
Alcohol-Free Lifestyle
Helping high performers feel & perform better by reducing or quitting alcohol.
Maybe you're considering quitting alcohol and going completely sober. Or maybe you wish to change your relationship with alcohol and stop drinking. Maybe you wish to do moderation.
Whichever way you choose, this podcast will give you the process to succeed.
Alcohol-Free Lifestyle is for high performers, including entrepreneurs, executives, investors, athletes, and top professionals.
Latest episodes

Jun 23, 2025 • 20min
Short the Stock: Alcohol’s Crashing Value" - Victoria English
You wouldn’t invest in a stock with declining returns, mounting risks, and fake rewards, so why keep pouring into alcohol? This episode unpacks the hidden costs of drinking through the lens of value, logic, and self-trust. Discover why high-achieving professionals stay stuck in a losing game, and how to start making deposits into something that actually grows: your clarity, confidence, health, and peace. If alcohol is a failing stock, it’s time to stop living like it, and start building something better. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 20, 2025 • 23min
Your Compass Is Pointing Somewhere, Why Aren’t You Moving? - Victoria English
Do you feel stuck, knowing you want to change your relationship with alcohol but waiting for the “perfect time”? In this episode, Coach Victoria English uses the powerful metaphor to explain why you might be frozen in the “almost phase”. She reveals how the mental exhaustion of debating your drinking and the myth of “being ready” can keep you from moving forward. Discover why clarity and relief don't come from standing still, but from taking that first, single step. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 18, 2025 • 23min
How Visualization Can Rewire Your Alcohol-Free Journey with Coach Jason and Coach Matt
In this episode, Coaches Jason and Matt explain how this simple mental practice can help you build the alcohol-free life you want. They share the science behind it, including a study where visualization improved performance by 23%, and give you actionable tools like “playing the tape forward” to consciously create your future. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 16, 2025 • 36min
Leading with Strength: How Natural Talents Support the Alcohol-Free Journey
In this episode, Coach Teri Patterson sits down with Gallup-Certified Strengths Coach Sally Magee to explore how identifying and embracing your natural talents can support and strengthen your alcohol-free lifestyle. They discuss the Clifton Strengths assessment, the value of focusing on what you do well, and how leaning into your strengths builds confidence, clarity, and momentum on the path to freedom from alcohol. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 13, 2025 • 14min
Cognitive Dissonance and Alcohol-Free Living: Understanding the Psychological Struggle with Coach Jason
What happens when your actions don’t match your values? In this episode, we talk about cognitive dissonance, the mental stress that comes from doing one thing while believing another. You’ll hear a personal story about how this conflict can lead to habits that feel hard to break. If you're thinking about a change or just want to understand why some habits stick, this episode can help. We look at how your thoughts, actions, and values all connect, and how making them work together can lead to real change. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com

Jun 11, 2025 • 28min
The Corona Cartel: How Big Alcohol Took Over Summer - Victoria English
Ever wonder what's really behind those perfect summer alcohol ads? This episode, Coach Victoria disrupts the biggest lie sold by alcohol companies: that their drinks create your happiness and an "effortless summer vibe." Prepare to see things differently as Victoria challenges you to imagine those glossy beach ads selling another risky product, would they still seem so harmless? It's a bold invitation to question what's truly being sold. Victoria uncovers the smart psychological tricks these ads use to connect alcohol with your summer joy, often hiding the real story. She shares the serious truths about alcohol's dangers that these campaigns don't mention. But this isn't just about exposing a problem, it's about finding your power. Learn how your brain can "rewire" to see through these deceptions, so you can build your own real summer happiness, no drink needed. It's time to wake up and claim your summer. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 9, 2025 • 26min
After the Silence: What I Heard When I Finally Stopped Escaping - Victoria English
Do you ever wish you could handle tough feelings without needing to escape them? Coach Victoria shares her own story of facing emotional pain after using alcohol as an "emotional anesthetic". Many of us try to numb feelings from stress, grief, or old hurts with drinks. Victoria talks openly about why it’s so scary to meet these feelings when we choose to live alcohol-free, and the "emotional weight" many people carry. But there's amazing hope for change. Victoria explains how alcohol affects our brains and the exciting science of "neuroplasticity". How our brains can heal and build new paths. Learn how to not just get through discomfort, but to truly hold your feelings and find your strength. She reminds us we're not broken or weak. Our brains are learning to feel again, opening us up to real joy and peace. Find out why support from others is so important on this path to rediscovering yourself. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 6, 2025 • 22min
Villain, Victim, or Helpless? Rewriting the Stories You Tell Yourself - Coach Jason & Coach Matt
Do your inner stories hold you back? Jason and Matt, coaches at Alcohol-Free Lifestyle, talk about these powerful hidden stories. Often, these stories shape our lives without us even knowing it. They look at how we might see ourselves in unhelpful ways, like a Villain, a Victim, or as Helpless. Learn how these inner thoughts can really affect our lives, especially our relationship with alcohol and our happiness. You can find simple ways to change these unhelpful thoughts. Rewrite your inner story to feel stronger and more in control. Jason and Matt talk about knowing yourself better and writing your thoughts down. They also discuss how your words and even your breathing can make a difference. Taking responsibility for your life is a big step. It helps you move from feeling helpless or like a victim to becoming the hero of your own story. Learn how to use tough times for good, and build a strong, positive outlook by trying these things regularly. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 4, 2025 • 43min
"It's a Miracle": Dan's 90-Day Journey to an Alcohol-Free Life He Never Thought Possible. An honest conversation with Coach Matt, told through the eyes of an AFL member
Ever wondered if you could truly change your relationship with drinks and unlock a more vibrant life? Hear Dan Hall's powerful story, an AFL 90-day program graduate who went from decades of habitual drinking, a pattern that intensified during COVID, to a life he never imagined. After a pivotal “bad experience” and initial skepticism about the program's high success claims, Dan committed to the 90-day journey. This episode delves into that decision and the path that unfolded. Dan describes his transformation as a "miracle", explaining how AFL helped reshape his neuropath ways until the desire for alcohol simply vanished. He shares compelling details of newfound mental clarity, professional success, stronger relationships, and a profound sense of peace and joy. If you're wondering if significant change is possible, Dan's honest account offers inspiration and insight into achieving a richer, fuller life. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Jun 2, 2025 • 48min
What Happens When You Finally Quit? Damon’s Life After Alcohol. An honest conversation with Coach Matt, told through the eyes of an AFL member
Damon opens up about the toll alcohol took on his health, relationships, and self-worth, and how he turned it all around. In this powerful conversation with Coach Matt, Damon shares the moment he knew things had to change, the fears he faced, and the tools that helped him rebuild his life alcohol-free. From reconnecting with his kids to reclaiming his physical and emotional well-being, Damon’s story is proof that transformation is possible at any stage. Whether you're early in your journey or need inspiration to keep going, this honest and hopeful episode will resonate deeply. Damon Bentley's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sailing.quixote/ Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear