Emotional Badass

Today we focus on 'detaching with love' a strategy for self-improvement and better relationships. It emphasizes mindfulness to break unhelpful patterns, self-reflection for emotional understanding, questioning attachments for emotional clarity, and setting boundaries to avoid self-sabotage. Although challenging, mastering this practice leads to personal growth, healthier relationships, and improved emotional intelligence. Are you an HSP struggling with unhealthy attachments? Learn the power of "detaching with love" and how mindfulness, self-reflection, and emotional resilience can enhance your mental health. Insights are provided on recognizing and shifting outdated patterns, setting boundaries, and fostering healthier relationships. Embrace these strategies to create positive change in your life and achieve personal growth and much needed mental health boost.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you struggling with detachment and personal growth? Today we navigate through the intricacies of personal transformation, self-discovery, and the human identity. I discuss my personal journey through changing my name and the profound impact it had on my self-perception, opening a gateway to numerous life lessons. From coping with the ridicule and judgement of others, dealing with repressed memories, and experiencing relentless internal battles, to the repeated process of taking on new names with each marriage, only to later relinquish them. We are not defined by our names, but we are so much more. The episode exploration of the liberation found in detachment, the significance of intuition, the power of self-empowerment, and the courage to embrace change and let go to enhance mental health and self-discovery. Learn about the significance of letting go with love and respect, particularly for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP). This practice helps us navigate past traumas, build resilience, and foster a deeper understanding of our true identity, contributing to overall mental well-being.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you grappling with Mother's Day emotions? We navigate the complexities of relationships, particularly the mother-child dynamic. We delve into personal experiences and professional insights, spotlighting the emotional minefield of Mother's Day and discussing healing our mental health through the lens of Maya Angelou's 'Letter to My Daughter.' Whether you've had to sever ties with a parent or are grappling with your own decision not to become a parent, we provide a space to explore the pain, healing, and resilience that accompanies these experiences. I share my personal experiences, academic knowledge, and insight into healing out mental health through inner child work. Tune in to explore how the pain can evolve and lead to peace, joy, and personal growth, and how we can become the supportive figures we need in our own lives.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, we delve into a powerful song that promotes healing and self-discovery, particularly for deeply emotional individuals, trauma survivors, and highly sensitive people; 'Heavy' by Bird Talkers We discuss the importance of moving beyond the mental realm and embracing experience as a means to heal, addressing the roots of loneliness, and the necessity of becoming our own best friends. The episode also covers the significance of acknowledging our dark sides, understanding the human need to be witnessed, and learning to let go of heavy burdens that weigh us down. Through self-forgiveness, gratitude, and empathy, we can cultivate a sense of connection and support, ultimately leading to a lighter, more liberated life. How do we truly heal from trauma and overthinking? Discover the transformative power of experiencing emotions in the body. By embracing our dark side, connecting through music, and learning to let go of heavy burdens, Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) can find emotional freedom and improved Mental Health. This episode delves into the importance of feeling seen and heard, offering strategies for navigating loneliness and building quality relationships.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I'm discussing the importance of play in our lives and its role in mental health. Despite living in an information age, the healing we seek is often found in doing rather than thinking. Embracing playfulness and silliness is not only a way to heal a fried nervous system, but it also helps us transition from a survival mindset to a thriving one. So let's dive into why play matters and how it can be a vital part of your mental health journey. Are you struggling with anxiety and depression? Discover how play can be a powerful tool for improving mental health and helping Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) thrive. In this insightful discussion, I share practical tips on incorporating play into your daily life, from daydreaming and embracing silliness to engaging in creative activities. Learn how reconnecting with your playful side can help transition from survival to thriving, offering essential self-care and nourishment for your well-being.Resources: Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we explore the dangers of victim mentality in today's society. As a mental health advocate, I've seen the impact of the philosophy of victimhood and how it can leave us feeling powerless and stuck. Through this episode, we will dive into the role of mindfulness in retraining our brains to offer a different perspective, cultivating resilience, and empowering ourselves to overcome obstacles and challenges. I'll also discus the widely debated topic of trigger warnings and how good intentions can backfire, creating entitlement and irrational beliefs that perpetuate victim mentality. Join us as we discuss how to cultivate muscles for this life and lean into triggers to desensitize ourselves, take control of our thoughts, and find peace, ease, and grounded centeredness within ourselves. Learn how mindfulness and resilience can help Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) overcome this mindset and reclaim their personal power. I