We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion?Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it.Some takeaways from our conversation are: Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step. Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It’s about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility. Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections. We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships.Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestSharon Hodde MillerBook: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God PromisesQuoteThe most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them.Takeaways Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division. The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control. Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us. Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set. Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control. Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert.⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube https://youtu.be/ngc1Ye9XbG4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do we understand and live out holiness in our daily lives? Do you believe it's possible to live a truly holy life in a world full of distractions?Author, poet, bible teacher, and hip-hop artist Jackie Hill Perry is on the show and together we explore: The true meaning of holiness The motivations that drive us to pursue a holy life The essential role of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification We candidly discuss the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our pursuit of holiness and the vital importance of understanding God's holiness in building a deeper trust in Him.Remember that holiness isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrendering to the One who is perfectly holy. May this conversation inspire you to seek God’s holiness in every aspect of your life. Let Jackie know how much you appreciate her wisdom by tagging her @jackiehillperry and me @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestJackie Hill Perry https://jackiehillperry.com/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jackie-Hill-Perry/author/B07HGTR8XC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueQuoteWe don't want to be like God in terms of His holiness, we want to be like God in terms of His authority.Takeaways Holiness is a decision of our will and is based on our conduct, comportment, and character. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in sanctification by changing our hearts, giving us power over sin, and illuminating the Scriptures. Understanding God's holiness is essential in building trust in Him. The book on holiness by Jackie Hill Perry is recommended for all Christians, especially those who struggle with trusting God. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube https://youtu.be/mVL6emS3mF4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had feelings of insecurity and inadequacy? Ever felt like an imposter when surrounded by big names?Friends, today I get real about feeling like a fraud. That’s why I delve into the concept of imposter syndrome and that nagging inner voice that questions our abilities and worthiness.Some of the insights that I want you to walk away with are how to: Overcome insecurity and use it as a tool for growth Recognize your inner saboteur and challenge its negativity Use feelings of insecurity as a springboard for action, not self-deprecation I’ve had to battle with self-doubt and the voices in my head that whisper I’m not good enough. I want us to use self-doubt as a tool for growth, not a weapon of self-destruction. Ask yourself ‘If not me, then who? If not now, then when?’Unleash your Godfidence to find your voice; The world needs your message! Let us know how you are taming your inner saboteur by tagging me @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSQuoteThe beauty of that voice of insecurity is an earnest recognition that I'm not everything. But the dark side of that voice is when we let that voice convince us that we're nothing.Takeaways Imposter syndrome is common and can make us doubt our abilities and feel like frauds. The voice of insecurity can be used as a tool for self-reflection and growth. Humility is a choice and allows us to recognize our limitations while still using our gifts. We should remind ourselves that we are called to fulfill a purpose and use our voices. Asking 'If not me, then who? If not now, then when?' can help overcome self-doubt and take action. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube: https://youtu.be/mD3Nlb5YZ5s Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready to laugh and be inspired? Actress, comedian and author of ‘Bamboozled by Jesus’, Yvonne Orji joins me for a conversation that will challenge your perception of faith and leave you smiling.Friend, you are going to LOVE Yvonne's wit and infectious personality while also gaining insights into finding your purpose and living a joyful life. Yvonne and I discuss what it means to:Understand and experience God’s favorChoose authenticity over societal expectationsRethink what it means to have faith and a relationship with GodI hope that Yvonne’s inspiring story helps you gain a fresh perspective on faith, comedy, and personal growth. Show your love by tagging @yvonneorji and me @biancaolthoff.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestYvonne Orji https://www.yvonneorji.com/Bamboozled By Jesus: How God Tricked Me into the Life of My DreamsThe wait is sexy | Yvonne Orji | TEDxWilmingtonSalonQuoteIf I know who I am and God called me to be here, then clearly who I am is good enough for here.TakeawaysGod has a sense of humor and wants us to have a relationship with Him.The perception of God as vengeful is often based on out-of-context scripture and human perception.Yvonne Orji discovered her calling in comedy and uses humor to reach people.Yvonne's book, 'Bamboozled by Jesus,' shares her journey of faith and how she turned losses into wins. Believe in yourself and your abilities, even when others may doubt you.Stay true to your values and don't compromise them for success.Favor is when God opens doors and blesses you in unexpected ways.Don't settle for less than you deserve in relationships; wait for someone who appreciates and supports you fully.Success is not always measured by societal standards; trust in God's plan for your life.⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert.This episode is sponsored by AirDoctor Pro. Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! http://tinyurl.com/WGTAirDoctor ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”YouTube:  https://youtu.be/zS1u7RxbeDo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Author and speaker John Mark Comer discusses spiritual disciplines, fasting, Sabbath rest, and the enemies of peace in a quest for true joy and transformation. Emphasizing surrender to God, the impact of sin on happiness, and the importance of following Jesus for freedom and fulfillment.

