

DEAD Talks
David Ferrugio
DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio normalizes the conversation around death. Each new guest shares their experience with death in a way that shatters the ”don’t talk about it” taboo. It’s the one thing we all share in common, so let’s talk about.
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Jun 10, 2024 • 48min
Hospice Nurse Julie on Demystifying Death and Living Fully (#160)
Why does talking about death make life more meaningful? Hospice Nurse Julie McFadden—known for her viral insights on end-of-life care—returns to DEAD Talks to share powerful lessons from her new book Nothing to Fear: Demystifying Death to Live More Fully.Julie breaks down deathbed visions, what really happens in the final moments, and how open conversations about dying can ease fear and anxiety. She shares moving stories from her hospice work, explains why knowledge about death changes how we live, and reveals how preparing for the inevitable actually brings peace.This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about death, the afterlife, and how to embrace life with less fear and more purpose.Purchase Hospice Nurse Julie's book here10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus: https://neurogum.com/?utm_commission=deadtalkspodcast&platform=grin&link_id=1654933&token=WtumfL5E9dMY2DxZOVhMDDU7Z1f0OkyV&contact_id=8c837874-1ae8-4097-96fb-4809bfd0b22f&attribution_window=30 Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features:👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks:👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

Jun 3, 2024 • 52min
Inside NYC Death Investigations with Barbara Butcher (#159)
What really happens behind the scenes of a death investigation in New York City? Barbara Butcher—one of the most prominent medicolegal death investigators in America and featured on Netflix’s Homicide New York—has seen it all. Over her 23-year career, she investigated more than 5,500 death scenes and 680 homicides, from everyday tragedies to some of the nation’s most high-profile disasters.Barbara recounts her extraordinary work identifying victims, investigating missing persons, and leading forensic responses to events like the 1993 World Trade Center bombing, the crash of Flight 587, and the aftermath of 9/11. She reveals the human side of death investigation: the toll, the resilience, and the meaning behind confronting mortality day after day.This episode is a rare inside look into crime, grief, and the unspoken realities of death work in one of the world’s busiest cities. For more on Barbara Butcher including her book "What The Dead Know" visit: https://www.barbarabutcherofficial.com/ Get 10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus: https://neurogum.com/?utm_commission=deadtalkspodcast&platform=grin&link_id=1654933&token=WtumfL5E9dMY2DxZOVhMDDU7Z1f0OkyV&contact_id=8c837874-1ae8-4097-96fb-4809bfd0b22f&attribution_window=30 Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features: 👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks: 👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

May 27, 2024 • 1h 8min
She Died, Saw the Afterlife, and Came Back Healed (#158)
Can a near-death experience heal the body as well as the soul? After losing her husband in a traumatic death, Rosemary Ringer’s health began to rapidly decline. She was later diagnosed with cancer—but after a profound near-death experience, she returned not only with visions from the other side, but with her illness completely healed. Doctors had no explanation.In this extraordinary episode, Rosemary shares the details of her NDE—what she saw, who she encountered, and the powerful spiritual lessons she brought back. We explore the mysteries of death, the meaning of healing, and what her story reveals about life after loss.This conversation blends grief, spirituality, and miraculous recovery into one of the most compelling NDE stories you’ll ever hear. Support the show for $5:Join the DEAD Talk Patreon to support our mission and get episodes early and ad free!MERCH:"Dead Dad Club" & "Dead Mom Club": Shop HereDISCOUNTS:10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus. ABOUT:DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

May 20, 2024 • 35min
Healing After Divorce: Relationship Grief and Growth (#157)
Divorce is its own form of grief. After the end of her 17-year marriage, Luci Lampe faced the raw reality of heartbreak, identity shifts, and rebuilding her life. In this episode, she opens up about the emotional, physical, and mental toll of divorce while sharing how she found strength, healing, and growth on the other side.We explore the parallels between relationship grief and death, the hidden challenges of letting go, and the power of starting over when everything feels lost. Luci’s story offers insight, courage, and hope for anyone navigating the pain of broken relationships and searching for new beginnings.For more on our guest Luci Lampe: https://lucilampe.com/ 🔗 Episode Highlights:The Breaking Point: Luci recounts the pivotal moments leading to the dissolution of her marriage.Emotional Turmoil: A candid discussion on the intense grief and emotional pain that followed.Physical Manifestations: How stress and heartbreak took a toll on her body. Path to Healing: The strategies and practices that helped Luci begin to heal and rebuild her life.Wisdom and Insights: Luci’s reflections on relationship grief and finding strength in adversity. Whether you're navigating your own relationship challenges or seeking inspiration from someone who’s been there, this episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.Don't forget to subscribe and write a 5 star review!Listener Discount: 10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus: https://neurogum.com/?utm_commission=deadtalkspodcast&platform=grin&link_id=1654933&token=WtumfL5E9dMY2DxZOVhMDDU7Z1f0OkyV&contact_id=8c837874-1ae8-4097-96fb-4809bfd0b22f&attribution_window=30 Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features:👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks:👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh.Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

