

#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh
Dominatrix Eva Oh
Every Tuesday, award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh fearlessly spills the tea on whatever she damn well pleases. Unleash your curiosity and dive into Eva’s world of secrets and stories on sexuality, shame, seduction, money, men, success and even AI companionship. Welcome to the unfiltered adventure of #teakink. Video available for all episodes on YouTube.
Episodes
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Nov 28, 2023 • 43min
My Brush with Toxicity in Celebrity Relationships
Dissecting a toxic relationship intertwined with celebrity culture, deception, gaslighting, and misogyny. From dimly lit Thai restaurants to world tours, unraveling red flags and emotional rollercoasters. Insights on meditation, celebrity culture, accusations, and misogyny at festivals. Ending with reflections on growth post-breakup.

Nov 21, 2023 • 36min
Dating as a Dominatrix: Power, Peril, and Passion
Exploring the challenges and rewards of dating as a dominatrix, from separating work and personal life to navigating dating sites and developing crushes on clients. Learn about early dating experiences, struggles with loneliness, and the lessons learned along the way. Dive into the speaker's journey of self-discovery and how it influences their dating habits today.

Nov 14, 2023 • 25min
Small P**** Humiliation, The Season 2 Kickoff!
Can you recall the terrorizing thrill of a teacher reprimanding you in front of the whole class, the sensation of your heart pounding in your ears, your cheeks burning from embarrassment? Good. Now, imagine someone voluntarily seeking that thrill, craving it.
This episode, I’ll explain how I incorporate humiliation in my practice as a Dominatrix, as I breakdown why humiliation is so popular amongst submissives, and the different ways people engage with that emotion. I’ll also provide insights from my unique approach to domination, and how I use humiliation to potentially shatter individuals' self-perceptions. Experience the unexpected as I share personal experiences, including instances where I humiliate clients about their small penises at dungeons and nude beaches.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - Welcome to My Sofa
(01:00) - An Introduction to the Humiliation Kink
(02:40) - Why is Humiliation So Popular, Societal Shame
(05:40) - How to Use Humiliation, Taking Care
(06:50) - My First Humiliation Session, Small Penis Humiliation
(11:55) - Why is Small Penis Humiliation is Popular, Feelings of Inadequacy in the Pressures of Expectation in Society
(15:45) - A Humiliation Session at the Nude Beach
(21:45) - Why I Enjoy Humiliation, and How I Integrate It

Nov 7, 2023 • 19min
Season 1 Recap: Why Did I Do This, Am I Crazy?
The Season Finale! It’s been a raw ride of experiences, emotions, and lessons learned and I shared much more with you than I bargained for. Do I regret it? In this season finale I reminisce over what I’ve revealed - my turning into an AI, my sex party adventures, encounters with clients gone wrong and more… It’s been challenging but I hope my life's insights and my world have spoken to you, or at least inspired a little joy. Shall I do another season?
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - How I Created the Podcast This Season
(01:30) - Which Episodes Were Tough!
(02:10) - What Did I Want From It?
(03:00) - Leaving a Rating Really Helps! Thank you
(03:15) - Why I Started This Podcast
(04:50) - What Surprised Me
(06:10) - Vulnerability and Community Support
(07:58) - A Fun Opportunity to Investigate My Own Mind
(09:40) - Major Motivations
(10:40) - A Reflection on the ‘Arsehole Tax’ Episode and Money
(13:15) - Getting to Share My History
(14:20) - How Should I Move Forward?
(15:30) - The Risks
(18:10) - Thank You for Listening. See You Next Season?

Oct 31, 2023 • 27min
How I Get What I Want: Navigating Desire, Power and Contentment
In this podcast, Dominatrix Eva Oh shares insights on using contentment, observation, and communication to achieve desires. She discusses the influence of family, ego, and assertiveness, drawing from her experiences as a dominatrix. The focus is on understanding desires, power dynamics, and embracing personal reflections to navigate relationships and achieve contentment.

