
Coaching Real Leaders
We all want to get to the next level of our career, but so many of us get stuck. Longtime leadership coach Muriel Wilkins takes you inside real-life leadership coaching sessions with high performers working to overcome professional challenges and grow as leaders. Listen in on real conversations and leave with new insights and practical guidance for your own career.
The views expressed on this podcast are those of its hosts, guests, and callers, and not those of Harvard Business Review.
Latest episodes

Oct 27, 2021 • 38min
How Do I Manage Other Managers?
In his most recent role, he excelled as a hands-on manager, jumping in to solve the hardest problems. But now he’s moving up a level to take on a new leadership position. He’s managing other managers for the first time and realizing that it’s a big leap to go from managing individual contributors to managing other managers.
Host Muriel Wilkins helps this leader understand how to approach his new role and what new skills he must develop in order to succeed.
For further reading:
How to Manage Managers
What Great Managers Do
Managers Can’t Be Great Coaches All by Themselves

Oct 20, 2021 • 44min
How Do I Get Through My Mid-Career Crisis?
She made it to a coveted senior role, but she isn’t feeling excited about her future career path. And now she’s wondering how to balance all the competing commitments in her life – children, spouse, elderly parents, and work – while still pursuing what she really cares about.
Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through discovering what’s important to her, so that she can figure out what’s next.
For further reading:
Facing Your Mid-Career Crisis
You Don’t Find Your Purpose — You Build It
How to Beat Mid-Career Malaise

Oct 13, 2021 • 41min
Am I Approaching My Female Coworkers the Wrong Way?
He’s a senior leader in a hospital, who has long seen himself as an advocate for equality for his female colleagues. But in the past few years, he’s faced a few instances where women he works with have been offended by exchanges with him.
While there is much talk about gender equity at the organizational level, there’s still a lot of discomfort around how it actually plays out interpersonally at work. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader toward a stronger understanding of his own assumptions and how he can manage across differences.
For further reading:
4 Conversations Leaders in the #MeToo Era Should Be Ready For
That’s What She Said
How Those With Power and Privilege Can Help Others Advance
Work with Me: How gender intelligence can help you succeed at work and in life

Oct 6, 2021 • 44min
How Do I Know When It’s Time to Leave?
She’s a C-suite-level executive with 20 years of experience working in corporate finance. Earlier in her career, she stayed at companies for long periods of time. But in her last few roles, she’s been jumping ship as soon as the going gets tough. Is she leaving too quickly, or has she not yet found the right role?
Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through her discomfort and toward strategies that can help her see her role through to a successful conclusion.
Further Reading:
“Are You Really Ready to Quit?”
“Don’t Quit Your Job Before Asking Yourself These Questions”

Sep 15, 2021 • 2min
Coming Soon: Season 2
Coaching Real Leaders returns October 6 to tackle new leadership challenges – from when to quit your job to communicating across differences, navigating imposter syndrome, and more.
Listen in on coaching sessions with real leaders from all walks of life, as they work out the challenges they face at work, with host and longtime executive coach Muriel Wilkins.

27 snips
Mar 15, 2021 • 51min
Finding My Leadership Voice
She’s worked her way up from an administrative assistant to a leadership position. But she still struggles to come across as confident, especially in high-level management meetings.
Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader on how to communicate more effectively.
Further Reading:
“To Strengthen Your Confidence, Look to Your Past”
“Will You Ever Be Taken Seriously?”
“Make Yourself Heard”
“Own the Room: Discover Your Signature Voice to Master Your Leadership Presence”

5 snips
Mar 8, 2021 • 42min
Building Influence Without Authority
She’s relatively new to the organization and more junior than most of her stakeholders. But her success hinges on her ability to lead initiatives cross-functionally.
Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this emerging leader through how to cultivate strategic relationships and increase her influence without the formal power of a senior title or position.
Further Reading:
“How to Increase Your Influence at Work“
“Learn to Love Networking”
“How to Figure Out How Much Influence You Have at Work”

Mar 1, 2021 • 42min
The Problem with Always Being the Problem Solver
He’s spent much of his career successfully solving complex problems. Now, as he works his way up, he’s realizing that always trying to fix everything won’t let him focus on leading – or help his team succeed.
Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through adapting his approach to lead more effectively.
For more on this topic:
“Leading by Letting Go”
“How Leaders Can Let Go Without Losing Control”
“Why Your Team Should Practice Collective Mindfulness”

13 snips
Feb 22, 2021 • 36min
How Does My Team Perceive Me?
As a leader, she has always tried to find a balance between being directive and collaborative. But she has also struggled to bridge the gap between how she sees herself – and how her team experienced her as a leader. Now she’s building her own start-up and wants to make sure she is seen as a strong, effective leader in that new venture.
Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through how to understand and manage perceptions so she can be seen as a leader.
Further Reading:
“Own the Room: Discover Your Signature Voice to Master Your Leadership Presence”
“Listening Is an Overlooked Leadership Tool”
“How to Change People’s Perception of You”
“How to Ask for Feedback That Will Actually Help You”

5 snips
Feb 15, 2021 • 33min
Choosing What’s Next for My Career
He’s been successful in his industry but feels like he’s been typecast in his role. Now he’s hoping for a change and wants to make sure his next position helps him redirect his career. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through figuring out what he really wants before he commits to a new company.
Further Reading:
“You Don’t Have to Be CEO to Be a Visionary Leader”
“Finding Direction When You’re Feeling Lost”
“Negotiating Your Next Job”