

PSR Podcast
Jonathan Daugherty
Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org or message us @puresexradio on X. Access video version on Vimeo.
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Sep 6, 2022 • 34min
Hope and Healing After Abortion
Our guest today is Karin Barbito. She is the Special Projects Coordinator at Support After Abortion, an organization whose mission is to end the demand for abortion through healing people impacted by abortion.In this episode, Karin shares her own abortion healing story, the connections between sexual brokenness and abortion, the hope of healing after abortion, specific stages of healing, and also how abortion impacts men.To learn more about Karin and the resources provided by Support After Abortion, visit SupportAfterAbortion.com or call 844-289-4673.Helpful Resources:Keys to Hope and Healing bookletsVirtual Support GroupsRelated Podcasts:Support After Abortion PodcastFreedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 30, 2022 • 31min
15 Rules of Emotionally Detached Men
In today’s episode, we unpack a list of 15 rules that emotionally detached men tend to live by, and why it’s important to know this. Here is a sampling of just the first 8 rules: I don’t know me, so I can’t know you.I don’t go to deep places, so you shouldn’t go there either. Emotions scare me, so I won’t go there even if you ask. Fear hinders me; I don’t have a healthy outlet for expressing fear.I get defensive and detach in order to make you stop talking or pursuing me.The emotional chaos of a woman is overwhelming; I would get lost in there.My wife has needs I can’t me, so I won’t try.When I don’t know what to do, I’ll just try to fix something. Dive in with us on this journey to grow and mature emotionally as men so that we can have deep, thriving relationships.More Resources: 40 Days of Training for Your SoulGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupFind a Support GroupRelated Podcasts:Why Men Struggle to LoveHow to Know Yourself to Grow and MatureAre You Open or Closed to Emotional Growth?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 23, 2022 • 32min
Racism and Sexual Brokenness
Today’s guest is Ashley Jameson, the Associate Director of Women’s Groups at Pure Desire, and she has a powerful story and message related to racism and sexual brokenness. How much is one’s identity shaped by racism and/or sexual brokenness? What kinds of wounds and trauma from racism exist that then effect sexual brokenness? Ashley shares her story of how all these elements intersected in her life and how much more prevalent they are than we imagine. She also shares a message of hope and good news for those who want to heal – and anyone who wants to help break unhealthy generational patterns. To learn more about Ashley and her work, visit PureDesire.org.More Resources: Be the Bridge by Latasha MorrisonUnwanted by Jay StringerRelated Podcasts:Sexual Abuse, Sexual Brokenness, and the GospelHow False Grace is Perpetuating Abuse in the ChurchResponding to #MeToo----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 16, 2022 • 36min
The Immanuel Approach in Recovery
Our guest on today’s program is Kristin Cary, co-founder of Living Truth, a ministry dedicated to helping those struggling with sexual brokenness to experience healing and transformation. In this episode, we focus on the Immanuel Approach and how it can be used to help individuals find deeper healing and a more intimate connection with Christ. This approach uses prayer to invite Jesus into our broken places to experience more joy and peace – and to “turn on” the relational circuits in the brain that have been shut down by trauma. To learn more about Kristin and her ministry, visit Living-Truth.org. Bonus Resources from Living Truth: Top 10 Tips to Rebuild Your Marriage After betrayal AND The Path to Freedom (ebooks)More Resources:ImmanuelApproach.comSexual Behavior Self-AssessmentMen in the BattleWomen in the BattleRelated Podcasts:Immanuel Approach with Dr. Karl Lehman (Part 1)Immanuel Approach with Dr. Karl Lehman (Part 2)Healing Your Brain----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 9, 2022 • 29min
What to Do in the Moment of Temptation
You will be tempted. It is a fact of life. And some of those temptations will be sexual temptations. How can you respond to such temptations with confidence and wisdom? In today’s episode, Stephen and I are opening the so-called “sexual temptation management toolbox” to share very practical tips for resisting temptation. So, if you’re a man who wants to improve your ability to respond well to sexual temptation, listen in and take notes!More Resources:Men.Bebroken.comWords Have PowerGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupRelated Podcasts & Media:Breaking Free with Russell WillinghamRecovery Discovery: Resisting TemptationUnderstanding Failure in Recovery----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 2, 2022 • 31min