Oct 24, 2023 • 30min
Bali: Corruption, Sex Coaches and Cold Plunges
Can moving to a tropical paradise truly transform your life? I found myself drawn to Bali after a period of burnout, yearning for a slower rhythm amidst nature. I would travel overseas to see my clients and communities once a month. But my idyllic existence quickly gave way to a harsher reality when borders shut for COVID, and I filled the gap by launching myself into the local expat community. Venture with me as I discover a realm of sex coaches and their tantric swinger nights, lost start up founders and their cold plunges and a healthy mass of the generally dysfunctional. I also land myself in the midst of corruption, theft and a growing awareness of the injustice that underpins the islands existence; and spoiler alert, I eventually leave to find a kink community that satisfies what I am looking for, for now…
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:15) - Why Bali?
(01:35) - My Jungle Home
(03:05) - Healing a Burnout
(04:00) - Naivety Against Corruption and Wealth Inequality
(05:50) - Moving to Canggu
(08:02) - The Exoticisation of the Other
(09:00) - Running Away
(10:15) - Misogyny and Safety
(11:05) - Corruption
(12:05) - Dysfunction
(14:20) - The Bali Kink Community
(16:25) - The London Kink Community
(17:05) - What is a Life Coach?
(17:50) - Sex Coaches
(18:50) - Tantric Temple Swinger Nights
(19:50) - Loneliness and Cold Plunges
(20:10) - Start-up Founders and Finding Themselves
(24:00) - Discovering What I Actually Needed
(28:00) - I Just Want to Fit In?

Oct 17, 2023 • 21min
Coming Out to Mum: A Dominatrix's Double Life
For years, I lived a double life. My conservative, Christian mother knew nothing of my profession as a Dominatrix until a revelation seven years in the making unfolded, with surprising results. In this candid, personal episode, I share about the fear, the tension, and ultimately the liberation that came with breaking my silence. I explore the delicate dance of withholding the truth, the strain it put on my relationship with my mother, and the unexpected acceptance that emerged. Disclaimer: Some long pauses towards the end due to tears :)
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - Coming Out to Mum About Being a Dominatrix
(01:35) - Bible Study, Christianity, Conservatism
(03:55) - Hiding My Job and What it Did to Our Relationship
(04:40) - Why Did I Tell Her After 7 Years?
(05:30) - Sex Worker Friendly Therapy
(07:15) - Planning the Coming Out
(08:30) - Executing the Plan, Not As Expected
(10:04) - Mum’s Questions About the Job
(12:15) - My Answers
(16:16) - My Mother’s Insight, Humour and Compassion
(20:15) - How The Coming Out Settled

Oct 10, 2023 • 26min
Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party
In this episode, Dominatrix Eva Oh shares her experiences of facing aggression from men who react poorly to assertive women, including one who splurged on two million dollars worth of watches to soothe his ego. She discusses society's discomfort with open discussions around sexuality and the unique strength it takes to navigate such reactions, revealing the challenges and growth she has experienced in being unapologetically herself in the face of societal norms.

Oct 3, 2023 • 26min
TV Contracts and Influencer Marketing: Am I a Sell Out?
I, Eva Oh, have found myself at a crossroads - TV show proposals, brand collaborations, and even the prospect of becoming an AI companion have me reflecting on the trajectory of my unconventional career. On this episode I delve deep into the pros and cons; and why now, more than ever, there's a sudden interest in stories like mine. My choices today will reshape the narrative of my life tomorrow, and that's a responsibility I do not take lightly. So, come along as I contemplate the chaos and ponder over whether it's the right time for me - a Dominatrix - to step into the mainstream.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - TV Producers, Talent Managers and Agents Approaching
(01:40) - Why Would a Sex Worker Say Yes?
(02:20) - What Disgusts Me About the Idea
(03:50) - My Words and Voice
(05:05) - What I Enjoy About Interviews
(06:30) - Why the Media are Interested in Representing Sex Workers Now
(08:20) - How Should I Join the Narrative?
(08:44) - From Dominatrix to Executive Producer
(10:30) - Sex Workers Mistrust of the Media
(11:10) - Seeing it as an Opportunity
(11:55) - TV Hesitation vs AI Enthusiasm
(12:30) - The Chaos of Sex Worker Meets Influencer Culture
(14:25) - How Meditation Plays it's Part
(15:25) - Embracing the Chaos
(16:30) - Am I a Sell Out?
(18:10) - Community and Personal Gain
(18:55) - The Case for RuPaul’s Drag Race
(22:55) - Am I Going to Regret This?
(24:00) - Self-compassion

Sep 26, 2023 • 28min
The Pits of Working and Playing with Couples
Explore the dynamics of working with couples as a Dominatrix, from encounters with Fisting Bob to reflections on boundaries and desires. Discover the unconventional experiences at Berghain's Piss Pit and the importance of negotiation in BDSM relationships. Join the host on a journey of rethinking past perceptions and redefining the role of a 'unicorn'.