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Sep 5, 2024 • 55min

410. Climbing Toward Gratitude and Faith with Dr. Eric Recker

Today Johnny is talking with Dr. Eric Recker. After a serious moment of burnout, he found himself repositioning his life around God, who spoke to him and rekindled his belief in Christ. Since then, he’s made it his mission to impact the world positively. He is doing this by speaking, writing (his book, That Dam Analogy, can be found on his website and Amazon), coaching, and living his life as an example of his values and beliefs. If you want to connect with Eric, reach out via his website, Facebook, or Instagram.Eric spent the first half of his life doing what he thought he had to do. Putting his nose down and enduring the grind. But more was needed. Through experiences with triathlon, mountain climbing, owning a dental practice with a team of 20, becoming a pilot, and extensive travel, he learned that what he was searching for wasn’t at the top of the mountain.In the second half of his life, he is committed to helping people learn to live present in their own lives and find a life of fulfillment, not just accomplishment. Through his coaching, speaking, and writing, he is working to help as many people as possible learn to #WINtheNOW.Eric, his wife Amy, and their two kids proudly live in a small town in Iowa.Today on The Art of Masculinity:Eric’s experience with 29029 EverestingWe’re not meant to journey alone.Zooming out and looking at the big pictureHow to support each other as menFinding ways to disrupt our routine and creating space to define success for yourselfThe importance of keeping your phone out of reachBe the change you want to see to push yourself through burnoutCreate a life you want to experienceIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:Instagram Website  hYouTube  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Aug 29, 2024 • 25min

409. Breaking the Silence and Have the Real Conversations

Today’s solo episode dives into unspoken conversations that men need to have. What topics are men avoiding, and why are these conversations so challenging? By opening up, we give ourselves the chance to define success on our terms, set meaningful goals, and truly understand what it means to live a fulfilling life.Ready to embrace your full potential as a man? At the Wildman Experience, we focus on personal development and exploring your definition of masculinity for high-level men. Join us to develop into a well-rounded man and transform your understanding of what masculinity means to you. Interested in learning more? Fill out the Wildman Mastermind Application to join us for our next session.Today on The Art of Masculinity:Johnny’s Wildman Experience: Explore how this program transforms men’s lives.Discover why men often engage in only surface-level discussions.Learn how to break the silence and initiate deeper conversations.Understand the importance of opening up about goals to enhance accountability.If you’re not dreaming big, you may be too comfortable with mediocrity.Address the emotional isolation stemming from suppressed feelings.Explore how therapy helps in releasing and addressing deep-seated issues.Gain insight into emotional intelligence through the perspectives of your peers.Learn why effective leaders engage in meaningful conversations.Understand how societal pressures can lead to living inauthentically.If you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:Instagram Website YouTube Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jul 25, 2024 • 20min

408. The Five Pillars of Effective Leadership

There seems to be a lack of high-quality leadership in the world today. We are no longer emphasizing training; instead, the focus is centered around popularity, personality tests, and book smarts. While intelligence is important, having applicable experiences and being in the trenches are even more vital.Today, Johnny focuses on leadership, specifically the five pillars of effective leadership. Becoming a high-quality leader means being able to make decisions, being adaptable, communicating clearly, having integrity, and taking ownership. Focusing on these five pillars will ensure that you are a strong and effective leader for your family and your job.Today on The Art of Masculinity:Why personality tests for leadership failThe importance of decision-making for high-quality leadersDebunking servant leadership and why it doesn’t really existBeing adaptable so you can thrive in chaotic environmentsEffective communication sets leaders apartIntegrity means you’re willing to step into the trenchesOwnership and decision making in leadershipIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:Instagram  Website  YouTube  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jul 18, 2024 • 1h 2min

