

Conversations with Others
Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman
"I wanted to create a space to hold honest, open, candid conversations where no subject is off limits or taboo, with some of the best and brightest of our lifetime. I’m interested in delving into the minds of ‘Others’. The odd ones out, the queer kin, the bi-racial, gender-fluid, outspoken, courageous and crazy phenomenons who fall outside of the status-quo, dance joyfully in the margins of ‘Otherness’ and have managed to make an authentic, impactful mark against all odds. Maya Angelou said “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you”. It is the gems within these stories that give me strength to stand in the messiness of my own journey while carrying on in celebration of myself. The lessons I have learned have been invaluable. And If I can leave you all with one thing, it’s this...Celebrate Yourself And Love Each Other." - Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman
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Jun 17, 2020 • 1h 18min
The Beauty of Authenticity (with Laith Ashley)
Laith Ashley (Model/Activist) joins me this week. We talk about the importance of balancing economic inequality for People of Color, being paid to educate and share our stories with white audiences, race as a social construct, and having the courage to investigate your own thoughts. Tune into our frequency. LAITH ASHLEY IG @laith_ashley TWITTER @laith_ashley INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN

Jun 10, 2020 • 1h 16min
BONUS• White Fragility and The White Gaze of White Gays (with Sharon Pink)
Sharon Pink (Counselor/Social Worker/Witch) a mental health practitioner working with survivors of intimate partner abuse joins me as we discuss my experience of being in an emotionally abusive relationship with a white gay progressive man and the damage of White Privilege amongst LGBTQ POC, my path to healing, learning to trust our intuition, and practices of self awareness that all Queer People of Color can implement into our own lives to protect ourselves from the harm of so-called white progressives. https://www.instagram.com/tarotreadingsbysharonpink/ SHARON PINK IG @tarotreadingsbysharonpink INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN A Blessing From Sharon Pink Bravery does not always dissolve fear, and this, dear ones, is a brave conversation. To hear Jeffrey’s story is to witness the radical and magical acts of a queer, Black man getting free. And truly we know that feeling free and being free is worth the energy, as well as deserved. We also know that we cannot get free alone because as Audre Lorde taught us, “Without community, there is no liberation”, so may we all listen with the intention of connection, love and liberation. All violence streams from white supremacy. White folks, may we continually re-commit to doing the work of undoing white-supremacy in all its forms. So, as and after you listen, I invite you to hold up a mirror, and ask, what are the ways that I perpetuate white supremacy? What am I doing to change this? And yes, white queers, “Your queerness does not absolve your racism”, (Ericka Hart). This is our work. Black, Indigenous and all People of Color, may you feel seen, heard and freely breathe in the points of connection offered here. May this podcast be a spell of safety, love and justice that centers and honors queer, Black folks in both bravery and joy, and all things in between

Jun 9, 2020 • 1h 11min
Finding Strength in Vulnerability (with Karamo Brown)
Karamo Brown (Queer Eye) joins me this week. We discuss the power dynamic of race in the LGBTQ community and the White Gaze of White Gays, supporting and celebrating each Other as Queer POC, and the importance of vulnerability in sharing our stories. Tune into our frequency. KARAMO BROWN IG @karamo TWITTER @Karamo INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN In This Episode We Discuss: •WeRISE LA •QUEER EYE •Canada's Drag Race •WOWPRESENTSPLUS •CRAVETV •OUTTV

May 28, 2020 • 1h 44min
A Path to Spiritual Expansion (with Laverne Cox)
Laverne Cox (Actress/Producer/Activist) joins me this week. We talk about healing generational trauma, identifying emotional abusers and learning to empower ourselves through setting boundaries, recognizing our own inner saboteur, our personal evolutions during the pandemic, and being used for a purpose greater than ourselves. Tune into our frequency. LAVERNE COX IG @lavernecox TWITTER @Lavernecox INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN In This Episode We Discuss: •Theodore Roosevelt Quote •Brene Brown: Unlocking Us Podcast •Daring Greatly by Brene Brown •Byron Katie: The Work •Alabama School of Fine Arts •Leontyne Price •Audre Lord •bell hooks •James Baldwin •Langston Hughes •I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou •The Catcher In The Rye by J.D. Salinger •FAME •Solid Gold •Disclosure Documentary •Ethnic Notions •Celluloid Closet •PROMISING YOUNG WOMAN •BAD HAIR •LOVE BY THE 10TH DATE iTunes purchase/rent •Nzingha Stewart •Emerald Fennel

May 26, 2020 • 1h 15min
QUARANTINE BONUS (with Lauren Toyota)
Lauren Toyota (Hot For Food) joins me In This Special Bonus Episode. We discuss why I took time away from the podcast after season 1, ending toxic relationships and reclaiming your power, figuring out navigating partnership while in Quarantine together, finding balance while working from home, earning and building trust, animal conservation and the global expansion of the LAUREN TOYOTA IG @laurentoyota @hotforfood TWITTER @laurentoyota @hotforfood YOUTUBE Hot For Food INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN In This Episode We Discuss: •Together We Rise •#MAYDAY Global Day of Meditation •Tony Robbins •Michael Bernard Beckwith •Hot For Food •JBC What’s The Tee w RuPaul & Michelle Visage •Sounds True: Donna Eden •Donna Eden Daily Energy Routine •The Tapping Solution •Ishmael by Daniel Quinn •Vegan Comfort Classics 101 Recipes To Feed Your Face

