Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to master the dating game the Violet Benson way!!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal. In today's episode, we discuss:The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work.Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Aging: Attaching worth to looks and struggling with the inevitable.Perfectionism & OCD: The constant battle for everything to be 'just right.'Mummy Issues: Deep dives into childhood woundsThe Hoffman Process: A therapy treatment that you might want to considerCompetitiveness with Your Partner: What's missing?Relationship Betrayals: Kaitlyn spills never before discussed tea on her past relationship(s), why she felt betrayed, and the fears that linger on.And so much more. Listen now for a mix of laughs, insights, and 'aha' moments!Follow Kaitlyn Bristowe on Instagram: @kaitlynbristoweFollow Violet Benson on Instagram: @daddyissues_Follow the podcast: @almostadultingFollow Kaitlyn on Snapchat: snapback beanCheck out Kaitlyn's wine: Spade and SparrowsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think. Get ready for some tough love and practical wisdom to boost your emotional intelligence.What You'll Learn:Embrace Pain: Why avoiding pain is holding you back and how to let it flow through and pass.Pain’s Role in Happiness: Discover why pain is necessary for true happiness and personal growth.Emotional Health Hacks: The ten things emotionally healthy people do that you can start doing today.Feelings vs. Thoughts: The difference between how you feel and how you think you feel.Pain and Happiness Connection: Understand why you need to accept pain to achieve happiness.Hedonistic Treadmill: Why constantly trying to change your life doesn’t always make you happier and how to deal with it.This episode is packed with insights that will help you understand and manage your emotions better, leading to a happier, more fulfilling life. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode and start your journey to emotional health and happiness.For more weekly episodes + ad free episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review! ✨This episode is brought to you by:eharmony - Get who gets you on eharmony! Sign up today Prose - Get FIFTY percent off your first subscription order at PROSE.com/adulting.Get more content on:Add podcast on InstagramAdd me on InstagramAdd me on TikTokSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches!Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into that irresistible dream girl.In this episode, we break down:The two categories of women in men's mindsKey attraction principles you need to knowHow to become his dream girl and get your dream manWhat men don’t want women to knowTwo things women does to make a man madly in love with herHow long should you wait before having s*xhow to snag your dream manSometimes A Man Deliberately Won’t Call Just To See How You RespondAct Like a Price and You’ll Turn Him Into a Believerand so much more!!!Tune in and transform your love life!Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review! ✨Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal life and then diving into the manifesting secrets behind Project 369: The Key to the Universe - Final Edition. This isn’t just woo-woo talk; it’s a step-by-step guide to manifesting your soulmate and living your best life.Episode Highlights:Vibe High: Get on the right vibration level to attract your soulmate.Self-Love Magic: Learn why loving yourself is the key to manifesting.Visualize & Feel: Picture your dream love and feel like it’s already yours.Daily Rituals: Simple meditation and micro habits to supercharge your manifesting game.Power Words: Harness the power of “I AM” to create your reality.Call to Action: Practical, fun exercises to bring your desires to life.Don't miss this episode—it’s your ultimate love manifesting cheat sheet! Tune in and let’s get you manifesting the love and life you deserve. ✨💕Today’s episode is brought to you by CBDistillery & Rhone!Upgrade your closet with Rhone and use ADULTING to save 20% at https://www.rhone.com/ADULTING CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of miscommunication? Well, it's time to uncover the juicy truths about the different emotional needs between men and women. Violetta dishes on:The #1 reason couples break up 💔Why you're failing at dating 😬why you're turning each other offThe six primary emotional needs that are required for a healthy relationship that will make or break it 😲How to SAVE your relationshipHow to get what you want out of your relationship while making your partner feel truly lovedTune in for another educational episode and create a love that lasts. Don't forget to download today's episode and subscribe so you never miss an episode again! To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Add us on Instagram!This episode is brought to you by:eharmony - Get who gets you on eharmony! Sign up today Lulus - For the best clothes EVER visit Lulus and use my code 'ADULTING' for 20% off!!Nutrafol - For 10$ off your first month’s subscription + free shipping - go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code ADULTINGSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the beans on her unforgettable game night, featuring a magical mix of CBD and chocolate shrooms that made for the best night of her life. Violet sits down with Ellese Symons, the powerhouse VP of Marketing at CBDistillery, to uncover her inspiring journey from battling chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia to finding renewed vitality with CBD. They also dive into groundbreaking sleep research, revealing the critical effects of sleep deprivation and how CBD can help you catch those essential Z's. Discover how these plant-powered wonders are transforming lives, one drop at a time. GIVEAWAY ALERT!!  ENTER FOR A CHANCE TO WIN 1 YEAR OF FREE CBD PRODUCTS! To enter go to CBDistillery  Instagram: follow them, like and comment on their latest post on why YOU deserve to win and thats it!!!! Winner will be picked and announced 2nd week of June. :)Find more information go to https://www.thecbdistillery.com/ and use my code 'ADULTING' for 35% offSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for an unforgettable episode of Almost Adulting! This week, Violet Benson is joined by Alex Hall, the star of Selling the OC, who’s here to spill the juiciest tea and set the record straight once and for all. From the cheating allegations to what really happened in Dubai and everything in between, it's about to get frosty.In this exclusive interview, Alex reveals a side of the story that’s never been told before, dropping a bombshell about a mysterious third party. Whatever you think you know, trust me—it's so much WORSE. The truth is about to come out, and this Snow is about to melt once you hear what Alex has to say.And just when you think you've heard it all, Alex also opens up like never before about her past, sharing deeply personal stories that will make you see her in a completely new light. This intimate and emotional conversation will bring moments of laughter and tears, showing a new side of Alex Hall you never knew.So grab a chair and some popcorn, because you're gonna wanna sit down for this. xxWatch the episode ad free in VIDEO and catch part 2 coming out this Saturday!! exclusively available on - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Connect with Alex hall on:InstagramSelling The OC on NetflixGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.almostadulting.supercast.comToday’s Sponsors:Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/AdultingSoothing Sleep Podcast - For the best sleep ever! New episodes every Tuesday - available on Apple/SpotifySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!!In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": "Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky." Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to detox your social circle and elevate your life. Lastly, I share my personal insights on the importance of energy swaps - hint: who you allow inside of you DOES in fact leave a mark, and how to keep your vibe high. Tune in and learn how to surround yourself with positivity, protect your energy, and attract success today.Today’s episode is brought to you by Skims & Rhone!Upgrade your closet with Rhone and use ADULTING to save 20% at https://www.rhone.com/ADULTING Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt Shop at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. If you haven't yet, be sure to let them know I sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select my show in the dropdown menu that follows. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening.Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his young niece. Struggling to find purpose, he bravely shares his journey online, leading to an unexpected connection with a woman who has experienced similar grief. Through their shared pain, they discover a second chance at love. Anna Hathaway who??! NicholasIn this episode, I also share a touching "Letter from Heaven," offering comfort and closure to anyone who has lost a loved one and yearns for one last goodbye.And don’t miss out on "Benson Knows Best," where I tackle your burning questions with my signature blend of wit and wisdom. Today’s question: How long should you wait for someone who’s not ready for a relationship? How to tell if he's your twin flame? and more!If you love today's episode, please leave me a 5 star review on Apple's podcast's app! :)To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Add us on Instagram!This episode is brought to you by, Lulus - For the best clothes EVER visit Lulus and use my code 'ADULTING' for 20% off!!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.