The Couples Therapist Couch

Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Sabrina N'Diaye about peace and healing in couples therapy. Sabrina is a therapist, storyteller, and peacebuilder with over 3 decades of service to the underserved. Hear how to get your clients to slow down and breathe, the role of a couples therapist when it comes to divorce, how to model acceptance, how to look at a marriage in different stages, and when to be direct with your clients. To check out Sabrina’s book, Big Mama Speaks, visit: BigMamaSpeaks.com To learn more about Sabrina’s practice, visit: TheHeartNest.com You can also listen to Sabrina on Episode 172 of The Couples Therapist Couch

Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Wendy Behary about narcissism in couples therapy. Wendy is the Bestselling Author of “Disarming the Narcissist” and the Founder and Director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC and DC. Hear how she became interested in the study of narcissism, how to approach narcissism as a therapist, how to use Schema Therapy, whether it’s okay to interrupt your clients, and how to avoid getting triggered. To learn more about Wendy and check out her book, visit: DisarmingTheNarcissist.com  

Kathryn Rheem, an expert in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and director of the Washington Baltimore Center for EFT, shares insights on the intersection of trauma and relationships. She discusses overcoming Impostor Syndrome and the impact of trauma on the nervous system. Kathryn emphasizes the importance of empathy in connecting with defensive partners and healing emotional wounds. She also explores how EFT facilitates love reception and emotional processing, encouraging mutual support for lasting healing.

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Sue Johnson, the pioneer of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), discusses her journey in developing this impactful approach. She highlights how emotions shape interpersonal dynamics and the importance of bonding conversations in therapy. Sue explains that restoring emotional connection resolves conflicts and fosters secure attachments. She also shares insights on attunement and creating corrective emotional experiences that lead to meaningful change. Her passion for EFT and its global implementation shines through, making for a truly enlightening dialogue.

Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Sharon Pope about all things divorce. Sharon is a Marriage & Relationship Coach and several-time Bestselling Author on love and relationships, including “Stay or Go?” Hear how to approach divorce, where people get stuck, how women and men differ in divorce, how therapists can guide people towards a decision, and why divorce should always be an option. To learn more about Sharon, visit SharonPope.com Check out “Stay or Go?” at StayOrGoBook.com

Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Tom Murray about the intersection of perfectionism and intimacy. Tom is a Sex and Relationship Expert who’s the Author of “Making Nice with Naughty” and a Co-Host of the Making Nice with Naughty podcast. Hear how to predict a couple’s quality of sex life, how anxiety and adrenaline come into play in the bedroom, how therapists can help with sex and relationship issues, the difference between closeness and vulnerability, and the reality of monogamy. To learn more about Tom and check out his book, visit MakingNiceWithNaughty.com For Tom’s clinical practice, visit APathToWellness.com

Leanne Campbell discusses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and trauma, highlighting the benefits of EFT, the traumatizing effects of isolation, gathering information before diving into experiences, focusing on the CARE model in initial sessions, and being cautious when working with trauma.

In a captivating discussion with Patricia Papernow, a leading expert on blended families, they tackle the intricacies of stepfamily dynamics. Patricia shares insights on the importance of authoritative parenting and how to balance discipline between biological and step-parents. They explore the role of ex-spouses and the ongoing impact of gray divorce on family relationships. Additionally, the conversation highlights the significance of open communication in fostering emotional connections among family members, enhancing children's well-being in blended families.

In a riveting discussion, Patricia Papernow, a leading voice on blended families and recent award recipient for her contributions to family therapy, dives into the complexities of stepfamily dynamics. She unveils the unique challenges stepfamilies face, emphasizing why effective communication is crucial. Patricia highlights the impact of adult tensions on children’s well-being and introduces concepts like 'bruise theory.' Additionally, she offers insights on fostering trust in parenting roles and the importance of collaboration between stepparents and biological parents.

Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Guy Winch about psychedelics, relationships, and mental health. Guy is a Psychologist, Speaker, and Author who’s a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. Hear why society doesn’t address mental health as much as physical health, how couples can evaluate and improve their relationships, how long it takes to recover from a divorce or break-up, how psychedelics can help in recovery, and how accepted psychedelics are today. To learn more about Guy, visit GuyWinch.com Check out Guy’s latest book, “Emotional First Aid” Check out Guy’s podcast, “Dear Therapists” To learn more about ketamine therapy, visit Mindbloom.com