
The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Latest episodes

Feb 6, 2023 • 28min
Going Deeper On Attachment Styles
Join marriage family therapist and best-selling author John Kim as he unpacks attachment styles in relationships. He discusses the impact of anxious and avoidant behaviors, sharing personal stories to illustrate key concepts. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in developing secure attachments and navigating emotional distress. John also highlights how childhood influences shape romantic dynamics and encourages embracing gradual relationship growth over chasing intensity. Dive into practical insights for nurturing healthier connections!

Feb 3, 2023 • 26min
Realign Your Relationship In 5 Steps
In this episode, John talks about how to realign your relationship in five steps. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Feb 1, 2023 • 15min
How You Show Up Are Brushstrokes of Your Life (Art)
Explore the analogy of life as art and making authentic choices. Living authentically like an artist creating a masterpiece, spreading positivity through unique and creative existence.

Jan 27, 2023 • 14min
Your Most Important Promise
In this episode, John talks about how to raise your self esteem/ confidence, and why raising it should be a daily promise to yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Jan 25, 2023 • 37min
Back In The Rehab Days with Joe Akira
In today’s episode, John interviews Joe Akira, a kid John treated years ago when he was working in non profit. Joe was a lost 13 year old but now a thriving 27 year old. They reflect on Joe’s troubled youth and awoling the program. And how John was fresh off a divorce and rebuilding his own life, which he hid from the kids. A heartfelt episode about our collisions and how they affect us. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Jan 13, 2023 • 24min
Taking Ownership: Why It's More For You Than For Them
In this episode, John explains how to take ownership, and why it's more for you than for the other person.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Jan 6, 2023 • 16min
The Pursuer and Distancer: Which One Are You?
In this episode, John talks about what the "pursuers" and "distancers" are in relationships, and encourages you to look at your behavioral patterns to determine which one you are in your relationships.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Jan 4, 2023 • 21min
This Will NOT Be Your Year
In this episode, John explains his views on New Years resolutions, and talks about why it's not the New Years' job to "fix" you.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Jan 2, 2023 • 11min
The Importance Of Having Your Own Life
John Kim, a marriage family therapist and best-selling author, unpacks the vital need for individuality within relationships. He emphasizes that personal identity shouldn't be lost in partnership, advocating for a supportive dynamic that nurtures both partners' growth. Additionally, John shares insights from his therapy sessions, revealing the impact of maintaining one’s own life. His candid reflections encourage listeners to embrace their uniqueness while fostering healthier connections.

Dec 30, 2022 • 23min
Residue From The Old
In this episode, John talks about how to love without your past and not allow your past relationships into your life and/or the new relationship you're in now.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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