The Living Truth Podcast - Freedom From Unwanted Sexual Behavior, Hope & Healing For the Betrayed

Have you ever wondered what it takes to truly be free from problematic sexual behavior? Have you been trying to stop for years, only to go back to it again and again, feeling more shame and discouragement and wondering why you can’t stop? In this podcast, Michael shares the “5 Keys to Freedom” answering these questions and providing you with a proven method to achieve lasting freedom. Info mentioned in this podcast: Click here to register for MIB.  For coach recommendations for men who struggle, email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal. #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #MenInTheBattle #LivingTruth

When your world falls apart after discovering sexual betrayal, how do you even begin to put the pieces back together?   In this powerful episode, Kristin Cary is joined by trauma-informed coach and Women in the Battle® facilitator Isabel Williams, who shares her deeply personal journey from devastation to post-traumatic growth. Izzy opens up about her initial resistance to group support, the chaos of early trauma, and the turning point that helped her begin to heal—creating structure.   Together, they explore: Why structure is essential in the aftermath of discovery How to identify safe people to confide in Why trauma-informed support (not generic marriage counseling) is critical The dangers of spiritually misinformed advice What real self-care looks like (hint: it’s not bubble baths) How childhood trauma patterns resurface in crisis—and how to start rewriting them Izzy’s story is a testament to what’s possible when we receive the right kind of support and reconnect with our God-given voice and strength. Whether you’re newly navigating betrayal or further down the road, this episode will offer practical insight, encouragement, and hope.   Enrollment for Women in the Battle® & Men in the Battle® opens August 11th! If you’re ready to stop surviving and start healing, now’s the time to take your next right step. Learn more at living-truth.org.   👉 Connect with Izzy: http://Brighthopecoaching.com   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.   #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #MenInTheBattle #WomenInTheBattle #LivingTruth #HealingAfterBetrayal #StructureAfterBetrayal #CreateStructure

In this powerful episode, Michael sits down with Alan Fadling, author of An Unhurried Life: Following Jesus’ Rhythms of Work and Rest. Alan reveals how a hurried life not only drains our energy but fuels the compulsions and false comforts that drive addiction. Together, Michael and Alan unpack how hurry acts as self-avoidance—and how slowing down to the pace of Jesus leads to healing, clarity, and deeper intimacy with God. If you're burned out, stuck in unwanted behaviors, or overwhelmed by life’s demands, this conversation points to a better way: a life rooted in grace, rest, and authentic spiritual formation.   To explore Alan's work further, visit his website: https://www.unhurriedliving.com/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues behind porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal—and the path to lasting freedom.   #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #MenInTheBattle #WomenInTheBattle #LivingTruth #AnUnhurriedLife #SlowDown

Life as we know it is shattered when sexual betrayal is exposed in our primary relationship. The pain is profound—for both the betrayed and the one struggling with unwanted sexual behavior. Nothing remains the same, and the aftermath brings intense emotional and spiritual turmoil that calls for compassionate, trauma-informed care.   Kristin continues the conversation with Molly LaCroix on how our “internal family” may respond to the chaos and grief following betrayal. If you're unfamiliar with the concept of the Internal Family System (IFS), be sure to listen to the previous episode with Molly LaCroix, LMFT, where she gently introduces this powerful framework and how it helps us understand and befriend the parts of ourselves that are hurting.   To explore Molly’s work further—including her books and free resources—visit her website:  https://mollylacroix.com/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.   #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #InternalFamilySystems #IFS #PartnerBetrayal #MenInTheBattle #WomenInTheBattle #LivingTruth

We are born with innate qualities that reflect the image of God. As an adaptive response to adversity, we develop protective parts that block true connection with God, ourselves, and others. These protective parts can show up through perfectionism, blame, judgment, and other constrained attitudes and actions. Though we may not like them, these parts of us need our loving awareness and attunement.   In this episode, Kristin sits down with Molly LaCroix, LMFT, to explore how to recognize and gently befriend your internal family through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). This is a grace-filled invitation to begin healing the inner chaos with compassion and curiosity. This conversation continues in the next episode: The Chaos Inside – How Betrayal and Unwanted Sexual Behavior Impact Your Internal Family System with Molly LaCroix.   Learn more about Molly's work, including her books and free resources by visiting her website: https://mollylacroix.com/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.   #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #InternalFamilySystem