May 18, 2020 • 1h 27min
The Legacy of Strong Black Women (with Kai Avent-deLeon)
Kai Avent-deLeon (Founder of Sincerely, Tommy) joins me this week. We discuss following the legacy of strong black women, creating a safe creative community space in Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn with her concept store Sincerely, Tommy, navigating being a black business owner in a rapidly gentrifying neighborhood, finding inspiration and conscious expansion through world travel, and cultivating mindfulness through our own personal spiritual evolutions. Tune into our frequency. KAI AVENT-DELEON IG @kaiaventdeleon SINCERELY, TOMMY IG @sincerelytommy_ INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN Discussed This Week: BROOKLYN Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn (Bed-Stuy) Sincerely, Tommy Sincerely, Tommy Coffee RESTAURANTS Peaches Saraghina BOOKS/ART Danny Simmons Artist The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz Love, Freedom, Aloneness by OSHO Joy by OSHO Mindful Parenting by Kristen Race, Ph.D. The Path of the Priestess by Sharron Rose Maryam Hasnaa Quote "How other people see me is not my business..." PERFORMANCE ARTS/ACTING SCHOOLS NYC Talent Unlimited High School New York Film Academy Boys Harbor (summer programs) PODCASTS T-shirt Collab w Leyman Lahcine Conversations With Others w Brooke Lynn Hytes Conversations With Others w Julio Torres FREE LIVESTREAM WORKOUT CLASSES Pilates Workout Video Rebounder Trampoline Bellicon Home: Weight Loss Workout

May 12, 2020 • 1h 20min
A Space Prince’s Journey To Belonging (with Julio Torres)
Julio Torres (Comedian/Actor/Writer) joins me this week. We discuss living in New York City during Covid Quarantine times, growing up queer in El Salvador, the journey of immigrating to The United States, landing a job as a staff writer on Saturday Night Live, choosing to vote for the lesser of 2 evils in the 2020 Presidential Election, and The Pentagons recent revelation that UFO's are real!! Tune into our frequency. JULIO TORRES IG @spaceprincejulio TWITTER @juliothesquare INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN SHOW NOTES HBO Series: Los Espookys HBO Special: My Favorite Shapes Julio's Favorite Shape• Krisha SNL Sketch • Wells For Boys MOVIES Blade Runner 2049 Lars and the Real Girl Birth Her Christopher Robin (aka Winnie the Pooh: The Movie) Pentagon UFO Videos: Via CNN

May 5, 2020 • 1h 30min
Making Drag Race Herstory (with Brooke Lynn Hytes)
Brooke Lynn Hytes (RuPaul’s Drag Race/Canada’s Drag Race) joins me this week. We talk all things Drag Race, growing up as queer boys in small town Canada, leaving everything we'd known to follow our dreams, putting on Regina George "Mean Girl drag", being bullied and in turn bullying as youth, and being proud mammas boys. Tune into our frequency. BROOKE LYNN HYTES IG @bhytes TWITTER @Bhytes1 INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN SHOW NOTES DRAG Canada's Drag Race RuPaul's Drag Race RuPaul's Drag Con Stacey McKenzie MUSIC Brittany Allen Brittany Allen EP SoundCloud JBC ANDROGYNOUS / OTHERNESS TSHIRT COLLAB w @leymanlahcine PODCASTS Conversations With Others W/ Michelle Visage RuPaul: What's The Tee W/ Michelle Visage The Murder Squad NETFLIX #blackaf w Rashida Jones

Apr 27, 2020 • 1h 40min
Who Are You? (with Tatiana Maslany)
Tatiana Maslany (Emmy Winning Actress/Activist) joins me this week. We discuss finding a sense of safety in uncertain times, growing up in Canada, our mutual love of all things RuPaul’s Drag Race, becoming friends with our childhood idols, nourishing our souls passions, and what’s helping us get through social distancing. TATIANA MASLANY IG/Twitter @tatianamaslany INSTAGRAM @jeffreybchapman @conversationswithothers TWITTER @jeffreybchapman @CWOpodcast CONTACT conversationswithotherspodcast@gmail.com www.conversationswithothers.com OUTRO MUSIC "LOOKING FOR ANOTHER" BY BRITTANY ALLEN SHOW NOTES BOOKS 5 love languages A Woman Looking At Men Looking At Women - by Siri Hustvedt DRAG Trixie & Katya UHhhh RuPaul’s Drag Race Canada’s Drag Race JBC TSHIRT COLLAB W/ Leyman Lahcine Androgynous, Otherness, Bi-Racial Angel TShirts ET Sashay Away T-shirt by ELEKTREK FREE LIVESTREAM WORKOUT CLASSES Ryan Heffington Sweatfest @ Sweatspot LA Kate Wallock Yogaworks free class live stream PODCASTS RuPaul: What's The Tee? W/Michelle Visage Episode 74 Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman Episode 212 Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman The Daily Coronavirus fact vs fiction CNN Comedy Bang Bang Brene Brown BINGEABLE TELEVISION I Think You Should Leave JANN Orphan Black DIY AT HOME SELF CARE Lauren Toyota Hot For Food Homemade Kombucha

Apr 13, 2020 • 48min
JBC Presents: Conversations With Others Live - Authenticity and Vulnerability
In this illuminating talk on the power of authenticity and vulnerability, actor, producer, host and activist Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman takes the audience on a journey deep within themselves to find the common thread that connects us all as a species. Filmed at Walt Disney World in Orlando Florida.