Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

Courtney Kocak
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Jun 4, 2025 • 58min

The Bullshit Mythology of Motherhood with Nancy Reddy

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Sorry for the slight publishing delay, Privates! I’ve been traveling and got my days mixed up. Thanks so much for your patience—I appreciate you! For the 211th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Nancy Reddy, author of The Good Mother Myth. In this episode, Nancy shares her personal journey into motherhood, including the emotional challenges of postpartum life and the complicated tension between ambition and societal expectations. We dig into the historical roots of modern motherhood, spotlighting mid-century male psychologists whose work on attachment theory shaped how we think about parenting—often at the expense of the women in their own lives. It’s a smart, illuminating, and deeply relatable conversation about care work, co-parenting, and how we might begin to redefine what it really means to be a “good” mother. For more from today's guest, Nancy Reddy: Order Nancy's book The Good Mother Myth Subscribe to Nancy's Substack nancyreddy.substack.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ppupod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lovehoney.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsun⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Connect with host Courtney Kocak ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@courtneykocak⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 28, 2025 • 32min

Life Without Orgasm: Cris Mazza on Anorgasmia, Gender Dysphoria & Letting Go

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For the 210th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Cris Mazza, author of the new memoir, The Decade of Letting Things Go. The book traces Cris’s journey through the aftermath of menopause and her search for self-acceptance amid a growing list of losses. In this episode, we discuss her lifelong experiences with anorgasmia, sexual dysfunction, and gender dysphoria—and how these shaped her relationships, identity, and creative work. It’s a fascinating and refreshingly honest conversation about intimacy, identity, and what it means to let go of expectations. For more from today's guest, Cris Mazza: Check out Cris's website cris-mazza.com Order Rachel's book ⁠⁠The Decade of Letting Things Go Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ppupod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lovehoney.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsun⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Connect with host Courtney Kocak ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@courtneykocak⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 21, 2025 • 1h 1min

Girls Gone Wild, Culture Gone Wrong & the Flash That Lasts Forever with Leslie Lebowitz

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. For the 209th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Leslie Lebowitz, a clinical psychologist specializing in psychological trauma, sexual exploitation, and violence. Leslie served as an expert witness in two civil suits brought against Girls Gone Wild founder Joe Francis on behalf of underage girls who had been featured in his pornography. In this interview, she unpacks her takeaways from the lawsuits, including the coercion tactics used by the company, the psychological toll on the young women involved, the disturbing victim-blaming that occurred, and the cultural attitudes that allowed Girls Gone Wild to flourish with little accountability. We also discuss the fine line between empowerment and exploitation. Courtney shares her own behind-the-scenes experience working for Girls Gone Wild and its long-term impact, contrasting that world with today’s more self-directed platforms like OnlyFans. This interview was conducted as part of Courtney’s reporting for Canadaland episode #1160, Confessions of a Girls Gone Wild Merch Girl. This is our full conversation.⁠ Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠⁠⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠ppupod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠lovehoney.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ⁠⁠⁠⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠⁠⁠⁠  Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! ⁠⁠⁠⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠⁠⁠⁠ and Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsun⁠⁠⁠⁠. Connect with host Courtney Kocak ⁠⁠⁠⁠@courtneykocak⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 14, 2025 • 19min

How to Write Erotica with Rachel Kramer Bussel

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠. For the 208th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Rachel Kramer Bussel, author of How to Write Erotica and editor of over 70 anthologies of erotica, for a lesson in writing erotica. For more from today's guest, Rachel Kramer Bussel: Follow Rachel on Instagram ⁠@rachelkramerbussel⁠ Follow Rachel on Twitter ⁠@raquelita⁠ Order Rachel's book ⁠How to Write Erotica Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ⁠⁠⁠ppupod.com⁠⁠⁠, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ⁠⁠⁠lovehoney.com⁠⁠⁠ and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠⁠⁠ If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ⁠⁠⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠⁠⁠  Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! ⁠⁠⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠⁠⁠ Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠⁠⁠ and Twitter ⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsun⁠⁠⁠. Connect with host Courtney Kocak ⁠⁠⁠@courtneykocak⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 7, 2025 • 45min

