

Ask Pastor John
Desiring God
John Piper answering tough theological and pastoral questions.
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Feb 4, 2015 • 5min
Should I Date a Godly Girl I Do Not Find Attractive?
Our culture may place a high premium on looks, but what attracts godly people isn’t just the right physical features, but the spirit and character that lay underneath.

Feb 3, 2015 • 6min
Should My Church Help Me Get Married?
The local church is a community for all kinds of people, including every age group. And members should constantly be looking for ways to learn from and serve one another across generations.

Feb 2, 2015 • 6min
Has Facebook Ruined Dating?
Matt Chandler joins the Ask Pastor John podcast to discuss the speed of relationships moving toward marriage, and whether social media has negatively impacted dating.

Jan 30, 2015 • 4min
Is Your Boyfriend Mature Enough for You?
For Christians, the church is the best context for developing relationships because a local community of faith should provide discipleship and accountability like no other place.

Jan 29, 2015 • 6min
Prepared Prayers, Impromptu Prayers, Sloppy Prayers
Both spontaneous and prepared prayers can edify the health of our spiritual lives, but whenever we pray, we need to aim for glory, rely on God, and speak in the Spirit.

Jan 28, 2015 • 5min
You Have Been Greatly Loved
Exploring the concept of 'calling' and the response to the message of the cross, highlighting God's great love behind His call.

Jan 27, 2015 • 6min
Does Philippians 1:23 Prove Christian Hedonism Wrong?
Does the apostle Paul actually chose a lesser joy in Philippians 1:23, and actually contradict the Christian Hedonistic principle of always pursuing our highest joy?

Jan 26, 2015 • 10min
What Parts of My Suffering Are “Trials”?
Our pain and suffering may result from persecution, or just the troubles of everyday life. Either way, God is at works and desires that we trust him by faith.

Jan 23, 2015 • 11min
My Spouse Doesn’t Enjoy Sex
Marriage over presents us with a mismatch in sexual desire. But if both husband and wife work to outdo one another in showing honor, sexual intimacy can still bring joy to both.

Jan 22, 2015 • 7min
Is Sexual Pleasure Essential for Marriage?
Sex and its pleasures may not be absolutely essential in a marriage, but we inevitably lose part of the pointer of Christ and his church when sexual intimacy is absent.


