
Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Immerse yourself in the BIGGEST self-love podcast and movement - your ultimate go-to for personal growth with a side of sass. We cover it all, from dating bootcamps to mental health moments, because self-love is the foundation of everything in your life – from your friendships to your own mental well-being and everything in between.I’m your host, Violet Benson, aka the Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker. But most importantly, I'm YOUR Russian big sister, dishing out that tough love you might not want to hear, but best believe you're gonna need!Get ready to feel empowered, liberated, and seen like never before! Change your life and subscribe to Almost Adulting! Your healing journey starts NOW. New episode drops every Thursday.
Latest episodes

Dec 21, 2023 • 1h 19min
In My Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel
Podcast queen and certified professional asshole, Jackie Schimmel, joins Violet Benson to discuss handling hate comments, the truth about manifestation, surviving cancel culture, and their hilarious and unfiltered take on topics like pregnancy and being a 'cool girl'. This bold and badass episode is a must-listen!

Dec 19, 2023 • 37min
SICK OF THIS SH*T
Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume - Control body odor anywhere with @lumedoedorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at https://lumedeodorant.com/ Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit www.revolve.com/adulting to shop my favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Ghia - Visit drinkghia.com and use the code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?17:13 Fun fact about deers18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?22:40 I think I killed a lizard26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4 Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 14, 2023 • 1h 5min
Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson
Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with BelliWelli founder Katie Wilson. Katie shares how her love for chocolate cookies and not being able to eat them during her pregnancy led to the creation of her very first product. When she shared it with her community, she realized there were so many girls with gut issues, even hot girls have gut issues.Let's listen to Violetta and Katie go through the ups and downs of being a woman entrepreneur with gut issues dealing with growing a business, overcoming a health crisis, and becoming a rapidly growing brand.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:38 Did you personally have gut issues?04:06 Signs that you have gut issues06:37 Suffering from gut issues throughout pregnancy09:53 How one chocolate chip cookie changed everything11:18 Getting funding from angel investors13:59 First packaging, deck presentation 17:20 Finding more investors20:55 The greatest piece of advice 22:14 Things happened while preparing for the product launch28:11 Everyone hated Stevia in the BelliWelli bars33:17 How did you approach the product?38:51 Building a company next to bunch of friends39:48 Hot girls have IBS campaign42:49 Secret sauce to successful billboards50:25 Inspiring stories from customers53:46 Talk about why something isn’t working rather than what’s working57:40 What is keeping the business successful?01:00:04 We love feedback! 01:01:47 BelliWelli is at Target Connect with Katie on:https://belliwelli.com/ https://www.instagram.com/belliwellisnacks/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/belliwelli/ https://www.facebook.com/belliwellisnacks/ Amazon StoreGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 12, 2023 • 37min
Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles
Hey Besties! How delulu can one get in the name of true love? How far will you go to be with the man of your dreams? That’s what one brave girl did to get the attention of her man (well, maybe not yet, but nothing’s impossible, right?)Today, Violetta sits down for another Benson Knows Best. And what better way to start this episode than to interpret a dream about dirty toilets? Yep, there are people out there who dream about toilets, dirty bathrooms, and breaking down when they can’t find a clean one. And if that is not shocking enough, Violetta ends the episode reading a message from a fan who is in search of her one true love - Harry Styles. A woman can do anything to get her man, and we’re cheering for this girl! WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsors:Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit www.revolve.com/adulting to shop my favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/adulting Skylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for our listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adultingGhia - Visit drinkghia.com and use the code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:08 Do you look for things to validate your negative mindset?04:27 “I keep dreaming about finding a clean bathroom but always end up in dirty toilets.”16:09 He acted like I’m the obsessive ex to his new girl 33:22 I had a crush on a guy from the street and it turns out he’s Harry StylesGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 7, 2023 • 31min
The Psychology of YOUR Dreams