407. Continuing a Legacy with Beau L'Amour

Not only has Beau L’Amour learned a lot from his father, author Louis L’Amour, but he’s joined Johnny to share some of those lessons about following your passion and being tenacious, especially in an ever-evolving industry. Beau also gives us Johnny and listeners some great insight into some history involving the publishing and film industries. He has done a lot in his life and he continues to follow his creative passions.Beau L'Amour is a writer and entertainment industry jack-of-all-trades. He is the son of best-selling novelist Louis L'Amour and has managed his father's literary estate since 1988. Striving to maintain that legacy, he has done editorial work, revised unfinished manuscripts, managed a literary magazine and an audio/radio drama series, done art direction, been a comic book writer and producer, and become an expert in marketing. In the years since his father passed away, L'Amour has helped sell over 120 million books, and nearly 5 million audio programs and placed several books of short stories (out of 16 posthumous collections) on the Best Seller lists.Today on The Art of Masculinity:What it was like to grow up with a successful and well-known fatherBeau’s background and journey to becoming an industry jack-of-all-tradesContrasting the publishing landscape then and nowExploring the resurgence and modernization of audio, visual, and literary storytellingHow technological advancements are shaping these industries' futures.When should we start worrying about our livelihoods when it comes to AIHow current events and societal issues shape trends in publishingPassion versus performance: when to concede and conform, and when to pushWhat it was like growing up with Louis and the influence that he had in Beau’s lifeIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/johnny.elsasser/Website https://www.johnnyelsasser.com/YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbe_BlacSo1BzTvlsEjkdzAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 20, 2024 • 20min

406. Creating Alignment and Authenticity

In life, the decisions we make can either propel us forward or hold us back. Optimal decision-making hinges on alignment with our true selves and values. By regularly assessing and refining our traits and beliefs, we establish a solid foundation for personal growth and fulfillment. This process isn’t static; it requires periodic reevaluation to adapt since our identity is constantly evolving. When you understand what can happen when you are in constant misalignment, you can empower yourself to identify and address key indicators early on. Listen in as Johnny talks about the value of reevaluation and how recalibrating your values and traits can lead you to find your true masculine identity.If you’re ready to put in the work to become successful and to find your masculine identity, click on this link for our Step Into the Man You Want to Become workshop which starts on June 24th.Today on The Art of Masculinity:Misalignment leads to poor choices and decisionsOur best selves emerge from confident decision-makingBuild a strong foundation through regular review of your traits and valuesReassess your foundation each season to align with your evolving masculine identityUnderstand the consequences of prolonged misalignment or relapseIdentify key indicators of misalignment through regular self-evaluationIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:InstagramWebsiteYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 6, 2024 • 1h 6min

405. Step Into the Man You Want to Become - Your Journey

This is the fourth and final episode of our 4-part series called, “Step Into the Man You Want to Become” featuring Frank Paul Vignola. In this episode we dive into Your Journey, the fourth pillar to stepping into a man that is authentic and intentional. Johnny and Frank explore the individual journey we all embark on, delving into what it means to actively choose our own paths as men.Frank’s early life was plagued with battles - bullying, expulsions, overdoses, and then a 4-year string of incarcerations that almost killed him. Overcoming those challenges gifted him with a determination to develop a formula to help men summon their inner superheroes. In 2023, he released the autobiographical how-to guide for men, "Crafting Masculinity." After 10+ years as a coach for men, he has helped hundreds of men overcome their self-limiting beliefs and become men they’re proud of. If you want to know more about Frank, check out his website or his Instagram (@vignolagram).Today on The Art of Masculinity:We end up emulating the values and lives of other people but we need to focus on our journeys instead of others’Discover your unique values and embrace your individuality“Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.” - Oscar WildeEstablish healthy boundaries to escape toxic, carbon-copy relationshipsIdentify features of carbon copies and recognize misalignmentCourageously be yourself and be willing to be dislikedHigh-quality leaders aren’t always liked but they are, most likely, respectedOvercome obstacles to become the hero of your journeyIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:InstagramWebsiteYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 30, 2024 • 59min

404. Step Into the Man You Want to Become- Emotions

This is the third episode of our 4 part series, “Step Into the Man You Want to Become” featuring Frank Paul Vignola. In this insightful episode, we explore emotions as the crucial third pillar in cultivating authenticity and intentionality in manhood. Join Johnny and Frank as they delve into the art of emotional regulation for men, emphasizing the importance of mastering emotions to achieve holistic growth, fulfill objectives, and attain peak masculinity.Frank’s early life was plagued with battles - bullying, expulsions, overdoses, and then a 4-year string of incarcerations that almost killed him. Overcoming those challenges gifted him with a determination to develop a formula to help men summon their inner superheroes. In 2023, he released the autobiographical how-to guide for men, "Crafting Masculinity." After 10+ years as a coach for men, he has helped hundreds of men overcome their self-limiting beliefs and become a man they’re proud of.Today on The Art of Masculinity:Finding an internal framework for personal growth and success Understanding the influence of experience and beliefs on your emotional responsesThe difference between emotion, and logic and when to apply eachMastering your emotional regulation can lead to a life free of regretsYou don’t have to deny your emotions to honor themCultivating mindful responses instead of enabling your reactive behaviorsNumbing emotion is the antithesis of emotional regulationUnpacking the complexity of emotional triggersIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/johnny.elsasser/Website https://www.johnnyelsasser.com/YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbe_BlacSo1BzTvlsEjkdzAConnect with Frank:Website: https://www.lifecoachingny.com/ Instagram: @vignolagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 23, 2024 • 58min

