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It is the duty of parents to nurture and guide their children. Yet, some parents teach in a way that harms their children, leaving them with a traumatic experience they can carry with them as they grow up. We may be quick to label them as terrible parents, but looking back, we can see that those parents were also subjected to abusive environments from their very own parents, which caused them to be who they are and pass it on to their children. Dennis Morolda shares his life experiences of growing up perceiving love from his father based on how well he made things, being bullied at school, and having a people-pleasing mindset. Listen in to find out why surrounding yourself with mentors and role models will help you build experience and a strong leadership mindset, how Dennis forgives his father, and why writing your story will help you heal. Quotes: “When you're going through experiences as a young man, the experiences that you have changed how your brain is wired and how it is made up. And so, for you guys having this experience with unbelievable mentors and role models here, it's really serving to develop your brain in a way where you will become that strong leader.” – Dennis Morolda “It's okay to express emotion and express that vulnerability. It took me a long time to recognize that it is a strength to be able to show your vulnerability.” –Dennis Morolda “The other thing that's really helped me is writing stuff down; that's what I did initially. When I finally got through it, I wrote down this entire story from start to finish. And once you can write it down and get it out of your head, it doesn't stay stuck in there or bounce around in your head anymore. So I wrote it down. And I read it out loud. And I've read it to other people. And it helped me heal.” – Dennis Morolda Takeaways: Your experiences as a man will shape how your brain works. And so, surrounding yourself with great mentors and role models will help you develop a brain of a future strong leader. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. It is not a weakness: instead, it is a strength to be capable of conveying your vulnerabilities. Writing down your story will help you heal from your bad experiences because it enables you to let go and free your mind from negativity. Conclusion: Understanding your parents' actions on why they are raising you in such a negative manner is the key to forgiving them. And as you know your parents, it is on you to determine how to shift and move forward, not take your parents' bad habits, and instead be a better man.

Sometimes, people live their lives to the fullest without thinking of others, without thinking of their consequences or effects. Remember, people may forget about you, but they will never forget how you made them feel. Every little thing you do is a legacy that you are leaving behind. Ben Greenfield talks about the experiences he had throughout his life as well as the lessons and advice that he can share. He is someone who prioritized his family and altered his career in order to ensure that he could be there for his family. He wanted to provide for them and, at the same time, be present for them as a father and a husband. Tune in as he talks about life, growth, legacy, and more! Quotes: “One of the most important things I would say besides your relationship with your Creator is your relationship with your family.” – Ben Greenfield “When you write a book, it establishes credibility for you, it establishes respect for your work, it establishes trust with an audience.” – Ben Greenfield “People will forget what you did. People will forget who you were, but people will not forget how you made them feel.” – Ben Greenfield Takeaways: Family is the most important thing in life. When you start your own, you have to know your responsibilities and how they can create an impact in their lives and the future as well. Writing a book isn’t all about gaining money by selling it. A book gives you credibility, respect, and trust from the readers. They will look up to you and seek the knowledge or information you can share. When you’re on your deathbed, people will remember you by how you treated them and how you made them feel.  Conclusion: Your family is the most important aspect of your life. Make sure to know your priorities and know when to change careers for the better. Aside from that, you may also be able to create a life that inspires others, hence leaving a good legacy behind. 

By instilling these values and principles in young men, we can create a generation of individuals who strive for greatness and positively impact the world. Encouraging young men to be better than average is beneficial for personal growth and success and for the betterment of society as a whole. Young men can achieve great things and surpass the average, positively impacting the world and leaving a lasting legacy of excellence. Ray Care is a former Navy SEAL who has become a motivational speaker, dedicated to creating a stronger civilization of young warriors. Drawing on his experiences as a SEAL, Ray can offer valuable insights and advice to his audiences, inspiring them to pursue excellence in all aspects of their lives. Ray has impacted people worldwide more than most humans ever will. Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, entrepreneurship, and more! Quotes: “The problem with society is men aren’t supposed to talk to children like their children. They’re not children; they’re young men. They’re warriors. And eventually, you’re all going to grow up to do some amazing things.” – Ray Care “Don’t settle for people in your life that are average. You can’t pick and choose your parents. But you can pick and choose your friends.” – Ray Care “Instead of proving people wrong, Do it to prove yourself right. It doesn’t matter what other people think.” – Ray Care “Fitness is three dimensional like leadership. Physical fitness is not enough. You need to have physical, mental, and emotional leadership. And you need to have physical, mental, and emotional fitness.” – Ray Care Takeaways: Society must change its attitude toward young men, encouraging them to see themselves as warriors rather than children. Society can help young men accomplish great things by treating them respectfully and recognizing their potential. This shift in perspective can assist young men in developing a sense of purpose and self-confidence, both of which are necessary for success in any profession. It is critical to surround oneself with people who inspire and drive them. One can accomplish greatness in their personal and professional life by surrounding themselves with people who encourage personal growth and push them to reach their full potential. Choosing average individuals who are satisfied with mediocrity can prevent you from reaching your full potential. People should concentrate on demonstrating themselves right rather than attempting to prove others wrong. This strategy assists individuals in remaining focused on their objectives rather than being distracted by the opinions of other’s judgment. Staying loyal to oneself and resisting external pressures or societal expectations is critical. It is critical to handle fitness and leadership from three perspectives. Physical fitness is not enough; cerebral and emotional fitness must also be developed. Similarly, leadership necessitates a holistic strategy that considers all aspects of oneself. Individuals can achieve success and positively influence the world by creating all aspects of themselves. Conclusion: People should start adopting a mindset of continuous personal growth and improvement. They must set clear goals for themselves and work towards achieving them with dedication and hard work. They must surround themselves with inspiring and supportive people who challenge them to be their best selves. It is also important to focus on oneself rather than the opinions of others and to take a holistic approach to personal fitness and leadership, encompassing physical, mental, and emotional aspects. Additionally, it is crucial to learn from mistakes, adapt, and stay committed to personal growth and success despite challenges and setbacks.

Any good plan must include setting goals and priorities. By establishing goals, you are expressing what you hope to achieve. You gain drive and attention by having goals. Setting goals for oneself increases your likelihood of accomplishing your tasks. Setting priorities will enable you to achieve those objectives. Priorities assist you in deciding which chores must be completed and when. Having a list of priorities helps you stay on schedule. Darren V imparts his life's lessons, wisdom, and counsel to everyone listening today. Nobody's life is ever all balanced. It's a conscious decision to choose your priorities every day. After all, good things happen when you get your priorities straight. Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, and more! Quotes: “The issue is not that people aim too high and make it. It's that they aim too low, and they get there.” – Darren V “Sometimes the best way to speed up is to slow down.” – Darren V “What's most important is the one you're on right now. If it's your family time, that's all you're doing.” – Darren V Takeaways: Nothing will improve your life more than aiming for the stars and having incredibly lofty aspirations. You are forcing yourself to leave your comfort zone when you aim high and have big dreams. While making selections, exercise caution and patience because hasty choices might cause you to suffer for a lifetime. Most of us spend too much time on urgent matters and insufficient time on important ones. Never should the most important things be at the mercy of the least important things. Conclusion: Setting priorities is crucial if you want to thrive in both your personal and professional lives. It ensures that your progress toward your objectives is steady. Setting priorities for your work and utilizing your energy effectively will help you stay productive and feel less stressed. Prioritizing allows you to go about your daily tasks in a planned, effective, and relaxed way, which reduces stress.

