Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Manifesting the love you deserve starts with knowing your worth and setting clear intentions. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and focus on the positive aspects you want to attract. Today, Violetta shares how she manifested the ideal guy she wanted to date through the love letter method. This method of manifesting what you want, although silly-sounding at first, is worth a shot. Who knows, the partner you’ve been looking for might be that guy you met at yesterday’s dinner party.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:02 Manifesting - The Love Letter Method04:49 How can you look for a partner when you hate men?10:07 “The love letter I wrote a few months back…”14:21 You deserve love18:43 Setting an intention and getting obsessed over someone Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This month, we jumped into Reddit and picked out the most WTF confessions.  While the act of cheating can take many different forms, the underlying motivations and consequences of cheating remain consistent across all situations. One of the primary reasons why people cheat is a lack of satisfaction or fulfillment in their current situation.Violetta is back and ready as she sits down to listen to some of the most unbelievable and somehow outrageous relationship confessions on the internet. From men complaining about their wife’s weight just right after she had given birth to cheating men who seem to have never learned their lessons, these confessions will leave you sighing in disbelief! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE: To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:04 Confession #1: She loves me05:02 Confession #2: Her body is not the same as before10:41 Confession #3: She gained a lot of weight18:56 Confession #4: She ruined the movie experienceGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever wondered what it's like to struggle with infertility? Infertility affects millions of people around the world and can be caused by a variety of factors, including age, genetics, medical conditions, and lifestyle choices. Coping with infertility can be a lonely and isolating experience, but it's important for those struggling to know that they're not alone.    Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Dr. Shahin Ghadir. As a founding partner of Southern California Reproductive Center, Dr. Ghadiris board-certified in both Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. He is currently an assistant clinical professor in the department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA and at the Keck School of Medicine at USC.Dr. Ghadir debunks the most common myths about egg freezing, the truth about infertility in women and men and the causes behind it, and what it takes for an IVF pregnancy to succeed. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:45 Fertility affects both men and women02:28 The most common infertility causes04:09 Biggest myths in the use of birth control05:15 Infertility in men07:20 Fertility is different for every woman08:18 Choosing to delay having children10:49 Myth #1: It’s only for women who wants to delay motherhood17:47 Myth #2: You need to freeze a lot of eggs19:23 Myth #3: Frozen eggs last forever20:25 The success rate of egg freezing27:26 The average cost of the entire process28:42 The biggest side effects31:14 Success stories33:47 Which couples are a good candidate for IVF?33:24 What is IVF?38:39 Who undergoes IVF?39:17 Is IVF unethical?40:19 Emotional impact of IVF on couples43:27 Helping women ovulateConnect with Dr. Ghadir on:https://drghadir.com/https://www.instagram.com/drshahinghadir/https://www.scrcivf.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-fertile-life-with-dr-shahin-ghadir/id1558042643 Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How can one navigate the difficult and emotional process of dealing with grief and family problems? Coping with grief, conflicts with family members, or other familial issues can be emotionally draining and can take a toll on an individual's mental health. Today, Violetta sits down to share a very personal situation that she and her family are currently going through. No light-hearted moments, no well-thought advice. Just raw and vulnerable moments with her during this difficult and challenging time. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:35 Something’s wrong with my mom…09:12 Don’t hold back from sharing when you’re struggling11:27 We were all doing our best not to cry…16:40 We all have bad days and you’re not alone20:10 The hardest thing we do when we’re grieving21:49 You’ll never know when is your last time with someoneGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever wondered if height really matters? According to one wise mom, what men lack in height, they make up for in other ways. But is it enough to make a difference?   Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome internet personality, comedian, and podcast host Trevor Wallace! Violetta and Trevor start their conversation with a random but hilariously funny game, the rapid fire questions. Then, the duo talk about situational dating scenarios where they pitch in their thoughts and opinions with a little bit of p*rn talk on the side, sexual preferences, and the do’s and don’ts of casual and long-term dating.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm CARE.COM - Visit www.care.com/petsTUSHY - Checkout www.hellotushy.com/ADULTING and use promo code: ADULTINGZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:50 I’m like a Kardashan but I wasn’t in the front line04:36 What do people don’t know most about you?06:30 Let’s do Rapid Fire Questions14:05 Why can’t we tickle ourselves?15:51 Where is the cl*toris?18:37 What should girls do when you’re licking her down there?19:40 Do you get things faster with *9?21:18 You're on a deserted island, what will you bring?23:24 When you go back in time…23:59 Is it safer to drink your urine or saliva?25:35 What comes first: cereal or milk?28:14 She’s a 10 but…52:26 Suspicion - the biggest turn offs for guys53:05 Is physical attraction everything?54:38 What’s your biggest icks?56:25 What is the most obvious sign that he likes you? 01:01:46 Biggest red flags to look out for01:06:57 Porn is like a fantasy land 01:09:43 What keeps you up at night?01:10:37 Have you learned anything now that you’re thirty?Connect with Trevor on:https://www.youtube.com/c/TrevorWallacehttps://www.instagram.com/trevorwallace/https://www.facebook.com/TrevorWallaceComedy/https://www.tiktok.com/@trevorwallacehttps://trevorwallacecomedy.