

Secondhand Therapy
PonyBear Studios
Secondhand Therapy is a funny, honest mental health podcast where two unlicensed best friends unpack their weekly therapy sessions.Join Louie Paoletti and Michael Malone as they explore anxiety, ADHD, grief, masculinity, and emotional growth—with humor, heart, and total transparency. Each episode blends raw self-reflection with real time takes on therapy, trauma, relationships, and the messy process of healing.It’s real talk about mental health in the modern world, and why personal growth is so damn hard.
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May 27, 2024 • 48min
Grief and Eating Disorders with Jenny Zigrino | #042
We welcome our good friend and comedian Jenny Zigrino to the sleuth to talk all things grief, coping and eating disorders
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May 20, 2024 • 47min
Unconditional Love and Scared of Hugs | #041
Delve into emotional support, personal growth, and the importance of human connection. Explore communication styles in families, the concept of unconditional love, and methods of supporting friends in need. Gain insights into reframing expectations and embracing gratitude.

May 13, 2024 • 2min
Here’s What Happened... | #040
We had a bit of an unforeseen and unprecedented recording this week...
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May 6, 2024 • 49min
Reflection, Growth and Two Men Crying | #039
Join Michael and Lou in a transformative episode where they dive deep into personal growth journeys. Michael shares his breakthrough experience with ADHD medication, unveiling profound life changes. Delving further, they explore the struggle of finding intrinsic value in accomplishments. Lou sheds light on his quest to cherish the process rather than fixate on outcomes, resonating with Michael's journey. Additionally, Lou confronts the impact of his pursuit of perfection on his relationships, offering valuable insights for listeners. Tune in for an enriching conversation on embracing change, valuing the journey, and overcoming perfectionism.
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Apr 29, 2024 • 51min
Apologies, Forgiveness and a Weird F*cking Dream | #038
Michael opens up about a recent emotional setback and his journey back to a place he's avoided for some time. Delve into Michael's struggles with self-forgiveness contrasted with his ease in forgiving others. Lou and Michael engage in a candid discussion on accountability and the importance of seeking and granting apologies. In a poignant moment, Lou reflects on a significant breakthrough in therapy, particularly regarding communication challenges. Together, Lou and Michael also share heartfelt experiences and dreams involving their deceased loved ones, offering a glimpse into the complexities of grief and healing. Tune in to gain valuable insights into navigating the intricacies of mental health, fostering forgiveness, and embracing breakthroughs in therapy. Don't miss out on this raw and authentic conversation.
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Apr 22, 2024 • 44min
How Long Are People Meant to be in Your Life? | #037
Join Lou and Michael for a deep dive into relationships, anxiety, and personal growth on this episode. From questioning the duration of people's roles in our lives to navigating anxiety and ADHD, they share their candid experiences. Tune in as they explore the challenges of therapy and the liberating journey of shedding self-identities.
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Apr 15, 2024 • 51min
Hating Children and One Silly Boy | #036
Lou is sick but still talks about his frustration doing parts work in therapy. Lou still struggles feeling silly, especially in therapy. Michael feels left out, even when he isn’t left out. Michael has started to lean into life more while he is also learning to dodge energy that isn’t for him. Michael hates kids, except one.
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Apr 8, 2024 • 56min
Possible Autism and Mushrooms in the Trees | #035
Lou looks different in glasses. Lou had a nice day outside enjoying the trees. Michael likes posting about his daily activities online while Lou hates it. Michael talks about accepting himself and not liking kids before Lou reveals his RAADS-R results. The boys debate how the majority should affect your behaviors.
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Apr 1, 2024 • 45min
My Dead Mom and a Psychic in Salem | #034
Lou fills Michael in on some secrets he’s been keeping. Lou wants to start wearing glasses so he looks less scary. Michael reflects on seeing himself in others while he was on the road before unpacking how he has made grief his identity. Michael saw a psychic and learned some things. Michael is struggling with how he looks these days… or rather, who he looks like.
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Mar 18, 2024 • 50min
Who Knew Episode Thirty Was Such a Big Deal | #033
Michael thinks Lou is autistic. The boys unpack the surprisingly controversial Episode 030. Disclaimer: We do not mean any offense to anyone on the spectrum. This is a real conversation not intended to be insulting in any way. We have had this conversation in private and in therapy and thought it was important to share as adult diagnoses of autism are becoming more common as people navigate their mental health.
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