The Angry Therapist Podcast

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for what’s to come. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the same things that can activate the shit out of them. How do they continue to remind themselves that their differences can actually be what helps them stretch and the relationship go deeper? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices