
How She Really Does It
How She Really Does It, is a place for you to learn how to create the life you want. It is the place where inspiration + possibility meet.
Here you can create your life, your way in a REAL way that fits you, where you belong.
This show is a place for you to learn, grow, create and tweak your life. The show is a place to see the glimmer of possibilities from other people's experiences and/or research.
Latest episodes

Feb 3, 2023 • 34min
I’m struggling
When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody else has struggles too. We talk about the end result, but we don’t share the messy middle. So in this episode, I share a recent experience where I struggled, why it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you when you struggle, and how to manage your mind in a way that doesn't take up your energy. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3XHomQS

Jan 27, 2023 • 22min
You aren’t being mean by having boundaries
This week, find out why we need boundaries in our lives and why you are not being mean by having them, even if they inconvenience someone else. I’m helping you uncover the beliefs you have tied up in the boundaries and sharing some examples of beliefs that prevent people from setting the boundaries they want to set in their lives. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3D0fU6Y

Jan 20, 2023 • 27min
The myth of confidence
In this episode, I’m sharing some myths about confidence and giving you some quality questions to ask yourself in the face of vulnerability. Discover what confidence comes down to, the importance of cultivating confidence in your relationship with yourself, and the key to cultivating self-confidence in your life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3w6OuYY

Jan 13, 2023 • 14min
Sharing with others
When it comes to sharing our stories, we need to do so with people who have earned the right to hear them. But we also need to do so with people who have the capacity to hear them. Join me this week to discover the beauty of asking whether someone has the capacity to hear your story. Find out why it is vulnerable to ask somebody what their capacity is and how I learned the importance of this work. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3VHFQe2

Jan 6, 2023 • 19min
We aren’t supposed to go it alone
As humans, we are not supposed to go it alone. Many of us do, but we are social beings and wired for connection. We need teams. And most of us have them, even if we don’t see them. In this episode, I’m diving into what team support and invisible systems look like. Learn how to develop an awareness of your own teams and why we all need people to help and support us in solving problems when they arise. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3VBMBy0

Dec 30, 2022 • 27min
The cost of verbal vomiting
Verbal vomiting is a great strategy to uncover what you have pushed down. But, like with anything, something that can be a valuable practice can also have a huge cost. In this episode, I’m sharing more about verbal vomiting, what it is, why it’s important, and the cost of doing it at work. I’m showing you how to notice the impact it has on others so you can create an awareness of how it’s impacting you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3hocmnz

Dec 23, 2022 • 25min
The Vulnerability of White Space
Do you feel like you are constantly busy in your life? We all need downtime, and having white space in our lives is so important. There is tremendous vulnerability in white space, and we may find this difficult, but great things come from vulnerability. This week, I’m showing you how I have learned to be comfortable in white space, how there is so much beauty on the other side, and how to start managing your mind with intention and awareness. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3j2n3wi

Dec 16, 2022 • 27min
Holiday obligations and expectations
The holidays are a stressful time of year for many people. Maybe it’s the endless purchasing and giving of gifts. Maybe it’s the agony of having to go back to your family of origin. Maybe it’s the family traditions that you have just always done but never really thought about. We have been culturally programmed to approach the holidays in a certain way, but this doesn’t always suit us. It's time that we started approaching the holidays without the obligations, and this week, I'm showing you how. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3FsHQ3J

Dec 9, 2022 • 21min
Unnecessary suffering
Just because we can do hard things doesn’t mean we are always supposed to do them. This week I’m sharing some examples of unnecessary suffering that you may have experienced in your own life and where you might be continuing these unhelpful patterns of behavior. Find out why even though you can do hard things, not everything has to be hard, and how to give yourself permission to eliminate unnecessary suffering in your life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3UymSGc

Dec 2, 2022 • 59min
It's time to stop hustling with Jadah Sellner
Hustle culture isn’t working for anyone, and the great news is you can opt out of it and instead, create a life that is fulfilling while also doing meaningful work. That is exactly what this week’s guest did and she's here to talk about. Jadah Sellner is a bestselling author, business coach, international keynote speaker, TEDx presenter, poet, and podcast host. Tune in to hear us discuss how to create a business you love without ignoring the values you have and what really matters to you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3VjzvpV
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