

PSR Podcast
Jonathan Daugherty
Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org or message us @puresexradio on X. Access video version on Vimeo.
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Aug 28, 2020 • 33min
Hope and Help for Women Struggling with Unwanted Sexual Behaviors
Kimberly Johnson faced heartbreaking trauma in her childhood and spent 23 years engaging in sexually addictive behaviors as a result. But she has a story of hope! In this episode, Kim shares her journey to freedom and how her story is being used to help women around the globe find their own hope and freedom from porn and other unwanted sexual behaviors. Learn more about Kim and her counseling practice at DivineID.org. Learn more about the 40 Days of Purity for Women online course at PureLifeAcademy.org.

Aug 25, 2020 • 29min
Replacing Escaping & Hiding with Healthy Thoughts & Behaviors
Why does it take so long to recover from sexually addictive patterns? What does it mean to "play the long game"? In this episode, we dive into the damaging habits of escaping and hiding, and how to replace this with healthy thoughts and behaviors. Let's learn to "be real" together and take better care of ourselves through genuine recovery!

Aug 18, 2020 • 28min
Pastors on Porn
Does failure automatically and permanently disqualify Christian leaders from effective ministry? If not, how can leaders "walk with a limp" and still disciple others well? In this episode we hear from Vern Tompke, a pastor for 30 years who understands this journey personally. Gain encouragement, insights, and practical help for pastors and leaders who want to serve God and others through their brokenness. Learn more about Vern and the resources he offers at BandOfBrothers.care.

Aug 10, 2020 • 31min
From Broken Home to Broken Sexuality to Wholeness in Christ
Janet Boynes never intended to live a lesbian lifestyle for 14 years, but that is where her childhood chaos and sexual brokenness took her. This episode unpacks her story and the twists and turns of the journey out of brokenness and into wholeness in Christ.To learn more about Janet and her ministry, visit JanetBoynesMinistries.com.

Aug 4, 2020 • 30min
Finding Rest by Speaking Out Your Deepest Fear
Addiction never creates restfulness. In fact, it does the exact opposite. So, how does an addicted person discover true rest for their mind and soul? In this episode, we suggest a counterintuitive way to discover the rest your heart longs for: by speaking out your deepest fear. Join us for a robust discussion on how to identify your restlessness and how to find it through courageous vulnerability.

Jul 28, 2020 • 29min
How Are You Processing COVID Stress?
How do you respond to difficult moments and seasons that you can't predict? Such as the COVID-19 pandemic? These are unusual and unique times for all of us worldwide. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share their personal thoughts on how they have been processing this difficult season, and invite you to consider how you are processing this moment in your own life. To engage our online courses from anywhere in the world, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.

Jul 24, 2020 • 30min
Hope for Families in South Africa & Around the World
We have Brendan Botha from South Africa back with us again to talk more about the damaging effects of porn and how families can break free from its influence. This issue is global and ubiquitous. Listen in to gain hope for yourself and your family. Learn more about Brendan and their ministry at Break-Free.co.za.

Jul 21, 2020 • 30min
A Story of Hope & Freedom in South Africa
We have a special guest on the program today. Brendan Botha was raised in a broken home in South Africa, and was introduced to porn at an early age. In this episode, Brendan shares his story of brokenness, faith, recovery, and what it looks like to pursue authentic, biblical manhood. May you be encouraged by his story to pursue greater integrity in your own life.Learn more about Brendan and his ministry at Break-Free.co.za.

Jul 14, 2020 • 29min
The Intimacy You Crave
Lucille Williams has ministered to couples and families for over 25 years. She has a strong desire to safeguard marriages, especially when it comes to what happens in the bedroom. In this episode, Lucille shares some of her story and gives lots of insights for couples who want to improve intimacy in their marriage. To learn more about Lucille and her book, The Intimacy You Crave, visit LuSays.com.

Jul 7, 2020 • 29min
Good Questions for Women to Ask Men
Are you a single woman who desires to be married, or maybe are already in a dating relationship that has potential for marriage? Then this episode will help you to ask strategic questions of your boyfriend to understand him better and make an informed decision about whatever the next steps might be in the relationship. These questions were developed by men for the sake of helping women know a man much, much better.The Questions:Ask him to make all the plans for one month.Does he do a lot of "lovey dovey" talk?Ask when and how he was introduced to porn.How does he manage sexual struggles?What is he doing to train himself to practice self-control?What are his boundaries for watching TV and movies?How does he handle stress?How dose he handle differences?Is he insightful about himself?Does he listen to know you or to "work" you?What are his values?