Understanding Male Sexuality
Today’s topic is “Understanding Male Sexuality.” Someone once said that male sexuality can be like handing a shotgun to a 12-year-old! So, how are men to manage this powerful, and sometimes unruly, aspect of their being? In this episode, Stephen and I will highlight the goodness of male sexuality, the power of male sexuality, and how we can manage our sexuality in a way that honors God and blesses others.More Resources:Men.Bebroken.com40 Days of Purity Online CourseSexual Integrity Webinar for MenRelated Podcasts:Men, Men, Men!What is Healthy Masculinity?What is a Sexually Healthy Man?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Jul 26, 2022 • 31min
Helping Parents Teach Healthy Tech to Kids
Our guest today is Chris Kaspar, founder and CEO of Techless, a different kind of tech company that is helping people understand how powerful technology is and how to manage it in ways that are healthy and wise. In our conversation Chris shares some of the dangers he is seeing in the tech space, especially around smartphones, and some positive tips and insights for engaging technology and screens with confidence and balance. Technology does not have to rob your family of deep, vibrant relationships. To learn more about Techless and their amazing Wisephone, visit Techless.com. And if you’d like to get $40 off the purchase of a Wisephone, use promo code BeBroken40 when you checkout. More Resources:Family.Bebroken.comCovenantEyes.com*Emotional Resilience online courseRelated Podcasts:Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World6 Reasons Kids Search for PornScreens Disciple, and What You Can Do About It*this is an affiliate link. Be Broken may receive payment on qualifying purchases. ----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Jul 19, 2022 • 35min
Surviving Infidelity: Hilarie's Story
Our guest today is Hilarie Barry, author of the book We Survived Infidelity: An Unexpected Life Lesson and founder of the support group Infidelity Care for Women. She is also a speaker who loves to share her story and help others heal from sexual betrayal. In today’s episode, Hilarie tells her story of discovering her husband’s secret affairs and the healing journey that followed. She shares the ups and downs, the fears and doubts, and ultimately the way that led to deep personal healing and even the restoration of her marriage. To learn more about Hilarie and her resources, visit HilarieBarry.com.More Resources:WivesCare.Bebroken.comInfidelity Care for Women FB group6 Stages of Recovery for Partners of Sex AddictsRelated Podcasts:Navigating the Revelation of an AffairRebuilding Your Marriage After Sexual BetrayalBetrayal Healing Phases----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Jul 12, 2022 • 34min
Affair Recovery Through a Trauma Lens
In today’s program, we explore how married couples can recover from infidelity and why exploring trauma issues is important to this healing process. To help us dive deep into this topic we have Ryan and Jessica McDaniel as our guests. Ryan and Jessica are both licensed professional counselors with over 10 years of experience in helping couples address infidelity and betrayal in redemptive and hopeful ways. If you have experienced infidelity in your marriage, or know someone who has, this episode will help you gain hope and ideas for a way forward. To learn more about Ryan and Jessica, visit McDanielCounseling.org.More Resources:Try Softer by Aundi KolberAffairRecovery.comWivesCare.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts:Why Do We Cheat?Sex, God, and the Chaos of BetrayalHope and Healing for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Jul 5, 2022 • 35min
The Importance of "Whole Man" Recovery
Today’s guest is Matt Wenger, the clinical director of Boulder Recovery in Boulder, Colorado. Matt has a heart for helping men overcome all kinds of unwanted sexual behaviors by addressing the whole man, including trauma from his past. In today’s episode, we talk about recovery as a means and environment for addressing all aspects of a man: his emotions, spirit, intellect, and body. True recovery is far more than just stopping negative behaviors; it is addressing the overall person to affect healthy personal growth and loving relationships. Matt shares common elements that often lead a man toward sexually compulsive behaviors and how to heal and discover a thriving life of freedom and joy. To learn more about Matt and their programs and resources, visit BoulderRecovery.com.More Resources:Sexual Integrity Webinar for MenMen.Bebroken.com40 Days of Purity Online CourseRelated Podcasts:Why Men Struggle to LoveOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityRecovery by the Power of God's Word----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.