Feeling overwhelmed by the fast pace of life, constant pressures and never-ending to-do list? You're not alone. I get to dive deep into the challenges of navigating today's fast-paced world with former lawyer turned pastor turned podcaster, Carey Nieuwhof.Listen and learn how to: Prioritize your relationships and protect your time Maximize your productivity through focused work Manage your energy for optimal performance Break free from the stress cycle Implement effective strategies for taking breaks that recharge you This episode is packed with actionable tips and insights to help you thrive in today's demanding environment. Show your appreciation to Carey by tagging him @careynieuwhof and me @biancaolthoff.Until next time,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestCarey Nieuwhof https://careynieuwhof.com/ Book: At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor Book: Leading Change Without Losing It: Five Strategies That Can Revolutionize How You Lead Change When Facing OppositionPodcast: The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership PodcastQuoteYou know how to do a vacation. Well, but time off won't heal you because the problem is how you spend your time on.Takeaways Our relational circles have expanded due to technology, leading to overwhelm and burnout. Setting boundaries and prioritizing relationships are essential for managing the constant pressure of life. Managing energy and identifying peak productivity hours can help optimize productivity and prevent burnout. Creating a daily routine that includes self-care practices and intentional social interactions can contribute to overall well-being and balance. Prioritize your 'green zone' to optimize your time, energy, and efforts. Eliminate distractions and focus on deep work to produce your best work. Manage interruptions and develop a disciplined approach to work. Take extended breaks to rest and rejuvenate, allowing for personal growth and increased productivity. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”⋇ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt called to start something new, but fear held you back? Is it really possible to be successful without feeling 100% ready?In today’s episode we share with you the interview that I had the honor to be part of with Pastor Craig Groeschel. We discuss  The art of starting a business Recognizing the need for systems and structures Overcoming assumptions and embracing your unique leadership style Starting a new business or ministry comes with its challenges and surprises. I encourage you to put your faith into action and NEVER GIVE UP! Having the right people around you will shape your journey in a positive way. Friend, you have a unique voice that has the power to create change, so take the courage to start something today! Let us know what you’re starting by tagging us at @craiggroeschel and @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestCraig Groeschel Leadership Podcast https://www.life.church/leadershippodcast/ QuoteWhenever the road gets tough, people are going to quit.TakeawaysHave a strong conviction and belief in what you are meant to do.Surround yourself with people who compliment your weaknesses and push you to think differently.Have faith and a sense of hope that you will succeed.Don't let the lack of a team or resources hold you back from starting something.Embrace your unique voice and be true to yourself.Failure is a part of the journey, but resilience is key to success.⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!AquaTru comes with a 30-day Money-Back Guarantee and even makes a great gift… My listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com - that’s A-Q-U-A-T-R-U-dot com and enter code “WGT” at checkout.  ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”Youtube  https://youtu.be/02c9Evq2yC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Priscilla Shirer, a powerhouse woman of faith, shares insights on finding strength in weariness, unlocking joy in every season, and maximizing potential. She discusses lessons from disappointment, words of encouragement for the discouraged, and the power of Ephesians 3:20. Emphasizing finding joy in every season, she encourages treasuring each moment and studying God's Word for lifelong growth.

