Mastering Coaching Skills

I’m pulling back the curtain on the thoughts that plague even experienced coaches like me. From wondering why I have to work so hard, to fantasizing about quitting my business and getting a “regular” job, I’ve been there. But here’s the truth: These thoughts aren’t signs of failure or incompetence- they’re completely normal. Every coach and entrepreneur faces them at some point.   By normalizing these thoughts, we can begin to strip away the shame and guilt that often hold us back. My hope is that by the end, you’ll realize you’re not alone- and that understanding these common struggles is the first step toward overcoming them and moving forward.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/235

Join Amanda Gold, a life coach for heart-led creative weirdos, as she shares her insights on rekindling creativity in our lives. Discover how to embrace your artistic side amidst societal pressures and practical ways to incorporate creativity into your daily routine, even in just five minutes. Amanda introduces her unique 'celebration drawer' concept to boost joy and self-celebration. Listen as she emphasizes the healing power of creative expression and the transformative journeys of reconnecting with one's creative identity.

Coaches often struggle with unrealistic standards, believing they must be flawless. This pressure can hinder their effectiveness and well-being. Embracing their humanity allows coaches to build authentic relationships with clients. Discover how acknowledging imperfections can enhance coaching skills and foster deeper connections.

Have you ever noticed how when you're trying to change something about yourself, you often swing from one extreme to the other before finding balance? This fascinating pattern is what I call "the pendulum effect" in coaching. Just like a physical pendulum that swings back and forth before settling in the middle, our behaviors and beliefs often follow this same trajectory when we're working on personal growth.   The beauty of understanding this pendulum effect is that it helps normalize what can otherwise feel like an uncomfortable or even alarming process. Today, I'm sharing how to recognize this pattern in yourself and your clients, why it happens naturally, and how you can intentionally use this concept to create powerful transformations.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/232

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I can't believe I'm back here again" or "I should be further along by now"? This belief that we're somehow starting over or regressing in our progress is one of the most common and damaging thoughts I hear from coaches. It's a sneaky mindset trap that not only makes you feel terrible but actively prevents you from solving the very problems you're facing.   Today I'm breaking down why this belief is so harmful, what's actually happening instead, and how to shift your perspective when these thoughts arise. I'll share real examples from my clients, hypothetical scenarios you might encounter with your own clients, and even my personal experiences with this mindset trap. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical tools to recognize when you or your clients are caught in this thinking pattern and know exactly how to move forward without the weight of shame or frustration.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/231

Feeling the pressure to have all the answers? You're not alone! Coaches often struggle with the belief that they must possess solutions for every client's dilemma. Discover how this mindset can hinder your confidence and effectiveness. Learn the importance of tailoring strategies to fit individual client needs and the power of self-trust. Plus, explore the balance between structured approaches and adaptive curiosity, emphasizing how inquiry can lead to more impactful coaching. Let go of the need for perfection and embrace a more empowering coaching style!

I share my insights on why coaching yourself without taking action can actually hold you back. While self-coaching is a valuable tool, there comes a point where you need to step out of your comfort zone and put your skills into practice. Only by taking consistent action can you truly grow as a coach and build the business you desire.   Discover how to identify when you're stuck in a cycle of over-coaching yourself and learn practical strategies for breaking free. Whether you're a new coach or a seasoned pro, this episode will inspire you to embrace the discomfort and take bold steps forward in your coaching journey.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/229

I reveal five key traits shared by top coaches and successful business owners. You'll see how skills like curiosity, compassion, and innovation translate seamlessly from coaching sessions to running your business.   Discover how to leverage your innate coaching strengths to create a coaching business perfectly aligned with who you are. Plus, stay tuned until the end for an exciting announcement about a brand new opportunity to get the business support you need to succeed.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/228

I dive deep into the science behind why humans are not meant to learn and grow in isolation. From the social learning theory to the power of deliberate practice with feedback, there is overwhelming evidence that working with others accelerates our progress and helps us achieve mastery faster.   I explore real-world examples, fascinating research studies, and personal anecdotes that demonstrate the magic of collaboration and coaching. By the end of this episode, you'll have a newfound appreciation for the importance of seeking support and guidance on your journey to success.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/227

As coaches, we often learn specific techniques and tools that we believe will help our clients achieve their goals. However, not every client resonates with the same methods. Some may struggle with journaling, while others prefer talking through their thoughts instead of writing them down.   By taking a step back and considering the underlying purpose of each tool or technique, we can find alternative ways to help our clients create the same powerful results. This adaptability not only improves the coaching experience but also empowers clients to trust themselves and develop problem-solving skills they can use long after the coaching relationship ends.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/226