The Mating Grounds Podcast
Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller
The Mating Grounds Podcast is a collaboration between #1 bestselling author, Tucker Max, and renowned evolutionary psychologist, Professor Geoffrey Miller, to teach men how to be successful with women, dating and relationships.
Through discussions and interviews with the worlds leading experts in human sexuality, psychology, animal behavior, genetics and behavioral studies, they explain in clear and actionable terms precisely what men need to know about sex, dating, relationships, and women, and how to improve yourself in all of those areas.
Plainly put: this is the advice that men wish they had heard when they were 16, that teaches them all the important lessons about sex and dating they are desperate to learn.
Through discussions and interviews with the worlds leading experts in human sexuality, psychology, animal behavior, genetics and behavioral studies, they explain in clear and actionable terms precisely what men need to know about sex, dating, relationships, and women, and how to improve yourself in all of those areas.
Plainly put: this is the advice that men wish they had heard when they were 16, that teaches them all the important lessons about sex and dating they are desperate to learn.
Episodes
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Nov 10, 2014 • 58min
How To Be Attractive To Women, Pt. 6: Crazy Is Not Sexy (Mental & Emotional Health)
One of the least attractive things a guy can be is crazy. While most guys are not crazy, very few guys pay much attention to their mental health, and they should. In this episode, Tucker and Geoff discuss why mental health matters, what the indicators of mental health are, and how you can improve in these areas to display the traits that women find attractive.
Nov 7, 2014 • 1h 16min
Rachael Grazioplene Interview
This week, we talk to Rachael Grazioplene, a PhD student at the University of Minnesota who's research focuses on individual differences, primarily openness traits related to creativity and intelligence, and the effects of environmental and genetic factors on this. In this episode we discuss what guys do wrong in dating, what guys do right, what traits women find attractive, and how you can develop those traits.
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Nov 6, 2014 • 31min
How Do I Stop Talking To Women As Friends And Start Flirting With Them?
Friendly conversation with a woman is not that different than flirting with her; flirting is just a subtle extension of normal conversation to gauge sexual interest. Once you have the right perspective, you can start flirting with any woman you are interested in. In this episode, Tucker, Geoff, and Carin explain how to flirt with a woman, and give lots of tips for how you can improve at flirting.
Nov 5, 2014 • 19min
I Have A Weak Feminine Face, How Do I Compensate?
Guys often have the wrong idea about what's attractive to women. Women aren't exclusively attracted to masculine traits, and are generally attracted to more feminine faces than guys think they are, especially for longer term relationships. In this episode, Tucker, Geoff, and Carin explain how psychology research is often misunderstood by journalists, bloggers, and the manosphere, leading to incorrect views about what women what, and also give some advice on dealing with whatever physical flaws you think you have.
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Nov 4, 2014 • 21min
How Can I Be More Comfortable In Social Situations?
Shame can be crippling, and if you want to form relationships, you need to be comfortable with who you are. In this episode, Tucker, Geoff, and Nils tell you what you need to know to deal with shame, transform the way you view yourself, and become more comfortable in social situations.
Nov 3, 2014 • 59min
How To Be Attractive To Women, Pt.5: Style is Sexy(Aesthetic Proof)
Women care a lot about style and aesthetics because it signals other important traits such as intelligence, social ability, and resources. It's very easy to become better than most guys in this area, and in this episode Tucker and Geoff tell you some simple things you can do to improve your aesthetic sense and become more attractive to women.
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Oct 31, 2014 • 1h 17min
Jake Seliger Interview
Our guest today is Jake Seliger, novelist and writer. Jake has gone from being very unsuccessful with women to very successful, and has lots of actionable advice. In this episode, Tucker and Jake discuss where to find women, how to ask them out, how to know when a girl likes you, and what you can do to make yourself more attractive to women.
Oct 30, 2014 • 11min
Can I Have A Successful Relationship With My Co-Worker
Navigating workplace romance can be tricky, but it’s not impossible! Discover key insights on how power dynamics can impact reputation, especially for women. Learn the legal and ethical considerations of dating colleagues and why discretion is essential. The hosts share personal stories and cautionary tales, emphasizing the importance of knowing your workplace policies. With the right approach, co-worker relationships can thrive without jeopardizing your career!
Oct 29, 2014 • 15min
What To Do On A First Date From Tinder
Tinder is a great way to match up with interested girls, but what do you do after the match? You meet the woman in person, and the best first date is meeting is a social situation that is low stress with a short time commitment. Tucker, Geoff, and Nils explain the best way to go about this, and also tell you how to find girls who are looking for the same thing you are on Tinder.
Oct 28, 2014 • 16min
I Fall For Girls Too Fast, What Is My Problem?
Falling in love too fast is a common issue guys have, but if you have this problem and don't fix it, eventually you'll end up in a toxic relationship. In today's episode, Tucker, Geoff, and Nils explain the exact steps you need to take to have healthy relationships, starting with recognizing you have a problem, managing your emotions, and building intimate non-romantic relationships.