Are you fulfilling your God given destiny and unlocking your power? How have you embraced your calling with boldness and authority? In this episode, I share a teaching from the book of Mark given at The Father’s House Orange County. In it I delve into the theme of being marked for power and purpose. We are marked by God, and with this divine marking comes the power to overcome any bondage or sin.Some of the key takeaways are: Being Marked by God: Exploring the profound concept that each one of us is marked by God, instilled with a unique purpose and the power to fulfill it. Lessons from the book of Mark: The book of Mark presents a radical explanation of the supernatural power of Jesus and the power that we, as disciples, possess. The Authority of Jesus: I focus on the authority of Jesus, particularly his ability to cast out demons, showcasing the extent of his divine power. Confronting Spirits: I encourage you to recognize and confront the spirits that may be tormenting you, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these challenges in order to overcome them. Embrace Your Calling: I urge you to embrace your calling with boldness and authority, stepping into the power that has been bestowed upon you. Friend, I want you to recognize the power within you, confront the spirits that torment you, and embrace your divine calling with boldness and authority. Remember, you are marked by God for a unique purpose. Step into your power and fulfill your destiny. You are MARKED for power and purpose. Embrace it! Let me know how you are stepping into your authority, confronting your challenges, and boldly embracing your calling by tagging me @biancaolthoff.Love you,BRESOURCES/LINKSThe Father’s House Orange CountyMARK’D SeriesQuoteI want you to know that you are marked and that you have power to do what God's called you to do.Takeaways We are marked by God and have the power to overcome any bondage or sin. The book of Mark emphasizes the supernatural power of Jesus and the power we possess as disciples. We have the authority to confront and cast out the spirits that may be tormenting us. Embracing our calling requires stepping out of our comfort zone and confronting the spirits that hold us back. ⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!Youtube https://youtu.be/8Zhi83TYi7UAppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever experienced the pain of exclusion and rejection, particularly within the church? Gird your loins friends because in today’s enlightening conversation with Dr. Anita Phillips we discuss the issues of race, exclusion and rejection that are often overlooked within the church. We also talk about the role that our emotions play in having healthy conversations and the impact they can have in leading to greater understanding and acceptance. We discuss and dive deep into some key points that can help us reflect in our own experiences and attitudes like: Psychological safety and belonging Understanding the role of trauma and healing The need for humility, empathy, and intentional action in healing Regulating our emotions so that they don’t tell us what is right but our Bible does Dr. Anita’s words serve as a powerful reminder that the church, like any community, must continually strive for growth, inclusivity, and understanding. Through open conversations like this one, we can all learn, grow, and work towards a better future.Show Dr. Anita some love! Let us know how you are overcoming your own challenges by tagging us @dranitaphillips and @biancaolthoff.XO,BRESOURCES/LINKSGuestDr. Anita PhillipsBook: The Garden Within: Where the War with Your Emotions Ends and Your Most Powerful Life BeginsIn The Light with Dr Anita Phillips // The Betrayal Podcast EpisodeQuoteThe absence of humility is destroying us and it's necessary. Humility is the healing balm that is missing.TakeawaysExperiencing rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical pain, highlighting the emotional toll of exclusion.Creating psychological safety and a sense of belonging is crucial for individuals to take risks and reach out to others.The church must address issues of race and create a safe space for healing and reconciliation.Curiosity about different perspectives and cultures can lead to a deeper understanding of God and a more inclusive church.Humility, empathy, and intentional action are necessary to heal and transform the church.⋇Watch on YouTube⋇Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here⋇Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option⋇The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available.⋇So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!AppleSpotify⋇Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.⋇Want to stay connected, join the community today.⋇WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org⋇Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices