The Niche Is You
Matthew Gottesman
Hi, I’m Matt Gottesman (@mattgottesman on Instagram) and this is my daily podcast where I offer practical thoughts and perspectives to un-complicate life, creativity and the pursuit of your highest self.
Instead of choosing one niche for the podcast, I decided that the niche is you… a simple, straight forward show about the power of not boxing yourself into any one category, title or niche, but embracing all of your gifts, having a better relationship with yourself and trusting your path (intuition).
I’m not a "category" expert, just someone sharing my thoughts, perspectives and experiences on topics that really matter to promote a life of health, wealth, happiness & personal fulfillment.
Join me right here every day and if you never want to miss a show, text me PODCAST to 480-530-7352
Instead of choosing one niche for the podcast, I decided that the niche is you… a simple, straight forward show about the power of not boxing yourself into any one category, title or niche, but embracing all of your gifts, having a better relationship with yourself and trusting your path (intuition).
I’m not a "category" expert, just someone sharing my thoughts, perspectives and experiences on topics that really matter to promote a life of health, wealth, happiness & personal fulfillment.
Join me right here every day and if you never want to miss a show, text me PODCAST to 480-530-7352
Episodes
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9 snips
Oct 27, 2025 • 19min
Don’t Let the Pain Behind You Block the Joy Ahead
Holding onto past pain can block new joy and prevent healing. The past should teach us, not trap us, as it prepares us for future blessings. Emphasizing the importance of forward focus, surrendering to God is essential for moving beyond lingering hurt. Unprocessed pain can weigh us down, while attachment to past hurts steals our peace. Discovering lessons in suffering refines our wisdom, and embracing trust in God transforms wounds into insights. Ultimately, joy is reclaimed through living in the present.
Oct 24, 2025 • 22min
“Hard” Is a Universal Experience, Not a Personal Failure
Exploring the nature of hardship, the conversation reveals that difficulty is a shared human experience, not a sign of failure. Resistance is framed as evidence that you're on the right path, and growth emerges from navigating struggles. The discussion contrasts hustle with holy endurance, emphasizing faith over fear. Listeners learn to find peace in the challenges, seeing them as opportunities for personal expansion. The importance of tenacity and how our responses shape our journeys are also highlighted.
Oct 23, 2025 • 21min
Partnership Is the Practice Field for Purpose
Discover how divine partnerships refine your purpose instead of replacing it. Explore the balance between individuality and unity in relationships. Learn how knowing yourself can enhance your connections and clarify your calling. Matt shares insights on love as a form of leadership, emphasizing mutual support and shared vision. Dive into the idea that vulnerability fosters growth, and explore signs of a partnership that aligns with your purpose. Building together intentionally can lead to a lasting legacy!
Oct 22, 2025 • 24min
The Assignment You Avoid Will Be the One That Evolves You
Discomfort often points to divine direction, revealing areas that need growth. Resistance can indicate where faith and skills require refinement. Avoiding challenging tasks comes with a high cost, including lost opportunities and stagnant patterns. Embracing obedience leads to peace and transformation. Each time you say yes to a calling, you invite support and reshape your identity. Growth starts where comfort ends, urging us to confront fears and connect more deeply with our purpose.
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Oct 21, 2025 • 18min
Your Hobbies Are Clues to Your Calling
Discover how your hobbies serve as breadcrumbs leading to your true calling. Explore the generalist effect where diverse interests expand your creativity and networks. Learn how play reduces stress, fueling curiosity and mastery. Understand why passions outside of work reveal your inner genius and can influence your career path. Uncover how hobbies shape your perspective and connect with your purpose, ultimately guiding you to integrate joy into your work for a fulfilling life.
Oct 20, 2025 • 22min
Your Becoming Will Offend Who You Were
Growth can feel like an internal battle, as we confront old identities while striving for new ones. Tissue tears often accompany evolution, revealing the need to grieve past selves. Distinguishing between superficial changes and those deep-rooted in purpose is crucial. Discomfort is not just a challenge; it's a sign of spiritual pruning, preparing us for growth. As we evolve, boundaries with those who knew the old us may become necessary. Ultimately, embracing evolution requires gratitude for past lessons and trust in the journey ahead.
Oct 17, 2025 • 23min
You Can’t Receive What You’re Still Resisting
Resistance can block the blessings and opportunities meant for you. Surrender isn't a sign of weakness; it's a strategic move toward spiritual growth. Control often stems from fear, delaying what you truly want. Embrace waiting as active faith, rather than passive resistance. Letting go allows divine timing and opens the door to receiving abundance. Shift your mindset from control to curiosity to engage genuinely with opportunities. Discover how to transform resistance into receptivity and find clarity and connection in your journey.
Oct 16, 2025 • 22min
What’s a Hill You’re Willing to Die On… Defining Conviction, Clarity & Courage in a World of Compromise
Discover why conviction trumps consensus when it comes to shaping your life choices. Explore how spiritual practices enhance moral clarity and the freedom that comes from standing firm in your beliefs. Learn to discern which causes are worth your energy and how to define guiding principles that protect your integrity. Delve into the costs of conviction, the power of saying no, and how to focus on battles that truly matter. This journey encourages living from a place of clarity and purpose, prioritizing values like integrity and truth.
Oct 15, 2025 • 20min
Why God Removes What You Still Think You Need
Explore how divine removals can act as protection rather than punishment. Discover the difference between loss and pruning, and why old attachments can block growth. The discussion emphasizes trust in God’s timing, aiming for elevation through letting go. A cabin analogy illustrates how clearing space can invite new blessings into your life. Learn to embrace emptiness as a sign of preparation for renewal, and understand that every removal paves the way for greater potential.
Oct 14, 2025 • 21min
Your Calling & Your Person Will Both Call You Higher
Discomfort is a powerful tool for growth, pushing you beyond your comfort zone to refine character and capacity. The connection between purpose and partnership is framed as a divine assignment, requiring trust and accountability. Exploring the contrast between peace and comfort, the conversation reveals that true alignment often demands sacrifice and surrender. Resistance is highlighted as a sign of progress, while staying grounded in stretching seasons is crucial for maintaining faith and perspective.
