Become New with John Ortberg

The word today is love. Not the polished, curated kind we post about online, but the messy, risky, vulnerable kind that can only happen in the real world. In today’s video, John reminds us: the opposite of love isn’t hate—it’s self-centric despair. It’s the temptation to retreat inward, escape discomfort, and protect ourselves from heartbreak. But real love demands we show up, with our weaknesses, awkwardness, and all.Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time.📲 For daily alerts, text the word BECOME to the number 855-888-0444Join the conversation in our FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/John's new book STEPS is out! Check it out here: https://becomenew.com/steps/Want to work the steps with a friend or small group? Visit: STEPSGUIDE.com📧 Subscribe for daily emails with these videos and accompanying thoughts: https://bit.ly/46AZ0rN🙏🏻 Need prayer? Text us at 855-888-0444, we would love to pray for you!🙌🏻  Interested in content for leaders? Subscribe to Become New for Leaders: https://bit.ly/3PH4FWnBe sure to join our Facebook Group (link below) to continue the conversation and don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel BecomeNew.Me and say hello 👋 in the comments. And make sure you tap the bell icon 🔔 to be notified when the next episode releases.CONNECT WITH US AT:😊 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/🎙Podcast: https://becomenew.buzzsprout.com🤳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/Music: Jazz Club feat. PAINT WITH SOUND, MB012OXVQBHHT4D

What if the best version of you could speak to the most distracted version of you… Except before you scroll? Today we’re joined by Royce Branning, founder of ClearSpace, who’s asking questions like these. Royce’s app is designed to interrupt compulsive phone use and help people reclaim control of their attention, time, and ultimately, their soul. Like us, he’s deeply passionate about living a spiritually intentional life in a digital world.Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time.📲 For daily alerts, text the word BECOME to the number 855-888-0444Join the conversation in our FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/John's new book STEPS is out! Check it out here: https://becomenew.com/steps/Want to work the steps with a friend or small group? Visit: STEPSGUIDE.com📧 Subscribe for daily emails with these videos and accompanying thoughts: https://bit.ly/46AZ0rN🙏🏻 Need prayer? Text us at 855-888-0444, we would love to pray for you!🙌🏻  Interested in content for leaders? Subscribe to Become New for Leaders: https://bit.ly/3PH4FWnBe sure to join our Facebook Group (link below) to continue the conversation and don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel BecomeNew.Me and say hello 👋 in the comments. And make sure you tap the bell icon 🔔 to be notified when the next episode releases.CONNECT WITH US AT:😊 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/🎙Podcast: https://becomenew.buzzsprout.com🤳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/Music: Jazz Club feat. PAINT WITH SOUND, MB012OXVQBHHT4D

Explore the fascinating link between technology and spirituality, where tools can enhance rather than control our lives. Discover the crucial role of play in childhood development, emphasizing learning through experience and mistakes. Delve into the importance of real-life experiences in spiritual growth, contrasting play with faith journeys. Lastly, contemplate the dual nature of suffering as embodied by Jesus, encouraging a deeper appreciation of life and faith in a tech-driven world.

Explore the 10 commitments of tech-wise families and discover how to live intentionally in a digitally distracted world. The conversation emphasizes balancing consumption with creativity, promoting rest, and nurturing personal connections. Learn effective strategies for managing screen time that encourage meaningful interactions among family members. Additionally, the importance of sustaining loving relationships through life's challenges is highlighted, guiding listeners to find personal growth and community support.

Explore the tension between our digital lives and the rich, fulfilling experiences God offers. Discover how technology can both connect and isolate us. Hear insights on parenting in a world dominated by screens, and the impact of digital distractions on our children's development. Delve into the ways technology shapes personal spirituality and mental health, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and genuine connections. This journey encourages reflection and action to cultivate a deeper, more meaningful life.

Explore themes of new beginnings and the creative nature of God, encouraging listeners to see each day as a chance for spiritual growth. Discover the harmony of creation with a focus on the unpredictable beauty of nature, illustrated through the wonder of sea creatures and birds. Embrace individuality and the joyful wildness in your life, with reflections on staying true to yourself amidst societal pressures. Engaging stories highlight the importance of recognizing your uniqueness within God's grand design.

Dive into the themes of spiritual dryness and emotional dullness. Discover how C.S. Lewis's 'Screwtape Letters' provides insights for those feeling distant from God. Explore the 'law of undulation,' revealing life's emotional highs and lows as vital for growth. Hear personal stories of perseverance and the strength found in community support during challenging times. This engaging discussion encourages embracing struggles and recognizing their role in spiritual maturity.

Discover the intricate relationship between habits and spiritual growth, emphasizing the shift from 'habits' to 'practices' for a more nurturing approach. Delve into how enjoyable rituals can enhance well-being and encourage personal development. Explore the balance between routine and flexibility, advocating for vibrant daily practices rather than rigid habits. Learn about the importance of community engagement in fostering accessible spirituality, making personal growth a shared journey. This conversation is filled with insights to reframe your daily rituals!

Explore the journey of self-worth and how it ties into our perspectives on the world. Discover the balance between recognizing personal significance and staying connected to a greater purpose. Using the film 'Inside Out', find out why embracing all emotions is crucial for a fulfilling life. Through love for God and others, listeners learn to transcend self-centeredness and cultivate a values-driven existence.

Listeners are encouraged to engage deeply in their spiritual journey and embrace each moment. The discussion highlights how personal faith can provide renewal during tough times. A powerful story illustrates the joy found in overcoming hardship and letting go of the past. Generosity emerges as a key theme, showcasing how acts of kindness can alleviate worries, fostering community strength and positivity. Ultimately, embracing life with gratitude leads to a more fulfilling existence.