

Derate The Hate
Wilk Wilkinson
Bettering the world one attitude at a time. We did not create the hate, but together, we can đżđđ§đđ©đ đđđ đđđ©đ! In a world filled with divisiveness, and dominated by F.O.G. (Fear, Outrage & Grievance), it's time we find a better way to engage. That all starts with each of us as individuals. We cannot control all that we encounter within our day to day lives, or the environment in which we live, but we certainly have the ability and responsibility to control how we react to it. For me, it starts with gratitude and personal accountability. Take a listen and see if there is something here to help you in taking your part in turning down the hate. Welcome to the đżđđ§đđ©đ đđđ đđđ©đ đđ€đđđđšđ©...
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Aug 6, 2025 âą 38min
Purpose Whispers, Division Shouts: Tune Out the Noise - DTH Episode 275 with Neil Ghosh
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!DTH Episode 275 with Neil Ghosh â Purpose, Empathy, and Engaged CitizenshipThis week, Wilk is joined by Neil Ghosh - author, executive, and social impact strategist, for a powerful conversation on purpose, empathy, and building a meaningful legacy. From the immigrant experience to small acts of micro-altruism, Neil shares personal stories and actionable insights that remind us why active participation in democracy and community is more important than ever.đ§ Key Takeaways:Purpose whispersâlearn how to hear it.Empathy is a civic strength.Teach kids to reject hate.Small actions create big impact.Democracy needs YOU. đïž Notable quotes: âEmpathy is not a blue state value, or a red state value, it's an American value.â âDisagreement creates innovation.âđ§ What You'll Learn:How purpose reveals itself throughout lifeWhy Gen Z wants to talk politics at workâand how leaders can respondThe power of micro-altruism in the workplace and beyondHow to teach kids to recognize and reject hateWhy civic engagement is the foundation of a healthy democracyThe world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jul 30, 2025 âą 35min
Reigniting Purpose Through Gratitude & Legacy - DTH Episode 274 with Dean Taylor
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!Episode 274: Reigniting Purpose Through Gratitude & Legacy with Dean TaylorIn this episode, Wilk is joined by Dean Taylor for a powerful discussion on how gratitude, personal accountability, and intentional mindset shifts can transform your life. Dean opens up about rediscovering his purpose after years of feeling stuck, inspired by the dream his father never got to fulfill. They explore the power of morning routines, the Miracle Morning framework, and how faith and storytelling can help build a life of meaning and impact.đ Key Takeaways:Gratitude is a mindset that can change your whole outlookPersonal accountability is the first step toward growthThe Miracle Morning creates momentum and mental clarityLegacy isnât just what you leave behindâit's what you live nowItâs never too late to start dreaming againđŹ Learn more about Dean at DeanTaylorOfficial.com đČ Connect on Instagram or LinkedInđ§ Tune in now to fuel your purpose and build your legacy.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jul 23, 2025 âą 35min
Healing Division with Unity In Service - DTH Episode 273 with Chip Webster
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!Can community service heal what politics has broken?This week, Wilk sits down with Chip Webster, founder of Unity in Service, for a powerful conversation about bridging divides through action, not outrage. From the rise of cancel culture to the erosion of trust in democracy, Chip offers a bold vision for rebuilding unityâone citizen at a time.đŹ Key themes:The lost art of responsible citizenshipHow volunteering fosters empathy and shared purposeThe transformative power of microvalidationsA call to rethink national service as a unifying forceWhether you're tired of toxic politics or searching for real solutions, this episode will challenge and inspire you to engage with hopeâand serve with purpose.đ Learn more & get involved: unityinservice.orgđ§ Listen now and be part of the solution.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jul 16, 2025 âą 37min
Restoring Our Belief in Each Other: A New Civic Path for Healing America- DTH Episode 272 with Rich Harwood