Recovering from sexual betrayal can indeed be a messy and complicated journey, filled with emotional ups and downs, but it's incredibly reassuring to know that there's a proven path forward. Understanding this process is crucial for everyone involved, whether you're a couple in recovery, someone helping others through this difficult time, or if you're single or divorced and dealing with the aftermath. Carol Sheets is a true pioneer in the field of helping couples heal from the devastating effects of sexual betrayal, which can include both infidelity and sexual addiction. In this insightful episode, Carol and Michael engage in a deep discussion about her new book, "Helping Couples Heal From Infidelity and Find Love Again," and they explore various important aspects of the recovery process. They delve into the impact of betrayal trauma on the brain, providing valuable insights into how it affects individuals. Additionally, they explain Carol's ERCEM model and AVR, offering a framework for understanding the healing process. Furthermore, they discuss the differences between infidelity and other forms of sexual addiction, as well as the best ways to address these complex issues, providing guidance and hope for those on the path to recovery.   For more resources and to order Carol's new book, visit: sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com sanopress.com 📺 Watch the full podcast video here: https://youtu.be/FaKeTDtwBrI 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations that illuminate deeper issues, unlocking healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.   #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #EmotionalSafety #TraumaInformedHealing #LivingTruth #WomenInTheBattle #MenInTheBattle

There is hope for your marriage after betrayal! In this episode, Kristin continues her interview with Stacey Smith, the Chief Clinical Officer of Daring Ventures. After sexual secrets are revealed, there must be a period of repair and amends where the betrayed partner's need for safety is the relational priority. But with humility, hard work, and deepening attunement over time, we can learn to build a new relationship rooted in secure attachment and better than it ever was before. You'll learn principles of secure functioning in marriage & how self protection sabotages connection with your spouse. Using principles of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy, Stacey brings her expertise as both a CSAT & an APSATs trained clinician to this episode. Learn more about her at https://www.daringventures.com/stacey/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal. #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery

There is hope for your marriage after betrayal! In this episode Kristin interviews Stacey Smith, the Chief Clinical Officer of Daring Ventures. After sexual secrets are revealed, there must be a period of repair and amends where the betrayed partner's need for safety is the relational priority. But with humility, hard work, and deepening attunement over time, we can learn to build a new relationship rooted in secure attachment and better than it ever was before. You'll learn principles of secure functioning in marriage & how self protection sabotages connection with your spouse. Using principles of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy, Stacey brings her expertise as both a CSAT & an APSATs trained clinician to this episode. Learn more about her at https://www.daringventures.com/stacey/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org   The Living Truth Podcast Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.   #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery

Resentment is a major factor in the root cause of relapse of any addictive behavior. It's almost always relationally driven and can be quite elusive. What are the ingredients and framework of resentment? Why do we tend to harbor it, and what can be done about it? Listen in as Michael discusses this incredibly important topic with author and coach Matthew Raabsmith. Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) through the ICF and a Restoration Coach, serving clients nationwide via telehealth. With over 15 years of experience as a pastoral leader and counselor, he has coached individuals, couples, and teams, specializing in addiction recovery, betrayal trauma, relationship health, leadership development, and professional growth.   Link to Matthew’s website: raabsmithteam.com/free    The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

In this episode, Kristin interviews Dr Debi Silber, founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute. Dr. Debi shares her 3 groundbreaking discoveries about the impact of betrayal and the 5 crucial stages of recovery post betrayal. If you continue to struggle despite your betrayal experiences occurring years ago, you may be stuck in stage 3, with mindsets that steal your joy and rob you of your full potential to rebuild a life of purpose and growth. There can be so much more healing for you if you're willing to lean in and move forward. Join Kristin & Dr. Debi in this life giving conversation. Learn more about Dr. Debi Silber's work here: https://thepbtinstitute.co. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.