Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end. It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being. Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous. XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSCo-HostLauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/ Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4Resources Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202  Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies  Takeaways Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly. Friendship requires risk and investment. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored. Adaptability is crucial in friendships. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇So grateful to our sponsors!⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=sgf1iKWzQg6QzjEMEvuW2A ⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources ⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever faced a crisis that tested your resilience and self-awareness? Are you needing to find peace amidst the chaos of significant life changes?Joining me today again is my co-host and dear friend Lauren and together we explore the profound themes of mind shifts, grief, and new beginnings. This episode was very difficult to do, but I opened up about my personal journey through a major crisis following my divorce. We talk about important topics like: Leadership in Crisis: Bianca shares the raw and real challenges she faced while leading her church through a turbulent period. The Role of Therapy: The conversation delves into the necessity of therapy and its transformative power in processing grief and loss. Resilience and Self-Care: Bianca's journey emphasizes the importance of taking time for self-care and seeking help when needed, providing inspiration for others navigating their own struggles. Identity and Community: The episode highlights the importance of maintaining one’s identity outside of the church and the power of community in fostering personal growth. Intentional Relationships: The dialogue underscores the significance of intentional relationships and leadership development. Finding Peace Amidst Chaos: Bianca discusses her journey of self-discovery, grieving, and finding excitement in new beginnings within her church community. Friend, I want to highlight the importance of community support, self-awareness, and resilience during challenging times. Let us know if this episode has helped you find strength and hope through adversity by tagging and me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrousLove,BRESOURCES/LINKSCo-hostLauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/Watch the video on Youtube https://youtu.be/hg4QEoHYJywTakeaways Community support is crucial during challenging times. Leadership requires integrity and self-awareness. Therapy can provide necessary tools for healing. Loss can transform you into a stronger individual. It's important to have accountability in leadership. Navigating crises requires both personal and professional strategies. It's essential to have guardrails around your identity. Grieving is a necessary process that should not be rushed. New beginnings can emerge from grief and loss. Peace can coexist with chaos and uncertainty. Being vulnerable about struggles can foster deeper connections. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option https://amzn.to/3MO74OC⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq⋇So grateful to our sponsors!⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4Spotify ⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I’ve had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing. I’ve experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going.Some of the topics that we will highlight are: Navigating significant life changes The journey of self-discovery and healing The role of faith and community in difficult times Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce The importance of accountability and community support Experiencing God's provision and support Embracing wholeness after loss Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSCo-hostLauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.comTakeaways Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes. It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy. You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship. Healing requires accountability and community support. God can be a provider and protector in times of need. Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself. Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wrestled with being alone? How can a season of solitude be a catalyst for personal growth? I am in a very difficult season of forced aloneness and I wanted to share my story with you. Thankfully my good friend Lauren Bronson Petrous is joining me as my co-host and we delve into the importance of changing our perspectives on aloneness. We emphasize that being alone does not equate to being lonely and explore the power of solitude for self-discovery, personal growth, and emotional health, while addressing societal perceptions of being alone. Our goal is to underscore the significance of self-awareness and the journey of understanding one's identity, particularly in a culture that often prioritizes community and partnership. Some key topics are: Redefining aloneness and its importance The power of solitude for self-discovery and personal growth Societal perceptions of being alone versus being lonely The role of self-awareness in personal and professional success Intentional solitude as a catalyst for growth and resilience Insights from the Bible on the value of aloneness Scientific support for the benefits of solitude Empowerment and liberation through being alone Balancing community and self-understanding Profound personal insights gained from forced aloneness We want to encourage you to embrace the transformative power of aloneness, using it as a tool for self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. Let us know how you are embracing aloneness by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous &  @biancaolthoff.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSCo-hostLauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube https://youtu.be/tnJVOdDVLS8  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do experiences from different generations influence leadership styles in the church?Friends, in this bonus interview by Amy Ayala, I get the privilege to have a conversation with someone who is not only a wonderful teacher and preacher, but also my father, Pastor Pancho Juarez. My dad has had a very unique journey as an immigrant and a pastor in the United States. He has gone through many challenges and triumphs while leading a church in East Los Angeles, The Ark Montebello. We discuss the importance of cultural identity, and also reflect on the sacrifices made in ministry. One of the highlights of our conversation is when we get to discuss the generational legacy of faith and resilience that my dad has modeled as the leader in our family. We also touch on the impact that our shared experiences have had on our leadership styles and community-building efforts. Our goal is to encourage future generations of leaders, particularly those from immigrant backgrounds, to embrace their unique stories and continue their calling with tenacity and faith.Key Topics: The unique journey of immigrant pastors in the U.S. Challenges and triumphs of church leadership The importance of cultural identity in ministry Generational legacy of faith and resilience Impact of experiences on leadership styles Encouragement for future generations of leaders Friends, we want you to embrace your unique story and continue your calling with unwavering faith and resilience. Let us know where you’re at on your remarkable journey of faith by tagging Pastor Pancho @thearkmontebello and me @biancaolthoff.