
The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Latest episodes

Apr 14, 2023 • 16min
Two Relationship Game Changers
In this episode, John talks about two game changers that will help improve your relationship: 5 minutes of uninterrupted time with your partner, and the 6 second kiss. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/textGet bonus episodes every week and ad-free versions of all episodes by subscribing to The Angry Therapist Premium for just $4/month or $36/year – that’s 2 months free! Visit theangrytherapist.com/premium to subscribe.
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Apr 10, 2023 • 43min
Choosing Yourself
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about how to choose yourself in a relationship, and give a few listeners advice on their relationships.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/textGet bonus episodes every week and ad-free versions of all episodes by subscribing to The Angry Therapist Premium for just $4/month or $36/year – that’s 2 months free! Visit theangrytherapist.com/premium to subscribe.
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Apr 7, 2023 • 12min
How To Apologize For Reals
In this episode, John talks about apologizing: what it is, why it's important, and how to properly take ownership and apologize for your mistakes. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Apr 5, 2023 • 42min
My Own Therapy Session - Ego, Mid Life, and Being Fluid
In this episode, John gets extremely vulnerable in his recorded therapy session. Together, John and his therapist discuss healthy vs unhealthy ego, thoughts and feelings on being fifty, and being more fluid in life.Look, Just Tell Me What To Do. A podcast by Benjamin Russack, LMFTRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Apr 3, 2023 • 38min
The Facilitators Prolog - Miserable F*cks Retreat
In this episode, John brings on the facilitators from his most recent Miserable F*cks Retreat. They each take a turn to introduce themselves, answer deep questions, and talk about how much of a success the first day of the COED Miserable F*cks Retreat was. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Mar 31, 2023 • 1h 7min
3 Therapists, 3 Questions: Reclaiming Audacity & Depth Psychology
In this episode, John has Vanessa and Dene on the podcast to answer three listeners' questions. They also talk about what reclaiming your audacity looks like, and have a deep conversation on the benefits and dangers of depth psychology.Therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as he pulls the curtain back and documents his journey to humanize the therapist. Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Mar 29, 2023 • 17min
Understanding Attraction and Why
In this episode, John talks about attraction: what he used to be attracted to, what type of people used to be attracted to him, and how attraction for him has changed and grown over the years. Meet him at https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Mar 27, 2023 • 12min
You Are Not Getting Over Anyone
In this episode, John talks about break-ups, and emphasizes how you're not actually getting over your ex. Instead, you're reestablishing a healthy relationship with yourself.Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Mar 24, 2023 • 12min
The Five Stages Of A Relationship
In this episode, John talks about the five stages of a relationship: the discovery phase, the disappointment phase, the dancing phase, the development/ dedication phase, and back to the discovery phase.Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Mar 13, 2023 • 13min
What is Life Alignment?
In this episode, John talks about life alignment and what it looks like in your daily life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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