What are you doing to add depth and understanding to your life, rather than simply reacting to thoughts and adding on more? As a teenager, it may be difficult to identify your passion, develop good habits, and remain consistent with what you truly want to achieve with your life. You’ve got a lot to learn to be really successful.   Sevan Matossian shares his story of living as homeless since he wanted to live a life as a free, religious man. Sevan had a unique life as a homeless man, where others showered him with help and money even though he didn't ask anyone for anything. But still, he felt a sense of stillness. Tune in as Sevan discusses the importance of having a perspective, homelessness, and creating habits to make your life meaningful while being relaxed and happy in this uncertain world. He also discusses how to be accountable for your actions and disciplined to achieve your goals. Quotes: “I was a homeless guy with really good habits and passion. And because of that, I accidentally became rich and happy.” - Sevan Matossian “Be careful of the things that you choose to put into your brain. Because one day, you may want to get rid of them. And it's just not worth it.” - Sevan Matossian “I never turned into an adult. The only thing that makes me an adult is that I'm fully responsible for myself. My number one game is not to blame other people.” - Sevan Matossian Takeaways:   If you want to do something, habit, and discipline are two aspects that will help you get there. And if you keep going in that direction, something will eventually open up. It is important for you to be able to do things you can control in your space. Don't ever do something that's going to be hard to quit. Being accountable and responsible for your decisions in life can help you get far in life and progress into an adult. Try to figure out how to always be nice and still, all the time because the nicest people are usually the stillest or calm people.   Conclusion: Challenge yourself to face your fears and accept the challenges that are given to you. Life is a constant war, no matter how many battles you've won or lost. What matters is that you don't give up and that you continue to cultivate positive attributes that will help you succeed in life. Keep on learning; keep on doing something.

Hard work makes the dream work. If we want to achieve a goal, we have to put all our effort into achieving it no matter what. But what does putting in all our effort mean? If we want to go all out when we do something, we need to think about it like there is something on the line. This will help us intensify our feelings and put in the greatest effort to win or attain our goal. Sometimes, people are afraid to make mistakes and which hinders them to grow and learn. Jake Herbert shares his personal experiences, learnings, and advice with the next generation of leaders. Sometimes we believe that we have already made an effort. However, we need to recognize that our efforts are insufficient, and we must continue to invest time and effort in order to improve ourselves and do our best. Witness as young leaders ask questions about life, personal development, entrepreneurship, and other topics! Quotes: “You're gonna be able to go by and watch your friend touch the oven and go, wow, that's hot, I don't want to touch that and burn it. But some of you are gonna have to go touch that up in yourself. And it's not the end of the world. It's just another opportunity for learning and growth..” – Jake Herbert “For men in particular, you have bestowed the honor of being considered a good man who is good at being a man by other men. And you have to earn it. It is not something that is just freely given because it shouldn't be freely given. There are struggles; you have to show grit, honor, and responsibility.” – Matt Beaudreau “You want to do the right thing when nobody's watching. And it's not just an outward thing. It's more of an inward thing. You don't earn self-respect and self-confidence when you shortcut. You can say all the affirmations in the world. But if your own brain doesn't tie it back to doing the right thing, whether somebody's been there or not. That's what you dwell on. You don't believe the affirmations that you just put out because you know you're full of it. That doesn't go away.” – Matt Beaudreau Takeaways: Experience is there for us to learn and grow. It is an opportunity that you want to take no matter what. It helps us to make the right choices going forward in our life. It feels good, and it is a privilege when other men recognize you as a good man. But you have to earn it by overcoming struggles and doing your responsibilities as a man. Even if you are alone and no one is watching you, you must still do the right thing. In this way, you can earn self-respect and self-confidence.   Conclusion: Go all out, exert your effort to the maximum, and do your best in everything. Remember that mistakes help us learn and grow, making us wise to make the right decisions. Earn your honor as a man and be acknowledged by other men. Lastly, do the right thing no matter where you are to have self-respect and confidence as a human.

