Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else.Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and the characteristics to look out for. She proceeds with enumerating the different mind games narcissistic people often do to trick us into believing they genuinely care and other character traits to help us spot if we are dealing with one. And finally, she ends it with the most common reasons why many find narcissistic people attractive.  WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adultingZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:13 Let's talk about the narcissist in your life05:53 Five mind games narcissists play17:46 A story about a narcissist21:12 Other things to look out for24:28 Reasons why you keep attracting narcissistic peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing.Today, Violetta is back and this time she’s going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbreak and get your power back.  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adultingZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:05 Update on the guys I kissed during the Kentucky Derby03:33 How to respond to a guy who’s losing interest?08:35 Men from my past have been showing up12:05 Story #1: Grieving a full on breakup18:46 Tips on how to heal from a breakup20:36 Story #2: He was obsessed with me one day, he pulled away the next day24:28 Change your perspective when talking about yourselfGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: Self harmWhy is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves.      Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness host and Bloom Nutrition founder Mari Llewellyn. Mari’s journey to self betterment started when she finally decided to heal her body and mind through consuming a healthy diet and the continuous pursuit of wellness. She also shares her episodes of self harm, dealing with shame, and why showing up for yourself is the best form of self love.  Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call today What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:28 Leading an unhealthy life during college05:56 Self harm 09:43 Creating a life full of positivity11:40 Triggers and self harm episodes13:25 Self value14:54 Dealing with shame18:20 Advice for your younger self20:33 Living a mediocre life27:49 Shedding weight and getting fit29:49 Showing up for yourself31:08 PCOS36:38 Hormonal healing39:43 Founding Bloom42:58 Just keep tryingConnect with Mari on:https://www.instagram.com/marillewellyn/https://www.tiktok.com/@marillewellyn https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAUN0lbKJFUVzrys9qtgbdw https://bloomnu.com/ https://open.spotify.com/show/0xKOhJLfnQTGkWqFSodeCA Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There’s more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more!      If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction03:11 How did I get into the Kentucky Derby?10:48 I missed my ghost hunt trip  15:24 Day1 of the derby21:18 Gala night26:32 Hot and heavy make out30:02 He made it a point to be around me the whole time38:11 I went to the Jack Harlow party39:19 The sexual attraction was intense41:43 My flight back home got delayed48:09 One thing I did not enjoy in the eventGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! This past Tuesday, we discussed how we can view 'situationships' differently. SO TODAY, we will be discussing GHOSTING. Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “WHY DID HE GHOST ME?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the tables around and make him chase after you, instead of you chasing after him. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call todayNEBULA9 - Visit nebula9vodka.com and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your orderWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:16 Why did he ghost me?03:54 There’s a few reason why someone ghosts you06:42 People take a gamble when they leave you10:03 Make up possible scenarios in your head 14:48 Three simple ways to get over a heartache20:22 It’s not actually about the person who left22:31 Listen to that music that hits differentGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to a brand new Benson Knows Best episode!! This week is all about changing your perspective as part of the second week of mental health month! We're starting the week with discussing situationships and ending the week with ghosting. Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never the right person for you to love. We will hear the story of a 2-year relationship and how the woman struggled to let go of a man who loved himself more than her. Listen in to find out the truth about painful goodbyes and why doing it now is better than later.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call todayNEBULA9 - Visit nebula9vodka.com and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your orderWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:27 I was seeing a man for 2 years but he never committed11:58 My mom got cheated by her first husband15:08 Why doesn’t he want me?17:46 Goodbyes can feel less painful when… Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We often project our limits onto other people because it can be difficult to recognize and confront our own limitations. By projecting our limitations onto others, we may feel a temporary sense of relief or justification for our own shortcomings. However, this type of behavior can be harmful both to ourselves and those around us, as it can limit our personal growth and prevent us from seeing the full potential in others.     Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes the one and only Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty is a New York Times best-selling author, podcaster, former monk, and motivational speaker. He spent several years as a monk in India, where he learned about mindfulness, meditation, and spirituality. Jay's work focuses on personal development, mindfulness, and self-improvement. He also hosts a popular podcast called "On Purpose with Jay Shetty," where he interviews various guests on topics related to personal growth and spirituality. Together with Jay, Violetta opens the door to being more in-tune with yourself as she and Jay exchange ideas on the limitations we set on ourselves and for others, understanding the different forms of love, why our fears can be defined as unformed boundaries, and how to connect with people with vulnerability and openness. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingLIFEMD - Visit https://lifemd.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:15 The journey that took 10 years and the transition had different phases05:08 When we start putting timeline and deadline on where we’re at06:13 What’s the worst advice you’ve ever received?07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.”10:46 The three cancers of the mind12:45 The way we change our feelings16:23 The best advice you’ve ever gotten21:36 When you're starting out, make a lot of quick decisions and move fast28:19 The two lies you can tell yourself33:35 What happens when you carry around unforgiveness36:13 We shouldn’t devalue other forms of love38:46 Is unconditional love realistic?41:26 Develop our ability to love as a skill46:16 Fear is just an unformed boundary50:05 Being alone is a great time to get to know yourself53:08 Win or lose together58:52 It’s about both of you wanting for it to work01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love01:06:19 Perfection does not exist01:08:35 Connect with the people who want to connect with youConnect with Jay on:https://jayshetty.me/https://twitter.com/jayshettyhttps://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvghttps://twitter.com/jayshetty https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty Think Like A Monk8 Rules of LoveGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What's the craziest Reddit story you've heard? There are so many wild tales on the platform, from heartwarming and uplifting to downright bizarre and unsettling. Whatever your taste is, there's no shortage of jaw-dropping stories to be found. Today, Violetta’s childhood bestie, Kylie, is back! And this time for another Confession Corner - Reddit stories. The girls sit down and react to stories about the accidental discovery of an 11-year old affair of a mom with her husband’s friend, incest in different forms and perspective, and discovering that the doctor whom you confided in your most embarrassing s*xual acts with a girl turned out to be that same girl’s father.      If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:06 Story #1: My mom’s 11-year affair with dad’s friend06:51 Story #2: My older brother and I had been sleeping together09:33 Story #3: My boyfriend thinks all women are men’s property13:31 LifeHack #1: How to reduce the number of homeless people in your area?14:15 LifeHack #2: How do you avoid an annoying call?15:33 LifeHack #3: Save business cards of people you don’t like15:44 LifeHack #4: Buy the cheapest ticket ticket available16:32 LifeHack #5: How to block your spouse from getting a divorce attorney?17:34 LifeHack #6: How do you make the perfect lie?18:10 Story #4: I cheated on my wife and she has postpartum depression    25:00 Story #5: What’s the most shocking thing you experienced upon meeting your bf/gf’s parents?27:08 Story #6: My friend Steve’s b*nging his girlfriend and her family  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues Connect with Kylie on:https://www.instagram.com/ksalerno333/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Staying at a billionaire's house? That's a dream come true! But girl, don't forget to show your finesse and charm while you're there. Today, Violetta shares a few updates about her life. She starts off with the post-surgery experience after she had her eggs extracted successfully, how it affected her mentally, and what no one tells you about post egg freezing. Then, she talks about her recent trip to Mexico where she stayed at James Packer’s $50M house for a weekend - the place, the view, the food, the fun - bombastic side-eye!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adulting   What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:19 I recently finished freezing my eggs08:52 My friend called and said, “Do you wanna go to Mexico with me?”18:24 I don’t normally go on vacation20:37 I got to meet the billionaire23:32 Would you rent it for $35,000 - $40, 000 a night?28:53 How do you finesse staying at a billionaire’s house?31:57 Other features of the houseGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

There's something special about growing up alongside someone who knows you so well and has seen you through all of life's ups and downs. Childhood best friends are the ones who stick with you through thick and thin, who know your secrets and your dreams, and who always have your back. Today, Violetta is joined by her childhood best friend, Kylie Gerber. The duo are all about good laughs and toothy grins as they reminisce childhood experiences, from dating the most toxic guys and crying over horrible breakups to crazy high school drama and throwing a massive party that went out of hand.   If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:59 How did we meet and become friends?11:55 What most people don’t know about me?14:31 What's your favorite high school memory experience?20:54 We always sneak out and go to Denny’s23:22 My favorite memory of Kylie29:03 Kylie’s also my first kiss30:04 Funny or embarrassing moment from childhood34:17 My favorite memory of Kylie, which I wasn't even there35:51 Here is something my best friend taught me42:48 When we started dating our second boyfriends46:16 “Give her space.”48:21 Have you ever had an embarrassing moment you still cringe about?49:07 Another funny story with Kylie51:50 The secret to a lasting relationship59:53 Our second biggest fightGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.