

Sex Is Medicine REBOOT
Devi Ward Erickson & Alaina Salks
Sex Is Medicine REBOOT ~ The Podcast for Sexual Rebels and Spiritual Warriors!Emotionally honest, raunchy, and REAL, Sex Is Medicine is the go-to podcast for sexual rebels and spiritual warriors. Devi Ward Erickson and Alaina Salks serve up Holistic Sex Education with SPICE. Drawing from over 27 years of combined expertise in holistic sexual wellness, Vajrayana Tantra, Tibetan Medicine, and somatic science, Alaina and Devi deliver your weekly dose of sexual wellness through a social justice and anti-racist lens, generously sprinkled with F-bombs.With a focus on the transformative and healing aspects of human sexuality, Alaina and Devi are committed to busting myths and breaking down systems that keep you disconnected from your true sexual potential, while also providing education and resources to help you claim your birthright to embodied bliss.Because Pleasure IS Medicine, Education is Healing, and the Truth is Liberating.
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Dec 7, 2018 • 55min
What makes sex a success?
What makes a successful sexual encounter?What defines a successful vs. a non-successful sexual encounter? What factors must be in place in order to ensure that all parties are happy and satisfied at the end of the session?What if there was an app that could help you address issues that may be preventing you from having the sexual connection you desire?Guess what? There is!Join Devi Ward Erickson and her guest, Juicebox app Founder, Brianna Radar as they discuss the secrets to satisfying sexual encounter that her sex tech app Juicebox has helped her discover.Find out:The secret recipe for successful sexual encountersExpert suggestions for straight men who struggle with online datingTips for closing the “orgasm gap”How women can experience more self-empowerment through pleasure.And much more!Join us live @7pm on CTR Network!BRIANNA RADER | FOUNDER OF JUICEBOXBrianna Rader is the Founder of Juicebox. She has worked in the field of sex education for five years and has a masters in Global Health Sciences.Her goal is to create a more sexually free and pleasurable world.Juicebox is an iOS app that provides 1-on-1 sex, dating, and relationship coaching anonymously. Juicebox is free to download and has free features, Spill and Snoop, where you can share stories and get simple questions answered for free. The 1-on-1 coaching is only $24/week, making it affordable and accessible.CONNECT WITH BRIANNA!Website: juiceboxit.comFacebook: @juiceboxappTwitter Handle: @juiceboxitThank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Nov 2, 2018 • 58min
Semen Retention and Prostate Health
Is Semen Retention Bad For Prostate Health?Western medical studies suggest that frequent ejaculation can help men prevent prostate cancer. But how accurate are these studies? And... are the truly indicating a relationship between frequent ejaculation and prostate health, or are the results actually indicating a relationship between sexual PLEASURE and male health?Join Tantra sexuality expert, Devi Ward Erickson, and Dr. Paul Tinari as they delve deeply into the pro’s and con’s of the most recent studies on frequent ejaculation and reveal what the results have ACTUALLY indicated in regards to male sexual health, ejaculation frequency, and the healing power of pleasure.Find out:*The present state of the research regarding implied relationships between ejaculation frequency and prostate health & cancer risk.*The safety of Tantric development that develops the male ability to experience non-ejaculatory orgasms*The healing properties of Tantric work & development*The safety aspects of various techniques of ejaculatory blockageDr. Paul TinariDR. PAUL TINARI | HEALTH AND WELLNESS CONSULTANT & RESEARCHERDr. Paul D. Tinari did his Ph.D. research in Bio-Fluid Mechanics, specifically researching capillary flows, the behaviour of fluids flowing through extremely tiny channels & pores such as those found in the human lymph system. He is the former Director of Education at the West Coast College for Massage Therapy where he worked to introduce many improvements to the curriculum in the area of Lymph Massage and Deep Transverse Therapy (DTT).After his partner died at a very young age of a very aggressive form of breast cancer, he dedicated himself to understanding everything possible about the origins of her illness. In particular, he used his expert knowledge of capillary flows to gain a detailed understanding of the flow of lymphatic fluid through the breast and how this flow could be interrupted by the wearing of certain types of constricting clothing. The results of his years of study of bio-fluid mechanics, bio-physics, massage therapy, tantric arts, nutrition and epidemiology, applied to the flow of lymph in the human body, have been summarized and included in this work. He currently works as personal success coach and health & wellness consultant. He lives in Port Moody, British Columbia, Canada.CONNECT WITH DR. PAUL!Website: www.drtinari.comGet the Book HERE!Thank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Oct 5, 2018 • 52min
How does male circumcision affect women’s sexual health?