Personal growth and development are essential to success in all aspects of life. However, sometimes we may feel stuck, unsure of what steps to take to move forward, or overwhelmed by limiting beliefs that hold us back. We all have the potential to achieve greatness in our lives by believing in ourselves. The more you do something, the more you get invested in it at an identity level. What you create creates you. Anthony Trucks is a former NFL player turned identity shift coach who shares his life experiences, lessons, and advice with individuals. As a teenager, Anthony faced many challenges, including being placed in foster care and dealing with racial prejudice. After retiring from the NFL, Anthony realized that his true passion was helping others achieve their own goals and overcome their own obstacles. Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, and more! Quotes: “I didn’t have the ability to see other kids in their lifestyles on Instagram, or I could see a kid with his dad hanging out going out in the ocean. I couldn’t see things; it was just you in your confined space. And so, I say that to tell you that it felt normal.” – Anthony trucks “You don’t get to avoid hard; you get to choose your hard. You can choose hard right now, and it will be difficult. But you subject yourself to it with a community with a dad, or I give it the easy way; you don’t learn lessons and get the skill sets, and you step into life, and it’s harder and longer.” – Anthony Trucks “I had no belief in my ability to be great at the time, just to be transparently honest. But here’s what I did know; I knew that if I did nothing, I’d get more of the same. If I did nothing, I’d stay the same.” – Anthony trucks Takeaways: Our environment and the people around us heavily influence people’s perception of what is “normal.” It also shows how social media can shape our perceptions and create a sense of comparison, damaging our mental health. Life will always present challenges, and it’s up to us to choose how we face them. Seeking support from a community or mentor can help us navigate these challenges more effectively and build important skills for the future. Avoiding challenges may be easier in the short term, but it can lead to greater difficulties in the long run. Taking action, even when we don’t feel confident or capable and even if it’s imperfect, can lead to growth and positive change. Staying in our comfort zones and not taking risks can lead to stagnation and a lack of progress. Conclusion: Taking responsibility for our actions, reaching out for help, and challenging ourselves are all necessary steps toward development and fulfillment. Even though we can expect challenges throughout our lives, we can learn to deal with them constructively and with the help of others. What we consider “normal” is heavily influenced by our upbringing and the company we keep. However, we shouldn’t restrict our imaginations and make it harder to picture a better future by limiting our view of what’s possible.

In our life, people make countless mistakes that can bring them down. And it is easy for us to blame the world for all the unfairness we’ve experienced. But the truth is that the world doesn’t owe us anything. This is the reality; it hurts, but it is the truth. Continuing to delve into an improper understanding of reality will just hinder our journey to move forward. Nick Freitas shares his life experiences; how blessed he was to have loving parents even if they are divorced, his learnings from not being accepted in West Point, and the time when he go into the military. Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, entrepreneurship, and more! Quotes: “The world doesn't owe you anything. It sounds negative but it’s not. It's just a proper understanding of reality. And the more you try to accomplish things in this life with an improper understanding of reality, the more you are going to be banging your head against the wall wondering why stuff isn't working. ” – Nick Freitas “It's not just the training, because the training teaches you what to do, how to react to the situation, and the way you're supposed to react. It's also about having the moral conviction that it is your responsibility. And that's a choice.” – Nick Freitas “If you want to grow credits or strong in their faith and their belief system, and what they believe in and why they believe it, that really starts with how you project that to your kids. And so learning how to understand it and talk about it and have those discussions and to let them ask probing questions that might be uncomfortable for you at times. That's absolutely critical for that development.” – Nick Freitas Takeaways: Knowing the reality that the world doesn’t owe you anything will help you have the proper mindset to see things positively. Put in your best effort, learn from your mistakes, and try and try again until you succeed. Personal responsibility is something you will have both now and in the future, and it will become a habit. It is our choice how to act in a given situation. As a result, it is critical to train ourselves to react appropriately in these situations. To instill a strong faith and belief system in your children, teach them your values and demonstrate them not just in words, but also in action. Teach them how to think about your values as well as why they are important. Conclusion: Knowing the reality—the truth that the world doesn’t owe us anything will help us propel toward our goal, learn from mistakes, and let our maximum effort into accomplishing things. Furthermore, it is our personal responsibility to choose what actions we must take in a situation, train ourselves, and set it as a habit or foundation to react in those situations appropriately. Aside from that, being a parent comes with an obligation to teach kids values while explaining why it is essential and beneficial to them.