403. Step Into the Man You Want to Become - Courage

Join Frank Paul Vignola and Johnny as they discuss courage and its misconceptions on the journey to authentic manhood. They tackle victimhood, authenticity, and transforming fear into bravery. Learn how to confront challenges and become the man you aspire to be.
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May 16, 2024 • 1h 5min

402. Step Into the Man You Want to Become - Purpose

Welcome to the inaugural episode of our four-part series, "Step Into the Man You Want to Become," showcasing insights from guest speaker, Frank Paul Vignola. This episode delves into the critical and life-changing concept of “purpose”. It is the cornerstone of embodying authenticity and intentionality and is the first pillar in our journey to becoming the men we want to be. Join Johnny and Frank as they explore the nuances between purpose and passion. They also offer some great actionable insights into understanding the true essence of purpose for men specifically.Frank’s early life was plagued with battles - bullying, expulsions, overdoses, and then a 4-year string of incarcerations that almost killed him. Overcoming those challenges gifted him with a determination to develop a formula to help men summon their inner superheroes. In 2023, he released the autobiographical how-to guide for men, "Crafting Masculinity." After 10+ years as a coach for men, he has helped hundreds of men overcome their self-limiting beliefs and become a man they’re proud of. Today on The Art of Masculinity:Frank’s checkered past and how he used that to drive him to be a better manStagnation versus generativity lasts through middle adulthood The softness of today’s society has caused an identity crisis in menMartyrdom has become a badge of honor; live a life that isn’t built around sacrificeHow to find purpose and how passion relates to purposeWhat it means to be an exemplar and why exemplars are so important“Dating” through the hard times to get past the “passion” to get to “purpose”The things that can detract us from purpose (and passion)Is it Intentional (an activity to help you unwind) or is it on auto-pilot (detractors)?What are the proponents of purpose?If you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!Connect with Johnny:InstagramWebsiteYouTubeConnect with Frank:Website: https://www.lifecoachingny.com/ Instagram: @vignolagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 9, 2024 • 21min

401. The Four Pillars of Good Leadership

Are you a leader or one of the herd? Today Johnny talks about leadership skills, qualities, and what makes up the job description of a “high-quality leader.” Leading a group, whether in the workplace or at home, can be challenging yet fulfilling. Learn what it takes to be a top-tier leader, including the most important trait: adaptability. Lastly, learn about the four fundamental pillars of effective leadership. Take a good look at yourself, analyze your performance, and choose to improve your skills. If you’re itching for more information, check out Johnny’s free 37-minute audio talking about the five tools he learned in special operations and his career in protection. You can find that audio here.Interested in joining us for a Wild Man Experience? There are limited spots available for the next session in Kodiac Alaska, from August 1st to the 6th. Fill out the application form here.Head over to www.trulean.com and use code JOHNNY50 to receive 50% off the first month of your first subscription and 20% off every month after that!Today on The Art of Masculinity:Why good leaders are hard to findAre all leaders self-serving?Leaders are necessary for every environmentWhy leaders are important to societyThe consequences when leaders lose sight of the goalWhat happens when herd animals leadAdaptability is the most important leadership qualityThe four pillars in the job description of a good leader are cohesiveness, collaboration, communication, and decisivenessThe deterioration of leadershipIf you loved this episode or the podcast in general go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications so you are notified when each new episode is released! And be sure to go to Apple iTunes and give us a 5-star review, letting everyone know what you loved about the show and give the fit of helping someone who needs this!And if you are looking to get more from Johnny, go ahead and subscribe to his email so you can get a ton of FREE amazing content and be notified of any new things coming out!If you are looking for 1:1 Coaching, go ahead and click this link to fill out the application to work with Johnny!For all other courses and programs Johnny has available, go ahead and click the link here to see how you can be supported by something Johnny has already put out!And, if you want long-form video content from Johnny, go ahead and check out his YouTube channel here!Connect with Johnny:InstagramWebsiteYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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