How does male circumcision affect women’s sexual health?For the last 30 years Dr. Tinari has been conducting medical research aimed to improve women’s physical, sexual & psychological health & wellness outcomes.The research has strongly supported the view that Stagnant Lymph is a major factor contributing to increasing a woman’s risk of suffering from a broad spectrum of diseases including breast cancer.Dr. Tinari is the author of the book: “Lymph Mobbed & Booby Trapped” that critically examines some of the causes of stagnant lymph and presents effective solutions in the form of a number of easy to understand and simple to do exercises that women can perform on themselves, in the privacy of their own homes.Dr. Tinari is also one of the first researchers to investigate the impacts of male circumcision on female health and sexual response. In this interview he will be discussing some of his more disturbing finding that all women should be made aware of.Listen In and Learn:– What the Lymph System is and what it does.– How a woman’s clothing choices can adversely impact the health of her lymph system– Lymph flow enhancing exercises– Lymph Purging – What it is, how to learn how to do it, and its critical importance to overall female health– Male circumcision – why is so damaging to female health & sexual response?– and so much more!Join us live @7pm on CTR Network!Dr. Paul TinariDR. PAUL TINARI | HEALTH AND WELLNESS CONSULTANT & RESEARCHERDr. Paul D. Tinari did his Ph.D. research in Bio-Fluid Mechanics, specifically researching capillary flows, the behaviour of fluids flowing through extremely tiny channels & pores such as those found in the human lymph system. He is the former Director of Education at the West Coast College for Massage Therapy where he worked to introduce many improvements to the curriculum in the area of Lymph Massage and Deep Transverse Therapy (DTT).After his partner died at a very young age of a very aggressive form of breast cancer, he dedicated himself to understanding everything possible about the origins of her illness. In particular, he used his expert knowledge of capillary flows to gain a detailed understanding of the flow of lymphatic fluid through the breast and how this flow could be interrupted by the wearing of certain types of constricting clothing. The results of his years of study of bio-fluid mechanics, bio-physics, massage therapy, tantric arts, nutrition and epidemiology, applied to the flow of lymph in the human body, have been summarized and included in this work. He currently works as personal success coach and health & wellness consultant. He lives in Port Moody, British Columbia, Canada.CONNECT WITH DR. PAUL!Website: www.drtinari.comThank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Sep 10, 2018 • 55min
Sex Is Medicine ~ Activating Your Sexual Archetypes
Inside of every man and woman are aspects of the CREATOR that can activate or awaken both with our without effort. One of the keys of activating these archetypes is identifying blockages and releasing the narratives that caused them to be suppressed. It is important to REWRITE YOUR PROGRAM. You will get insight into how our “Alternate Personas” and LACK OF “Sexual Shadow Work” hinders us from tapping into these archetypes that are necessary to overcome challenges and succeed in our goals. Discover Your Archetypes through:– Sexual Shadow Work– Sacred Sexuality Rites of Passage– Relating to and communicating with the opposite sex– Transformational Guidance– Using Trance during sex and holding space for your partner– and so much more!Riziki ZafiraRIZIKI ZAFIRA | TRANSFORMATIONAL GUIDEAs a Transformation Guide, I use a variety of tools that I’ve acquired on my spiritual and professional path to help myself and others achieve the highest and best version of themselves.My extensive knowledge and skills as an intuitive Vedic/Sidereal Astrologer, Reiki Practitioner (Master Level), Tantric (Kundalini) Practitioner, Goddess Yoni Steam Practitioner, and Sacred Sexuality Coach (TM) has helped me guide men and women on their path of self-discovery, healing, and activation. In addition to the healing arts, my works include motivational speaking, workshop facilitation, humanitarian, activist, traveler, novice farmer, and composter. CONNECT WITH RIZIKI!Website: RizikiZafira.comThank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Aug 3, 2018 • 50min
The Shadow Side to Monogamy