As we grow up, we will come to the point where we think about who we are and what we want to do in life. But often, our path in life is already laid out by our parents or culture, binding us on what we want to do. Even though we want to choose the decisions that are true to ourselves, the fear of not pleasing our parents and hurting our loved ones makes it difficult. The battle within ourselves, whether to choose our path or the path that is laid out for us, will constantly be raging. That’s why we need to decide, grow up, stand firm, and choose to become the version of ourselves. Travis Chappell shares his life experiences, lessons, and advice with future leaders. The young generation will get to the point in their life where they will need to choose the path they want to take. But when the thing they want to do contradicts the path their parents had given, it becomes more difficult to determine. Do you want to be the version of yourself or walk the path of life with regrets? Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, entrepreneurship, and more! Quotes: “The accomplishment or success of this path is not success at all because it's not what I want, which was a big realization that success is something that every individual has to define for themselves. It's not culture, parents, books, loved ones, or whatever. It's not anybody else definition of success. You define success for yourself.” – Travis Chappell “Your life is a journey of trying to get to know who you are.” – Travis Chappell “As a parent, it's not my job to make carbon copies of myself. It's my job to create a human that can actively think and become a good version of themselves without cheating themselves and living a bad version of life.” – Travis Chappell Takeaways: Success cannot be defined by anyone. It is only you and you alone who can give the definition of success in your life. Knowing who you are is critical to find what you want to do in life. And the earlier you know it, the better. If you just worry about what your parents will think, you're going to waste a lot of time in your life. Even though it is difficult, you have to make decisions that are true for you. Your parents are knowledgeable about many things that are best for you. Additionally, they are much wiser than you are. But as a man, you eventually become your own version of yourself and have to be able to start taking charge of your own matters. Consult your parents for guidance or advice. But in the end, it's up to you to make a decision. And it is up to you to accept responsibility for who you will become. Conclusion: Youths must choose the path where they will see and define what success is for them. They need to grow up, make decisions, and be responsible. Know who they are, and find the things they want to do. It’s hard, and it hurts, but they have to make decisions that are true to themselves and live a life free of regrets.

The debate over what factors affect people's behavior and personality traits between nature and nurture is fierce. An individual's genetic makeup, which determines their personality and physical characteristics, is completely dependent on nature. Contrarily, nurture is influenced by the environmental elements to which a person is exposed, and which ultimately shape their personality. People are affected by both nature and nurture to some level since they are exposed to both in one way or another, which determines how they grow. Drew Weatherhead imparts his life's lessons, wisdom, and counsel to aspiring leaders. Life is a tapestry woven by the decisions we make. You must focus on making yourself better, not on thinking that you are better. Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, and more! Quotes: “Every single one of us has certain predispositions to our personality. It could be nature, or it could be nurture or even a blending of the two.” – Drew Weatherhead "I discovered that you have the ability to break yourself out of there. You have to take control of the reins of your own life.” – Drew Weatherhead “It's easier to say yes but the struggle won't be easier.” – Drew Weatherhead Takeaways: Because our experiences and environment shape how we perceive the world, we can alter how we see things by altering the experiences that make up our first impressions. You have an endless capacity to accomplish the impossible if you only strive, work hard, take charge of your future, stay loyal to yourself, and believe it is achievable. Never take the seemingly simple route out of a situation. After all, easy life is rarely meaningful, and meaningful life is rarely easy. Conclusion: Nobody in the world has the same personality as another. Even triplets or twins who are raised in the same environment have very diverse personalities. Also, a person's personality is a pattern of attributes along with the influence of the many people that became a part of your life no matter how small, rather than just a collection of their many traits. This personality characteristics aid in the prediction and justification of that person's actions. Despite these many influences, it is imperative that you have complete control over your own life. After all, we are completely responsible for everything that we do and will do.