Hey Besties! Dreamtime has never been this juicy! Violetta's diving deep into the dreamscapes you've sent her way, decoding the mysteries of your most bizarre dreams. Picture this – a dream where things get a bit too cozy with your own mom. Yep, you read that right! Violet spills the beans on what this dream is really trying to tell you. And then there's that persistent stranger, popping up like a recurring character in your dream saga. Violet's got not one, not two, but three possible meanings for you to unwrap! Get ready for a wild ride through the dream realm, where secrets are spilled, and meanings are revealed! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Almost Adulting MERCH are available at www.shopdaddyissues.comToday’s Sponsor:Skims - If you are looking for the perfect gifts for the whole family - Skims just launched their biggest Holiday Gift Shop ever - also available at https://skims.com/Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit www.revolve.com/adulting to shop my favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Ghia - Visit drinkghia.com and use the code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:44 Afternoon naps are important02:49 Our minds solve our unconscious thoughts through dreams04:32 I dreamt about having s*x with my mom16:64 Dreaming about being followed by random men in a coat20:29 I went to Jennifer Lopez to confide about a wedding with a man I do not know 26:16 The baby bear turned into a hot girl and we started to make outGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 5, 2023 • 30min
Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict
Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship ripples. Violet's got the perfect blend of empathy, advice, and her signature humor to guide you through these tricky tales.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsors:Talkspace - Get $80 off of you first month when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/adultingSkylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for our listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adultingUrban Outfitters - Shop https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:56 How do I break up with him and separate our work and personal life?04:12 “I was cheated on because I was too nice.”17:25 My boyfriend like and watch too much porn and I feel disrespectedGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 30, 2023 • 1h 5min
How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey Kreppel
Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfolded between Kelsey and her now-hubby, Cody Ko? She spills all the deets on the challenges of dating to the wild ride of becoming a full-blown influencer, the inside scoop on handling haters, the delicate art of oversharing (or not) on the gram, and trust me, you won't want to miss the side splitting story of her epic proposal. This episode is a vibe – a mix of love, laughter, and the unfiltered reality of life in the influencer lane. Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.Skylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for our listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adulting Urban Outfitters - Shop at https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:38 Welcome Kelsey!01:17 What’s something people don’t know you can do?03:11 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten04:12 Moms always know when something is off about something05:03 How did you meet your husband?09:29 Taking notes of what people love09:01 What people don’t know about Cody10:37 What’s your favorite thing about your husband?12:01 What’s his favorite thing about you?14:44 What’s your sleeping habit?15:21 What’s your most annoying trait?17:03 Setting boundaries when sharing things online21:04 How do you deal with online hate together?23:38 Is it better not to respond to hate comments?25:04 Sharing Cody with the world30:09 If you can’t survive dating, you can’t survive marriage life34:20 His proposal wasn’t a complete shock38:29 Were you a bridezilla during the engagement?42:51 What do you think about someone bringing a plus one at your wedding?46:47 Trying to get pregnant and then getting pregnant53:13 Don’t tell people about your baby’s future name57:09 Where to find Kelsey Connect with Kelsey on:https://www.instagram.com/kelseykreppel/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZym84-cGUKAf1T2isIIXvw https://www.tiktok.com/@kelsey_kreppel Circle TimeGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 28, 2023 • 34min
My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans
Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely! Today’s Sponsors:Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit https://www.revolve.com/adulting to shop your favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign 04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday 30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I wantGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 23, 2023 • 39min
The Psychology Behind Dreams
Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown on what your subconscious might be trying to tell you. And for those late-night rendezvous with an ex who broke your heart, she's got the insights on that too! It's dream analysis, Almost Adulting style – fun, enlightening, and, of course, a little bit cheeky. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets of your slumber! Today’s Sponsor:EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTINGClean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.Skylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for the listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:38 Falling out with my BFF03:42 I dreamt about the end of the world10:02 What does your dream mean?13:09 Dreams about knives14:50 Other dreams and their meanings16:40 Dreams of being in a fight18:15 Different dreams about an ex loverGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 21, 2023 • 33min
KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner
Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns. And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure – it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume - Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at https://lumedeodorant.com/ Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGUrban Outfitters - Shop https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his motherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.