Simply Convivial: Biblical Homemaking, Homeschooling & Mom Life—Without Burnout

Mystie Winckler
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May 4, 2022 • 12min

3 Ways to Make Hospitality a Habit

Be ready for hospitality with my free tidy house guide: https://www.simplyconvivial.com/ehapRead the article here: www.simplyconvivial.com/hospitality/So, we know that our home is for hospitality, but it seems so hard – it’s extra, and we have no room for extra. We want to know how to be hospitable, but it doesn’t come naturally.The one thing that makes hospitality so difficult is that we are out of practice.It is easy to slip into selfish patterns: doing what needs to be done on our own agendas, taking a break, keeping to ourselves and our own thoughts. Instead, we need to practice the habit of hospitality.The being hospitable includes but is much broader than having people over for dinner. It means inviting people into our lives – even the people that live in our houses.It is not enough to simply share a roof with people. We need to share a life – a full life, a conversational life – with them.
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May 2, 2022 • 11min

Moms managing time better (with Virginia Lee Rogers)

Time Budget Template: https://www.simplyconvivial.com/timebudgetPart 2 of my conversation with Viriginia Lee Rogers focuses on how to organize your attitude when you feel like you're going nuts keeping up with details and people, when it feels like there's not enough time to do it all (maybe there actually isn't!)
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Apr 29, 2022 • 10min

How to juggle homeschooling and housework

Get a tidy house: https://www.simplyconvivial.com/ehap --free guideIt’s a truth universally acknowledged that a homeschool mom in possession of a large family must be in want of a housekeeper.That’d be nice, wouldn’t it?Some families can actually swing it, but most of us are on our own when it comes to keeping up with both school and home.Of course we can bring the kids on board, and sometimes husbands can lend a hand, but there’s still a lot to do.Our homeschool year is over, but this is the perfect time for a home routines audit as well as a homeschool audit – look at what worked and what didn’t, and figure out what to do this summer to set ourselves up for a better year next year.
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Apr 25, 2022 • 13min

When your kids irritate you - with Virginia Lee Rogers

Handle overwhelm better: AnswerOverwhelm.com -- free workshopAs moms, we need to be realistic about what's actually going on behind our grumpy, irritable moods. We might think there's something terribly wrong, that we need to totally revamp our whole life and self, when really we just need to get enough sleep.
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Apr 20, 2022 • 13min

3 things to do when homemaking is hard

I often hear from women who say they were organized when they worked in an office, but they just can’t manage to be – or at least feel – organized at home.What makes it so hard to stay on top of basic tasks? Why is organization so hard to maintain?I think it’s due to both the open-ended and repetitive nature of the job.There are no bosses, no managers, no teachers. There are no paychecks, no grades, no due dates.The tasks, once done, need to be done again, so there’s never the accomplished feeling of finishing.We have to not only make our own plan, but also be the one to follow through on the plan without oversight.Some of us are good at making the plan, but bad at follow-through. Some can follow a task list, but are less comfortable making that list themselves.So homemaking ends up being a challenging position.However, like entrepreneurship, it also offers a unique opportunity to shine, to grow in capacity, and to find fulfillment and satisfaction.
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Apr 18, 2022 • 7min

Stop using your head like a briefcase (with Leisa Moulton)

Free Brain Dump Guide: https://www.simplyconvivial.com/braindumpStop using your head like a briefcase because it's making you feel overwhelmed and incapable of handling life. So much of what we do as moms at home doesn't have a tangible result at the end of the day. It's hard to recognize what we've done and be satisfied in it, but that recognition and satisfaction is the attitude adjustment we need to recapture the joy of mothering and homemaking.
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Apr 13, 2022 • 25min

How to classically homeschool multiple students

My book - The Convivial Homeschool: https://amzn.to/3rhFLBAWe homeschool to avoid the factory model and give our children an effective learning environment rather than an efficient one. Thus, our home life and our various ages working alongside one another is actually a perk, not a problem.So what do you need to classically homeschool multiple kids? You need good books, time to read and talk about them, thoughtful and engaged brain work, encounters with the real world, and discipleship into living well alongside others. All of these things the home and family come fully equipped to provide.We can’t homeschool well without confidence and independence – freedom – of mind. Classical education should bring both confidence and freedom by its very nature. If it doesn’t, it’s probably not actually classical. In The Liberal Arts Tradition, Kevin Clark and Ravi Jain use this definition: “The ancients believed education was fundamentally about shaping loves….It is for this goal of passing along a culture that the curriculum existed.” Kevin Clark and Ravi Jain, The Liberal Arts TraditionWhile particular practices and day school techniques might not be feasible in the home, giving our kids an education with a classical goal, classical content, and for classical reasons is possible.
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Apr 11, 2022 • 10min

What to do when you feel overwhelmed - with Leisa Moulton

Free Workshop: AnswerOverwhelm.comToday we're going to chat about feeling overwhelmed and about practical ways to organize your attitude.Leisa and her husband and three kids have built their own home in Southern Idaho, first living and homeschooling in a camper while the home was under construction. So she knows a thing or two about overwhelm. 
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Apr 9, 2022 • 17min

Building better habits at home

Why habits are hard workshop: https://youtu.be/dge2oieqJysI would stare and shake my head.My roommate in college made her bed - on the top bunk - every single morning.Over 100 miles away from her mom, she made her bed because *she* wanted to.I did not relate. I did not make my bed.The difference was in our habits - AND our habits formed our tastes and desires.Good home habits give peace of mind.“The way you keep your house, the way you organize your time, the care you take in your personal appearance, the things you spend your money on all speak loudly about what you believe. “The beauty of Thy peace,” shines forth in an ordered life. A disordered life speaks loudly of disorder in the soul” - Elisabeth ElliotThe more I do work on establishing order, the more I realize what a peace-giving thing it is.
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Apr 4, 2022 • 12min

Scripture Memory Tips with Amy Sloan

Amy's Bible Memory resources: https://humilityanddoxology.com/year-of-memory-work/The best way to keep our attitude under control and live out the fruit of the Spirit is to memorize and recite Scripture every day, all the time. Amy gives us some tips and helps to weave Bible memory work into our lives as homeschoolers and women.

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