delve into the importance of accepting life's discomforts and leaning into triggers to build emotional fortitude. By taking personal responsibility and letting go of past trauma, HSPs can cultivate inner peace, ease, and grounded centeredness. Discover practical strategies to transform your mental health and embrace a more empowered, resilient life.We've got a new goal on Patreon. When we hit 350 patrons we'll be doing our first Cinema Soul Care event. Join Nikki online live on a Friday night for healing and a movie!Check out our most recipient of the Pay It Forward: A Meal On Me With Love. https://www.gofundme.com/f/a-meal-on-me-with-loveResources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There’s a big question that many people ask themselves: do I need help healing? Do I need therapy, a coach, a massage therapist, meds, or a support group? These are difficult questions to answer because of the word "need." In actuality, all we really need is air to breathe, water to hydrate, food, shelter, and some touch. A better question to ask is, am I surviving or thriving? This question has a completely different vibration that opens up the possibility of evaluating where we are on our journey and what kind of help we may want to bring in. Do you struggle with asking for help? Learn how shifting your focus from "need" to "choice" empowers you to embrace available support and thrive. In this episode, I discuss the value of therapy in overcoming hyper-independence, understanding self-worth, and setting boundaries. Discover how therapy helps highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate mental health challenges and build self-reliance, ensuring you avoid abusive relationships and trust yourself to make healthy decisions.The Book: Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan ForwardResources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I reflect on why we use the term "rude awakening" and how it relates to self-development and mental health. As someone who teaches and practices self-development and spiritual betterment, I can attest that my own awakenings have felt rude. Awakenings are not just one singular moment of realization but rather a series of uncomfortable layers that we expand upon. We resist change, and our ego fights against the new knowledge that comes with an awakening. I share my personal experiences with rude awakenings, the hard work that is therapy, and how to embrace the discomfort of what's coming. We must be open to change, accept that we can only change ourselves, and be kind to ourselves during the process. Ultimately, when we know better, we can do better. Struggling with emotional outbursts in therapy? These episodes often stem from deep-seated emotional pain and can be particularly challenging for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). I discuss how to handle client aggression with empathy, set clear boundaries, and use mindfulness to manage emotional triggers. Healing the inner child is key to overcoming these challenges and improving mental health. Learn practical strategies to foster a compassionate therapeutic environment and support clients on their path to wellness.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As human beings, we are highly impressionable creatures, easily influenced by our environment and upbringing. Our childhood experiences and the messages we receive over time program us, shaping our self-talk and internal conversation. We often develop a critical internal voice that tends to highlight our flaws and mistakes, rather than offering us compassion and support. Today, let's do some positive reframing of our internal dialogue so we can attract a happier mindset. Are you tired of the constant negative self-talk affecting your mental health? Discover how mindfulness and positive reframing can help Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) transform their internal dialogue into self-respect and attract positive experiences. By recognizing and challenging negative thoughts, you can build a foundation of self-love and resilience. Join us as I share insights on cultivating a healthy internal conversation and reprogramming your mind for positivity.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode we will be discussing the impact of rageful parenting on our lives. While most parent strive to provide a safe and nurturing environment, some parents are emotionally abusive and react with anger, frustration, and rage at their children. This creates a hostile home environment that leaves a lasting impact on a childs emotional well-being. In this episode, we will explore the effects of rageful parenting, from low self-esteem to difficulty with relationships, and provide practical strategies for overcoming these challenges. Join us as we delve into this complex topic and discover ways to heal our mental health and move forward. How can you heal from a rageful home and build healthier relationships? Discover the path to overcoming trauma and hypervigilance by embracing boundaries and fostering self-worth. Healing from rageful parenting is a nuanced journey involving unraveling learned survival strategies and reteaching the body calmness. I, a seasoned psychotherapist, share insights on navigating this path for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). Learn to reject the trauma identity, establish healthy boundaries, and embrace imperfections to achieve true mental health and personal growth.Resources:Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routineCommunity & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% OffNarcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% OffEmail Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletterCheck out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditationsFollow us on Social Media:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadassIG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badassFB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadassTIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadassPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadassThank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices