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In this episode, I’m joined by Stacey Fitzgerald, who shares her profound journey through betrayal trauma and her path to healing. Stacey opens up about the resurfacing of her trauma in 2021, describing intense physical symptoms like panic attacks and a racing heart. She emphasizes the importance of feeling safe and regulating the nervous system. Stacey’s healing process involved spiritual, emotional, and physical approaches, including prayer, music, and understanding the mind-body connection. Now, she helps other women navigate similar experiences through her platform, "Becoming Safe." To learn more about Stacey and her resources, visit BecomingSafe.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Healing and safety in the context of betrayal traumaPersonal experiences of betrayal trauma in relationshipsResurfacing of trauma and its physical symptomsThe role of spiritual, emotional, and physical approaches in healingImportance of feeling safe and regulating the nervous systemImpact of trauma on mental and physical healthThe concept of holistic healing encompassing spirit, soul, and bodyTools and resources for women navigating similar experiencesThe significance of community support in the healing journeyAddressing the interplay between personal healing and external circumstancesMore Resources:Online Wives Care GroupsFind a Counselor or CoachFree Wives Care WebinarRelated Podcasts:Self-Care and Rest for Wives Healing from Betrayal TraumaEmotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesBetrayal Healing Phases----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

In this heartfelt episode, I chat with Kate and Will Conwell about their journey through betrayal trauma and healing in their marriage. Kate shares her work with "Journey Beyond Betrayal," a ministry supporting women facing similar struggles. Will opens up about his past issues with sexual brokenness and infidelity, and how these impacted their relationship. We explore the importance of sharing personal stories for healing and connection and the crucial role of faith in recovery. This episode is all about offering hope and encouragement to couples dealing with betrayal trauma. If this is you, you aren’t alone!To learn more about Kate and her resources for wives, visit JourneyBeyondBetrayal.com.To learn more about 423 Men’s groups, visit 423Communities.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The Conwells' journey through betrayal trauma in their marriage.Will's struggles with sexual brokenness and infidelity.The significance of sharing personal stories for healing and connection.The role of faith in overcoming challenges in relationships.The impact of early exposure to pornography on men's relationships.The process of confronting and addressing infidelity and its aftermath.The importance of self-awareness and communication in marriage.Messages of hope for individuals facing relationship struggles.Resources and support systems available for healing and recovery.More Resources:Wives Care Online GroupsGateway to Freedom 3-Day IntensiveHelp to Tell Your StoryRelated Podcasts:Living More than a Love StoryThe Journey to StayBetrayal Healing Phases

In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the theme of emotional growth and the importance of relationships among men. We start by sharing some personal stories about our dads and male role models, highlighting how men often prioritize being providers over nurturing emotional connections. A key highlight of this episode features a movie character from our Gateway to Freedom workshop, who realizes his potential after being told, "You could have been great." This statement is loaded with powerful insights for men when they realize their lives are running on the wrong tracks. We want men to experience their full potential as image bearers of God; to know him fully and love others deeply.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The significance of emotional growth in men's lives.The role of relationships and male connections in personal development.The impact of societal expectations on men's focus on productivity and financial success.Reflections on personal experiences with fathers and male role models.The portrayal of an emotionally stunted character in a movie and its implications.The wake-up call of recognizing one's potential and the importance of relationships.The concept of greatness and how it relates to emotional and spiritual fulfillment.The importance of accountability and honest feedback among male friends.The transformative power of truth and listening to others' stories.Encouragement for men to prioritize emotional well-being and meaningful connections.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensiveGrace-Based Recovery Online Study Groups49 Days of Growth*Related Podcasts: Men's Emotional Self-Awareness TestA 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional GrowthWhat Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

