

Become New with John Ortberg
Become New
Join John Ortberg each day for 10 minutes of spiritual guidance on the person we are becoming.
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Feb 26, 2025 • 14min
33. Step 10: How Daily Self-Inventory Leads to Spiritual Growth | John Ortberg
Discover the transformative power of daily self-inventory in fostering spiritual growth. The discussion highlights the integration of ancient Greek philosophy with practical self-reflection. It emphasizes recognizing both strengths and flaws to lead a more purposeful life. Key themes include reflecting on emotional responses, particularly anger and frustration, and the importance of addressing internal conflicts. Community support and guidance from the Spirit are also celebrated as vital for spiritual journeys.

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Feb 25, 2025 • 13min
32. Step 9: How to Let Go of Resentment and Finally Heal | John Ortberg
Explore the transformative journey from resentment to reconciliation. Learn how making amends can repair broken relationships, highlighting the differences in how men and women approach forgiveness. Enjoy the powerful analogy of shared meals invoking memories that facilitate healing. Dive into the story of the prodigal son, illustrating the importance of understanding past harm and the art of active listening. Experience a focus on genuine regret and its role in spiritual renewal.

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Feb 24, 2025 • 15min
31. Step 9: How to Make Amends without Causing More Damage (w/Rick Blackmon)
Joining the conversation is Rick Blackmon, a seasoned speaker on recovery and personal growth. He dives deep into the transformative journey of making amends, sharing insights on the crucial balance between seeking forgiveness and taking personal responsibility. Blackmon explores the CRAFT method for relationship repair, emphasizing the importance of accountability in mending ties. He highlights the art of apology and the significance of heartfelt gestures in relationships, showing how sincerity fosters genuine personal growth.

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Feb 21, 2025 • 15min
30. Step 9: When You Shouldn't Make Amends | John Ortberg
Delve into the profound significance of making amends in relationships and personal growth. Discover fascinating historical insights on forgiveness, penance, and their evolution through Christianity. The discussion navigates the delicate nuances of apologies, emphasizing the importance of context and timing. Gain insight into the complex challenges of reparation in sensitive situations, especially past harms, while recognizing the healing potential that the amends process can offer. It's a heartfelt exploration of redemption and connection.

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Feb 20, 2025 • 13min
29. Step 9: Healing Broken Relationships | John Ortberg
Discover the transformative power of making amends as the podcast delves into personal journeys of healing and forgiveness. It draws inspiration from classic tales to illustrate how confronting past mistakes can lead to profound joy and generosity. The significance of reconciliation is explored through biblical examples, emphasizing the courage needed to mend broken relationships. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own journeys towards redemption and the impact of self-reflection in their lives.

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Feb 19, 2025 • 12min
28. Step 8: Why People Stay Stuck in Their Past and How to Break Free | John Ortberg
Discover why making amends is crucial for spiritual growth. The conversation highlights the transformative power of genuine apologies through biblical examples like Peter and Zacchaeus. It delves into the spiritual liberation found in taking responsibility and contrasts different types of apologies. Personal recovery stories from Alcoholics Anonymous illustrate how amends can strengthen connections and foster personal growth. This insightful dialogue encourages listeners to reflect on their past and embrace the journey toward healing.

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Feb 18, 2025 • 15min
27. Step 8: Here's Exactly How to Make Amends with Someone | John Ortberg
Discover the transformative power of making amends in relationships, inspired by Jesus' teachings on love and forgiveness. Delve into the challenging journey of acknowledging personal faults and the necessity of accountability. Learn how introspection and recognizing the harm done are crucial steps towards healing and reconciliation. This discussion emphasizes the importance of prioritizing relationships over ritual and highlights the path to genuine connection.

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Feb 17, 2025 • 15min
26: Step 8: Why Making Amends Leads to Healing | John Ortberg
Delve into the transformative power of making amends for spiritual growth. The story of Zacchaeus highlights the importance of relational restoration. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their relationships and seek healing. Discover how these concepts can foster personal development and deepen connections with others.

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Feb 14, 2025 • 14min
25. Step 7: Why You’re Not Changing as Fast as You Want To | John Ortberg
Explore the importance of humility in spiritual growth, emphasizing patience and acceptance during life's challenges. Delve into how facing temptations can lead to significant character development through personal stories. Discover the power of transforming thought patterns via scripture and prayer, highlighting the role of community support. This journey of reformation focuses on changing desires rather than just actions, fostering a deeper connection with oneself and a higher purpose.

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Feb 13, 2025 • 12min
24. Step 7: How Much Change Should I Expect to Take Place In My Life? | John Ortberg
Explore the intricate dance of personal transformation and spiritual growth. Discover how optimism meets realism in our journeys, likened to Labrador dogs. Dive into the metaphor of golf to illustrate fleeting moments of clarity and the importance of embracing failure. Learn about the power of divine grace in overcoming challenges like addiction. Reflect on the intersection of faith and social justice while uncovering inspiring promises from recovery texts that foster commitment and community connection.