Send Wilk a text with your feedback! Restoring Our Belief in Each Other: A New Civic Path for Healing America â Episode 272 with Rich Harwood In Episode 272 of Derate The Hate, Wilk welcomes Rich Harwood, founder of The Harwood Institute, to discuss how civic engagement, shared aspirations, and community agency can overcome toxic division in America. Drawing on decades of experience revitalizing communities, Rich explains how we can reject the ugliness of politics and embrace the dignity of building together. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to restore connection, purpose, and hope in their community.Key Topics:Civic engagement in a divided timeThe âEnough Time to Buildâ campaignReclaiming empathy and dignityBuilding a new civic pathCreating visible action in local communitiesRestoring agency and shared aspirationsWho is Rich Harwood? Rich Harwood is President and Founder of The Harwood Institute for Public Innovation and author of The New Civic Path: Restoring Our Belief in One Another and Our Nation. Heâs spent over 35 years leading efforts to heal fractured communities and drive social change through public innovation.Connect with Rich Harwood: đ www.theharwoodinstitute.orgđ§ Listen now and share with someone whoâs ready to help rebuild whatâs been broken.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jul 9, 2025 âą 36min
Bridging Divides Through Living Room Conversations - DTH Episode 271 with Stewart Fletcher
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!Bridging Divides Through Living Room ConversationsIn this episode of Derate The Hate, host Wilk Wilkinson welcomes Stewart Fletcher, Director of Communications for Living Room Conversations. They explore the power of civil dialogue in healing political and social divides, the importance of empathy and curiosity, and how structured conversations can help build trust across differences.Stewart shares his personal story of entering the bridge-building space and explains how Living Room Conversations works to reconnect communities through meaningful, respectful discussion.Learn more about Stewart and Living Room Conversations: đ livingroomconversations.org đ· Instagram: @livingroomconvo đ Facebook: Living Room Conversations đŒ LinkedIn: Living Room Conversations đș YouTube: @LivingRoomConversations đ Ready to be part of the solution?Subscribe to the Derate The Hate podcast and check out BraverAngels.org to join the movement. The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jul 2, 2025 âą 34min
From Polarization to Proactive Citizenship - DTH Episode 270 with Braver Angels Co-Founder Dr. Bill Doherty
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!Episode 270: From Polarization to Proactive Citizenship â with Dr. Bill DohertyIn the first official Derate The Hate episode produced in collaboration with Braver Angels, host Wilk Wilkinson is joined by Braver Angels co-founder Dr. Bill Doherty to explore how we can move beyond polarization through meaningful citizenship and personal accountability.Dr. Doherty shares insights on the founding of Braver Angels and introduces the concept of âthick citizenshipââa form of civic engagement that goes beyond voting and paying taxes to include structured conversations, problem-solving, and shared community responsibility.đ In this episode:Why Braver Angels was founded in 2016How âthinâ citizenship fuels polarizationWhat âthickâ citizenship looks like in practiceThe power of structured conversations and listening to understandHow personal accountability can heal a divided societyđ§ Tune in to learn how you can be part of the solution.Subscribe to the Derate The Hate podcast and please visit BraverAngels.org to get involved.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jun 25, 2025 âą 35min
Political Detox & Shadow Work: Reclaiming Emotional Sovereignty in a Polarized World â DTH Episode 269 with Chuck Gafvert
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!Political Detox & Shadow Work: Reclaiming Emotional Sovereignty in a Polarized WorldIn Episode 269 of the Derate The Hate podcast, host Wilk sits down with Chuck Gafvert â a former corporate executive turned political detox coach and Jungian psychology practitioner. They explore the deep psychological roots of political stress, the harmful effects of toxic polarization, and how we can regain inner peace through self-awareness and emotional responsibility.đŻ What Youâll Learn in This Episode:How Jungian shadow work can reduce political anxietyWhy political identity shouldn't define your self-worthHow social media hijacks your emotional systemPractical ways to break free from political stressđ§ âPolitics causes suffering â but it can also be a gateway for transformation.â â Chuck GafvertChuck also shares immediate steps you can take today to reduce political anxiety, including insights from his free eBook:đ Grab Chuckâs Free eBook: 5 Steps to Start Reducing Political StressđŁ Donât forget to subscribe, rate, and share! Learn more about Wilkâs work at DerateTheHate.comThe world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jun 18, 2025 âą 34min
From Hate to Humanity: Jeff Schoep's Journey Out of Extremism â DTH Episode 268 with Jeff Schoep