May 13, 2024 • 55min
Losing a Son to Drunk Driving: A Father and Brother’s Story (#156)
A single drunk driving mistake took the life of Dr. Brian Hoeflinger’s teenage son. In this powerful episode, Dr. Hoeflinger and his son Kevin open up about the devastating impact of that tragedy and the ripple effect of grief within their family.We explore how a father mourns, how a brother copes, and how families navigate profound loss together. The conversation sheds light on the realities of drunk driving accidents, the lifelong grief that follows, and the importance of resilience and advocacy in the aftermath of unimaginable pain.This episode is both a heartbreaking story of loss and an urgent reminder about the consequences of drunk driving.Follow Dr. Hoeflinger on instagram @doctorhoeflinger or click here for all their information. 10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus.Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and featuresPurchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/All links to everything DEAD Talks:👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

May 6, 2024 • 54min
Navigating Grief: A Son’s Story of Losing His Mother (#155)
Miles Wood opens up about losing his mother to ovarian cancer and the impact it had on his life. He shares the intimate moments of caring for her until her final breath, the pain of unspoken words, and the deep longing that follows loss.Alongside his grief, Miles reflects on the absence of his father and his search for connection, blending raw honesty with humor as he navigates life after loss. This conversation explores how men process grief, the stigma around male vulnerability, and the balance between sorrow, laughter, and healing.A heartfelt and relatable episode for anyone coping with parental loss, exploring masculinity, or seeking hope through humor and resilience.Follow him at @aging_millenials: https://www.instagram.com/aging_millennials/?hl=en& @mileswood on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mileswood/?hl=en 10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus: 10% Discount HereJoin the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features: 👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping: 👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks: 👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

Apr 29, 2024 • 32min
Estate Planning Before You Die: Wills, Trusts & Probate (#154)
What happens if you die without a will or trust? This episode breaks down the essentials of estate planning, wills, trusts, and the probate process—and why preparing your assets before death matters.We explore how organizing your finances and legal documents can ease the burden on loved ones, prevent disputes, and provide peace of mind. Whether it’s the difference between a will and a trust, how probate really works, or simple steps to protect your family, this conversation highlights practical ways to prepare for the inevitable.A must-listen for anyone who wants to leave behind order, not chaos, and make death a little easier on those they love.Follow Kern Singh on Instagram @kerndsingh: https://www.instagram.com/kerndsingh/ For more on the Singh Law Firm on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheSinghLawFirm 10% off Neurogum made with sustainably-sourced natural caffeine, L-theanine, as well as vitamins B6 and B12, which have been scientifically shown to boost attention and enhance focus: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTLjeT3BF/ Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features: 👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping: 👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to DEAD Talks: 👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh.Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

Apr 22, 2024 • 52min
How to Live and Die: Lessons from a 27-Year Battle with Cancer (#153)
What does it mean to truly live — and to die with meaning?This episode shares the extraordinary story of Lyon Herron, who lived with Gardner’s Syndrome and fought cancer for 27 years while embodying a powerful “live life to the fullest” mentality. His mother, Barbie Herron Conkling, reflects on how her son’s courage, humor, and resilience continue to inspire those who knew him.Barbie opens up about honoring Lyon as a “living memorial,” sharing lessons he left behind about joy, legacy, and facing death without fear. This is a moving conversation about love, grief, and the powerful ways our lives can teach others how to both live and die.Support the legacy of Lyon with Ly & Co: https://lyandco.la/ For more on Barbie follow her on instagram @barbiedahl74Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features:👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks:👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

Apr 15, 2024 • 42min
How Do You Survive Child Loss? A Mother’s Story of Grief & Healing (#152)
How do you live after losing a child?In this episode, we explore the heartbreaking story of Shekinah Eliassen, who lost her infant son, Lars, to a severe brain condition. Out of unimaginable grief, she found purpose in helping other families facing similar tragedies. Today, as CEO of George Mark Children’s House, Shekinah carries forward a mission of compassionate pediatric palliative care — supporting children and parents with dignity, love, and community.This is a deeply moving conversation about child loss, resilience, and turning pain into purpose, reminding us of the strength it takes to carry on while honoring those we’ve lost.For more on George Mark Children's House: https://georgemark.org/Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features:👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks:👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net

Apr 8, 2024 • 50min
Losing Both Children to a Drunk Driver: A Father’s Story of Grief & Healing (#151)
What happens when a father loses everything?Colin Campbell faced the unimaginable when a drunk driver killed both his children, Ruby and Hart. In this powerful episode, he shares his story of grief, love, and survival — and how he learned to live again while carrying unbearable loss.Colin’s book, Finding The Words, offers raw honesty and a new way of looking at mourning: facing grief openly, embracing memories, and allowing sorrow and love to coexist. His message is one of courage, healing, and the importance of not turning away from pain but learning to carry it.This conversation is a deeply moving exploration of parental grief, resilience, and the human capacity to keep going after devastating tragedy.To purchase his book "Finding The Words": https://colincampbellauthor.com/finding-the-words/ For more on Colin Campbell: https://colincampbellauthor.com/Join the DEAD Talk Patreon for only $5 to support our mission & and gain access to exclusive content and features:👉 https://patreon.com/deadtalks?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Purchase “Not Dead Yet” or DEAD Talk trucker hats here with free domestic shipping:👉 https://deadtalks.myshopify.com/ All links to everything DEAD Talks:👉 https://linktr.ee/deadtalks DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh. Follow DEAD Talks Podcast on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok + morewww.deadtalks.net