

Secondhand Therapy
PonyBear Studios
Secondhand Therapy is a funny, honest mental health podcast where two unlicensed best friends unpack their weekly therapy sessions.Join Louie Paoletti and Michael Malone as they explore anxiety, ADHD, grief, masculinity, and emotional growth—with humor, heart, and total transparency. Each episode blends raw self-reflection with real time takes on therapy, trauma, relationships, and the messy process of healing.It’s real talk about mental health in the modern world, and why personal growth is so damn hard.
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Jul 15, 2024 • 47min
Old Behaviors and a Loaded Gun in Texas | #047
Warning: This episode contains a discussion about suicide, suicidal thoughts and suicidal ideation. Michael talks about finding a surprise at his friend's house in Texas and it sparks thoughts and behaviors in him that he hasn't felt in quite awhile. Lou talks about the benefits of evolving with the right partner but also how sometimes your old habits creeps back in even when you're doing the work to keep them at bay.
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Jul 8, 2024 • 40min
My Mom Didn’t Let Me Cry | #046
Michael makes the mistake of mixing ADHD medication with coffee. Michael talks about the new feeling of being detached from your own reality before talking about his efforts of accepting positive feedback. Michael shares everything with everyone and Lou doesn’t. Lou is getting close to accessing shame in therapy. Lou gets into his childhood and how his upbringing probably wasn’t conducive to emotional development; Lou talks about his mom and hates it.
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Jun 24, 2024 • 1h 1min
Parental Dynamics and ADHD Medication with Gabby Lamb | #045
We welcome comedian Gabby Lamb to the sleuth today! Michael explores therapist transitions and his new ADHD medication. Lou reflects on philanthropy in Los Angeles. Is starting your day with news or social media detrimental? They share personal stories about upbringing and parental dynamics. Gabby dives into managing comments and her unyielding resolve.
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Jun 17, 2024 • 35min
Social Media and Mother’s Day with My Dead Mom | #044
Lou and Michael explore the impact of sharing beliefs on social media and the accessibility of voices online, amidst global issues. Lou reflects on his vision of an ideal life and its practicality, while Michael shares his heartfelt journey navigating Mother’s Day without his mom and grappling with time management and future planning. They also delve into the emotional toll of living apart from family and feeling disconnected from their everyday reality.
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Jun 10, 2024 • 41min
Existential Dread with Omono Okojie | #043
We welcome guest host Omono Okojie to the sleuth to talk all things existential dread!
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May 27, 2024 • 48min
Grief and Eating Disorders with Jenny Zigrino | #042
We welcome our good friend and comedian Jenny Zigrino to the sleuth to talk all things grief, coping and eating disorders
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May 20, 2024 • 47min
Unconditional Love and Scared of Hugs | #041
Delve into emotional support, personal growth, and the importance of human connection. Explore communication styles in families, the concept of unconditional love, and methods of supporting friends in need. Gain insights into reframing expectations and embracing gratitude.

May 13, 2024 • 2min
Here’s What Happened... | #040
We had a bit of an unforeseen and unprecedented recording this week...
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May 6, 2024 • 49min
Reflection, Growth and Two Men Crying | #039
Join Michael and Lou in a transformative episode where they dive deep into personal growth journeys. Michael shares his breakthrough experience with ADHD medication, unveiling profound life changes. Delving further, they explore the struggle of finding intrinsic value in accomplishments. Lou sheds light on his quest to cherish the process rather than fixate on outcomes, resonating with Michael's journey. Additionally, Lou confronts the impact of his pursuit of perfection on his relationships, offering valuable insights for listeners. Tune in for an enriching conversation on embracing change, valuing the journey, and overcoming perfectionism.
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Apr 29, 2024 • 51min
Apologies, Forgiveness and a Weird F*cking Dream | #038
Michael opens up about a recent emotional setback and his journey back to a place he's avoided for some time. Delve into Michael's struggles with self-forgiveness contrasted with his ease in forgiving others. Lou and Michael engage in a candid discussion on accountability and the importance of seeking and granting apologies. In a poignant moment, Lou reflects on a significant breakthrough in therapy, particularly regarding communication challenges. Together, Lou and Michael also share heartfelt experiences and dreams involving their deceased loved ones, offering a glimpse into the complexities of grief and healing. Tune in to gain valuable insights into navigating the intricacies of mental health, fostering forgiveness, and embracing breakthroughs in therapy. Don't miss out on this raw and authentic conversation.
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