
Nobody Told Me!
(Apple Podcast's Best of 2018) When mother-daughter duo Jan Black and Laura Owens first conceptualized their two-generational talk show, nobody told them they’d snag the title of #1 self-help podcast for months on end! But that’s exactly what they’ve done, delving into topics as far-flung as network building, the importance of failure, finding hope after being kidnapped, and how the principles of brain surgery can help us work through everyday problems. Featuring interviews with extraordinary individuals, Nobody Told Me! shines light on the shared human experiences that bring us together, and the challenges that serve as catalysts for our greatest growth. Nobody Told Me! combines Jan’s impressive broadcast journalism background with Laura’s unique, millennial perspective. Driven by a genuine desire to educate and empower, their pioneering platform gives insight into the strategies and secrets of people in all walks of life. Equal parts information and inspiration, Nobody Told Me! brings a personal touch to the interview process. Together, Jan and Laura are asking the questions that help their listeners get through life’s toughest times.
Latest episodes

Nov 28, 2023 • 30min
Dr. Doug Noll: ...keep your cool when dealing with someone who’s upset and out of control
If you find it uncomfortable to deal with difficult people and highly emotional problems, stay tuned! Our guest is distinguished attorney Doug Noll, who has a lot to say about how we can improve our skills in handling such situations. Doug is the co-founder of the award-winning Prison of Peace Project, which teaches long-term inmates in maximum security prisons to be peacemakers and mediators. Doug’s latest book is called, "De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less". His website is https://dougnoll.com/

Nov 23, 2023 • 39min
Theresa Caputo: ...how much our loved ones work from the other side
If you’re a fan of the show "Long Island Medium", then you know the star of that show, Theresa Caputo, who's our guest on this episode. Theresa is a New York Times bestselling author, whose latest book is called "GOOD MOURNING: Moving Through Everyday Losses with Wisdom from the Other Side". Theresa has been a practicing medium for many years and helps people heal and find the closure they need to embrace life without their loved ones who’ve passed away.

Nov 22, 2023 • 34min
Harold Ivan Smith: ...coping with grief during the holidays
The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, but that may not be what you’re experiencing if you’re missing someone who’s passed away. Our guest on this episode is grief crisis consultant Harold Ivan Smith, who’s written many books on grief including, "A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While Others are Celebrating". In this interview, he shares some great advice on how to enjoy this time of year while also celebrating the memory of our loved ones who have died.

Nov 21, 2023 • 27min
Dorothy Kalins: ...that kitchen memories would make up some of my best memories
If you love to cook, or just love to eat, this episode is for you! We’re excited to welcome our guest, award-winning magazine editor Dorothy Kalins. She’s had a long career in food media and has collaborated on the production of many cookbooks. Dorothy was the founding editor of the food and wine magazine, 'Savure', and she’s the author of a great book called, "The Kitchen Whisperers: Cooking with the Wisdom of Our Friends". Her website is https:/www.dorothykalins.com.

Nov 17, 2023 • 27min
Robert Jensen: ...how to deal with the worst the world can throw at us
Think about any major disaster in the world over the past 30 years and our guest, Robert Jensen, was probably on the scene and personally involved for days, months or even years afterward. Robert is the chairman of Kenyon International Emergency Services, which provides crisis management response to hundreds of businesses and governments. Robert has spent most of his adult life responding to major disasters like the 9/11 attacks, Hurricane Katrina, the 2010 Haitian earthquake and the 2004 South Asian tsunami. He is the author of a gripping book called, "Personal Effects: What Recovering the Dead Teaches Me about Caring for the Living".

Nov 15, 2023 • 27min
Dr. Drew & Paulina Pinsky: ...conversations about consent don't need to be awkward
We are a mother-daughter duo and on this episode, we’re joined by a father-daughter duo, Dr. Drew Pinsky and his daughter, Paulina. Dr. Drew is a practicing internist and addiction medicine specialist in addition to being a New York Times bestselling author. You probably know him as a trusted source of relationship advice from his TV, radio and podcast appearances over the years. Dr. Drew’s daughter, Paulina, is a writer and educator who is the co-author of a great book with her father. The book is called, "It Doesn’t Have to Be Awkward: Dealing with Relationships, Consent, and Other Hard-to-Talk-About Stuff".

Nov 13, 2023 • 27min
Emily Ladau: ...that my disability does not make me any worthy as a human being
More than one billion people around the world are disabled, yet, there are a lot of misconceptions about what it means to be disabled. Many of us are fearful, confused and unsure of what to say and how to act around someone with a disability. On this episode, we’ll “demystify disabilities” with our guest, well-known disability rights activist, blogger and speaker Emily Ladau, whose work has been featured by the New York Times, CNN, and U.S. News and World Report, to name just a few. She is passionate about, “Getting nondisabled people to stop treating disabled people as a weird cross between precious gems and alien creatures.” She’s the author of the book, "DEMYSTIFYING DISABILITY: What to Know, What to Say, and How to Be an Ally". Her website is https://emilyladau.com/

Nov 11, 2023 • 28min
Michael Bungay Stanier: ...the power of having people around you to push you forward
If you want to shake things up in your life, listen to our guest on this episode, Michael Bungay Stanier. He is the author of the best-selling book, “The Coaching Habit” and the founder of the training and development company, Box of Crayons, which has taught coaching skills to hundreds of thousands of people around the world. His latest book is called, "How To Begin: Start Doing Something that Matters". His website is mbsworks.

Nov 9, 2023 • 33min
Katy Milkman: ...that the path to success requires you to enjoy the journey
Have you ever tried t to change a habit, without success? Our guest on this episode, Professor Katy Milkman, is an award-winning behavioral scientist at The Wharton School. Katy’s research explores ways that insights from economics and psychology can be used to change behaviors for good. She’s the author of a book on that topic called, "How to Change: The Science of Getting from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be". Her website is https://www.katymilkman.com/

Nov 8, 2023 • 31min
Julia Galef: ...some people see things clearly and others don't
Your mindset is the topic on this episode. Do you wish you had emotional skills, habits and ways of looking at the world that served you better? Our guest, Julia Galef, says you can learn new ways of looking at the world and you should! Julia is the co-founder of the Center for Applied Rationality, the host of the podcast, "Rationally Speaking", and the author of the book, "The Scout Mindset: Why Some People See Things Clearly and Others Don’t". Her website is https://juliagalef.com/