Send Wilk a text with your feedback! đïž From Hate to Humanity: Jeff Schoep's Journey Out of Extremism In Episode 268 of the Derate The Hate podcast, host Wilk Wilkinson welcomes back Jeff Schoepâformer neo-Nazi leader turned leading deradicalization expertâto discuss his new memoir, "American Nazi: From Hate to Humanity."In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, Jeff shares how he went from heading the National Socialist Movement to becoming a global voice in counter-extremism. He opens up about the moments that cracked his extremist ideology, the violent past heâs reckoning with, and his mission to help others find a way out of hate.They also explore the modern implications of identity politics, fear-driven narratives, and the shared humanity we must embrace to prevent radicalization in all its forms.Donât miss this compelling episode on transformation, redemption, and the path forward.đ "American Nazi: From Hate to Humanity" releases this weekâlearn more at JeffSchoep.com đ§ Listen now on your favorite platform and share with someone who needs to hear this.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jun 11, 2025 âą 42min
From Average Mohamed to Dissident: Mohamed Ahmed Returns â DTH Episode 267
Send Wilk a text with your feedback!From Average Mohamed to Dissident: Mohamed Ahmed ReturnsMohamed Ahmed, known to many as "Average Mohamed," returns to the Derate the Hate podcast for a powerful third appearance. In Episode 267, Mohamed discusses the closure of the Average Mohamed Organization and his new mission with the Republican People of Color (RPOC.org) PAC. He also introduces his second book, Dissidence in America, a bold call for non-violent civic engagement and principled dissent.Topics covered include:The evolution from anti-radicalization activism to broader anti-hate advocacyChallenges of being a Black, Muslim, Republican in a polarized political landscapeThe impact of government surveillance and censorship on activistsThe founding of RPOC.org and why political action is the next necessary stepThe importance of peaceful protest and defending American democratic valuesMohamedâs journey reminds us that loving our country means standing up for the ideals of liberty, equality, and justiceâeven when the road is hard.About the Guest: Mohamed Ahmed has been recognized as a Citizen Diplomat by the U.S. State Department and Global Ties USA. He is the founder of RPOC.org and the author of Average Mohamed: Freedom Fighter and Dissidence in America. A proud Minnesotan, businessman, and father of five, Mohamed believes in fighting the good fight one soul at a timeâwith values, vision, and unwavering peaceful resolve. đ Get his books free at RPOC.org đČ Follow Mohamed on Twitter/X @averagemohamed đ Connect on LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook & Instagram @averagemohamedThe world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.

Jun 4, 2025 âą 35min
Beyond the Politics of Contempt - DTH Episode 266 with Doug Teschner and Beth Malow
Send Wilk a text with your feedback! Beyond the Politics of Contempt â DTH Episode 266 with Beth Malow and Doug Teschner In this powerful episode of Derate The Hate, host Wilk Wilkinson sits down with fellow Braver Angels Beth Malow and Doug Teschner to discuss their upcoming book, Beyond the Politics of Contempt: Practical Steps to Build Positive Relationships in Divided Times. In a time when toxic polarization threatens the fabric of our nation, Beth and Doug offer a hopeful and actionable roadmap to reconnect with one anotherâacross political, personal, and cultural divides.Key Topics Covered:The rise of "conflict entrepreneurs" and their role in fueling divisionWhy people are craving meaningful connection in today's polarized climateHow self-reflection and emotional intelligence are vital for healing dividesPractical tools for restoring relationships damaged by political conflictBridge-building activism that promotes dignity, respect, and understandingThe role of hope and empathy in shaping a better futureTips for standing firm in your beliefs while building bridgesNotable Quotes:âPeople are looking for something better.ââSelf-reflection is key to change.ââItâs about being part of the solution.ââWe can solve any problem if we feel heard.ââHope is essential for our country.âConnect & Subscribe: đ Visit togethernow.substack.com to subscribe to Beth and Dougâs free newsletter, Together Across Differences. đ Visit BraverAngels.org to learn more about America's largest grassroots movement towards bridging divides. đ§ Subscribe to Derate The Hate on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. Donât forget to leave a rating and review!đŁ Share this episode with someone whoâs ready to move beyond contempt and build a stronger, more united America.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all youâve got. Make every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact The Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels â Americaâs largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.org Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast! *The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.