In this episode, I welcome back Cat Etherington, the director of recovery at the Naked Truth Project. We explore the profound impact of betrayal trauma on wives and the journey towards healing and forgiveness. Cat explains the stages of healing: Safety and stabilization, Remembering and mourning, Reconnection She emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, not as a pressured obligation but as a personal outcome of healing. We also discuss how friends and family can provide tangible support during this difficult time. For more information on Cat and her resources, visit nakedtruthproject.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Impact of betrayal on a wife and the process of healing and forgivenessEmotional aspects of navigating betrayal traumaKey stages of healing from betrayal traumaImportance of forgiveness in the healing processReadiness to forgive and precursors in the healing journeyDifferentiating between trauma triggers and griefReconnecting with the world after betrayal traumaSupport from friends and family for those experiencing betrayal traumaMore Resources:Wives Care GroupsWives Care Basics WebinarCounseling or CoachingRelated Podcasts:8 Practical Steps of ForgivenessThe Recovery Process for CouplesHelping Wives Recover from the Aftershock of Sexual Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

ONLY 1 WEEK LEFT TO DOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Pastor Marty Machowski to discuss the pressing issue of identity, particularly sexual identity. Marty shares his experiences counseling families whose children are grappling with gender and sexual orientation issues. He highlights the rapid acceleration of these challenges and introduces his book, "God Made Boys and Girls," as a resource for parents. We delve into the impact of public education on children's understanding of identity, the importance of grounding identity in biblical truth, and the need for compassionate, open conversations between parents and children. Marty also shares insights from his support group, "Affirmed," offering hope and practical guidance for families.To learn more about Marty and his resources for parents, visit MartyMachowski.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Identity and sexual orientation struggles in childrenImpact of public education on children's understanding of identityDisconnecting physical reality from emotional and subjective feelingsDiversity within gender categories and its impact on identityTrauma and abuse's impact on individuals struggling with gender identityBiblical perspective on identity and being made in the image of GodImportance of open and honest conversations with children about identity and genderTransitioning from being disciplinarians to influencers in children's livesFacilitating support groups for families dealing with identity and sexual orientation strugglesEncouraging parents to build a foundation of relationship and compassion with their childrenMore Resources:God Made Boys and Girls* by Marty MachowskiCritical Conversations Webinar (Free!)Identity* by John FortRelated Podcasts:God Made Boys and GirlsExposing the Gender LieIdentity and the Goodness of Sexuality*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

DOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Carol Juergensen Sheets, better known as Carol the Coach, a certified sex addiction therapist. We reminisce about her last appearance in March 2020, where we focused on empathy for husbands. Carol shares her journey since 2007, emphasizing the importance of empathy in all relationships. She introduces her Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM), which involves working with both partners from the start to foster post-traumatic growth. Carol explains the role of empathy in healing from infidelity, highlighting the long-term process and the need for genuine understanding. She also provides resources for couples seeking support and offers a hopeful message for those on their healing journey.To learn more about Carol and her resources, visit SexHelpWithCarolTheCoach.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Carol's background and expertise in sex addiction therapyThe importance of empathy in relationshipsDevelopment of the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM)Key elements and focus of ERCEMThe role of empathy within ERCEMChallenges and time required for healing from infidelityCommon misconceptions about empathyProgress and resources available for couples seeking supportMessage of hope and encouragement for couples dealing with infidelityMore Resources:Help Them Heal Couples WorkshopHelp Them Heal bookHelp Them Heal online courseRelated Podcasts:Helping Husbands Learn and Practice Empathy4 Skills to Transform Your MarriageThe Recovery Process for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

DOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I chat with Crystal Renaud Day about the SHE Virtual Recovery Summit, a transformative event for women battling unwanted sexual behaviors like pornography addiction. Crystal shares her personal journey and insights from years of ministry, emphasizing the importance of surrender, accountability, and community in recovery. We discuss the summit's role in providing a safe, supportive space for women and even teens to find healing and resources. Crystal's passion for helping women shines through, and we invite listeners to join the summit and take steps toward wholeness in Christ.To learn more about the SHE Summit and register, visit SheRecovery.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:SHE Virtual Recovery SummitSupport and resources for women struggling with unwanted sexual behaviorsPersonal experiences and insights from Crystal Renaud DayImportance and topics covered during the eventResearch on women's view of pornTraining for women in recoveryMinistry to women dealing with unwanted sexual behaviorsStories of transformation and victoryShe Virtual Recovery Summit as a space for learning, growth, and surrenderThe significance of surrender, confession, accountability, responsibility, and sharing in the recovery processMore Resources:SHE Virtual Recovery Summit (use affiliate code BEBROKEN for a 10% discount!)What Drives Women to Porn? Survey Results90 Days to Wholeness* by Crystal Renaud DayRelated Podcasts:New Research on Why Women View PornTotal Freedom for Women Struggling with PornGod's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual Shame*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

DOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen and I dive into the journey of emotional self-awareness, especially for men – and offer a simple test to measure self-awareness. We explore the different levels of self-awareness, from complete unawareness to deep emotional understanding. Stephen shares his inspiration for creating this self-awareness test, aiming to help men gauge their emotional awareness so they can continue toward greater awareness and maturity. We discuss how family history shapes emotional patterns and the importance of recognizing triggers. Our conversation emphasizes the significance of aligning with the Holy Spirit and striving for emotional maturity. For more insight from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Emotional self-awareness and self-awareness test for menDifferent levels of emotional self-awarenessConnection between triggers and emotional responsesImpact of family of origin on emotional patterns and behaviorsDevelopment of a self-awareness test for menChallenges men face in understanding and expressing emotionsImportance of recognizing and acknowledging one's feelingsImpact of family of origin on emotional developmentPhysical and emotional connections, retraining the mind and emotionsAlignment with the Holy Spirit and emotional program, journey of growth and maturityMore Resources:The Men's Emotional Self-Awareness TestGrowth Map* by Stephen CervantesGrace-Based Transformation* by Jonathan DaughertyRelated Podcasts:How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?100 Recovery Rules (with Mark Denison)A 3-Year Roadmap for Recovery and Emotional Growth*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

In this episode, Stephen and I dive into the journey of emotional maturity and self-awareness. We explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing emotional immaturity. Our conversation highlights the role of grief in self-discovery and the impact of critical parenting on self-criticism. Stephen and I stress the need for honesty, vulnerability, and self-reflection in achieving emotional growth and maturity. We encourage listeners to embrace uncertainty and seek support, underscoring that emotional maturity is a continuous process of growth and understanding.For more insights from Dr. Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional maturity and self-awarenessImpact of childhood experiences on adult behaviorRecognizing and addressing emotional immaturityRole of grief in the process of emotional healingImpact of critical parenting on self-criticism and judgmental behaviorShaping oneness in relationshipsGrief and fear in recognizing emotional patterns and transformationImportance of admitting uncertainty and vulnerabilityEmbracing the journey of growth and changeSeeking support and guidance for personal and relational growthMore Resources:49 Days of Growth* by Stephen CervantesGrowth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy* by Stephen CervantesUntangling Emotions* by Groves and SmithRelated Podcasts: Moving from Being Fear-Driven to Love-DrivenWhy Men Need to Practice SadnessHow Brokenness Fits with Wholeness in Christ*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

In this episode, I welcome back Dan Drake and introduce Janice Caudill, both experts in therapeutic disclosure for marriages affected by sexual betrayal. We dive into the importance of truth in healing relationships, discussing how disclosure helps rebuild trust. In our conversation, Dan and Jaunice walk us through the disclosure process, emphasizing the impact of betrayal, readiness for disclosure, tailored approaches, the “choreography” of disclosure, and the post-disclosure phase that highlights potential obstacles when rebuilding trust. To get access to Dan and Janice’s resources, visit KintsugiRecoveryPartners.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Development of resources for disclosure in marriages affected by sexual betrayalAvailability of resources on Kintsugi Recovery Partners websiteImpact of sexual betrayal on relationshipsDefinition of disclosure and its importance in healingImportance of readiness for disclosureTailored approaches to disclosure based on each couple's unique situationProcess and key elements of disclosureChoreography of the disclosure processSignificance of disclosure in healing and rebuilding trustMore Resources:Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Betrayal*Full Disclosure: Seeking the Truth After Betrayal*Disclosure Guide TrainingRelated Podcasts:Understanding Therapeutic Disclosure in Marriage Affected by Sexual BetrayalConfession and Disclosure for CouplesHow to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.