"How Sex Changed the Internet & the Internet Changed Sex" with Samantha Cole

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠. For the 207th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Samantha Cole for a super nostalgic conversation about her new book, ⁠How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex: An Unexpected History⁠. Samantha’s the senior editor of Motherboard, Vice’s tech outlet, and her journalism in the sex/gender/tech space definitely informed the comprehensive overview she was able to deliver. In this episode, we swap early internet stories, talk about how Samantha got started on her unique beat, and discuss the synergistic (and often antagonistic) relationship between sex and the internet, specifically in regards to online dating, revenge porn, social media, and more. For more Samantha Cole: Check out Samantha's website ⁠samleecole.com⁠ Buy Samantha's book ⁠How Sex Changed the Internet, and the Internet Changed Sex⁠ Follow Samantha Cole on Twitter ⁠@samleecole Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ⁠⁠ppupod.com⁠⁠, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ⁠⁠lovehoney.com⁠⁠ and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠⁠ If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ⁠⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠⁠  Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! ⁠⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠⁠ Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram ⁠⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠⁠ and Twitter ⁠⁠@privatepartsun⁠⁠. Connect with host Courtney Kocak ⁠⁠@courtneykocak⁠⁠ on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Apr 30, 2025 • 37min

From Physical Therapist to Top MILF Porn Star: Cherie DeVille, aka "The Internet's Stepmom," Reflects on 13 Years in the Porn Industry

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠fleshlight.com⁠. For the 206th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes top MILF porn star Cherie DeVille, aka "The Internet's Stepmom." In this interview, we talk about Cherie's journey from physical therapist to porn star, the unsexy realities of a porn set, how the industry and social stigma have changed over the 13 years since she first started in porn, why she doesn’t go to swingers' parties anymore, sex with "civilians," the Pornhub documentary she participated in, her thoughts on Pornhub in general, how work impacts her personal sex life, and more. For more from today's guest, Cherie DeVille: Follow Cherie on Instagram ⁠@cheriedevillexo⁠ Follow Cherie on Twitter ⁠@CherieDeVille⁠ Check out Cherie's website ⁠cheriedeville.com⁠ The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at ⁠seaf.art/tickets⁠! Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Feeld: The dating app for open-minded individuals. Download ⁠Feeld⁠ on the App Store or Google Play. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at ⁠seaf.art/tickets⁠! Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at ⁠fleshlight.com⁠. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ⁠ppupod.com⁠, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ⁠lovehoney.com⁠ and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. ⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠ If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠  Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! ⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠ Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram ⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠ and Twitter ⁠@privatepartsun⁠. Connect with host Courtney Kocak ⁠@courtneykocak⁠ on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Apr 23, 2025 • 15min

Feeld Dating App Tips for Men

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com.For the 205th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes non-monogamy maven "Alice" for a download on Feeld dating app tips for men, as well as why she recommends trying Majestic.The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at seaf.art/tickets!Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshowPrivate Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Feeld: The dating app for open-minded individuals. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at seaf.art/tickets! Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.comLet’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Apr 16, 2025 • 32min

Where Art Meets Desire & Destruction: Inside the Seattle Erotic Art Festival with Sophia Sky

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com.For the 204th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Sophia Sky, Executive Director of the Pan-Eros Foundation.Today, we're diving into the sexy, subversive world of the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. From the history of the festival to what makes erotic art erotic, Sophia gives us the inside scoop on their curation process, unforgettable pieces from past festivals, and why this weekend-long celebration of desire is right up our alley. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at seaf.art/tickets!Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshowPrivate Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Feeld: The dating app for open-minded individuals. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at seaf.art/tickets! Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.comLet’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Apr 9, 2025 • 32min

Navigating Non-Monogamy: Poly Wisdom from a Seasoned Slut

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com.For the 203rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes "Alice" for a non-monogamy update."Alice" is back on the podcast to spill the tea on her decade-plus of polyamorous expertise. From her first intentional poly relationship in 2012 to swinging, kink play, and her current long-term setups with her husband "Ted" and her partner "Bob," "Alice" is dishing on it all. We’re also diving into her top tips for navigating the wild world of the Feeld app and why honest communication is the real MVP of non-monogamy. Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshowPrivate Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Feeld: The dating app for open-minded individuals. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3 & 4. Use code PRIVATE to get 10% off select festival passes at seaf.art/tickets! Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.comLet’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Apr 2, 2025 • 32min

Fingering, Fisting, Cunnilingus & Casual Sex: A Hands-On Guide to Pleasure with Allison Moon

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com.For the 202nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex."Allison helps you master the art of pleasuring vulva owners with simple yet effective hand and oral sex techniques. We explore the importance of communication, understanding anatomy, and tuning into your partner’s body language and reactions. We also dive into the topic of fisting—offering beginner-friendly tips and debunking common misconceptions. Plus, Allison shares advice on dating and sleeping around without being a (non-gendered) dick about it. Consider this your no-nonsense guide to great sex and embracing your ethical slut era—while keeping everything above board with your partner(s).For more from today's guest, Allison Moon: Order Getting It from Bookshop.org Order Girl Sex 101 from Bookshop.org Check out Allison's website alliedmoon.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshowPrivate Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Feeld: The dating app for open-minded individuals. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.comLet’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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