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestPancho JuarezThe Ark Montebello QuoteEmbracing cultural identity to build stronger communities.Takeaways Pastor Bianca attributes her leadership qualities to her father's sacrifices. The journey of immigrant pastors is filled with challenges but also immense rewards. Cultural identity plays a significant role in their ministry approach. The importance of resilience and grit in church planting is emphasized. Ministry is a privilege that comes with both joy and pain. The cost of ministry includes personal sacrifices and emotional challenges. Encouragement for future leaders to embrace their unique backgrounds. The significance of community building in a thriving church environment. The conversation highlights the importance of mentorship and legacy. Faith and the Holy Spirit empower them to overcome obstacles. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇We are so grateful to our sponsors! ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like a leader but didn't know it? Bianca sits down with Jordan Montgomery, the host of the Growth Over Goals podcast. Together, they explore Bianca’s remarkable journey as a leader, delving into the challenges she faced growing up as a first-generation American and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way.Key Discussion Points: Bianca’s Leadership Journey: Bianca shares her personal story, highlighting the obstacles she overcame and the pivotal moments that shaped her path to becoming a recognized leader. Challenges of a First-Generation American: Insights into the unique challenges Bianca faced and how these experiences influenced her leadership style. Leadership Insights: Bianca emphasizes the importance of time and patience in developing leadership skills, encouraging young leaders to serve others and prioritize personal growth. Health and Boundaries: The significance of maintaining personal health and setting boundaries to ensure effective leadership and overall well-being. Hope and Redemption: Bianca discusses the role of hope and redemption in leadership, sharing her perspective on overcoming adversity and inspiring others. Upcoming Projects: Bianca gives a sneak peek into her upcoming projects, offering listeners a glimpse of what’s on the horizon for her. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for aspiring leaders. This is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and the importance of serving others in the journey of leadership.Friends, listen now to gain inspiration and actionable tips for your own leadership journey. Follow @jordanmmontgomery and me @biancaolthoff.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestJordan Montgomery The Growth Over Goals PodcastTakeawaysBianca identifies as a leader only in the last five years.She faced significant challenges growing up in East LA.Time is essential for developing leadership skills.Young leaders often overlook the importance of patience.Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining health.Soul health is a game changer for leaders.Rest and recovery are vital for productivity.Serving others can lead to personal growth.Redemption and healing are always possible.The health of a leader reflects the health of their organization.⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Joel Muddamalle, a Bible teacher, theologian, and author, dives deep into the life-altering themes of pride and humility. He shares how a challenging childhood taught him the essence of humility, emphasizing its roots in recognizing our identity as God's children. The conversation reveals pride as a self-elevator that leads to chaos, while humility acts as our protective guard. Muddamalle highlights the significance of God's boundaries, designed to safeguard us, and addresses hidden pride's detrimental effects, underscoring the transformative power of genuine self-awareness.

Stephanie May Wilson, a writer, speaker, and podcaster, dives into the challenges women face in their 20s and 30s, aptly dubbed the 'everything era.' She discusses the importance of aligning decisions with personal values and embracing life’s detours as growth opportunities. Stephanie shares her transformative experience moving to Spain, highlighting how to navigate disagreements and communicate effectively with loved ones. Tune in for her empowering insights on creating a fulfilling life amidst societal expectations!

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion?Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it.Some takeaways from our conversation are: Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step. Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It’s about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility. Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections. We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships.Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestSharon Hodde MillerBook: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God PromisesQuoteThe most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them.Takeaways Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division. The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control. Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us. Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set. Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control. Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert.⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube https://youtu.be/ngc1Ye9XbG4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do we understand and live out holiness in our daily lives? Do you believe it's possible to live a truly holy life in a world full of distractions?Author, poet, bible teacher, and hip-hop artist Jackie Hill Perry is on the show and together we explore: The true meaning of holiness The motivations that drive us to pursue a holy life The essential role of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification We candidly discuss the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our pursuit of holiness and the vital importance of understanding God's holiness in building a deeper trust in Him.Remember that holiness isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrendering to the One who is perfectly holy. May this conversation inspire you to seek God’s holiness in every aspect of your life. Let Jackie know how much you appreciate her wisdom by tagging her @jackiehillperry and me @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestJackie Hill Perry https://jackiehillperry.com/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jackie-Hill-Perry/author/B07HGTR8XC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueQuoteWe don't want to be like God in terms of His holiness, we want to be like God in terms of His authority.Takeaways Holiness is a decision of our will and is based on our conduct, comportment, and character. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in sanctification by changing our hearts, giving us power over sin, and illuminating the Scriptures. Understanding God's holiness is essential in building trust in Him. The book on holiness by Jackie Hill Perry is recommended for all Christians, especially those who struggle with trusting God. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube https://youtu.be/mVL6emS3mF4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices