
PSR Podcast
Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org or message us @puresexradio on X. Access video version on Vimeo.
Latest episodes

Sep 20, 2023 • 34min
Emotional Safety in Marriage
When a husband betrays his wife’s trust through sexual acting out, this can cause feelings of deep insecurity to arise in a wife – even to the point of feeling unsafe. In today’s episode, we will discuss the topic of emotional safety in marriage and why this is often befuddling to many husbands (and men in general) and offer a few ideas on how to create safer emotional spaces for the healing and restoration of marriages broken by sexual betrayal. (As a side note, this topic is helpful for any marriage!)This conversation was sparked by a conference Stephen went to by Focus on the Family. They built this topic around the book by authors Paul, Burbee, and Arnzen, entitled Restoring Hope: An Integrative Approach to Marital Therapy (link below).More Resources:Restoring Hope bookHope Restored Marriage IntensiveDoctorMarriage.orgRelated Podcasts:The Need for Boundaries After BetrayalHelping Men Understand a Woman's Grief ProcessHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Sep 13, 2023 • 22min
Grace-Based Transformation (Book Review)
I’m so excited about today’s program. I have written a new book that was released this month. It is entitled Grace-Based Transformation: The 3-Stage Journey to Wholeness in Christ. In this episode, I share what Grace-Based Transformation is and why I wrote this book after 20 years of full-time ministry. It’s really the book I’ve always wanted to write. We will explore what I call the Transformation Pathway and highlight the three key stages on it: Heal -> Grow -> Share. These form the primary indicators of a Christian’s progress. So, if you would like greater freedom, deeper joy, and a more effective impact in your life, I invite you to listen in. To get the book, simply go to Amazon.com or any other online book distributor. More Resources:Bebroken.orgGrace-Based RecoveryMade for PurityRelated Podcasts:How Brokenness Fits with Wholeness in ChristHow God Redeems Our Brokenness to Help OthersThe Journey of Transformation----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Sep 6, 2023 • 34min
Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives
Betrayal in marriage is a trauma. Many wives have struggled to find healing because the help they have received simply didn’t address the trauma.Today’s guest is Laurie Bryson, a licensed professional counselor who specializes in betrayal trauma healing. She is also certified in Emotional Transformation Therapy (ETT) which goes beyond simply “talk therapy” in order to help clients experience deep healing from trauma and other emotional wounds. In our conversation, Laurie shares what ETT is and how it practically benefits her clients and additional ways to help betrayed wives discover breakthroughs that lead to deep and lasting healing. To learn more about Laurie and her practice, visit BrysonCounseling.com. More Resources:Hope Rising ConferenceAffairRecovery.comWives Care Groups (online)Related Podcasts:The Journey of Healing from Betrayal TraumaBetrayal Healing PhasesAffair Recovery Through a Trauma Lens----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 30, 2023 • 35min
Making Sense of the Sexual Revolution
How did we get to where we are today when it comes to sexual brokenness, confusion, and outright rebellion against God’s design for sex?In this episode, our guest is Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse, who is the founder of the Ruth Institute, an interfaith international coalition to defend the family and build a Civilization of Love. Our conversation was inspired after I read Dr. Morse’s book, The Sexual State: How Elite Ideologies are Destroying Lives and Why the Church Was Right All Along. In this book, she provides a timeline that breaks down the sexual revolution into its component parts so that people can better understand how we have reached our current period and respond to it with grace and truth.Dr. Morse shares the three big ideas of the sexual revolution: The Contraceptive Ideology – Society should do everything possible to separate sex and babies. The Divorce Ideology – Society should do everything possible to separate both sex and babies from marriage. The Gender Ideology – Men and women are completely interchangeable; the “idea” of self is more important than the body.To learn more about Dr. Morse and her resources, visit RuthInstitute.org. More Resources:Family Defenders Flash DriveRuth Institute Resource CentersLove Thy Body by Nancy PearceyRelated Podcasts: The Dr. J ShowExposing the Gender LieHow to Speak Unpopular Truth in Love----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 23, 2023 • 35min
Helping Pastors Recover from Sexual Brokenness
Pastors are regular men in a position of great responsibility. They are not immune to sexual temptations. How can the church help pastors recover from sexual sin and strongholds?In this episode, our guest is Robert Posner. Robert and his wife, Judy, are the founders of 2416 Ministries, a ministry based on Proverbs 24:16, which states, “Though a righteous man falls seven times, he will get up, but the wicked will stumble into ruin.” Robert shares his own story as a pastor who fell into sexual sin and his own journey of recovery and growth. We also talk about some of the unique challenges that pastors face due to their often isolated and elevated position. And what pastors can do to guard themselves against sexual misconduct, heal from sexual brokenness, and enter safe places for help in breaking free from sexual struggles and strongholds. To learn more about Robert and his ministry, visit 2416ministries.org.More Resources:1-on-1 MentoringGateway to Freedom workshopThe Christian Response to Moral Failure in Church LeadersRelated Podcasts:Becoming a Healing ChurchRestoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom UseA Hopeful Response to Church Leaders Struggling with Sexual Sin----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 16, 2023 • 29min
Life Lessons from an Older Man
Learn valuable life lessons on struggle, faith, humility, identity, peace, joy, integrity, and purpose from an older friend. Explore the role of older generations in sharing wisdom. Embrace humility and pursuit, finding identity in Christ. Discover the power and beauty of God's grace. Learn about pursuing God and finding joy. Follow God, embrace humility, and explore a new book release.