There is a Shadow Side to Monogamy! For all its good— sense of security, continuity, deep knowing of your partner— there’s a mythos and fairytale ideal that society encourages us to follow, one which can leave us feeling broken in our relationships like a record stuck on repeat. We keep trying the same things over and over and get the same unfulfilling results.This fantasy of ‘perfect partnership’ foisted upon us has deep roots. But how relevant is it today, when we know that partnerships are not necessarily life-long, or exclusive? When we experience cheating, a breakup, or the opening of a relationship, a struggle starts between our hearts and minds.That struggle can result in feelings of shame, an experience of being emotionally frozen. You may feel like you can’t respond to things you know you should. It might interrupt your flow of communication, or keep you from feeling like you can freely express yourself. You might even find that you are unconsciously self-sabotaging yourself.This struggle is the “Monogamy Hangover”.Side note: Keep in mind this is anti-mythology, not anti-monogamy, so people wanting to do conscious monogamy can benefit from this work, not just poly/open people.Discover how to break free from this struggle through:– How to navigate relationships outside of co-dependent-style norms– Prescriptive vs descriptive relationships: what are the unspoken assumptions and expectations we have when we get into a relationship?– Exploring our stories about relationships and how they hold us back– Identifying what we really want and the difference between a desire at the surface, and the deep longing at our core.– Knowing our boundaries– and so much more!MELINA CASSIDY | RADICAL RELATIONSHIP COACHINGWith two decades of experience teaching and facilitating in groups small and large, Mel has a reputation for innovation, novelty, and being able to guide others to think— and live— outside the box.The grandchild of refugees, Mel has lived on three continents. She has professional experience in theater, education, special needs, management, holistic wellness, psychology, counseling, meditation, somatics, and yoga— all of which she applies within her coaching and mentoring.Taking a trauma-informed approach, Mel helps individuals around the world discover new dimensions of their relationships to themselves and the people in their lives. A respected teacher and presenter, she created the Monogamy Detox course for individuals who want to navigate alternative approaches to intimate relationships and is currently writing her first book.Mel is queer, loves cats, and experiences her relationships as a solo polyamorous individual. She lives on the traditional and unceded Coast Salish territories of K’ómoks in British Columbia, Canada.CONNECT WITH MELINA!Website: RadicalRelationshipCoaching.caThank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Jul 6, 2018 • 53min
The Sacred Sex Game
The Sacred Sex Game is designed for people who want to experience deeper love, greater communication, and celebrate a healthy relationship with themselves and each other. This game creates an opportunity to help open your hearts, and connect in a fun and intimate way.As artists, Shane and his wife Heather wanted to share a work of art with the world. As lovers and practitioners of sacred sexuality, they created a relationship and communication tool for people to play and honor a conscious lifestyle.Discover how the Sacred Sexuality Game can help you:– Improve your communication skills– Learn tantric breathing exercises and eye-gazing– Explore the 5 senses and sexual positions– Learn how to become a better giver and receiver– and understand your partner’s needsSHANE BRANDOLINI | CREATOR OF THE SACRED SEX GAMEShane is an artist, visionary, and mystic. He attended his first sacred sex workshop over 20 years ago and he has developed a working relationship with the eastern arts ever since. His latest creation is an adult board game, designed for couples to assist in communication, energy healing, and intimacy.Shane works with his wife Heather and they live in Flagstaff, Arizona. Together they are artists, seekers, and lovers. With their extensive knowledge and practice of tantra and conscious communication, came the desire to create a game based on these ideas. Their intention for this game is to help people open the lines of communication and nurture a positive sexual relationship.CONNECT WITH SHANE!Website: sacredsexgame.comGet the Sacred Sex Game HERE!Thank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Jun 8, 2018 • 57min
