

Mostly Dating
Carleigh
Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.
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Nov 8, 2023 • 55min
187. Can Attraction Actually Grow?
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions and sharing our own experiences on a range of dating/relationship issues.
what we talk about:
How to bring up the topic of gifts with a newer partner
How important is physical attraction in early dating?
Can attraction grow?
What to do when you feel a shift in energy early on in dating
& more!
Find us on Instagram at @mostlybalancedpodcast and email your questions to hello@wearemostlybalanced.com.
Thanks for listening!

Oct 31, 2023 • 43min
186. Should I Tell My Partner I Cheated Or Just Break Up?
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions and sharing our own experiences on a range of dating/relationship issues.
what we talk about:
How to deal with anxiety while SO is traveling
Whether we think you should tell someone you cheated or just break up without giving a reason
Age gaps in relationships
How our past relationships impact our current relationships
How to set communication expectations with a partner
What to do when you have a lot of great first dates but no second dates
& more!
Find us on Instagram at @mostlybalancedpodcast and email your questions to hello@wearemostlybalanced.com.
Thanks for listening!

Oct 24, 2023 • 41min
185. How To Motivate Yourself To Date If You Also Love Being Single
Welcome back! Today we're answering questions about how to motivate yourself to date when you love your single life, if you should consider getting back with your long distance ex who is moving to your city, how to bring up marriage with your partner who is divorced, and how to grow intimacy in a long distance relationship. We also talk about the struggle of saying no to plans when the answer is "I just don't want to".
Find us on Instagram at @mostlybalancedpodcast and email your questions to hello@wearemostlybalanced.com.
Thanks for listening!

Oct 17, 2023 • 35min
184. Help! I Don't Like My Friend's Significant Other
Welcome back! Today we're diving into a listener question about what to do when you think your friend could do better—but they're about to get engaged. Should you tell your friend you don't like their partner, or should you keep it to yourself? We share our own experiences with friends expressing their concerns over our past relationships and how we'd approach the conversation with one of our friends.
Plus, we answer two brief listener questions about whether watching porn is cheating and who should pay for dates in a heterosexual relationship.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Oct 3, 2023 • 41min
183. I'm Not Cheating I Was Just Bored
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid fire listener questions about how to stop feeling resentful of things you put up with in past relationships, what to do when your partner doesn’t understand you need alone time, feeling like you’ll never meet someone, catching your boyfriend talking to other girls online, and whether you should try again with a toxic ex if you’ve both changed.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Sep 26, 2023 • 56min
182. NATASSIA MILLER on How To Keep The Spark In The Relationship
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Natassia Miller, sexologist and founder of Wanderlust.
what we talk about:
talking to your partner about sex
how to keep the relationship exciting
one key indicator of whether the relationship will be successful
how to make the sex better
how to improve intimacy during sex
& more!

Sep 19, 2023 • 56min
181. VANESSA & XANDER MARIN on Research-Backed Ways to Improve Intimacy In Your Relationship
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Vanessa Marin, licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field, and her husband, Xander, chatting about all things sex and intimacy.
what we talk about:
Why Vanessa decided to be a sex therapist & how Xander decided to start working with her
Each of our experiences getting (or not getting) "the talk"
How to actually talk to a partner about sex (no matter the relationship stage)
What to do if you've been faking it with your partner (and want to stop)
Why foreplay is important and how to do it right
& more!
Find Vanessa & Xander on Instagram or their website where you can purchase their courses and learn about working with them.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Sep 12, 2023 • 35min
180. What To Do When You & Your Partner Can't Stop Arguing
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid fire listener questions about what to do when you feel like you're arguing too much early on in a relationship, how long to banter before asking them out yourself, how to deepen the conversation 4 or 5 dates in, and how to get your partner to plan more date nights.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Sep 5, 2023 • 45min
179. How To Be A Better Communicator In Your Relationship
Welcome back! It's just us today and we're diving into a longer listener question about a 6 month relationship that ended abruptly. How do you close the door when the other person leaves it slightly open? Can you try again once you've both worked on the issues? We also answer a listener question about how to improve communication in a relationship and share what we've each learned about our own communication style. We wrap up by giving advice to a listener who feels stuck in their career and jealous of the people around them living their dream lives.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Aug 29, 2023 • 1h 3min
178. JARED FREID on “The Ick” & Why It’s Ok To Be “Picky”
Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Jared Fried (!!!), comedian and host of the J Train podcast & @betches @u.up.podcast, fresh off the release of his hit Netflix special, 37 & Single.
what we talk about:
Jared’s Netflix comedy special
women getting “the ick” (& why most men don’t)
our own “icks”
why he tends to end things before the next step
what changes about dating as you get more comfortable with yourself
a listener question about a LDR that was going great until it wasn’t
a listener question about shooting your shot on a dating app vs in real life
& more!
Go follow @jaredfreid for more laughs & advice + WATCH HIS SPECIAL, 37 & Single, ON NETFLIX.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!