Aug 11, 2023 • 42min
Our Born Identity (with Randy & Cynthia Lail)
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------Over the past 20 years, I have heard countless stories of sexual brokenness. Many of these individuals held these stories in secret for years, even decades. They all believed the lie that no one would love them if their secrets came out. But healing and discovering one’s true identity and worth only exist in the light.In today’s bonus episode, we have Randy and Cynthia Lail here to share a very powerful story of abuse, addiction, satanic strongholds, infidelity, and the matchless power and grace of Jesus Christ. If you think no one could understand your brokenness or that you would be utterly rejected if the truth came out, please listen to this episode. There is no one whose story is beyond the reach of God’s rescue and transforming power. Learn more about Randy and Cynthia and get a copy of their book at OurBornIdentity.org. More Resources:Find a CounselorHelp for MenHelp for WivesRelated Podcasts:Breaking Free with Russell WillinghamThe Immanuel Approach in RecoverySexual Healing and the Grace of God----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 9, 2023 • 32min
God's Design for Emotional Growth & Sexuality
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------For parents today it is difficult and even scary raising children in our hyper-sexualized culture. And there can be many different ways to respond to these challenges and fears. In today’s episode, John Fort will introduce our 30-week curriculum for families, entitled God’s Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality. John is our Director of Training and has developed many of our Family Care resources. This curriculum is designed for families with kids ages 5-18. If you are a parent desiring to help your child navigate a world awash in sex, this episode will help you gain clarity and confidence. To learn more about the God’s Design curriculum, visit Bebroken.org/store.More Resources:God's Design curriculum outline Honest Talk bookCritical Conversations WebinarRelated Podcasts:Brain Defense Digital Safety for KidsHow to Talk with Your Kids About SexGod Made Boys and Girls----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Aug 2, 2023 • 30min
Men Helping Men Grow and Mature
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------We learn and grow best in community. This is why we encourage and enjoy feedback from men as they travel along in their transformation journey. Today’s episode is a collection of honest thoughts and ideas and insights from men who are wanting to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors and live as the men God created them to be. If you’re a man on a similar journey, we hope and trust that today’s episode will encourage and challenge you to keep pressing on in pursuit of greater integrity and emotional maturity. More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Workshop for MenGrowth Map by Stephen CervantesFind a Men's GroupRelated Podcasts:Why Don't Men Go Deeper?Guy Thoughts on Emotional AwarenessInsights from a Brother in Recovery----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Jul 19, 2023 • 37min
How to Live Deliberately
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------Do you live your life with intentionality and purpose or merely as a reaction to your moods or circumstances? How does the answer to this question affect your pursuit of sexual integrity?My guest today is Michael Warren. He is a land surveyor by trade but has written a book entitled Live Deliberately. In our conversation, we unpack some insights from the book that will help you address wounds and brokenness from your past and live the full, abundant life Jesus offers. To learn more about Michael and get a copy of his book, visit MWarrenAuthor.com.More Resources:Going Deeper by Eddie CapparucciGrace-Based RecoveryFind a CounselorFind a GroupRelated Podcasts:Connecting Theology to SexualityHow Does Faith Fit into Recovery?How Do You Know if You are Changing?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.