Sex After Trauma ~ Sex Is Medicine Radio
The statistic for sexual trauma are staggering. The most recent statistics show that:Every 98 seconds an American is sexually assaulted1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of child sexual abuse;Self-report studies show that 20% of adult females and 5-10% of adult males recall a childhood sexual assault or sexual abuse incident;Reclaiming pleasure after trauma is possible with the correct guidance and practices. Join Devi and her guest Rachael Maddox as they discuss:1- The definition of trauma2- How eroticism and role play can create sexual healing3- How to move through numbness, pain, shame and enter into pleasure4- How to find or be a safe sexual healing guide5- What Radical Self Consent looks like+ much, much, much more!Find out more at http://deviwardtantra.com/tantra-podcast/RACHAEL MADDOX | COACH, TRAUMA RESOLUTION EDUCATION & AUTHORRachael Maddox is a trauma resolution educator, coach and guide who’s helped hundreds of women and men resolve their sexual trauma and reclaim their pleasure, power and wholeness.In her first book, SECRET BAD GIRL, Rachael tells the story of her return to wildness, sensuality, health and embodied safety after a decade of living under the trauma spell.Her next book, SEX AFTER TRAUMA, publishes fall 2018, and is written to help people navigate life between the sheets after they’ve been through the worst of it.On a fierce mission to help as many women as possible who’ve experienced trauma, Rachael offers one-on-one support, groups, articles and courses for women who are ready to dance hard with life.If you’re new to Rachael or the territory of trauma resolution, check out the free 8-part video series, Becoming a Grown Goddess, that covers Trauma 101, Boundaries & Belonging, Sex After Trauma, and more!Rachael’s professional training includes Alchemical Alignment Trauma Resolution & Embodiment of Spirit, The Coaches Training Institute and The Awakened Leadership Academy.For fun, Rachael writes songs on her ukulele, swims naked as often as possible, and lays quietly under trees.Thank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

May 4, 2018 • 53min
Sex Is Medicine Radio ~ Cultivating Sexual Wholeness
Our results-fixated culture can lead to an achievement-oriented sexual identity, experience and mind-set where the focus is on our fruits. Sexual wholeness and embodying our sexual/spiritual consciousness invites a restoration from the roots of our nervous system, through the safety of inhabiting our trunks, and nourishing the open flow of energy through our branches. in order for our genitalia to enjoy the fruits of our embodiment, presence, and loving.Join Devi and her guest Rahi Chun of Somatic Sexual Wholeness as they dive into what cultivating sexual wholness looks like.Learn:1- Why our Sexual Issues are really our Soul Issues2- How our early attachment deficits affect our nervous system3- How a lack of early relational attachment in infancy affects our sense of sexual sovereignty and empowerment4- How our earliest wiring or associations with sexual arousal/pleasure can create blueprints for our adult patterns, behaviors and fetishes5- Presence and Safety and the power of re-imprinting new embodied stories to heal from, and leave past violations in the past.+ much, much, much more!Join us live @7pm on CTR Network!RAHI CHUN | SOMATIC SEXUAL WHOLNESSRahi Chun’s purpose was birthed from the tactile awareness he received to heal his crooked legs as an infant, combined with his practices of meditation in the Zen temples of Japan, and living at the Buddhist monastery Wat Ram Peung in Northern Thailand. His experiences of witnessing the spontaneous release of the body’s chronic guarding patterns from embodied presence and intentional touch followed by its expansion of life force energies encouraged his studies in the Taoist and Tantric traditions of intentionally circulating sexual energy for healing and consciousness. He has since combined his Master’s in Spiritual Psychology, with his certifications in TRE (Trauma Release Exercises), NeuroAffective Touch and Sexological Bodywork in offering Somatic Sexual Wholeness a mind/body/spirit integrated approach to sexual health and well-being. SSW is sequenced intentionally to first address the early attachment relational deficits affecting the nervous system and its chronic guarding patterns, before restoring an empowered voice/choice often missing in our adolescence within the client, after which any genital armouring/trauma/conditioned patterns are resolved for an expansion in sexual freedom, pleasure, and wholeness.Thank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Apr 6, 2018 • 55min
