#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men’s fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David’s Help and Why?(00:12:10) - David’s Own Coaches(00:14:25) - Eva’s Initial Mistrust of Coaches(00:16:40) - David’s Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community(00:22:35) - David Didn’t Want to be a Coach(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups(00:34:00) - David’s Fear of Expressing Love(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears(00:41:25) - Men’s Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement’(00:53:10) - Eva’s Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise’ with Her Clients(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m(00.35) - The Foot Cam(00.56) - How We Met(02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’(05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts(06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’(07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality(11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace(13.30) - Love and Lust(15.00) - m Learning Compassion(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like(19.15) - Navigating Expectations(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy(27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now(29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future(31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money(01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination(02:00) - Findom was Not a Category(02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth(04:20) - What is ‘Real’? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination(06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power?(09:15) - The Power of Perspective(10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time(13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood(19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness(21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment

In the second episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh examines the existence of the Dominatrix—not just as a profession, but as a cultural phenomenon. Why is female power so rare that it becomes fetishized? What does the Dominatrix reveal about society’s relationship with female agency? And how can one navigate this space without reinforcing the very dynamics it critiques? Eva dissects the contradictions, the intrigue, and the deeper implications of wielding power in a world that still struggles to accept it.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist?(05:10) - The Fetishisation of the Rare Concept of Female Agency(07:55) - How Do I Not be a Part of the ‘Problem’

In the first episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the nature of power through the lens of domination and submission. What is power, really? How does context shape who holds it, and what happens when those dynamics shift? She reflects on how her time as a Dominatrix reshaped her own sense of power—both in and out of the dungeon—and how others reacted to that transformation. With power being both intoxicating and treacherous, Eva explores the risks, the artistry, and why true power demands self-investigation.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix(02:05) - What is Power?(03:30) - Context and Power in Domination and Submission(07:25) - How Being a Dominatrix Changed My Power(11:15) - How Others React to the Changes(16:20) - The Art and Danger of Playing with Power Dynamics(22:54) - Power: Delicious, Dangerous, Needs Self-Investigation

What is a Dominatrix, as told by a Dominatrix. Eva Oh meets some newbies to the scene who inspire her to explain the basics of the role of a Dominatrix, what happens in session, how clients make requests and where it all happens. With some additional important notes, on power.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Why Answer an ‘Obvious’ Question?(01:44) - What is a Dominatrix and What Do They Do?(03:35) - What Happens in a Dominatrix Session?(04:20) - How Do Clients Know What They Want?(05:50) - More About a Dominatrix Session(06:40) - Where Do Dominatrix Work?(08:50) - Power, A Miniseries?(10:00) - Lessons on Women, Myself, Money and Power

Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix (01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions (04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix (08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences (15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience (21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment (27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition (33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy (35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception

Meet Jane Grey, Dominatrix and Co-Founder of the Scene and Unscene events. Listen in as Jane opens up about how validation, agency and recognition, drivers behind her acting career, influence her approach to domination; about her plans for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival; and how acting school shunned female sexuality. Eva Oh and Jane discuss the place of acting in a session, if they might be able to submit and how they've tried to escape the ego through the names that they've chosen. We hear about cultural theatrics and how they could shape a Dominatrix's ability and the different ways these two Dominatrices structure their businesses. A very thorough episode of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:00:23) - Jane Grey - Dominatrix, Event Organiser and on a Good Path (00:02:20) - How The Scene and UnScene Events Came About (00:09:15) - The Scene Difference, the Bartenders Bar for Kink (00:14:00) - Authenticity as a Purpose (00:16:10) - How Acting and Drama School Shuns Sexuality (00:20:15) - Validation, Agency, Recognition and the Similarities in Acting and Domination (00:25:10) - South East Asian vs British Theatrics and Social Cohesion (00:27:35) - Growing Star Quality in Professional Domination through Improv Classes (00:29:00) - Moving Around and Growing Adaptability (00:30:35) - Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy (00:32:00) - The Stage vs The Session vs Being a Woman, Is There a Difference? (00:36:30) - How to Go From Personal Kinkster to Professional Dominatrix (00:38:30) - The De-Centring of Our Names - 'Oh' and 'Jane Grey' (00:44:30) - Finding Our Version of Dominance, Visually (00:46:05) - Eva Craving Submission? (00:50:20) - Our Visit to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and Jane's Show Plans (00:54:50) - Who Do We Tell About Our Job? (00:57:00) - Jane's Subscription Model (01:00:30) - Eva's Cis-het Male Clients vs Her Femme Friends (01:03:50) - The Evolution of Eva's Business Model (01:04:50) - Jane's Plans with the WMH&I Branding Agency, Show Writing and Event Planning (01:09:00) - Eva's Plans on Labours of Love

Biomedical engineer and sex tech entrepreneur Isabella Sandak-Lewin joins Eva Oh on the #teakink Podcast to break down the gaps in medicine’s understanding of female sexuality. From the forgotten science of the female orgasm to the struggles of innovating in sex tech, Isabella shares her journey of developing a wearable sex toy and a diagnostic tool for BV. They explore the orgasm gap, cross-dressing, pole dancing at Cambridge, and the link between sexuality and personal freedom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Isabella Sandak-Lewin - Biomedical Engineer and Sex Tech Entrepreneur (01:53) - The Forgotten Interaction of Body, Medicine and Sexuality (05:40) - Medicine Forgot the Female Orgasm (10:15) - The Orgasm Gap (12:40) - Isabella's Wearable Sex Toy (18:13) - Isabella's BV and More Diagnosis Tool (24:40) - Adolescence, Ballet and Eating Disorders (29:30) - Cross-Dressing and How Women and Men are Perceived (34:00) - How Isabella Claimed Her Sexuality (38:35) - Fem Tech and Sex Tech Struggles (40:00) - 'Coming Out' About Sex Tech (45:00) - The Link Between Sexuality and Personal Freedom (50:00) - Pole Dance, Cambridge University and Castration (58:35) - COVID and Saying Yes

MJ has been on a deep and fast ride into sexuality since an accident catalysed a self-investigation in 2019. She has since brought forth the Joyride Sex Parties and Socials, studied with the Institute for Sexuality, and has plans for expanding the world of sex tech. Join MJ and Eva Oh for a #teakink episode through MJ's discoveries, sex doll brothels, Irish sexuality, the sexual concerns of cis-het men, boundaries and pleasure.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet MJ of Joyride Sex Parties and Socials(02:00) - Taking it to Ireland(03:50) - Queerness at Joyride's Centre(08:10) - An Accident as a Sexuality Catalyst(12:55) - Sex Tech and Sex Doll Brothels(14:40) - The Future of Joyride(16:30) - Irish Storytelling(17:10) - Irish Sexuality(18:35) - Merging Sex Tech and the Physical(23:00) - Cis-het Men Healthy Porn Habits, Erectile Dysfunction and Loneliness(28:05) - The Viscerality of the Sex Party Dancefloor(29:00) - Safeguarding and Freedom in Clubs in Berlin vs London(32:50) - The Laboratory Berlin and the State of Queer Cruising(34:00) - The People Behind Joyride(35:30) - The Kink Coalitipn(37:00) - What Actually is a Sex Party?(42:00) - Why MJ Stays Out of the Playspace(49:00) - Berlin Porn Film Festival and the Venus Convention(51:00) - Sexual Education?(53:10) - Pleasure