

Mostly Dating
Carleigh
Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.
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Mar 20, 2023 • 51min
157. LINDSEY METSELAAR on Boyfriend Privileges, Jealousy, & How To Make The Sex Better Before You Have It
Welcome back! Today we're chatting with return guest, Lindsey Metselaar, host of dating podcast We Met At Acme.
what we talk about:
Lindsey's dating rules
How to maintain your own life in early dating stage
Boyfriend and husband privileges
How sex changes when you move in
Talking to a new partner about sex
Jealousy in relationships
Can men and women have a platonic friendship?
& more
Find Lindsey on Instagram @wemetatacme and @lindzmetz or listen to her podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Mar 6, 2023 • 36min
156. Is It The Right Person But The Wrong Time?
Welcome back! It's just us today and we're answering a bunch of listener questions.
what we talk about:
high school/college love and how relationships change as an adult
why situationships are only good for one person
how to stop romanticizing past relationships
our thoughts on "right person wrong time"
discussing money in relationships
what to do when your partner isn't a planner
& more
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Feb 27, 2023 • 59min
155. DR. CARLI BLAU on Why We're Not Attracted To The Nice Guy + How To Have a Better Sex Life
Welcome back! Today we're joined by sex and empowerment therapist and women's health expert, Carli Blau, PhD.
what we talk about:
our history of dating the "bad boy" & men who are emotionally unavailable
why women don't find "nice guys" attractive
how to get over a toxic relationship
how to be more confident in your body
conversations to have with a new partner about sex
how to tell your partner about past sexual trauma
how much you should tell your partner about your past
learning what turns you on, masturbating, self pleasure
why sex on the first date is ok
Carli's own relationship with her husband and their dating history
& more!
Find Carli on Instagram @sexdoccarli or head to her website to make an appointment.
+ in today's intro we discuss:
The wellness product Carleigh has been loving (MOSTLYBALANCED for 15% off!)
Mia's latest experience with Sakara (XOBALANCED for 20% off!)
TV shows & movies we've been watching
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Feb 20, 2023 • 1h 9min
154. AMY NOBILE on Everything We're Getting Wrong About Early Dating (+ What To Do Instead)
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Amy Nobile, dating coach and highly requested guest! Get your notes app out because there are a lot of great tips in this one.
what we talk about:
how to make a swipe-worthy dating profile
how to swipe more mindfully on apps
why you aren't excited by the people you're seeing on the apps
how to find someone who does excite you
how to flirt and build chemistry on early dates
whether you should kiss someone on a first date
how long to wait to have sex
defining the relationship
is it ever too soon too compliment?
& more!
Find Amy on Instagram @love.amy.nyc or head to her website to book a free consultation!
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
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Feb 13, 2023 • 1h 11min
153. ALY FRENCH & ERICA STEIN on Friendship Breakups, New Friends, & How To Not Dim Your Light To Make Someone Else Feel Better
Welcome back! Today we’re chatting all things friendship with Aly French and Erica Stein, hosts of the Courageous Wellness Podcast.
What we talk about:
Resolving conflict in friendships
Friendship breakups
The instinct to dim yourself to make others feel better
Making friends as an adult
Friendships that ebb & flow
Tips for being true to yourself in every friendship & relationship
& more
Find Aly & Erica on Instagram @courageouswellness and listen to their podcast everywhere podcasts are available.
+ in today’s intro we discuss:
Our valentine’s day plans
The best dates we’ve ever been on
How we prioritize different relationships
Being on different sleep schedules from your partner
Carleigh’s facial at Ildi Pekar
Our thoughts on SLT
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Feb 6, 2023 • 1h 13min
152. LIA BARTHA on Mindful Movement, Self Care, & Tips For Healthy Communication in Your Relationship
Welcome back! Today we’re joined by fitness instructor and founder of B The Method, Lia Bartha.