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@StiffSocks Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!Have you ever had a sexual experience that left you in stitches? Well, you're not alone! We're all about sharing the most hilarious and unforgettable tales of sexual misadventures.    Today, Violetta is joined by her friend Steeven Zuleta for another round of funny sex stories. From a breakup s*x that turned out to be a weird kink your partner never told you about to accidentally farting on your partner’s face while he’s eating you up! We got all sorts of fan stories you won’t get enough of. So tune in and laugh with us!If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner episode, call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm CARE.COM - Visit www.care.com/petsTUSHY - Checkout www.hellotushy.com/ADULTING and use promo code: ADULTINGZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction04:40 Story #1: We decided to have breakup s*x25:04 Story #2: He was eating me and I farted!30:56 Story #3: I didn’t wipe all the way and we we’re having a doggyConnect with Steven on:https://www.instagram.com/steevenz/https://www.tiktok.com/@steevenzzz Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Whether you're an introvert who needs alone time or a social butterfly who thrives on interactions, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating.   Today on Almost Adulting,we welcome back internet personality, comedienne, and podcast host Hannah Berner! Violetta and Hannah explain why guys with addiction problems are the best partners because they love deeply and intensely but can be unhealthy and unsustainable in the long run and how emotional stress and pain will eventually affect your body and your overall well-being. The duo encourages listeners to figure out their own ways of dating and relationships that work for them.   Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE: www.talkspace.com/ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:55 Would you give Dan Bazarian a bj?04:01 Calm dudes have big d*ck energy05:58 What happened to your arm?10:19 When you’re a good people pleaser16:32 No one cares for your internal struggles19:00 Emotional pain leads to physical pain21:50 What else people don’t know about you?22:35 Happiness is also a passing emotion25:14 Surprising things when you date a sober guy27:06 What’s married life like?31:00 When you don’t realize you’ve been ghosted34:40 The dumbest thing you can laugh at now41:01 Tips to dating 43:24 Guys who love licking you down there    Connect with Hannah on:https://hannahberner.com/https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_bernerhttps://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/Berning in Hell PodcastGiggly Squad PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you?Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks.If you want to be featured on the next Benson Knows Best episode and call in to have a live conversation with Violetta, send a DM now!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:03 Exciting updates!03:36 This is what happened in my recent trip14:34 Is it wrong to be clingy?18:39 We don’t have a label22:41 He ghosted you and then he comes backGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush.  Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners, how pornography and media influences our views about sex, and offers insights on navigating this sensitive topic with your partner. If you're ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don't miss out on the latest insights and expert advice!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.com SHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adulting CARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/pets What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:55 I went to this event last night…04:18 Do not be too bothered by the society’s standards06:05 How do you get past s*xual shame?07:35 Why is it difficult to have initial conversations about s*x?13:04 Should you disclose your s*xual history to your current partner?15:44 Have conversations about your expectations right at the beginning23:25 Sexual chemistry versus attraction26:07 How do you bring back attraction?33:57 How movies and p*rn have influenced our views about s*x37:16 Fact: Not everyone can org*sm42:24 Do you expect your partner to not watch p*rn?46:45 When is watching p*rn considered detrimental?52:32 When should you discuss kinks?54:17 How soon should you open up about having a child?57:57 How necessary is your kink for you?01:00:16 Expressing discomfort about kinks isn’t offensive01:02:56 Skills is a skill you constantly practice01:07:04 The relationship you have with yourself in s*xual relationshipsConnect with Todd on:https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/https://www.facebook.com/yourdiagnonsense/https://www.tiktok.com/@yourdiagnonsensehttps://www.toddsbaratz.com/Your Diagnonsense PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today!  Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy you dated was actually a gay p*rn star. Listen in to find out how these stories played out!If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.comSHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adultingCARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/petsWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:08 Story #1: Queefing and sh*tting on the bed10:34 Story #2: It’s the size of a pinky18:56 Story #3: Turns out he was a gay p*rn star23:48 Story #4: I thought I lost my nuva ring27:26 Story #5: The forgotten tampon39:09 He booked another girl in the next roomGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.