Sex Is Medicine Radio ~ Sacred, Sensual, BDSM
Sacred, Sensual, BDSM!Since the release of 50 Shades of Grey, there has been an upsurge in the interest around BDSM. Standing for Bondage, Discipline and Sadomasochism, consensual BDSM play is going out of the shadows and into the light of mainstream awareness.But what is BDSM exactly? Can it be healthy? Can it be spiritual? Does it always have to hurt, or can it be playful and sensual?Join Devi and her guest Cazembe Abena, founder of Senergetic BDSM as they discuss the many forms and expressions of BDSMLearn:1- What are the origins of BDSM2- What kind of people are attracted to BDSM?3- What does it mean about you if you like BDSM?4- Is it healthy? Is it safe? Is it legal?5- What is the spiritual side of BDSM?+ much, much, much more!CAZEMBE ABENA Senergetic BDSMCAZEMBE ABENA, R.M.T., C.H.C.Cazembe Abena has been practicing for 7 years as a Certified Holistic Practitioner with certifications in various health and metaphysical modalities including Reiki/Energy Medicine, Tantra, Health Coaching, and Meditation. He is also known as ‘The Heart Whisperer’ and is an Intimacy Coach and DOM. Cazembe is originally from Portland OR, and earned a B.A. in Psychology from Clark Atlanta University in Atlanta, GA where he resides. His company, Divine Resonance LLC’s mission is Rekindling the Spark and Deepening the Connection to Source, Self, and Life through Love.Cazembe uses a combination of Energy Therapy, Coaching, Nurturing Touch, and CBT tools to promote evolution, self-acceptance, and healing of the holistic four-body system to foster a life of abundant authentic living. In addition to Intimacy, Cazembe’s work is focused on Stress/Trauma Relief, as he believes this is a major contributor to disease that affects millions in the US, and is increasing annually in our fast-paced society.Cazembe’s specialty are two of his own created methods/tools, which he employs often with his clientele. His custom-drawn energetic symbols for healing and meditation are called Sacred Symbol Technology and his healing method of BDSM is called Senergetic BDSM. Senergetic BDSM utilizes Intention, Sensual Touch, Energy Cultivation & Movement, and Impact Play in a safe, sane, and consensual format. When these tools are in place and boundaries are honored, Senergetic BDSM can lead to greater Trust, Connection, Arousal, Healing, Growth, and Emancipation for individuals and couples.Find out more at www.divine-resonance.com.Thank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina

Mar 2, 2018 • 57min
Natural Yoni Care!
Bacterial Vaginosis is the most common vaginal complaint in women of childbearing age. It is estimated that as many as 70% of women worldwide may experience BV at some point in their lives.Though experts say BV is not dangerous, it can be uncomfortable and embarrassing. And, it is also preventable once you know how and why it occurs.Join Devi and her guest, sexual wellness expert Nina Helms, as they discuss:What causes BV?How can you prevent it?Once you get it, what do you do?Natural/Holistic vs. Allopathic RemediesNina C. Helms is the founder and CEO of S+HE Intimate Fitness and DevineToys, two lifestyle and sexual wellness companies designed to enhance women’s comfort, confidence and quality of life through products and education. As a counselor, author and presenter, Nina has shared her expertise on intimate health and wellness and women’s self-care topics for the past decade. She introduced an array of pioneering products to the sexual health and wellness industry in America over the past 15 years. She is on a mission to create change and galvanize women’s actions through raising awareness and normalizing intimate health and pelvic wellness issues..Thank you for listening to Sex Is Medicine! We appreciate YOU! :-)Please make sure you LIKE + SUBSCRIBE to Sex Is Medicine REBOOT! And please leave us a comment... we love to hear your thoughts!Do you have a question you want answered on air? We are delighted to answer!Send your questions to Questions@holisticsexologyinstitute.comLearn more about our work at HolisticSexologyInstitute.comFind out more about our government-accredited Holistic Sexology Certification Program. See you next week!With Love,Devi and Alaina