What we talk about:
How she was first introduced to Pilates
Her relationship with fitness growing up and how it evolved
How she developed her method
The mind/body connection
Why mindfulness matters in exercise
The community aspect of fitness
Couples therapy
Communication in a long term relationship and in friendships
& more!
You can find Lia on Instagram @liabartha or head to her website to learn more about her method and try it for yourself!
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Jan 30, 2023 • 52min
151. Exclusivity, Meeting the Friends, & How to Deal with Anxiety in a Relationship
Welcome back! It's just us today and we're diving into listener questions, polls, and common relationship struggles.
what we talk about:
must-haves in a relationship
our thoughts on being "exclusive"
the guest's advice we always come back to
when your partner doesn't like the same TV/movies as you
meeting the friends
things we think should happen before being in a relationship
fear of moving in together
how to tell your partner you're feeling relationship anxiety
couples therapy
& more!
We also share things we've been loving/trying:
Sunday Riley UFO oil
OSEA body oil
Ildi Pekar sleep mask + Dusk & Dawn serums
Episodes we reference:
Case Kenny on Closure, Being Friends With An Ex, & How To Shoot Your Shot
Jared Freid on Why Guys Go On The First Date & What We All Get Wrong About Dating
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Jan 23, 2023 • 1h 7min
150. SARAH LEVY on What Would Happen To Your Relationships If You Stopped Drinking?
Welcome back! Today we are (re)joined by Sarah Levy, writer and author of Drinking Games, a social critique and memoir about her experience getting sober in her late 20s.
what we talk about:
Sarah's first experience with alcohol
Early signs she had a drinking problem
Why it was so difficult to admit
The fears she had about being sober
How her friendships were impacted by alcohol + what happened to them when she stopped drinking
Advice for making friends as an adult (+why it can sometimes be a slow burn)
Drinking culture in the U.S. and in NYC specifically
Dating while sober
Manifesting the life you want
Drinking (or not drinking) at your wedding
Obsession with wellness culture
& more!
Find Sarah on Instagram @sarahllevy and purchase her book in stores or online.
In today's intro, we talk a bit about our own experiences with alcohol and our thoughts on Sarah's book. We also answer a listener question about losing attraction in a relationship and discuss whether a "sparky" person is a red flag and if butterflies always mean anxiety.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Jan 16, 2023 • 58min
149. SUZANNE FENSKE on Should We Be Talking To Our Doctors About Our Sex Lives?
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Dr. Suzanne Fenske, MD, founder of Tãrã MD, an NYC based innovative and holistic gynecology practice. You can find Suzanne on Instagram @taramd4women.
what we talk about:
how often you should really be going to the gynecologist
questions to ask your doctor
signs of hormonal imbalance
natural and medical ways to balance your hormones
when to start thinking about egg freezing
how to talk to your doctor about sex
how to talk to your partner about sex
reasons your orgasm could change over time
& more!
In today's intro we talk about Mia's progress on her 2023 goals, Carleigh's date-a-week & apartment search update, and what we've been loving.
Mia: Oura Ring, ORRO app, & Golden Coil Planner
Carleigh: Theraface Pro
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Jan 9, 2023 • 1h 2min
148. KATE STEINBERG on How To Feel More Relaxed In Your Dating Life
Welcome back! Today we're joined by creator Kate Steinberg, who you may know from her nostalgic Y2K-themed Instagram & TikTok content OR her time on HBO Max's 12 Dates Of Christmas.
what we talk about:
How Kate got started in content creation
Kate's experience on 12 Dates of Christmas
What her dating life was like before the show
The power of manifestation and mindset in dating
"When it's right you'll know"
Meeting your SO's family (+ them meeting yours)
How to show up as your true self when dating
Qualities we think every relationship should have
Moving in with your SO
& a lot more!
You can find Kate on Instagram & TikTok @itskatesteinberg.
+ In today's intro, we talk about Mia's 2023 mindset, recipes Carleigh has been loving, and answer listener questions about knowing a relationship is right and whether or not to tell your friend you have feelings for them.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!